Durentt:
Agbaya, abeg remove dirty mouth frm my matter, i refused to answer u dont force me to

am done with you.....move on

esthersolomon00:


But I wish our society could see things through this same perspective too

Police!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hook her!!!! its against the law!!!! any further thing you say now would be used against you in the court of law!!!!! I no one hear pim from you!!!

missyadorable:
am amazed


I can't still understand why I should prefer a fellow woman t[b]o a man with hard erect pulsating deek.[/b]


Gosh!

shantelrandy:
did I hear u say notting is wrg with bin a lesbian?...U aint truthful at all,if there's everything wrong with GAY"why can't everything b wrg with lesbian,dia is a Demonic spirit behind lesbianism... and there's everything wrong with bin a lesbian...my dear @op, just pray and fast about it.

demonic my foot

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

your issue is simple, though it requires step-wise action,

My dear all is not well with u.You are a lesbian,and lesbianism is a demonic spirit and only the spirit of God can deliver you.you need to recieve Jesus into ur life and confess Jesus as your lord n savour and find a Jesus believing church for deliverance.

arabianights:


did you read this at all? shes asking for advise as she feel pain during intercourse and here you go telling us about y u lack vision and blessing s in your life.

yep.....by this, we can all see you are disturbed but who cares ,mine is just that you stick to substance of story and stop derailing us the way you derailed your life

I read everytin and pls dont rant insults on me, there's no single advice given advice given to her here that wud make her start enjoying sex with male. Dats why i told her to continue with her lifestyle. I repeat 4 da hundreth time on nairaland
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOMOSEXUALITY!

Dnacode:



Dear Esther I totally understand how you feel.
I too am GAY.
I got to know at age 7.
I have tried all within my power to 'cure' myself.
I have contemplated death.
I was not molested before I discovered my sexuality.
I just knew I was different.
I have prayed, bound and cast, gone for deliverances etc, etc yet to no avail.
I just can't stop feeling for guys.
Its irritating when such feelings come but they are there.
At a point I hated myself but suicide is not an option---hell awaits suiciders.
Now am a medical doctor but I can't just think of women.
I conduct deliveries and all yet I don't love women.
I stay away from men just because God says so but I know deep down within me the hair at the back of my neck stands when I see a handsome, quiet and graceful man.
It has always been like this @ age 7 till date.
I have had sex with girls as a corrective measure but trust me I did not like nor enjoy it at all.
It was very very irritating and annoying n I felt VIOLATED!
Anyway I have put my hope and faith in Jesus for my justification because only Jesus saves.
I have looked beyond my sexuality and focused on Christ.

Jesus understands our problem. I believe you should read the book of Rev 7 and Rev 14. It talks about men who have never had sex with women.

Jesus knows our every weakness.

I have a heterosexual friend who helps me in prayers. He is understanding.

I have stopped walking with my Igbo kit and Kin because they r too judgmental. If you are Igbo I would advise you to avoid Igbo and move with Yoruba. Igbo will give you the biggest headache you can think of in this issue.

Oluwa bless u darling sister.
I love u in this ur trying hour but God loves you more.
Muah!

In other words Yoruba's are homosexual apologists? Tribal bigots food don show!!! Most gays Wey I know Na Ibos sha.

From experience, 70% of females are lesbians.

Durentt:
I dont blame u, until u recieve a hot slap, den u'll learn how to respect pple on NL.


Ashawwo. Idiiot girl

Who b ashewo btw us
Mumu...never know comon sense too expensive for u to buy!
Your dp can even afford one.

BASTARD LESBIAN

arabianights:



am done with you.....move on

I ought to be da one done with u. I always thought u were reasonable, *spits* ur brain is still shallow enough like da rest.

Durentt:
But u love a lady shey??

lesbians things

let me show you how you can enjoy sex.

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

you seriously need prayers...... U need to rearrange yourself, have this mentality of "you can't do without guy" or else u will end up like some people.

Naff24:

Who b ashewo btw us
Mumu...never know comon sense too expensive for u to buy!
Your dp can even afford one.

BASTARD LESBIAN

you have no vision in life, i can clearly see dat. Go on and keep on shouting Lesbian all over NL as if ur reason 4 joining NL was to be calling pple a Lesbian. Dat doesnt change d fact dat u are an Ashawwo. Dumbtard

gbosky22:
I thought u were the op,the girl is looking for help and u are trying to twist things.you want her to continue with her former self?

What former self?
She's a lesbo; is that too hard to grasp?

remirez07:
you seriously need prayers...... U need to rearrange yourself, have this mentality of "you can't do without guy" or else u will end up like some people.

Anoda prayer warrior in da house, why dont u pray 4 her now if u know she needs prayer den she wud come bak to testify how she change 4rm loving girls to lovin guys.

Try

Is not too bad or even bad to hate sex with opposite partner at your age because you mentioned you are in early 20s... which i understand might be 21, 22, 23 or 24 ... the rest are not early. But is very bad if you are having your conji needs met by same sex. That is the beginning of doom to your self. You need Jesus more than you think you do. Serve God well in the days of your youth. You are still too young to be occupying your mind with sexual love.

noble03:
My dear all is not well with u.You are a lesbian,and lesbianism is a demonic spirit and only the spirit of God can deliver you.you need to recieve Jesus into ur life and confess Jesus as your lord n savour and find a Jesus believing church for deliverance.

LOL

My sis hav u considered being a Revern sister, dis is a profession Dat really need u. NL will n't give u d best solution rather Revern father will.

Don't fight it girl, embrace your sexual orientation and don't let the distraction of them religious folks be a burden, wish that could be the burden, No!, the gullible government signed an assent turned law against gay right, but I tell you what, Its not really that effective as corrupt criminal minded politicians.

Now the only person you need to deal with is you, Be who you really are, don't be scared and don't feel awkward, I know lots of ignorant people on this platform would start talking god and petty things, consider them nuisance and embrace your sexual orientation, they not the one to live your life so why bother about the judgement they be passing. If you decide to take your life tomorrow, obviously, they would still be living so why care about their reactions.


Lastly, you gotta understand, there is lot of uneducation and miseducation out there especially in this third world part of the world where they hold culture and religion high esteem and those two factors is same reason Africa is been referred as third world continent.

My friend you are possessed and you knw it. Yyou need deliverance. You knw what you are doing cos u dnt want to be helped you only came here to advertise your demonic acts looking for solicitors and accomplices bt you hav failed!

This is getting interesting...""

Like 80% of the folks that commented in this thread Support Gay/lesbian Rights...""
Nigeria sure is Evolving...

iReally Hope Buhari could see this!! ""

...Nigeria would Be much Berra if people just learnt Howtah mind their business... You wanna be gay? you wanna be lez? you wanna be transgender.?? it's your business! same way we've got weed smokers..masturbators(peeps that masturbates)..porn addicts...Pedophiles and the rest..What you do to make yourself happy should be your business!!!...it should ONLY be A crime/ILLEGAL if if You Hurt Yourself...


Y'all should chill abeg...""

BE GAY! BE LESBIAN! BE BISEXUAL! BE SATANIC!! BE AN ATHEIST!! it's not my business....!! Esthersolomon00, just do You..whatever makes you Happy...life's way too short..


PS..if they born any pastor's child head well....just quote me n say Rubbish...Hypocrites! ""

Theflint1:
From experience, 70% of females are lesbians.

about 85% and the other 15% have at once in their life time fantasized about kissing or having sex with a girl

Hi @op
A commenter nailed it earlier, and its the fact that you need sex therapy alongside your normal counselling and its a pity that you were not able to get a favourable result from your earlier counselling buh if it might be of any help, i happen to be a certified Marital counsellor and i might be of help...your concern is not something done over night....it takes time so you need patience. reply me if you are interested and i'll oblige.

shantelrandy:
did I hear u say notting is wrg with bin a lesbian?...U aint truthful at all,if there's everything wrong with GAY"why can't everything b wrg with lesbian,dia is a Demonic spirit behind lesbianism... and there's everything wrong with bin a lesbian...my dear @op, just pray and fast about it.

There is nothing demonic about being gay! ...but there is everything physical & natural about it, people should exhaust physicality before venturing spirituality ..
if she is gay, then she is gay, she has fought it & she cant win cause thats what she is,...once she accepts it, then the rest of us must accept her so

esthersolomon00:


But I wish our society could see things through this same perspective too

I guess u went to an all girls school. U nid deliverance, I sense in my spirit u r in ur early 30's n u wanna get married that's y u nid help very fast. Cos if u r in ur early 20's it won't bother u.

Theflint1:
In other words Yoruba's are homosexual apologists? Tribal bigots food don show!!! Most gays Wey I know Na Ibos sha.

Not really. Yoruba are more respectful than Igbo. Dats all.

tociano009:
demonic my foot

leave her, useless she-goat, dats how dey tag every thing "demonic" with their african mentality. Most of dem even tag their grandmothers demonic. Smh, 4 the future of nigerians

TRY DELIVERANCE....GOD IS REAL

noble03:
My dear all is not well with u.You are a lesbian,and lesbianism is a demonic spirit and only the spirit of God can deliver you.you need to recieve Jesus into ur life and confess Jesus as your lord n savour and find a Jesus believing church for deliverance.

Welcome to forever ignorance of yours.