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Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 7:11am On Nov 08, 2015
@funkyibodude

To be honest, I think we guys are always too weak and unwilling to resist women even when it's against our morals. . .

From your post, you clearly should be avoiding her by ignoring her and reducing communication with her.

The truth is that we sometimes enjoy the attention, but women on the other hand are always quick to make a guy know they have no interest in his advances.

Pls o, fashy the woman make she no let you offend God!
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Wallade(m): 7:22am On Nov 08, 2015
@ Op, the lady wants to fu..ck you and you know it. You need to decide what you wanna do. My suggestions: Stop being nice to her
Lock your balcony gate all the time so she would have to get your permission to come in and of course, you should never allow her into your house
Ensure your preferred lady or fiancee keeps a steady visit to your house.
In a short while, she will get the message, start hating or disliking you and kill the affection and amourous feeling towards you.
However, don't be carried away, don't drop your guards, because she will come back at you really fast and desperately.
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by denedene(m): 7:26am On Nov 08, 2015
Op she has seen you as someone that is reserved and kind. From you story I can deduce that you don't have a girlfriend.. do not follow a married woman, its curse is limitless. Go out of your house or invite your closest female friends often when she sees pple in your home,she'll be uncomfortable
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 8:05am On Nov 08, 2015
denedene:
Op she has seen you as someone that is reserved and kind. From you story I can deduce that you don't have a girlfriend.. do not follow a married woman, its curse is limitless. Go out of your house or invite your closest female friends often when she sees pple in your home,she'll be uncomfortable
thanks I will heed that advice.
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 8:07am On Nov 08, 2015
Wallade:
@ Op, the lady wants to fu..ck you and you know it. You need to decide what you wanna do. My suggestions: Stop being nice to her
Lock your balcony gate all the time so she would have to get your permission to come in and of course, you should never allow her into your house or other
Ensure your preferred lady or fiancee keeps a steady visit to your house.
In a short while, she will get the message, start hating or disliking you and kill the affection and amourous feeling towards you.
However, don't be carried away, don't drop your guards, because she will come back at you really fast and desperately.
I will bear that in mind, sex with her is the last thing on my mind, that's why I don't know her intentions
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 8:16am On Nov 08, 2015
nairalandist:
@funkyibodude

To be honest, I think we guys are always too weak and unwilling to resist women even when it's against our morals. . .

From your post, you clearly should be avoiding her by ignoring her and reducing communication with her.

The truth is that we sometimes enjoy the attention, but women on the other hand are always quick to make a guy know they have no interest in his advances.

Pls o, fashy the woman make she no let you offend God!
I've tried so many times to ignore her trust me, but she just wont leave. When my girlfriend comes for a visit in my place she would still come to my house and introduce herself as a neighbor..
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 8:40am On Nov 08, 2015
raymond4luv:
I so believe that u av touched something if u av not enterd the promise land, since there is more to the story. Buh bro..u are in a big problem if u av not realized dat, don't u ever think the husband is a 'mumu'. He may be planning something really bad for u. Best solution..kuku ma tell the husband buh exercise wisdom while doin dat.
lol, I haven't touched her, what's more is that she likes telling me intimate things going on between her and her hubby, sometimes she tell me how her husband is too busy for her, in some occasions she borrows money from me though she pays back, sometimes she gives me money if I ask why, she would say its just her nature she likes giving. I accept on the basis that she's just a nice neibor but why it's disturbing is her unusual visits to my place, her mode of dressing ( she doesn't dress like married woman) when she visit my house, her attitude towards my female friends and her constant interference in my personal life
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 8:45am On Nov 08, 2015
Cut off from her genuinely if you don't want problems.
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 8:45am On Nov 08, 2015
Sanguine:
But wait o, funkyibodude, this woman, she nor get work?
You better run for your life before your life runs from you o, ehen!
she's unemployed at the moment, though she runs a Catherine business but most times she's at home.
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 9:21am On Nov 08, 2015
funkyibodude:
I've tried so many times to ignore her trust me, but she just wont leave. When my girlfriend comes for a visit in my place she would still come to my house and introduce herself as a neighbor..
Anyways, you gats to do what you gats to do, to avoid any unwanted issue in the future. If you're not careful, one day you might do the unthinkable with her oooo
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Sanguine(f): 9:28am On Nov 08, 2015
funkyibodude:
she's unemployed at the moment, though she runs a Catherine business but most times she's at home.
oh I see.
Well, if I were in your shoes I'd just tell her I'm not comfortable with her always coming around and telling me stuff about her husband and all of that. And at the same time I'd be alot more careful with her and her antics whenever she's around (since she's rather stubborn). You can be sure she'd get tired with time and back off.
But then, *clearsThroat* I'm not in your shoes and I doubt if your shoes will even size me. Lol.
HAPPY SUNDAY!
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Sanguine(f): 9:53am On Nov 08, 2015
funkyibodude:
I will bear that in mind, sex with her is the [b]last thing[b] on my mind, that's why I don't know her intentions
Atleast sex with her is on your mind even though it's the "last thing". You'd better be extra careful with her o, so you will not come back here to tell stories that touch the heart. Ehen!
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by alterswerve(m): 9:53am On Nov 08, 2015
ezteem:
All she's saying is: me hacen sentir como una mejur

In english : make me feel like a woman....

My brother, her husband must have a small dick, it seems you are a prospect... Please bang her like bangladesh
Its not mejur.. Its mujer.. The correct is this

Me hace sentir como una mujer.. Winks
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by ezteem(m): 9:55am On Nov 08, 2015
alterswerve:
Its not mejur.. Its mujer.. The correct is this

Me hace sentir como una mujer.. Winks
I misspelt it nigga. I speak fluent spanish ....
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 9:55am On Nov 08, 2015
Sanguine:
oh I see.
Well, if I were in your shoes I'd just tell her I'm not comfortable with her always coming around and telling me stuff about her husband and all of that. And at the same time I'd be alot more careful with her and her antics whenever she's around (since she's rather stubborn). You can be sure she'd get tired with time and back off.
But then, *clearsThroat* I'm not in your shoes and I doubt if your shoes will even size me. Lol.
HAPPY SUNDAY!
thanks dear, I wish you the same. I will also bear that in mind
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by alterswerve(m): 9:56am On Nov 08, 2015
I sense that the couple is trying to scam you. Don't you watch American movies. She might have sex you and try to blackmail you later, or something. The couple is not ordinary. This is planned. Better be careful!
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 9:56am On Nov 08, 2015
The best way to avoid temptation is to fall into it. #EnufSaidwink
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 9:58am On Nov 08, 2015
Sanguine:
Atleast sex with her is on your mind even though it's the "last thing". You'd better be extra careful with her o, so you will not come back here to tell stories that touch the heart. Ehen!
haha no not at all, what I meant is that I won't give in to temptation with her
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by alterswerve(m): 10:03am On Nov 08, 2015
ezteem:
I misspelt it nigga. I speak fluent spanish ....
No te dije que no hablas bien.. También, cometío errores con el verbo 'hacer'.. Just saying
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by ezteem(m): 11:26am On Nov 08, 2015
alterswerve:
No te dije que no hablas bien.. También, cometío errores con el verbo 'hacer'.. Just saying
Entiendo, pero tambien sor nigeriano por lo que podria hacer algunos errores ... Don't judge me, amigo
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 1:35pm On Nov 08, 2015
lmao...Nairaland! @op..you know what's going on..you are basking in the enticement! when a woman means you? o.y.o! don't wait till march before doing anything about it..anything just might happen before then + the husband may already be in the know bidding his time..don't entertain her at all in your house.. speak to her husband in a playful and diplomatic way you rather he accompanied his wife anytime she chooses to visit you as it is a cause of concern and embarrassment to you when she visits unaccompanied. You have exonerated yourself albeit passed on the message to the man..he will get the drift..cut all ties to them as a couple..do hanky panky with her,her husband might just play ping pong with your b.alls..see gobe
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by alterswerve(m): 1:39pm On Nov 08, 2015
ezteem:
Entiendo, pero tambien sor nigeriano por lo que podria hacer algunos errores ... Don't judge me, amigo
Pero también, SOY nigeriano... Podemos ser amigos..sabes..
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 2:13pm On Nov 08, 2015
BlaqCoffee109:
lmao...Nairaland! @op..you know what's going on..you are basking in the enticement! when a woman means you? o.y.o! don't wait till march before doing anything about it..anything just might happen before then + the husband may already be in the know bidding his time..don't entertain her at all in your house.. speak to her husband in a playful and diplomatic way you rather he accompanied his wife anytime she chooses to visit you as it is a cause of concern and embarrassment to you when she visits unaccompanied. You have exonerated yourself albeit passed on the message to the man..he will get the drift..cut all ties to them as a couple..do hanky panky with her,her husband might just play ping pong with your b.alls..see gobe
enlighten me more about that o.y.o..
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 08, 2015
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Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 2:22pm On Nov 08, 2015
funkyibodude:
enlighten me more about that o.y.o..
on your own ..meaning in gobeology you are solely responsible #igbese re oh √pingpong
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by PunterTim(m): 2:57pm On Nov 08, 2015
BlaqCoffee109:
lmao...Nairaland! @op..you know what's going on..you are basking in the enticement! when a woman means you? o.y.o! don't wait till march before doing anything about it..anything just might happen before then + the husband may already be in the know bidding his time..don't entertain her at all in your house.. speak to her husband in a playful and diplomatic way you rather he accompanied his wife anytime she chooses to visit you as it is a cause of concern and embarrassment to you when she visits unaccompanied. You have exonerated yourself albeit passed on the message to the man..he will get the drift..cut all ties to them as a couple..do hanky panky with her,her husband might just play ping pong with your b.alls..see gobe
Haha @ Ping-Pong With Your Balls
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 08, 2015
Broda
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:10pm On Nov 08, 2015
Dis ur packaging na die grin
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 08, 2015
OP have u heard of the word "green light"?... Yeah u are seriously seeing a green light, but it is coming from a faulty traffic control device cheesy
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by Oche211(m): 5:23pm On Nov 08, 2015
Buy padlock nd always lock ur door 4rm inside. Very simple, she wan walk thru walls ni?
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 5:54pm On Nov 08, 2015
pharmroyle:
OP have u heard of the word "green light"?... Yeah u are seriously seeing a green light, but it is coming from a faulty traffic control device cheesy
lol, mine is showing red light cool
Re: Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? Advice Needed! by funkyibodude(op): 5:55pm On Nov 08, 2015
Grinch:
Dis ur packaging na die grin
what package bro huh
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