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Neplusultra:
Jesus Christ!
People get mind o!

As in, I tell u..
I simply dunno wat to say... I don't blame d lady op, dis kinda confession is scary... nlders have spoken, it is left for u to decide..

I think you should twist the issue for her,you should tell her that you use that has a prank on her so that you can know If she truely love you or was just after your damn success.......


I think of she truely love you she would accept you for who you are and not what you are,you should also let her reason with you though what you did is a punishable crime for impersonation but she should find ways of reasoning with you and mind you telling people about this would tear you so keep this secret buried within you

[quote author=refreshrate[/quote]Don Don. U be fugitive ba

bros ,this ur story is the funniest i read in 2015, in find it very hard to believe

Continue your life bro and let her be for now, continue your good deeds to your friends family and pray for God mercy and grace to keep you from the mess. Remind God of your good deeds to the family like Hezekiah did in the bible. As for ur lady, tell her not to worry, she failed your test. This is my simple advice.

1. IDONBLIVIT
2. If an true, & truly truly u dey earn 6digits then u shud av reasonable savings cum investment. So, quit u r job & start somtin meaningful wt d 1 u've fraudulently acquired

Adanna28:
I am confused So you been using your friend dead identity? Are you sure that not what you planned all along? Since he was close to the best academically at school n you were falling behind you came with this idea of doing his work and yours too?

Na K-leg he had the higher marks n you the lower on score, you then use that to your advantage n made a successful life for yourself. Than you told that girl the truth about who you really are n she linked the pieces up.

If you were going to lie you should have died with the lie. Did you expect it to be roses? Smh.

This OP could have arranged the death of his friend so as to use his certifications.

ADENIKETINA2015:
The story get Bow leg join sef. How's it possible
Nollywood gist

my dear na im mk me ask. Bt mayb dt DeltaIgboYoruba gal fit nor sha

yomi007k:
I am surprised that Nairalanders can even support this Fraudulent Op.

Maybe wen u guys die, someone else will start using ur degrees to work.



No good woman will stick with u if they know the truth.



Your wealth is ill-gotten, it will leave at last.

what makes the op different from those of you who pay machinary to write ur exams for you.i dont think there is anything wrong with that and i dont think the op is telling the whole truth cause this certificate saga is not enough reason for the babe to dump him.there is more to this story.

damocool:
You're forgetting something bro, RESTITUTION..

Yea, but I believe restitution is dependent. .. that is, sometimes the spirit insist on restitution, other times, silence.

haftob:
Don't be afraid and don't try to kill the lady. A similar scenario happened to my dad, someone is using his result to work and my dad is cool with it since he is nt using it and so that the result won't be a waste. So ion see anything bad in wat u did.

Hmmmmm, then what is your dad using

db10dtruth:
Fellows I need help.

During my early uni days I got carried away by extra activities which pretty much cost me academically and even if I am among the best in my dept my result suffered, as a result my CGPA was embarrassing to say the least.

Upon resuming 300 Level, a good friend of mine did not resume, after a few weeks I was worried as you would expect so I traveled down to his family's house to inquire since his number was not going through and was told about his sad demise. He had an accident which cost him his life. I was saddened by what had happened because he was really good and was most probably the 4 best student in the dept, strong CGPA, a 2.1, he was really good not just academically but he had pure natural talent and the way I see it was the hope of his family.

On my way back so many thoughts were running through my mind....my result is poor and there's absolutely no way I can improve on that and still graduate with a 2.1 or even a 2.2 so I made a resolution.

On getting to the hostel I reflected on the whole thing and decided not to tell anyone but our course adviser. My friend was not the type that socialize, some persons in the dept don't even know him that well. He does all his things low-key, he's a very private person so I made an arrangement with our course adviser where I managed to convince him that it will be a shame if he's hard work is allowed to go to waste and amount to nothing, as usual with financial persuasion he allowed me to write his exams, I wrote both our exams until graduation where I graduated with a 3rd class and him a 2.1.

To cut a long story short, I did a change of name and began using his result; all this without anybody's knowledge but me and our course adviser.

It was very complicated but somehow I managed to use his result and even studied abroad with it, got my masters and other professional certificate before I got a 6 figure job in Lagos and came back home.
Ever since I got back I have been doing really well for myself and I have gone as far as taking good care of his family financially as well as training his siblings in school and presently sponsoring 2 in the university. I rented an apartment and bought his dad a car, I know it will never suffice for what their son may have done but I'm only trying the little I can to compensate for their loss as well as for pretending to be their son without their knowledge.

About 8 months ago I met a girl and we fell in love, we've been dating and 2 months ago I pooped the question and she accepted. We've been making our wedding arrangements but ever since I feel I have been hiding my real self from her and decided to tell her what I did many years ago. Initially there was no reaction but then this week she came to me and said she cannot get married to a fraud and gave me back the ring.
I'm scared and confuse she may ruin everything, she may reveal my secret which obviously will get me fired and most definitely a jail time. I don't know what to do, I have tried to reason with her and have done way too many explanations but she's not bulging. I don't want to go to jail and I don't want to lose my job. I'm really confuse. What can I do to change her mind or make her not to tell on me or get me fired or even worse go to jail?

Please I need help, real help please....you guys should share your wise words. I can't tell any of my friends, I can't tell anyone about my secret, this is the only place I can pour our my heart and seek advice.

I am dying inside. I have gone through a lot living this life of lie and its so hard but I cannot come clean, not now maybe not ever.


Cc: Lalasticlala

who cares, you said you've done a change of name and you also completed his exam and yours.what proof did has she.I don't think she gas any proof.besides women are d dumbest to can everly rely on.their thought is upside down. Sory for your friends lost but it was not as if he's alive and you stole it. Go ahead,don't even think about telling to keep it for you.pretend as if nothing happened and expect the worst,which I'm sure it will amount to nothing if you are strong.from the look of things,you've got a heart of gold.as lond as you're not involved in you friends demise and you didn't do anything to her to warrant such break up.let her be and move on with your life.shikena

damocool:
Bros I hail ooooo, all of ur actions were all against the Bible and even the law of the land, you lied, sworn falsely(change of name) , using another man identity to defraud(salaries gotten from ur place of work), deceived the school you got ur master degree and so on... Given doesn't even recognizes ur efforts on ur friend's family not to talk of offerings or tithes given at the church if at all u go to church... You never God's forgiveness bro and must also restitute ur ways, open up ur deeds to the school, the parent of ur friend and ur place of work and even return ur MSc certificate back telling them what's behind it. Though before doing this u never to see ur pastor for counselling on how to go about it, hard though, but it takes the grace of God and ur personal conviction, if genuinely born again ooo. Well the choice is yours, gain the whole world FALSELY and lose your soul to hell fire, if only you're a Christian and believed in the Bible though.. May God help you. And for the lady, she's done the right thing for now, though she might probably make a u turn, if she does same punishment is also hanging on her as yours (and even to the NL advising you other wise. Romans 1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.). My thoughts though... End time desperation..

You are not God, stop judging. You're simply basing your opinion on sentiment.

Kill Her Nd B Free Again.Anyway She Killed Herself.

Toktee:
Take her to your pastor or her pastor,xplain everything to him,and waite for his response,tell her you are not forcing her,but she should pls follow you to the pastor to confess your sins,if she love you,she will obey by hearing that u want to confess.

Bros i guess you didn't read this post very well,am not the one involved abeg.

db10dtruth:
Fellows I need help.

During my early uni days I got carried away by extra activities which pretty much cost me academically and even if I am among the best in my dept my result suffered, as a result my CGPA was embarrassing to say the least.

Upon resuming 300 Level, a good friend of mine did not resume, after a few weeks I was worried as you would expect so I traveled down to his family's house to inquire since his number was not going through and was told about his sad demise. He had an accident which cost him his life. I was saddened by what had happened because he was really good and was most probably the 4 best student in the dept, strong CGPA, a 2.1, he was really good not just academically but he had pure natural talent and the way I see it was the hope of his family.

On my way back so many thoughts were running through my mind....my result is poor and there's absolutely no way I can improve on that and still graduate with a 2.1 or even a 2.2 so I made a resolution.

On getting to the hostel I reflected on the whole thing and decided not to tell anyone but our course adviser. My friend was not the type that socialize, some persons in the dept don't even know him that well. He does all his things low-key, he's a very private person so I made an arrangement with our course adviser where I managed to convince him that it will be a shame if he's hard work is allowed to go to waste and amount to nothing, as usual with financial persuasion he allowed me to write his exams, I wrote both our exams until graduation where I graduated with a 3rd class and him a 2.1.

To cut a long story short, I did a change of name and began using his result; all this without anybody's knowledge but me and our course adviser.

It was very complicated but somehow I managed to use his result and even studied abroad with it, got my masters and other professional certificate before I got a 6 figure job in Lagos and came back home.
Ever since I got back I have been doing really well for myself and I have gone as far as taking good care of his family financially as well as training his siblings in school and presently sponsoring 2 in the university. I rented an apartment and bought his dad a car, I know it will never suffice for what their son may have done but I'm only trying the little I can to compensate for their loss as well as for pretending to be their son without their knowledge.

About 8 months ago I met a girl and we fell in love, we've been dating and 2 months ago I pooped the question and she accepted. We've been making our wedding arrangements but ever since I feel I have been hiding my real self from her and decided to tell her what I did many years ago. Initially there was no reaction but then this week she came to me and said she cannot get married to a fraud and gave me back the ring.
I'm scared and confuse she may ruin everything, she may reveal my secret which obviously will get me fired and most definitely a jail time. I don't know what to do, I have tried to reason with her and have done way too many explanations but she's not bulging. I don't want to go to jail and I don't want to lose my job. I'm really confuse. What can I do to change her mind or make her not to tell on me or get me fired or even worse go to jail?

Please I need help, real help please....you guys should share your wise words. I can't tell any of my friends, I can't tell anyone about my secret, this is the only place I can pour our my heart and seek advice.

I am dying inside. I have gone through a lot living this life of lie and its so hard but I cannot come clean, not now maybe not ever.





Cc: Lalasticlala

Samson and Delilah.

Just call ur fiancee that u were testing her love for u and she failed the test

you shouldn't have told her. People die with 70 year old secrets, dammit!

OP of course she dumped you
Your life is built on foundation of lies
You are a thief ...... Don't become a murderer too

Hmnn....

U just 4 urself up and the course adviser.. I smell jail but u can escape this by leaving the country because she might have told someone maybe her family the reason she can't get marriedd to you.. And there wahala comes ...pls don't kill and don't let any spiriual doctor ,pastor decieve u.. They can't help this matter..

See why marriage is bad...

Mr Undertaker, u try well........in conclusion u died so dat d dead cud live again

Please,what is the title of this movie?

ify84:
Hmmmmm, then what is your dad using

My dad is nt working with it, he's a farmer

Yr story sounds fictional.....how did you sit for the two exams?....i'm nt saying dt tins like this dnt happen. I'v heard alot of stories of impersonation....


*Lesson for thoz who scan & email their original credentials during application*

Kill her then....


What you did is a crime in the sight of God and Man


I don't support evil


Confess and be free


Live a free life!

Nemesis99:
This is why I keep saying love is fraud. She accepted to be yur wife buh doesn't wanna love you anymor cuz you had a dark past. I bet her past is worse than yours. WOMEN SHA!!! Everything about 'em na lie even when they say I LOVE YOU

but why is this the woman's fault though.

Dn't b decivd, quit d job and start afresh wit ur 3rd class. Xcpt u dn't care abt eternal life.

Teempakguy:
i can't solve this problem.

usually, the most effective way would be to just kill her and silence her forever, but, i'm thinking that's not what you really want/need to do at this point.

however, the best thing you can hope for is that she doesn't tell anyone. and that if she does tell someone, then the person is inconsequential. i mean, i don't get it. if you studied abroad with his certificate, then it means you got good at what you were pretending to be, right? i mean, it's fraud, but still . . . she should at least understand that, and it's perfectly fine if she doesn't want to live with you any more, but she should at least shut up . . .

come to think of it, why are you asking us for advice? you're literally asking us to help you break the law. we should hack your ip address and find out where you're posting this from so we can personally hand you over to the police.

U too watch American feem...