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Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy: Sori, wanted 2 quote d op nt yu |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by eightsin(m): 7:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
MrBasketball: Exactly, when she sees how mates achieving great fits tomorrow...she will think back. I just pray she realise her mistakes soon enuf |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by miqos02(m): 7:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
let ur mum send her away for a while, so she can experience the other side of life, by the time she comes back she will come with loads of experiece Agathabishen: |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by MrHighSea: 7:11pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
She took charge of her future, free am joor. Catch thief, cane am blue black. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by macminista(m): 7:11pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
There is no barrier when it comes to prayer..am using Nl as a point of kontact..let ur SISITER Receive SENSE! ijn AMEN!! |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by olowoeko(m): 7:11pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
There are 3 ways we learn, its either through imitation, reflection or experience, the last one is the hardest, sometimes people need to learn from experience to get wisdom, advise her more and pray for her.... A word they say is enough.Yoruba have a proverb "aja to ba ma Sonu koni gbo fere olode" = a dog that will get lost will not hear whistle of the hunter"....you have done your best as a sis.watch nature do the rest |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:12pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: Yes! That is it na, you people were the cause so why are u praying for what you font deserve. When she was dancing like miley Cruz at age 5 what did your mom say, you that is crying noe what did you do? When she was wearing short skirt at 12 what did u say or do about it. When she started using phone to be making midnight call after all have gone to bed who checked her ? Now you want nairalanders to press one special button to correct years of irresponsibility on the part of the family. The girl is even kind to you people, I was expecting you to say after cooking a very big pot of soup for the week she sneaks the pot out to her baby daddy. To every action or inaction, there is surely and equal or excess opposite reaction or action. #Parisisanexample |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:13pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
she needs a physiologist and some slaps on the face to reset her brain. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ADENIKETINA2015(f): 7:15pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Some have head but have no cap Some have cap but have no head We have head and we have cap Glory be to thee O'Lord Amen! Pls, if she doesn't want to go to sch, kindly use the money to help the ready like us. Thanks |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by creepsyme(f): 7:18pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:bros I really feel ur pains, pls the family shuld continue to support her, she is obviously heading toward des ruction, she culd be operating under an influence of a negative spirit, also pray for her and she will one day return to her senses. Good luck bro |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by SAMBARRY: 7:19pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:you mean they should take the baby away from her first? And then try to reform her? She's obviously hasn't learnt from her mistakes. It's just the baby on the line I feel sorry for.they're very close to poverty yet doesn't realize it |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Miscellaneous(m): 7:21pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: Try all they av said here & u will get no result. It only takes the grace of God. Your sister will not learn the hard way…… she will after going through a trauma, damaged emotion or some sort of. I don't know how but pray to God…… I av witness cases like this. One thing u can help with is maybe ur mum or u cry for her when she does something unthinkable……make it real make her think her life over with a damaged emotion. Make her heart quake like she lost a mother, baby, u or something she has to get that feeling, somehow…… I don't know how. Don't evn use force, u are wasting ur time……… Wats her name, if I may ask? |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:23pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
This happened to one of my cousin.Today she is married to the guy with four kids and living i. abject poverty in the village.No Future. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ministerblessed: 7:25pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
HARDDON:I didn't say they sud allow her excesses. Wot I meant is dt they did stop giving her too much attention, let her go and experience life only then can she appreciate her family and the love they give to her. It seems they have spoilt her silly,always at her beck and call maybe because she is d last born. She has not realised her mistake and until she does she will nt change! |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ehix89(m): 7:27pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:Black sheep in d house is always difficult to deal with,kindly take her to God in prayers. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Politicos:Lol. Send her away ke. She would gladly leave home herself. pray not to have a daughter that falls in love with a gangster or thug. All she needs is prayers not those spanking, working, feeding and all sorts you listed above. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by UniqueGem(m): 7:31pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
eightsin:Okay. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
octopusfreaky: She is not the only teenager around hers has a spiritual connation |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Holywizard: 7:37pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
some gals re stupid! I blame ur parents join! Maybe ur mum was over looking tinz wen tinz were still fresh It is only God dat can save her! Just be praying 4 her because de thunder dat will fire her still dey consult de oracles!! |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:38pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
All I can write here is that your sis probably doesn't know what this life entails...... And I kinda salute your mum's courage in wanting to send her away cos I know it will be hard on her also but maybe while raising you she didn't do the right thing in teaching the girl what she ought to know before all those things happened to her..... So the best thing is let her go and learn just like the prodigal son in the bible |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:38pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: I'm sure yu are not a virgin(no offence), and dats why yu are the only one that can understand the change in her demeanor. Yu knw how gals feel abt anyone wu disvirgined them (guess her baby dadi did) and that explains why her action is indispensable, she will do anything to please the guy evn if its gonna be at her own detriment. It appears to me she s still pretty much young to handle that kind of feelings. SOLUTION Get acquainted with the baby dadi,have a chat with him(not interrogation) cos he's the only one that can talk to your sister right now. Let him know how your sister's demeanor is affecting you and your family. I'm sure he will be reasonable with you if he's not from anoda planet. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:41pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
She needs prayer and this is not too late, many things can still change for better |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by octopusfreaky(f): 7:42pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
kevinscore:you are a typical black man,everything spiritual,,mennn teenagers D's days are wild ,it takes God and her family to tame her. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 7:43pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
saxywale:Look at the story very well, she does not have what it takes it gladly leave home, if she does she would have left long ago.. If she had money or source of income she would have not been stealing eggs. (How much is egg) If they send her to the baby daddy's house, she cannot survive there for more than a month before better hunger beat her... I strongly believe the guy will kick her out... Then she will have a rethink |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Psalmwhyte(m): 7:46pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: Bro u certainly need God's intervention just take it 2 God in prayers,i believe He will restore ur sister's mind. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Kirinwa: 7:48pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: Well every family is 'blessed' with a black sheep. In your own case it seems she's the black sheep. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by mysteryman2014: 7:49pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Spoil a child and she will show no gratitude. That is result of u not allowing her to face the consequence of her action. Rushing to her help, has made to think it is her right to be taken care of. Make her take responsibility for herself and the child, then she will grow up. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by captainjoh(m): 7:51pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Bro no amount of talk can change her. Any relationship between a man and a woman is not easily controlled, especially when its from the heart. Allow mum send her out, she need lessons 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by willibounce1(m): 7:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
OP don't stop talking to your sister. Fighting or beating her won't help. There is no need sending her outta the house but if your mom insist, let her go. Don't stop showing her you care about her. Let her know you know she is stealing your eggs and give her willingly if she needs it. Check on her at the guys place once in a while and don't stop telling her about coming back home and doing things right. People change for good when they see they are genuinely cared for. Hostility will make things worse. Most of all, pray for her. Call her and send sms prayers to her. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by GloryGloryRufus(m): 7:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy:. Misspicy, you that I sometimes appreciates her comments, but this one is bad... Slaping her will not give her sense, something is wrong somewhere, if care is not taking, she will soon take in again for the same man or another man, but there must be a solution, you people should find out how responsible is the man that owns the baby, if he is capable of taking care of her and willing to take her in, negotiate with his family, bring two of them togeda for them to openly confess they want to live as one. Possibly the man can still sponsor her for little education in any local school around. Make sure you are not trying to forcefully separate her from what is already given her joy. You might think @17 she is still too young to take decisions but no one can tell. If after doing all these things and her life still become wayward, "Had I know"? Will become her song. More importanly tell God to help you people in her case. I trust my baba to do something if u ask faithfully. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by bigtt76(f): 7:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
E yaaaa ...the guy who impregnanted her denied and yet she still goes to see him till 10pm? The prick that guy take run de tin still de sweet her. You know what? She's a mother and a mother takes care of her children ....bottom-line, let her be, she will realize one day never to bite the hands that fed her. To think she's not 25 years old yet (the age when we all get heady) and she's behaving like this. Make baby-daddy nor come add second one join o! Agathabishen: |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by tete7000(m): 7:53pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Evil spirit don enter am and she dey enjoy the feeling. You need a lot of patience and prayers to get her back. Keep talking to her and keep helping as far as you can afford. At the end of the day it's her life and she can live it the way she wants. How about her dad, no mention was made of that. Was she raised by a single parent or the father is deceased? |
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