God help this generation....baby mama & "there is nothing wrong with being gay" types. Na wa!!!

Come i will teach you how to create love.. Like making it

MzNelly:


What exactly are you saying?
You are straight, I suppose.

If I were to introduce you to a gay fella who acts exactly as a woman did and even watched straight porn with you and does everything a woman would do with you, would you still be turned on?
Or with time start seeing him as a partner and lover too?

i am straight madam,its easy and I repeat easy for a guy to do what the lesbian girl do to other lesbian girls,if u can't get this in ur mind it might just be hard,and by u saying watching gay porn doesn't make any sense to me tho,I just see u trying to hard to be defensive and its all good but I was only trying to advice u,u either take it or leave it shikena.so when drake said 'are u into girls like I am letsbehonest(lesbians)'he is gay too?God will see you through

Ursino:


No wonder they closed your account. They will close it again! Wild animals like you should not be in this forum; they should be left wandering in the wild!

Even ur mama no fit close my account. Illiterate, u are wild animal, come nd try to close my acct, and i'll beat dat wildnes outta u, Bitcch

Durentt:
Hey shut d fvck up. U lame nigerian, always bringing religion into sexuality.
If she's a lesbian there is NOTHING wrong with it! And no demonic spirit is leading Lesbianism, this is 21st century Everyone has right to sexual preference even ur whole president buhari is Faqqot! Or dont u know, now pack ur 'prayer and fasting trash' out of here before u see da other side of me. Fvcktard!!

Chisos! why take this issue so personal Kwanu [

Nairaland gradually turning to sexualand. Seun u see ya laif??

Durentt:
Jesus, why are nairalanders talking like dis na. How does being a lesbian make her irrelevant to womanhood? Nawa 4 nigerians oh.

Oh sorry ma'am, never knew she is your colleague biko.... U are highly relevant to lesbianhood.

Naff24:

Oh sorry ma'am, never knew she is your colleague biko.... U are high

And worst of all, they jump into conclusions easily

oooookkkaaaay this is not the time to criticize you as none is above sins or mistakes.in civilized countries issues like this are reffred to a doctor (cant remeber the specialization) However book an appointment with a consultant gynaecologist,could be a health issue.

That aside, your issue could be psychological....you ben with females might have affected your thinking thereby transcending to your body.
You need to fight your inner demons,if you trully wish to settle down:reffering to lesbianism.There are many women that have carried this cursed nature(yes cursed) into their marital homes ,it broke their homesand broke their husband;s heart

Are you a christian or muslim? either way ,both religions condemn it fully.its a sin agains nature<your self and God.

No matter the advise given here, no one can battle this except you.Think it, face it, deal with it.

wish you the best

am amazed


I can't still understand why I should prefer a fellow woman to a man with hard erect pulsating deek.


Gosh!

sirhenry007:


Chisos! why take this issue so personal Kwanu [

seriously, i hate when idiots dont understand da confusion da OP is going thru,

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

Were you ever molested by a man? Did your father beat your mum before you? I can ask you more questions to get to the root of your problem. I am not sure you will like to answer such questions in public. If you can, then go ahead and answer. I say more depending on your response. Be sincere...

missyadorable:
am amazed


I can't still understand why I should prefer a fellow woman to a man with hard erect pulsating deek.


Gosh!

Lol, why cant u understand why when women better than u X10 are lesbians, are u trying to say they are mentally insane. Lol, u beta start understanding

Durentt:
OP, It seems u are emotional attracted to guys but physically attracted to ladies. You are fine, dont mind some nairalanders here, they are just re.tards. My advice to u, is to keep up a healthy sexual relationship with da same sex and also maintain a healthy romantic relationship with da guys. If possible, u can tell any guy coming ur way about ur sexuality so dat he doesn't end up calling u all sort of names. Dont let anyone force u into sex, if u are nt physically attracted to guy, its not ur fault, u are not even alone, from wat i know about 85% of naija ladies feel da same way #Fact. But be careful when indulging in same sex acts, bcuz amebos are everywhere. #Remain blessed.

did you read this at all? shes asking for advise as she feel pain during intercourse and here you go telling us about y u lack vision and blessing s in your life.

yep.....by this, we can all see you are disturbed but who cares ,mine is just that you stick to substance of story and stop derailing us the way you derailed your life

Jkevijones3:
07030754303. Call me.

See this mumu

MzNelly:


What exactly are you saying?
You are straight, I suppose.

If I were to introduce you to a gay fella who acts exactly as a woman did and even watched straight porn with you and does everything a woman would do with you, would you still be turned on?
Or with time start seeing him as a partner and lover too?

I thought u were the op,the girl is looking for help and u are trying to twist things.you want her to continue with her former self?

Mavor:
God help this generation....baby mama & "there is nothing wrong with being gay" types. Na wa!!!

am telling you....... That is why up till now, our forefather's generation have refused to hand over this country for us to rule.

Durentt:
And worst of all, they jump into conclusions easily

Person talk say make we talk senses into her tiny skull and u dey spit venom ontop her matter... U Berra talk if na U nd stop pretending

luvprince4real:
Nairaland gradually turning to sexualand. Seun u see ya laif??

#gbam.

Though nothin cncern Seun cos he dae make his cash wella.

U konfam. Lesbo news, etc here & there on NL..

Theflint1:
See this mumu

as in....ehn

Try party (3some) maybe it will help

Naff24:

Person talk say make we talk senses into her tiny skull and u dey spit venum ontop her matter... U Berra talk if na U nd stop pretending

I dont blame u, until u recieve a hot slap, den u'll learn how to respect pple on NL.


Ashawwo. Idiiot girl

luvprince4real:
Nairaland gradually turning to sexualand. Seun u see ya laif??

say wetin happen? is seun the moderator or the op .He is making his millions so please dont disturb him or blame him for the sick people we have in this our generation

Durentt:
I dont blame u, until u recieve a hot slap, den u'll learn how to respect pple on NL.


Ashawwo. Idiiot girl

umhummmm...The way you respect yourself ,right? we hear

daretodiffer:


What does ego have to do with this

I wonder oh. But then there are three things
1. Maybe he just learnt ego and he's itching to use it.
2. Maybe he didn't read the post and
3. He may not have understood the whole story.

You need to calm down and enjoy moments...dont be to hasty with things even if your man is demanding sex or your woman...go to a bar,drink smirnoff,eat asun,watch arsenal,relax your brain,let emotion take its way...develop a kind of interest if its man you want or woman because i dont know the country you are fighting for..either ISIS,Kurds,Fsa,Russia,plenty factions...you are divided...Pa okan e pooo....

See about the romance and sex thing?you need to farabale gan...enjoy the moment andd if God go bless you no b d type boys weh go cum s you touch prick so there will be pre intimacy...

You are just an over anxious little bitcchhh who need a good little rough fucking to get hold of her self...you know how cowboy tame a horse right??she finds it irritating to see any one ride her but force her to it...maybe you need to be humilated with your own conscience...alt..tied up and abused till you feel free and let go of your beautiful body...

There are a lot of options out there to satisfy every desire we all have...calm down and let me know...i am in IB...WAIT I DEH FIND MONEY NOW...listen to advice people have to gie you..hope you through your nozzles that are blocked soon...

Amen.

My heart goes out to you. It's quite possible that you may have an anatomical defect which could be responsible.
Another possibility is that you may have difficulty being "wet" enough to allow pain free lubrication.

My suggestions are

1. See a gynaecologist or an urologist

2. Consider abstinence while praying about it.

I will join you in prayer. Cheers

From all these your long story I haven't seen where u wrote that u met a doctor!!! I and my ex had this problem for two years but we later realised where the fault was coomming from....u need to understand ur partner and he needs to understand u2. Ur partner needs to maintain atleast 10min of pre-intimacy with u each tikme u2 are about having doing the main thing. In that manner u may get really wet before the penetration...during the early stages of the penetration makesure he doesn't insert everything,the head only and it should be slowly...he should constantly ask u if its painful or not inorser to continue....with this opinion I bet with time u will gradually get use to it...and if it still desnt work u need to get aquinted with some liquid during penetration....just my advice. Stay blessed.

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

Dear Esther I totally understand how you feel.
I too am GAY.
I got to know at age 7.
I have tried all within my power to 'cure' myself.
I have contemplated death.
I was not molested before I discovered my sexuality.
I just knew I was different.
I have prayed, bound and cast, gone for deliverances etc, etc yet to no avail.
I just can't stop feeling for guys.
Its irritating when such feelings come but they are there.
At a point I hated myself but suicide is not an option---hell awaits suiciders.
Now am a medical doctor but I can't just think of women.
I conduct deliveries and all yet I don't love women.
I stay away from men just because God says so but I know deep down within me the hair at the back of my neck stands when I see a handsome, quiet and graceful man.
It has always been like this @ age 7 till date.
I have had sex with girls as a corrective measure but trust me I did not like nor enjoy it at all.
It was very very irritating and annoying n I felt VIOLATED!
Anyway I have put my hope and faith in Jesus for my justification because only Jesus saves.
I have looked beyond my sexuality and focused on Christ.

Jesus understands our problem. I believe you should read the book of Rev 7 and Rev 14. It talks about men who have never had sex with women.

Jesus knows our every weakness.

I have a heterosexual friend who helps me in prayers. He is understanding.

I have stopped walking with my Igbo kit and Kin because they r too judgmental. If you are Igbo I would advise you to avoid Igbo and move with Yoruba. Igbo will give you the biggest headache you can think of in this issue.

Oluwa bless u darling sister.
I love u in this ur trying hour but God loves you more.
Muah!

arabianights:



umhummmm...The way you respect yourself ,right? we hear

Agbaya, abeg remove dirty mouth frm my matter, i refused to answer u dont force me to

Lesbian things loaded. Lol.

x6blade:
Lesbian things loading

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

Lets cut the chase. You are lesbian simple! And its unfair if you deceive a man who honestly loves you..... most ladies are like you anyway....

How to deal with your problem is another story. To handle it rationally id say everything we are is as a result of what we have learnt. Personally I have dropped bad habits by writing what I want to be down and reading it to myself aloud morning and night. This actually affects your subconscious mind into believing what you have written. E.g if you tell a child "you are stupid" every day he will actually act out what you have said, nothing spiritual (from a psychologist point of view), its subconscious programming. So for urself write "I like men only" and read it twice a day. U should be fine, in consistency lies power.

Theres nothing like freewill, we are who our society programmes us to be.