wahaladey7:
Why do i feel sexually satisfied with this woman than my own wife? I met her barely two months before my wedding. As clock was winding down for my marriage, i sighted her that faithful day along my street and later found out she stays in the neighborhood. I took a casual interest in her and one thing led to another, we started sleeping together. To me, it was a last minute affair to say goodbye to bachelorhood. Little did i know the widow with two grown children will hold my sexual appetite spellbound. When i got married, i swore to stop but never did. Till date (11 months after) i still haven't find enough courage to let go. The reason being that, she's just too good in bed. Damn, some people are just experts in the art! I give it to her. It has come to the extent that i weep internally whenever i am done being with her. How can i just turn away from the beautiful bride i married, only to be possessed by a widow? Yet i still can't stop! God SAVE me!

Believe me bro, the only way to stop this rubbish is to confess to your pastor or her pastor, or her guardian or better still confess to her!

In as much as this widow still stays close to you.

otherwise.........

This Karishika widow will destroy ur home

demarc001:

Lol! Just personal decision
Anyway am engaged planning marriage

Then tomorrow una go create thread like Cous I know your Wife aint a Virgin..
Please Help me oo. I can't satisfy my wife
At least for once get that experience.. nor be bad tin

kimberly222:
If u had the fear of God and respect for ur wife u wouldnt have indulged in this sinful affair. U dont deserve ur wife., am sure she is a good woman

just negodu!! And they will want a woman to mourn forever if anything happens 2moro. I can bet his wife now knows about the affair but will wanna save face. Who does that? Within a year of marriage? He is even comparing his wife to the side woman... smh! You can't help prune and groom your wife to your taste? So, people re born pornstars abi? Gerrarrhere silly man. Karma the bitchy bitch will catch up with u in d fullness of time

May be na wetin kill d former husband be dat... meaning OP u may soon die..

Let's pray your wife also "satisfys" somebody's widower the same way another person's widow is satisfying u. Don't cry "cheating" when it starts happening. Also post it on nairaland so that we all will comment,congratulate and celebrate with u and your wife for the awesome achievement! We will also advise your wife on more ways to satisfy more widowers both within and outside the country!!!

Guy na mind set o!
Your mind is consoling you with the feel of satisfaction. Go back home to your wife, try act all the "guonguon" style with her and be satisfied. Outside babes go "xtra" to capture you for keeps. Don't fall for it mu Guy.

misspicy:


lies from the pit of hell,if his wife is an independent woman like me bet me she will divorce is as$...more reason why i advice women to have a good means of livelihood coz they will be able to let go of a cheating husband when d time comes....

so she ought to love him to condone cheating and risk her health right....well its her choice,most women do accept their fate and that is why cheating has come to stay...coz if women are bold enuff to divorce a cheating partner then they will think twice..mtchwwwwww

Sis who did this to u? U sound so heartbroken like several times...I kn ur type tho,una prayer point dey always b make una enemy die by fire...(D man is seeking 4 a solution to his problem n if u cannot lend an opinnion den u sit back n learn one)
#stopbeingafeminismextrimist

Are you sure you are the only one sleeping with her? Are u so sure that her waywardness is nt what resulted into her husband's untimely death? Are you Damn sure you don't wanna die young too? .....don't let that her small hole deceive u. after all you have a bigger one awaiting you at the end of the day *6 feet* stick to ur wife!

I was just about to type "wahala dey o", then I saw your username .

The challenge OP is facing is that he is standing between Sahara desert and the deep pink sea.

His wife is stale compared to the fling he's enjoying. And unfortunately, his wife may not understand his situation when he tries to make her improve her performance in bed.

How should I advise this dude now?

BRB.

I don't think is good for you to be trading your eternal pleasure for a temporal sexual excitement. It takes fear of God to denounce and stop the immoral act you have been doing. God is fully aware of what we do. And we do unto others, what we can't allow be done to us. Imagine your wife cheating on you? Imagine the poor widow is your sibling?

So annoying coming by this post, is he a Christian sef? 11 months old marriage and u have started constituting garbages. Y did u marry your wife knowing she can't sexually satisfy u? is your wife your first love? Which is impossible! Karma has a way of paying back and please don't infest the innocent pitiable wife of yours with diseases o, do endeavor to use condom with your wife. U have being bewitched, the widow is using u anyhow knowing fully well u are not going to be hers in the long run. What's not yours, u don't manage it well but what's yours, u take time to use it. U have being drowned in between the widow's legs, hope the widow dey drop money o!

agoman:

i think u mite be de fool for beleiving dis story. nairalanders are just too gullible to notice traffic schemes on nairaland

Uhm...I don't give a fvck if it's fiction or Non-fiction...
I just stated a point...


PS...Call me A fool again and You're dead! ""

Woleleye:
If you truly love your wife, you will find means of training her to be as good as the widow or even better. Women are fast learners. So, do the right things and you will be blessed.

i think its natural ... A woman that wants yo be good will be good ... I have tried yo train my current girlfriend but she just doesn't want to learn. Its beginning to look as if in selfish and forcing her to do what she doesn't want to do .

Wahaladey oooooo

Not too concerned about the affair. Just terrified at the steep competition! Chai, the wife is in fool's Paradise! I wouldn't want to test run her shoes mehn!

MsGlobalwonder:
just negodu!! And they will want a woman to mourn forever if anything happens 2moro. I can bet his wife now knows about the affair but will wanna save face. Who does that? Within a year of marriage? He is even comparing his wife to the side woman... smh! You can't help prune and groom your wife to your taste? So, people re born pornstars abi? Gerrarrhere silly man. Karma the bitchy bitch will catch up with u in d fullness of time

Is there really a way to prune the wife to his taste? Sex is very unique o. And different ladies have different taste, and no matter the prunning you will still be able to point out the sweeter between 2 women.


Correct men who are faithul to their wives, it not by prunning o. It is by DISCIPLINE.

Estharfabian:
Uhm...I don't give a fvck if it's fiction or Non-fiction...
I just stated a point...


PS...Call me A fool again and You're dead! ""

i zip my mouth

halfrica:

Abi o assist op by taking the woman's attention off op

How are you sure brandnew2 is not married as well.

Goodboiyy:


Then tomorrow una go create thread like Cous I know your Wife aint a Virgin..

Please Help me oo. I can't satisfy my wife

At least for once get that experience.. nor be bad tin

I don't give a damn marrying a virgin doesn't guarantee good home! Once will not give me enof experience, mind you the time I get the experience doesn't matter.

misspicy:


lies from the pit of hell,if his wife is an independent woman like me bet me she will divorce is as$...more reason why i advice women to have a good means of livelihood coz they will be able to let go of a cheating husband when d time comes....

so she ought to love him to condone cheating and risk her health right....well its her choice,most women do accept their fate and that is why cheating has come to stay...coz if women are bold enuff to divorce a cheating partner then they will think twice..mtchwwwwww

It's not like I'm against you nor in support of the irresponsible OP but, this comment of yours is the main reason why wealthy independent women find it very difficult to get married. Eg Linda Ikeji.

wahaladey7:
Why do i feel sexually satisfied with this woman than my own wife? I met her barely two months before my wedding. As clock was winding down for my marriage, i sighted her that faithful day along my street and later found out she stays in the neighborhood. I took a casual interest in her and one thing led to another, we started sleeping together. To me, it was a last minute affair to say goodbye to bachelorhood. Little did i know the widow with two grown children will hold my sexual appetite spellbound. When i got married, i swore to stop but never did. Till date (11 months after) i still haven't find enough courage to let go. The reason being that, she's just too good in bed. Damn, some people are just experts in the art! I give it to her. It has come to the extent that i weep internally whenever i am done being with her. How can i just turn away from the beautiful bride i married, only to be possessed by a widow? Yet i still can't stop! God SAVE me!

Sit your wife down and discuss wat you want in bed with her and you will be surprised that she might do far better.

Its a pdycological thing so pray to God to help you and he will. Please dont let your beautiful wife cry.

olumide81:
Yes...its a wrong thing to do no doubt, but most of us love good sex and could go any lenght to have it, i will only pray that God in his infinite mercy help his wife to discover her ssexual form and win back this man totally.

but sex is an art that can be learned! No one was born IndecentStar. You can teach your spouse to be what you want then to be and more. That is marriage. Commitment and loyalty make marriage different from dating and other forms of relationships. You don't just turn away from someone y vow before God and men to be with till death do you part because of just Sex! Haba mana. Sex can be learned. The op is just selfish. Arghh

Walexsammy:
not every clamors for V's ooo...cuz I no can no longer date one muchless marrying one

buh you want inexperienced girl right someone that haven't been with several men....and some men still expect this inexperienced woman to be a pro in bed,then they go ahead and cheat on her if she cN't meet their demands....i call them confused set of eediots

misspicy:


lies from the pit of hell,if his wife is an independent woman like me bet me she will divorce is as$...more reason why i advice women to have a good means of livelihood coz they will be able to let go of a cheating husband when d time comes....

so she ought to love him to condone cheating and risk her health right....well its her choice,most women do accept their fate and that is why cheating has come to stay...coz if women are bold enuff to divorce a cheating partner then they will think twice..mtchwwwwww

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How many cheating partners will they let go of? You don't cut off the head to cure an headache.

U have no respect 4 ur wife and your marriage,so you don't deserve her

wahaladey7:
Why do i feel sexually satisfied with this woman than my own wife? I met her barely two months before my wedding. As clock was winding down for my marriage, i sighted her that faithful day along my street and later found out she stays in the neighborhood. I took a casual interest in her and one thing led to another, we started sleeping together. To me, it was a last minute affair to say goodbye to bachelorhood. Little did i know the widow with two grown children will hold my sexual appetite spellbound. When i got married, i swore to stop but never did. Till date (11 months after) i still haven't find enough courage to let go. The reason being that, she's just too good in bed. Damn, some people are just experts in the art! I give it to her. It has come to the extent that i weep internally whenever i am done being with her. How can i just turn away from the beautiful bride i married, only to be possessed by a widow? Yet i still can't stop! God SAVE me!

my people have a saying that "na wetin dey sweet for goat mouth go kill am". why not just teach ur wife the widow's great moves ao that u can enjoy it at home?

Wetin kill d widow husband go soon kill yu if yu no go bak to yur wife completly! Mumu! Abeg no make sm1 else write abt yur soon to be widow sey she sabi pass yur own widow. Be wise!

Walexsammy:
not every clamors for V's ooo...cuz I no can no longer date one muchless marrying one

saintandsinnerz:

Stop taking it personal, shiit happens and nobody is perfect. What the Op needs is solution to his problem not condemnation! Nobody holy pass

read ma post again,i gave him a soluton and read again i didnt condemn OP

y I love karma very soon oda men will also enjoy ur widowed wife

Toks2008:


Sit your wife down and discuss wat you want in bed with her and you will be surprised that she might do far better.

Its a pdycological thing so pray to God to help you and he will. Please dont let your beautiful wife cry.

Bro how will this stop him from going back to the widow?

You r jus a wicked self centered man.marriage pple r praying nd doing everything too kip u hav it now u can't tell urdef da truth.What u r doing is wrong ShikenaJUST STOP#

kraftsta:


Sis who did this to u? U sound so heartbroken like several times...I kn ur type tho,una prayer point dey always b make una enemy die by fire...(D man is seeking 4 a solution to his problem n if u cannot lend an opinnion den u sit back n learn one)
#stopbeingafeminismextrimist

do me a favour please,remove the shades from your eyes and reread my comment....this time around from begining to the end....thank you