[quote author=LadyGuinivere post=39711947]
May I join issues with u here.
Last person labelled an agent WAS AN AGENT.
She admitted to marketing her house for'naira and dollar reasons' and was told to be upfront about her marketing. Apaart from the fact that like 5 pages were dedicated to it, what's wrong with pointing that out?[/quote

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neks31:


Not only her! My family friend came here to give her info about DrF n how he was nice to her n was bullied and ran out of here.. She never came back and told me she is never coming here cos people made fun of her and acussed her of being FAKE! What of my own case?? Too numerous to mention n I don't think u bully people from what I've read sha. Anyways dem never born the Person that will wish to bully me!!

Bless you. So please take heed lest u become a bully. With all due respect, you get all upset and hot tempered when u wanna make a point.(Uploading your baby girl's pix for example) and being quick to laabel a diverse opinion cyber bullying.
Were I easily cowed, I woul not want to comment further to avoid your scathing comments because u so unwittingly labelled me a bully by ur follow up comments to mine without taking into consideration my pov and the fact that no malice was intended.
My point? Sister please let's be calm and take it easy on the exclamation points and labelling.
Thank you for understanding (hopefully)

All this talk of bullying bullying tells a lot about our self esteem. If you want to see bullying visit the politics thread, then compare.

This is NL, MTN has died and ressurected on NL. GTB sef. One babe posted her wedding pictures and her hubby was called all sorts of ugly names cos he no meet up.

Let's take a chill pill and continue the course of this thread jare.

Btw, the way Lagos embassy has been denying people of late! Did I miss the elections where Donald Trump won or what!!!

Hahaha. ...
See as stadium full and everybody dey look. ....
Barca and Real dey play El classico?! .....

hello, please how can i edit if i mistakenly put the wrong passport number in my ds 160 form,although the ds 160 form hasnt been submitted? but an appointment confirmation has been sent with the wrong passport number? but the appointment was booked with my original passport number? please help, my appointment is nextweek.

LadyGuinivere:

U have two options. Edit your ds 160. Fill another one and writw in for them to swap.
Then go with your burden of proof. Purer and simpler.
Or 2. Leave the form as is. Answer we are going for vacation and birthing. Both are b1/b2. I believe the vo already stated that in the link I sent u. After that, the line of questioning will change. If u read back, ul see situations like these.
Do the one you are more comfy with.
Finally, your husband may go with you, after you or not with you at all to the us. Know what u want to do and tell the vo exactly as it affects your home. Your application must not be on all fours with other families' application/situation
The most important thing is that your are prepared.
IMO, I advice u to go with option 1 if u still have the time. I personally like all my cards to be lined up properly

LadyGuinivere:

Bless you. So please take heed lest u become a bully. With all due respect, you get all upset and hot tempered when u wanna make a point.(Uploading your baby girl's pix for example) and being quick to laabel a diverse opinion cyber bullying.
Were I easily cowed, I woul not want to comment further to avoid your scathing comments because u so unwittingly labelled me a bully by ur follow up comments to mine without taking into consideration my pov and the fact that no malice was intended.
My point? Sister please let's be calm and take it easy on the exclamation points and labelling.
Thank you for understanding (hopefully)

I will keep standing up for my self and the people still researching mmkay n btw; uploading my girls pic that I carried 9 months should be my headache n that of hubby! I won't go back n forth with you but people should allow people tell their truth without people attacking them. anyways them never still born that person that want to bring bullying or mouth near me I will CLOCK d person..so hope u gerrit " hopefully"

neks31:


I will keep standing up for my self and the people still researching mmkay n btw; uploading my girls pic that I carried 9 months should be my headache n that of hubby! I won't go back n forth with you but people should allow people tell their truth without people attacking them. anyways them never still born that person that want to bring bullying or mouth near me I will CLOCK d person ..so hope u gerrit " hopefully"

You really need to calm down.

Yes there is a clique here and yes they try to force their opinions down peoples throat.

I am currently in Chicago and have met a couple of people using Dr A. The feedback I have gotten so far is different from the way he is being portrayed on this thread.

@ Justwise i admonish you to be fair in post deletion cos it seems people that had good feedback about Dr A had their comments deleted and are labeled agents while you allowed comments from people that haven't even had any interaction with him thrive.

I asked those that are currently using him to come and give feedback cos they are members here and they asked what is the use when their comments will end up being deleted or they would be bullied or labeled agents..

Please lets mind what we post here especially when you have not had any form of interaction with the said Dr.

My one cent.

uchetobi:


This whole bullying thing is about forcing our individual opinions down other people's throat. Case in point dr A of Chicago or wherever he practices from and also dr F

Let people that had bad experiences post it by all means but it's people that haven't even used this drs that now add kerosene to fire and drag it to the point that it looks like .....

justwise:


You really need to calm down.

Ok oooshe JW am d ONLY person that need to calm down. Ok Kontinu n I will but tell everyone to allow people n their truth. Tnx n God bless.

congrats on your POE, your baby and mine will be due same day

girlloom:
All the glory to God! I arrived Detroit yesterday via KLM, flew klm to Amsterdam and delta to Detroit. I flew at 31 weeks and wasn't asked for fitness to fly. After paying 34usd for a preferred seat on the flight to Amsterdam I was so disappointed. The seat beside me was vacant and some annoying guy with a stinking breath who didn't like his original seat was made to sit there and made my trip so uncomfortable with his constant poking, turning and yawning.There were so many vacant seats o, I wonder why he was directed to that one mschewww. Got to Amsterdam around 5.30am and had to wait 4hrs 30mins for the flight to Detroit. Thank God I requested for special assistance, I was driven in that their auto wheel to a service centre where I chilled and was picked up later and dropped at my boarding gate.

Getting to the gate o, i go find trouble. Instead of me to just lay low with my big belle and green passport, I got up to go speak with one of the ladies at the counter ( after all I was honest at my visa interview so why hide), the seat on my boarding pass and seat I reserved did not tally and I wanted to know why. I hadn't finished asking my question when one black guy in suit asked to see my passport. That's how questions you expect at Poe started, he took me aside and asked for my reason for going to the U.S.

Me: childbirth
Guy in suit (GIS): you are quite direct
Me: (b4 Nko)
GIS: let me have your documents (he types on his phone for a while)
Before I knew it, he said you were denied a visa to the UK in 2014
Me: yes I was and I reapplied in 2015 and got it (y do they keep hammering on this denial sef)
GIS: what do you do and what does your hubby do
Me: I sha respond
He asked a lot, went through every single doc and finally let me join the queue to board the plane.

Got to Detroit and was wheeled to immigration, the friendly Cbp asked the normal questions and requested for docs and sent me for secondary inspection. Let me add that Detroit airport was empty so they had a lot of time on their hands. The guy who wheeled me left me, the Cbp was initially acting all tough but he later relaxed and joked with me. Went through my documents, I had just 3kusd cash on me ( he didn't ask to see it). Had bank statement of 4m Naira which he asked to see. He concluded that I made sure all my bills were paid and receipts collected. Let me add he also talked about the UK visa that was denied ( how long will dt singular denial hunt me?) I was stamped till may 2016. Someone finally came to wheel me out after spending 15mins listening to other people's interview. Went to Agric and tuber of yam was seized. Finally with my wonderful sister inlaw and family. Baby is due Xmas day and I will be using henry-ford. May God grant us all safe delivery and all the best to the other moms who are just starting this mission.

Northside. The weather is great. Just cool

nefertitiram:


Hey babes,
Wat part of Chi town r u chillin in? Hwz d weather now?

Madam,
You use him 1st and come and discredit us na. That is the agreement.
I thot you sed you found a cheaper option, why are we going back to the Dr.A gist? Abi is he your brother? Come clean o! If Dr. A is why you are on NL, tell us now o

Y is he so important to you?

Y should the people who have used him leave everything they are doing, sign up for NL and come and form voltron for him here? Does his career depend on NL reputation?

Please when you see him, tell him everything that was said on this thread, let him deny it, dem no born am reach! *in neks31 voice*

Please show him my posts too on this thread about him! I'm calling him out will confront him if need be! I even have the nails to use to end his career in real life. I'm being very nice keeping shut about other things, and he calls himself a redeemed pastor.

Also, help me tell him he owes some people out here a refund. The ones he asked to fall back on medicaid to cover his acts

*drops mic*

Chicagomum:
Yes there is a clique here and yes they try to force their opinions down peoples throat.

I am currently in Chicago and have met a couple of people using Dr A. The feedback I have gotten so far is different from the way he is being portrayed on this thread.

@ Justwise i admonish you to be fair in post deletion cos it seems people that had good feedback about Dr A had their comments deleted and are labeled agents while you allowed comments from people that haven't even had any interaction with him thrive.

I asked those that are currently using him to come and give feedback cos they are members here and they asked what is the use when their comments will end up being deleted or they would be bullied or labeled agents..

Please lets mind what we post here especially when you have not had any form of interaction with the said Dr.

My one cent.

Tobermom congratulations. More Good news awaits u jare...

I'm hailing everyone o...

17 spectators

neks31:
17 spectators

JW sef de!
Make we act action film, I don throw you one blow, oya, dodge am!

francmoda:
Please does anyone have a direct line of anybody at Atlanta consulate...visa section preferably...My wife's return date in on Saturday and I submitted the application and paid the expedited fee since last week...I have been calling their number since Monday..always going to voice mail.sent mails...no reply

If you cant get someone you know/was introduced personally to you asap please make all attempts to go down by yourself if you can. Same happened to me when I submitted for my son's visa with an expedited envelope to the NewYork office. Had to go in to the office and fight with them. They left my sons passport under a pile of applications and did nothing to it for like 1 week, they only searched for it cos I was in their office making noise. Got my expedited fee back and got the visa like 30mins after the fight but was so upset cos I was avoiding going in to the consulate like a plague and still had to.

neks31:


Ok oooshe JW am d ONLY person that need to calm down. Ok Kontinu n I will but tell everyone to allow people n their truth. Tnx n God bless.

Stop threatening people and at the same time complaining of bullying. You can put your point across without coming off gheto-ish.

That is my point.

nefertitiram:


JW sef de!
Make we act action film, I don throw you one blow, oya, dodge am!

lmaoo. My refreshing game on 100 right now.

justwise:


Stop threatening people and at the same time complaining of bullying. You can put your point across without coming off gheto-ish.

That is my point.

Ok Tnx

Smh... this is what we are talking about. What the heck is wrong with me making my observation known? If you are looking for who to bully then you have met the wrong match...
And yes you are one of the BULLIES

nefertitiram:
Madam,
You use him 1st and come and discredit us na. That is the agreement.
I thot you sed you found a cheaper option, why are we going back to the Dr.A gist? Abi is he your brother? Come clean o! If Dr. A is why you are on NL, tell us now o

vamum:


If you cant get someone you know/was introduced personally to you asap please make all attempts to go down by yourself if you can. Same happened to me when I submitted for my son's visa with an expedited envelope to the NewYork office. Had to go in to the office and fight with them. They left my sons passport under a pile of applications and did nothing to it for like 1 week, they only searched for it cos I was in their office making noise. Got my expedited fee back and got the visa like 30mins after the fight but was so upset cos I was avoiding going in to the consulate like a plague and still had to.

People that apply for naija visa direct have it rough and it takes ages for the visa to come out but agents get the visa same day Hmmmm

Systemic failure everywhere we go

Chicagomum:
Smh... this is what we are talking about. What the heck is wrong with me making my observation known? If you are looking for who to bully then you have met the wrong match...
And yes you are one of the BULLIES

Polish your self esteem.
If I'm the bully you say I am, I will begin to punch all the holes in your stories. But no, I will lay low and wait for you to bust yourself

JustWise me am now " gehtto" chaii! Bye guys lemme go n join my co 25 spectators . "Cries in gehtto tears"!

Chicagomum:
Yes there is a clique here and yes they try to force their opinions down peoples throat.

I am currently in Chicago and have met a couple of people using Dr A. The feedback I have gotten so far is different from the way he is being portrayed on this thread.

@ Justwise i admonish you to be fair in post deletion cos it seems people that had good feedback about Dr A had their comments deleted and are labeled agents while you allowed comments from people that haven't even had any interaction with him thrive.

I asked those that are currently using him to come and give feedback cos they are members here and they asked what is the use when their comments will end up being deleted or they would be bullied or labeled agents..

Please lets mind what we post here especially when you have not had any form of interaction with the said Dr.

My one cent.

They only jumped out to give 'positive feedback' of Dr A. after a member here narrated a very bad experience with the Dr which nobody denied just to discredit her story. If your experience with him is good one then fine but don't come out to discredit somebody who just went through life changing experience.

Dr A. knows about this forum according to many he spoke to so why not send one of his staff to come here to give his own view about what happened?

cinakin:
hello, please how can i edit if i mistakenly put the wrong passport number in my ds 160 form,although the ds 160 form hasnt been submitted? but an appointment confirmation has been sent with the wrong passport number? but the appointment was booked with my original passport number? please help, my appointment is nextweek.

Let me get u right. U started a ds 160. Didn't complete. Used the nos to get a date abi?
Hm. Have u considered cancelling the appointment and see if u can edit? Though I fear u may lose the 32k u paid.
Option 2. Submit the ds 160 with the error and email in for them to swap with the correct one.
Cos I'm thinking, if its not submitted, they wont/cant help.
The earlier u start the better cos today don finish. Fill the new form tonight and submit tonight and send the email to them to them 8am tomorrow then call immedately

We r going back and forth because we r adults.

We r entitled to our own opinion. People cant talk or behave like u becos we r wired differently.

U can ignore others can't. you wanna type solutions to questions some are just too lazy to.. Etc.

JUST UNDERSTAND WE ALL CAN'T ACT OR BEHAVE ALIKE.

Neks31 honey u seriously need to chill...hian

When this agent thing started it was subtle... but D person kept denying and defending it till it became really obvious.

Pls let move on... Seriously plsssssssss.....

Lol self esteem. You should be the one polishing your self esteem cos you radiate very low self esteem.

Just telling you the truth most people wont tell you. Stop bullying people. You cant bully me neither can you force me to believe your opinion!

Start punching the holes o waiting for you dont lay low!
You are the only one on this thread that tells the truth all others are agents or are lying. Yeye dey smell

nefertitiram:


Polish your self esteem.
If I'm the bully you say I am, I will begin to punch all the holes in your stories. But no, I will lay low and wait for you to bust yourself

Shuoooo!!! Another dragged out argument brewing! Action always happening when I'm at work. Justwise Pele, U have ur work cut out in moderating this thread.
@Olokings everyone cannot be a research specialist. And nobody has got a right to label anyone else as lazy here. By the way, I learnt about Dr. F since late 2012 from a Nigerian work colleague based in Houston. Not everybody heard about him from Nairaland. Like someone rightly pointed out, the most helpful people on this thread have also been the most generous with information. It's usually those with limited or no info that come here posting up and down without adding real value (with the exception of a few)! And of course they get likes from their cliques (boarding school things) egging them on.
Some might think that is what keeps this thread alive but I disagree. People telling their stories, giving reviews and being real helpful to others is what keeps the thread alive. Not being sarcastic and downright rude to others or chasing "agents" up and down as if Justwise can't do his thing by himself.
Neks says the truth in that if I volunteer any info here, the first thing some folks will do is find out how long I've been on Nairaland and if not long enough, then I must be an agent .
I don't care about cliques. It's allowed to form one. Me, I'm a bona-fide soloist by choice. But saying you haven't noticed bullying on this thread means must be clueless or one of bullies yourself. Live and let live people! Let's enjoy this thread abeg.

https://www.nairaland.com/post/39628121
@JDqueen
Congratulations on safe delivery,God bless your LO.
I'm a Dec mom in el Paso, using Dr. A, please how exactly did you go about getting your baby's birth certificate so soon? I'm been told it would take about 6weeks, and I'm due back in naija by 1st week of Jan.

I did my daughter's own myself and had zero issues. A few other people here also did theirs without any issues.

shrekandfiona:

People that apply for naija visa direct have it rough and it takes ages for the visa to come out but agents get the visa same day Hmmmm

Systemic failure everywhere we go

I did not discredit anybodys story...

justwise:


They only jumped out to give 'positive feedback' of Dr A. after a member here narrated a very bad experience with the Dr which nobody denied just to discredit her story. If your experience with him is good one then fine but don't come out to discredit somebody who just went through life changing experience.

Dr A. knows about this forum according to many he spoke to so why not send one of his staff to come here to give his own view about what happened?

Dr Z still takes patients o.
A neighbor here is using him.. And a church member too.
But I noticed his present prices has seriously changed from what we use to know here.

Will post his costs breakdown when she puts to bed.