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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ziky2010(m): 12:52pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
those insulting d op shld shut their mouth.i am very sure over 90% of people that made comments do av sex.Guyman,find a good professional and do D and C.Nothing do u jare.Dat is d safest method.It is even compulsory u do D and C sibce u av used misoprotene or wat is it called sef 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Richard216(m): 12:52pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
There are also alternative options like carrying the child to full term and then giving it up for adoption rather than abortion. That way the child can also get a full life with a desperate couple that cant bear their own child. LordAdam: |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by exago(m): 12:57pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Proverbs 6:16-17New International Version (NIV) 16 There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him: 17 haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by badboyphc: 1:06pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Listen to me carefully OP or anyone in this precarious situation: 1. Don't waste your time contemplating getting this abortion done or not. Just abort it. 2. Don't buy into the idea of 'oh this child might be the next Bill Gates' yes, same with all the other ones you left in a rubber. 3. Your life will be bleeped up by that child. Kids screw you up forever. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by swaggerdgrt(m): 1:10pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Vivifabulouz:I lke girl lke u,no dullin nd I bliv ur idea will wrk for her.sex is swwet thogh but one can't stp it.fuckin her skin to skin sweet too if nt for pregnancy |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Lex11(m): 1:10pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Don't not kill!!! |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by engrolawei: 1:21pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods:young man, I'll advice you to avoid aborting the baby. You will only end up damaging her womb or killing her. It may be shameful and hard now, but When the baby grows up, you will be happy you didnt abort. Please dont make the mistake. I'm talking from experience. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by cecegorz(m): 1:49pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Ol boy! Problems that only students can understand. That time when my GF in school got pregnant, it felt like the whole world was crashing down on me. So many questions were racing through my mind; so this is the certificate you were sent to come and receive here, can you see this is the end of your education here?, now you are going to be married, way ahead of your mates and suffer to raise this kid... etc. Now imagine on top of these thoughts, my babe told me amid tears one day 'that thing we were enjoying in hiding has been blown open' Haaaaaaaah!!! Mo gbe oooo!!! Today, I look back and thank God for seeing us through our youthful stupidity. Young people should tuck in their Dicks and face their education/future squarely My advice to you is that you should take the lady to a quite place, and have a very soul searching discussion, if you eventually decide that you are not ready to have the baby, please see a QUALIFIED GYNAECOLOGIST for further counselling. Do not, I repeat do not resort to cheap abortion practices that could endanger the lady's life. You will get over this with time. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Edusouls(m): 1:50pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
collegereap:you re joking with fire and a terrible curse that will follow you till grave and the next life,when you re here advicing on how an innocent blood can be terminated...be very carefull you ignorant man,the blood of innocent kids are too thick to deal with,be warned.see you see ur doom.. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by MizFrances(f): 1:50pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods:Yeah, you can tell her |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Emmij1: 1:56pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
guy clam down nd tink....nd also go fine job so u can take care of ur gal nd ur unborn son |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Edusouls: Did you even read his post and the reply i gave him? And where in my response did i tell him to administer the drugs? or did you not read that he already administered it? You are so dumb and itchy to comment that you cannot get your facts straight. YOU ARE ALREADY DOOMED YOURSELF, FOOL! |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by alaskido(m): 2:04pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Young man, I do not support ABORTION because when you carry out an abortion, you have killed a soul and God will not be happy with you. Also, it is risky. If she dies in the process Kirikiri Maximum Hotel land Suites will be your next port of call. You said you loved her, now is the time to show it. MARRY HER. You said you are not ready for marriage and to raise a family because of your school. Did you forget that CONDOM was made to prevent early pregnancy and avoid sexually transmitted disease like HIV, Gono, etc? My brother, you have to face the facts of life and carry your cross. Experience they say is the best teacher. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by LordAdam: 2:27pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Richard216: I'm pretty sure the OP and his gf had thought about this option, but preferred abortion all the same. You have to understand the motive behind creating this thread. The OP did not ask for advice on if he should or should not keep the baby. He is asking for a solution. If you can't provide a solution, keep mute. Do not try to force your beliefs on him. That's a wasted effort. If he was in between thoughts of keeping or not keeping the pregnancy, then your advice comes in handy, right now it only makes you insensitive of his plight. Please spare him the sermon. If you say I'm a murderer for giving him support, then so be it. I have been called worse. How dare any of you believe you are morally superior on the basis of a conviction not everyone share. I am pro-choice. Very recently, a kid who was born without a complete brain ( he has only a brainstem), and was written off by doctors as having no chance of survival, celebrated his second birthday. He also said "Mummy" for the first time, something the doctors did not believe would ever happen. He is alive because his mother contrary to the opinions of others wanted to keep the baby. That is choice. Many fetuses may not be as fortunate. Exactly the same way many male sex cells and female sex cells will not be as fortunate. Abortion is never an easy choice for anyone. However, even the hardest of choices must not be castigated because it is against an individual's beliefs unless it poses a significant risk to others and the society. The right of a child to live holds when the child takes his or her first breath. Not during the gestation period, conception, nor coitus. Abortion is at about the same level as the use of contraceptives. I respect the choice of some religious sects to abstain from using contraceptives even in marriage leading to spiking overpopulation. I respect the choice of those who would rather keep a pregnancy rather than terminate it. I also respect the choice of ladies who know they cannot keep a pregnancy and so may want to terminate the pregnancy. TOLERANCE IS WHEN YOU RESPECT THE CHOICE OF OTHERS. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by IamTheophilus(m): 2:31pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
..garrim..lwkmd..gerrarahia mehn shii |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by cnonyechi(f): 2:54pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
I f she has taken any drugs at first the best thing to do is do a scan and if she is still pregnant wall into any good hospital and ask for a d c |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by adellam16(f): 3:04pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
gamaliel121:Best advice so far. Dose saying keep pregnancy how r they sure they baby has not being harmed. Its possible the child might b born abnormal as abortion had been initiated before |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Dove18: 3:22pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
I was in ur situation 9 months ago. M gonna be a dad soon. If it doesn't destroy u, which it most likely will, u will b glad u dint abort. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Khez: 3:39pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Hippocrates........They all do same o, buh very fast to condemn....... |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by YBMB(m): 3:57pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
coldsummer:op this poster just spoke my mind. It maybe hard but you will see that fatherhood Is a great feeling when you have that baby. Remain blessed. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Living4christ(m): 4:08pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods: Well i think this might work, you have to buy a lot of bottles or glass, "i mean a lot", then break them to pieces so that it appears like dust, then grind pepper mixed together with acid (hydrofluoric acid) put in a glass bottle, then shake very well (like about 10times) then serve........@ your own risk. God don catch you, you don they enjoy, my friend, it is time to suffer. Now I PROPHESY TO THAT CHILD IN THE WOMB, EVERY PLAN TO TERMINATE IT WILL BE FRUSTRATED, CANCELLED, NULL AND VOID WITH IMMEDIATE EFFECT, EXPECT THAT CHILD, IT WILL COME OUT A VICTOR, AND YOU WILL CARRY IT, FOR IN JESUS NAME I PRAY.... AMEN!!! YOU GOT A MIRACLE YOU WILL TESTIFY.... |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by megley(f): 4:18pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods: Hopefully, the foetus hasn't been affected & is still intact. Though u say ur not ready for marriage now, let her hav the baby. When, ur ready - marry her. It is what it is.it has happened. Wat were u thinking though? Having unprotected sex? Wen u knw ur not fully prepared 4d consequences? Huh? |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Tedassie(m): 5:21pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
chimchim1:God always has a way of exposing wrongdoers in public like this one...smh |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by themanderon: 5:31pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods: A silly mistake that has been going on for over a yr?? the game has been played jus chill out n face the consequence. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by themanderon: 5:35pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
megley: He thought she was not fertile n yet he wanted to marry her!!! so the op wanted to marry an infertile girl?? is that what he would have us believe? |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by CutieViva(f): 6:21pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
@ Demigod! My dear i felt ur pain so mch dat i dont knw aw 2 express dem here buh i got a solution 4u, if u can call mi wit dis Num 08180496489 , i wil tel u wat 2do. 10ks. Lifebender: |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Rounakid(m): 6:25pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
kaayposh:hian! See Rounakid for gini? Na me and him do the thing? |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Cityguy: 6:33pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Pls go to a doctor. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 7:29pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Living4christ: If not for your username, I would have given you the insult of your life, you wan give me money to take care of the child, do you know how provocative what you posted their is ? It's raging me badly I don't want to spill it out, please be careful, thank you. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 7:31pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Sunshinelady(f): 8:21pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
cococandy:. And d award for the best comment of d thread goes to you!! #standing ovation#. Dont mind all dese hypocrites after messing around, impregnating grls & killing babies (i prefer callin it killing , not abortion), wen dey r ready to marry, dey ll start complaining dat dey cant find any virgin to marry! & start pouring insults on ladies. Mr OP beko carry your cross, dont disturb us 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by karleone(m): 8:45pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods: My humble piece.... Talk to both parents about this. Do not be scared about it. Whatever outcome of the meeting will guide you to a better decision. Remember, the life of every human (foetus included) is not worth terminating. God alone knows best... Wait till marriage to enjoy whatever you feel you can enjoy now. |
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