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Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please / Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) / He Is Almost 40 And She Is Above 34 But They Still Want Abortion (2) (3) (4)

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by gbonjubade2(f): 9:05am On Oct 29, 2015
Z[quote author=collegereap post=39460419]Misoprostol is actually a prescription for ulcer but it's side effect is that it forcefully empties the uterus of any content it holds, hence abortion occurs.

First, a strip test will not correctly tell if the pregnant is still there till after three weeks or even a month. The strip works by detecting HCG in the urine which the body keeps producing even after delivery, miscarriage or forced_miscarriage (abortion).

Second, it is still natural to still be feeling pregnant, even unpregnant women feel that way sometimes,hence,the term chemical pregnancy due to hormonal in balance. The symptoms can be deceptive.

To confirm, go for an ultrasound and check if the foetus is still there or developing. This will help rule out complications or unejected foetal remains.

But seriously, if you can't buy condom 50naira, why think of sex?



No my pregnant is not up two three weeks before when I use pregnancy strip which clearly show dat am pregnant, an I gave birth to two boys, so it possible she's carrying twins
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ERCROSS(m): 9:06am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:


So mature, it was just a mistake! Nobody expected it, can you imagine over a year of doing it without condom she never got pregnant she thought she was not fertile she even said no need using condoms! So can't blame I just have to help her out of this, I can't abadon her, help if you know any other way to abort please.
Demigod, pls, if i may ask, for over one year, u ve been releasing inside her but she didnt get pregnant ?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by fpeter(f): 9:09am On Oct 29, 2015
delerx:
Whatsapp me. I will tell u a short story. I am a pharmacist. 07030409811


Tell your story hear for all to learn

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nadoson1(m): 9:11am On Oct 29, 2015
NA NWAONOSIEKE BE THAT O
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by STENON(f): 9:16am On Oct 29, 2015
And this is one of the numerous reasons why I'm against Premarital Sex.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:18am On Oct 29, 2015
May the souls of all the aborted babies rest in peace, Amen!

Did my project on abortion and at some point, I got so pained and sad. And there were also times when I get confused especially when certain question arise.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Peach45(f): 9:20am On Oct 29, 2015
gamaliel121:
do an ultrasound scan..
If she's still pregnant, then start the abortion process again..

To be sincere, abortion is not good..buh since u started u have to end..
Cos incomplete abortion has serious complications...
She may get hurt for life..
So do a simple scan, to see if her womb is clear..if she's still preggo, run d abortion again..but if the baby is dead buh still has part in the womb..u gat to clear it out cos of infections..that part can only be done by a doctor..
Goodluck...Bleep with a condom next time...noooo. Don't Bleep atall..till ur married...
Its better...and don't say you trust ur babe..she may be fuccking another cooccck....use a fuccking condom mate...halaaaaaa
u are rite my dear broda,since she took misoprotol there shud some part dat is not flushed completely,d Best tin is do scan n meet a qualified doctor to remove d remaining foetus cos delay is dangerous. Cos if there is infection n it has spread to d womb it might result to removing d womb which we don't pray for.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 9:20am On Oct 29, 2015
ERCROSS:

Demigod, pls, if i may ask, for over one year, u ve been releasing inside her but she didnt get pregnant ?

Yes very surprising.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Zanga007(m): 9:21am On Oct 29, 2015
@demigod I have just one option for you... abortion is bad, smoking is bad, stealing is bad Bla Bla Bla..Yu don't have to follow the crowd... nobody will bear ur consequences for you, trust me. If u know u have to! Then do it... try alabukun and sabrina...thank me later.... my advice
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 9:22am On Oct 29, 2015
kizbad:


i dnt understand, she took 3 on d 1st day and next day she took 4pill? making it 7?

Yes sir
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 29, 2015
MyschoolNG:
well at least me and my family don't have such a foolish fool like u who fvcks with out using brain and come to beg for advice on how to commit murder. Kill by the sword die by the sword! I have warned u get ready for death if u don't change ur way #bitterTruth

Look at this fool, do you know who the Bleep I am? You using death to play with me right? See I don stop some things but please no incure my wrath, I go give am to u double I swear to God.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 29, 2015
ndcide:


Okay, you didn't answer this part.

[ If she developed
complications in this abortion attempt, and her
womb is damaged and you know it, will you still
love her, marry her and stick with her for life?]

Yes I will, they are other ways of getting a child.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by 0taPiaPia(m): 9:30am On Oct 29, 2015
my own case with this story is the fact that he has tried abortion pills once.. if he now decides to keep d baby... shouldn't we be worried that d baby might be born DEFORMED.....

I don talk ma own..
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by obbasiasa(m): 9:34am On Oct 29, 2015
My opinion has always been:
All poor guys (defined as poor in knowledge, education, wealth) should be castrated

Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by streetzdreamz(m): 9:35am On Oct 29, 2015
@op how miserable can you get? soliciting for help online on how best to terminate your baby,ion know who to crown the most foolish between you two,buh ama give your girl, she plain foolish!!!!don't ask me why cuz you know the answers already,you had unprotected sex for a year,who does that?and you still a student,gf bf thingy!!Google your questions, and use all methods available,get your baby murdered, and I hope the little love blinded lady comes out unscathed,so annoying and nauseating to read such posts coming from a man who claims to love his woman,if you loved her you wouldn't go raw in the first place, without a plan B aside abortion should she get pregnant,foolish couples.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by peclove: 9:44am On Oct 29, 2015
If u dere remove dat poor innocent baby, u will suffer all the days of ur life, why suffer the innocent child for ur own mistake, u have to take responsibility , as for ur girl friend, for her having dat abortion taught alone shows how, heartless, and ignorance she is, sorry for dat word buh dat the trust, do not kill ur child, he might be great tomorrow, be wise my dear. A word is enough for the wise
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Kennydoc(m): 9:45am On Oct 29, 2015
sonofananimal:
thanks for clearing the air!

Cos I know women can hardly wait for a guy that long without getting married or SEXX as in nowadays.

That was why I asked that question

It's okay. U're welcome.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by alero8(m): 9:50am On Oct 29, 2015
Speaking from same experience. Stop with the abortion pills and etc. Your child has come to stay and if u persist with the abortion u may be putting ur gf's live in harms way. That child is a sure blessing from God. You and your gf should open ur arms and hearts and welcome this child.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Michellla(f): 9:53am On Oct 29, 2015
Onyeka32:
we are authorising you to go and teach him how to use CD, take him to the lab and show him how to use it. Since u are in ur late 20s
am a teen too.but obviously a wise educated one.buzz off

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Oluwaruth: 10:02am On Oct 29, 2015
@Demigods, i'm not gonna pass blame to u but having unprotected sex isn't good though. Now to this issue of murder that you're trying to commit, there're so many consequences attached to it and you need to ask yourself these questions - what if she looses her life in the process? Would you be able to tell her family what killed her? What if she doesn't die but gets her womb damaged? Wouldn't you be the first to rub it in her face and dump her or telling people she's infertile?

Look, mostvtimes, we dont know the things we are capable of or the extent we can go to until we find ourselves in that situation.

I'll tell you one thing. Let that precious gift be. God knows why He has allowwd it to happen this wa. Again i tell you that there blessings children bring with them. You dont know the kind of happines and joy that child will bring you both and also the grandparents.

This will be difficult but visit the girl's parents. Make your intentions known that that you want to marry their daughter when you finish school but you want her to keep the child.

Like i said' it's not going to be easy but they arecthings you have to do if you really love her rather than have blood of an innocent child on your your hands.
Pls carry us along too so nairalanders will know your visions.

Goodluck!
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Ojoibadan: 10:04am On Oct 29, 2015
Abortion is a sin before God. Repent of it.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Steffy2015(f): 10:07am On Oct 29, 2015
Please tell her to go for evacuation(D and C) the pregnancy is still viable, not all pregnancy can be terminated by drugs. If she likes she should take all the pill in a pharmacy it still won't terminate. She will end up weakening uterus.besides even if she decides to keep it she will give birth to a deformed baby coz of the drus she used. Need I say the Pain of the procedure is oUt of thIs world chOi. NB go tO a qualIfy medIcal docTOr to avoId story dat tOuch
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Adortem: 10:07am On Oct 29, 2015
I wish parents come to nairaland to see what children of nowadays are capable of. Abstain from sex you can't,use condom you don't,get married,you aint ready. Sex isn't for kids,it is for adults,that's why they advise no sex before marriage. All you want to do now is abort,then later you dump the gal,so,when you are ready for marriage then,you look for a virgin to marry. The gal is the biggest fool in the world. You claim to love her,do you even know what love is?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ndcide(m): 10:11am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:

Yes I will, they are other ways of getting a child.
Okay I see.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Fussbot: 10:12am On Oct 29, 2015
Am not in support of abortion.But am very sure most of the people advising you not to abort have aborted b4 or aborted for a gal...Nigerians! fcking hypocrites!

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 10:16am On Oct 29, 2015
ndcide:


Okay I see.


Yes
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by galaxy15(m): 10:16am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:



To be truthful I told her to keep this at first, she refused o I can't force her so she doesn't feel bitter she is also in school too we both young it's just a silly mistake from both of us, other methods of abortion you say, please tell me, help me abeg.
DO you know it's a potential baby that will later be grown up with an ambition you are looking for means to terminate like this? Don't you have any conscience? If you do this now then you are not fit to be called responsible and never think of having another child in your life coz you just want to murder your first born, the fruit of your loins...*with tears* SHAME ON YOU
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 10:20am On Oct 29, 2015
galaxy15:

DO you know it's a potential baby that will later be grown up with an ambition you are looking for means to terminate like this? Don't you have any conscience? If you do this now then you are not fit to be called responsible and never think of having another child in your life coz you just want to murder your first born, the fruit of your loins...*with tears* SHAME ON YOU


Bro take am easy na, I no want am to suffer abeg, understand if I get steady source of income why would I abort ma blood and moreover the mother won't agree to keep it
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by haylad(m): 10:20am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:



To be truthful I told her to keep this at first, she refused o I can't force her so she doesn't feel bitter she is also in school too we both young it's just a silly mistake from both of us, other methods of abortion you say, please tell me, help me abeg.

baba please keep the child and one major thing abortion is so wrong.
Just tell her to keep it and she might be carrying a world saver.
Just keep the baby since he/she rrfused to die.
And pray well.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by pek(m): 10:23am On Oct 29, 2015
For one to be asking this without any iota of shame shows how our society has decayed! Abortion is murder. You are asking us how you will commit murder. Any candid advise to you is don't. Marry that lady. No matter how the situation might be, I am very positive that in years to come, you will look up to thank God that you made the right choice.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by mceze(m): 10:28am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:



To be truthful I told her to keep this at first, she refused o I can't force her so she doesn't feel bitter she is also in school too we both young it's just a silly mistake from both of us, other methods of abortion you say, please tell me, help me abeg.

Let her take Lipton dipped in lime orange water.Do it as if you are doing tea.The lime orange water will serve as water used in doing normal tea.Don't add any water.It will do the magic.Thank me later
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 10:30am On Oct 29, 2015
mceze:


Let her take Lipton dipped in lime orange water.Do it as if you are doing tea.The lime orange water will serve as water used in doing normal tea.It will do the magic.Thank me later


You mean I should get Lipton tea, one bag, then small limes then squeeze the lime water in a cup then deep the Lipton bag in it as if I am preparing tea then she takes it right?

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