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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by XBLadez: 5:04pm On Oct 28, 2015

Your problem is spiritual

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Sochimaobim(m): 5:04pm On Oct 28, 2015

sweetheart, I unstnd ur plight. Tell u what? the girl am currently dating was/is the same as u. But do u knw what she did?, the moment she realized she was truly in love with me, she opened up to me about her sexual life. Though the issue caused a little problem btw us, but I later accepted dt fact and made up my mind to help her outta the issue. U should be happy u knw that making out with the same sex is abnormal, cos dts what helped her also. I put in more effort in showing care, I brought in some intrigues to into our romance life, and I tried to show her the real reasons why 'in the beginning he made them male and female'.
As at now, I cannot totally swear dt she doesn't make out with same sex again but what am very sure of is dt my voice alone wets her undies. As in, she is into me now like kilode.. unlike when we started.
My point is, if u truly love this psn u are with presently, then open up to him about ur predicament. Pray he has all the qualities to deal with it. This is a make or mar situation, cos if he handles it badly, then u may find urself receiving consolation in the arms of a lady, and this is when they usually get u. Ur age and the number of times u done it with same sex wl also determine the length of time it will take u to return to normalcy. Its a process my dear, bt let that process start NOW! I wish I know u in person. Goodluck!

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:05pm On Oct 28, 2015

Dnacode:
Not really. Yoruba are more respectful than Igbo. Dats all.

I agre but if its da tribe dat has more homos, mehn na hausa oooh grin

i swear homos yapa 4 there like 90% of dem guys and ladies. Lol

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Endtimesmith(m): 5:05pm On Oct 28, 2015

Wait.....Continue!!!!!

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Unitedabby(m): 5:06pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Mikzy11(m): 5:07pm On Oct 28, 2015

Y r u welcumin sex at ur early 20's

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by swankylay(m): 5:08pm On Oct 28, 2015

The only advice I can give is

If not ur present bf, open up to a guy. Let him understand What's going on. Make friends wt him. Talk at length, gist, laughing,hang out together, romance a little and when u want it so bad, d guy shd stop (when romancing ). It's indeed a psychological problem. Don't think it will disappear in a day. Take ur time.

Just open up to a guy. Reveal whom u Really r.

I'm sure u felt a little relief when u shared this, u will feel more when u share wt that guy. (Ur bf If possible)

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by femi4: 5:09pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
But I wish our society could see things through this same perspective too

Never accept that you are one of them, else you are already defeated from coming out of it

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 28, 2015

Op, not sure you actually wanna change.
But it's your life, the decision and ability to stick with your decision is in your hands.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Akalia(m): 5:10pm On Oct 28, 2015

shantelrandy:
did I hear u say notting is wrg with bin a lesbian?...U aint truthful at all,if there's everything wrong with GAY"why can't everything b wrg with lesbian,dia is a Demonic spirit behind lesbianism... and there's everything wrong with bin a lesbian...my dear @op, just pray and fast about it.

u make a lot of sense, people support evil and out of the ordinary phenomenon cos they r hypocrites.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Unitedabby(m): 5:10pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

sweetheart there is nothing psychological about your case...if you want my honest opinion,go for deliverance ok?

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by kekeolu(f): 5:11pm On Oct 28, 2015

Can You reflect back to how It all started, that will help You a lot. U need to straighten up ur life, before It ends up in shambles. Run to Jesus as fast as possible.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by erico2k2(m): 5:12pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

Early 20 n in relationship for 9 years.so I take it U r approximately 25 years old minus 9 means U started approximately 16 ??that's if he was the first. shocked

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by demarc001: 5:12pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
Yes I have

But distance separated us

She was all I had then

What if I say I was'nt upto 10 when I started struggling with this ish will you believe me?

I've tried to distance myself from most girls that comes my way yet! They won't just let me be

Its more like a hard task accepting guyz into my life

Your case is serious! You need 7 days deliverance with 7 prophets like T. B. Joshua.
If I should say my mind, you are a bad girl from Childhood (started having sexual/relationship issues from abt age 10) and I just pray you change.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Tjayjosh(m): 5:15pm On Oct 28, 2015

Durentt:
I read everytin and pls dont rant insults on me, there's no single advice given advice given to her here that wud make her start enjoying sex with male. Dats why i told her to continue with her lifestyle. I repeat 4 da hundreth time on nairaland
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOMOSEXUALITY!

DEMON FROM THE PIT OF HELL. Dat is who you are.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:16pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

You haven't had a guy who knows shits, come let me show u good living and fuckkk you really good u call me daddy, u wont remember lesbian again I swear, just try me you be all over me like an addict can't leave her addiction cry

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:16pm On Oct 28, 2015

Tjayjosh:
DEMON FROM THE PIT OF HELL. Dat is who you are.

u know wat? grin

you are actually correct

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:16pm On Oct 28, 2015

bi-sexual or lesbian, is nonsense if you ask me. how come you started this early self? Didn't you grow with elderly people around you? wait till you are ready for marriage and when you find someone you truly love, the sexual part will come along.
God! what a society.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:17pm On Oct 28, 2015

Demigods:
You haven't had a guy who knows shits, come let me show u good living and fuckkk you really good u call me daddy, u wont remember lesbian again I swear, just try me you be all over me like an addict can't leave her addiction

Smh, wattis dis?? huh

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:20pm On Oct 28, 2015

Durentt:
Smh, wattis dis??

Aunty, it's the coco o cry

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by femi4: 5:20pm On Oct 28, 2015

chinoasa:
@op nobody.. I repeat no body chooses to be gay.. But we didn't create ourselves..
As a science stud i knw dat sexuality is a spectrum.. But u knw social bias codify attraction which is contrary to d'biological facts... D'harder u try d'more depressin it gets.. Trust me on dt one..
I am in ur kinda of shoes..urs is beta u slept wit ur guy.. Even tho deep down i dont want to.. Mine is i jut couldnt.. So i stay away frm anything relationship.. And focus on sch...
Forget d' psycho shit .. there is nutin wrong wit u..
Follow hrt..trust ur instincts.. And live urlife.

Do we have signs or traits that can help in identifying such people cos I pity the guy she is dating cos he'll just see it as normal shakara from ladies

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:22pm On Oct 28, 2015

Demigods:
Aunty, it's the coco o

well, go show ur mama da coco not some poor girl here seeking advice. Jeeez

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Phame: 5:22pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
But I wish our society could see things through this same perspective too

look at the person that's asking for advice. You are a lesbian and a proud one. Maybe u ar here to get more partners.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Phame: 5:26pm On Oct 28, 2015

Durentt:
well, go show ur mama da coco not some poor girl here seeking advice. Jeeez

but this is not d way to go. U went too far.

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by anasredfoo(m): 5:26pm On Oct 28, 2015

Im intrested in love any body right there

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:27pm On Oct 28, 2015

Durentt:
well, go show ur mama da coco not some poor girl here seeking advice. Jeeez

You better shut the fuvvk up you fuvcking fuvktard lesbian, you know the poor girl tryna sick advise yet you asking if she luv ladies with a smile on your face so you take advantage of her, hypocritic grease ball bastardd. sad

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by zicoraads: 5:28pm On Oct 28, 2015

EggovinMma:
Na by force to like priiiiiiiiiiiccccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkk?
My dear, you are a lesbian! Go where you will be accepted and enjoy your life!

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 28, 2015

Durentt:
I agre but if its da tribe dat has more homos, mehn na hausa oooh

i swear homos yapa 4 there like 90% of dem guys and ladies. Lol

Well I do not know of that and what I don't know of I can't talk about. Did u do a research into this?
I believe we have natural homosexuals because I know since I am one of them n peer pressure homosexuals(because they need money n do all kinda silly stuff).

My mind tells me this is the case with many Hausa.

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by ALISMILE(m): 5:29pm On Oct 28, 2015

Why reu not married? I think u ve a psychological prob! U said u re also a lesbian? Hmmmmmm! Irritating! Maybe that y nobody wants to marry u.

Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 5:30pm On Oct 28, 2015

Demigods:
You better shut the fuvvk up you fuvcking fuvktard lesbian, you know the poor girl tryna sick advise yet you asking if she luv ladies with a smile on your face so you take advantage of her, hypocritic grease ball bastardd.

Lol, i just told u to go and give ur mama da coco, is dat why u are dis pained. Lol, u really need to give u mama dat coco.

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by ranson(m): 5:30pm On Oct 28, 2015

esthersolomon00:
Yes I have

But distance separated us

She was all I had then

What if I say I was'nt upto 10 when I started struggling with this ish will you believe me?

I've tried to distance myself from most girls that comes my way yet! They won't just let me be

Its more like a hard task accepting guyz into my life

Habits such as lesbianism are always difficult to break. It is psychological and will always hunts you especially when you're in environments that encourages it. Don't quit seeing a counsellor but most importantly consider relocating to a new environment where you can stay away from those girls. In the new neighbourhood, take a deliberate effort to find a mature guy that you actually appreciates and make conscious efforts to built a gradual sexual relationship together. Believe me. Heterosexual sex is fun. Nothing compares. Just work on your mind, gradually, you start enjoying sex with males. Frankly speaking, you might not limit yourself to a guy at first, and you might also need to spice it up with different styles and positions. Increase your sexual knowledge by reading related books. Take care.

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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by pleiades45: 5:31pm On Oct 28, 2015

Durentt:
Hey shut d fvck up. U lame nigerian, always bringing religion into sexuality.
If she's a lesbian there is NOTHING wrong with it! And no demonic spirit is leading Lesbianism, this is 21st century Everyone has right to sexual preference even ur whole president buhari is Faqqot! Or dont u know, now pack ur 'prayer and fasting trash' out of here before u see da other side of me. Fvcktard!!

something is seriously wrong with you

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