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cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

MrsPhyno:
These are the kind of ego boosting /pathetic/ stories that guys m*sturbate to......

If u like her stay if not go what's the big deal.....

400billionman:
All women are thesame, if you like her, marry her..

All of them have little brains.

Hope say you done build house dis one you dey cruise tundra ?

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

IamLEGEND1:
na you get ur life. just cut ur own share and be on ur way.

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

Obynolee:
The is how he will mess up his destiny,do you think that it's all girls that you will mess with and go scout free??.Let every guy that wants to survive in this life be careful the way he mess with girls.

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

HelpeeDeck:
from your words, you sound like the type of lady this guy just mentioned here...life isnt this way

simongonner:
enjoy the honey pot and dump the bit*h...

cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

cashcity:
I met dis lady when I was serving in gboko, benue state last year. She was serving in the same local government with me. Problem started when she secured a small job as Secretary in one private company within town. Her take home pay was 30k person that. I noticed she no longer comes to my apartment as often as b4 and she hardly picks my calls. I will call her like two or three times in the morning as usual, she will not take the calls. At night I ll call again like two or three times to know how her day goes, she will still not take the calls or even flash me back when she sees the missed calls assuming she wasn't around when I called.
To make the matter worst,she started using another guy's pics as her WhatsApp profile pic. I took to my heel and entered her lodge and started demanding explanation of why she's treating me bad all this while, and what was the meaning of the pics on her WhatsApp. She wanted to walk away from me but I drew her back. She saw the fury in my face and calmed down to listen to me. I told her that all our corper friends knows abt me and her and they have her contact, means they are her WhatsApp friend. I told her that I dnt really know what she say dat I have done to her, but if she don't luv me again Dat she shud plssssssss don't DISRESPECT me like this. I told her that if she keeps on changing different pics of dis guy on her watsap, dat life Wil be hard for me over here because of the pride we have established in our relationship. Pals I know in life, there is a way you will build a relationship that is soo famous in ur environment, no matter how small ur area will be, it will be difficult to move on or live in that environment when u broke up wit ur partner. Thank God she understood me and called me " baby, pls don't go and kill urself", that the guy in question is her cousin. She said she is always stressed in her work, that is why she has not been visiting me dis days. She gave me a kiss and a hug. The truth is that the hug and the kiss saved a soul dat night from getting hypertension.
After the fiasco btw us, she started taking my calls, though I was the one doing the "callings" for weeks. She starts her watsap charts with me like dis..... "hey",...." guy",... "oboy sup".." u still dey alive ". (though in a funny way). She uses one of my pics as her profile pics but she edited d pics to be so dull as if it was taken with a 1megapixel phone. A pics I took with my galaxy S4. lnfact am d only person to know it's my pics . she removed d pics and put back that guys own d next day. She assaulted me in different form. I have not seen that guy in real life but the difference pics of the guy I kept on seeing on her profile wit expensive necklaces and wrist watches that comes wit the guy's atire forced me to accept defeat in dating her cos he seems very rich.
I started calling her my x girlfriend, though none of us have said "it's over".
Just two months to our passing out in June dis year(2014 batch B),job opportunity came up, trust corpers in lodge, info circulate that federal university of agriculture is recruiting non academic staff. This my x girlfriend called me for first time in three months since our relationship was strained and told me abt it that I shud come to corpers lodge. I was happy and rushed down to lodge. She showed me a photocopied paper where different departments and there requirements are stated. I studied mechanical engineering from polytechnic wit upper credit, she studied secretarial study and therefore chooses one in skul administration office. As an engineer, I choose lab attendant(technogist) in mechanical dept. I told my X how important it is for us to visit the skul and enquire how eligible we are due to lack of discharge cert. we picked a day together, went to the skul, met d director in charge of employment. We sat together in directors office, discussed and he assured us to apply that b4 the intake and interview will come up that we might have gotten the nysc cert. Me and my X rushed out, configure our CV in near by cyber cafe asap and returned to directors office within 45mins. The man was amazed ask us..... "are we married corpers?". My X said no that we are good friends. I pretended as if I didn't hear her and we sat down. He called his secretary to come and take our CV to where others were kept. His secretary was on his way to the "Ghana - must-go" where other CV are kept. He called him back, took our CV, open his office table drawer, and gently lower our CV there.. Director started gistin us and in directly toasting her. It doesn't matter to me cos all I wanted was to be shortlisted and he has assured us that.
We traveled back home feeling happy as if we were just given an appointment letter. She followed me to my apartment in town because it was already late. She bleeped hell out of my life dat nite and gave me hope dat she has changed,, that she will start putting me ahead of her job...
Just a month and few days later, lists were published. Another batch B corper that travel in time told us that our names were among.
I entered book Shop bought two current affairs. Gave her one and preparation starts. I ransacked current affairs front and back.... "I no wan wait for buhari to choose ministers". I crammed all the ones he have chosen. And on my x girlfriend side, she told me she was preparing but I know her work wunt help matter..
To cut the long story short. We went for the intake together and I succeeded and she didn't. We passed out June dis year and I remained in my apartment waiting for interviews day and she continued her work at least for the month to run out. I researched everything concerning mechanical engineering laboratory, equipments and it's uses. God helped me as he has been helping me, everything I was asked in that day I answered it.I was given appointment latter to resume proper by 1st August.
I told her abt it she was happy for me. Few days later she removed that her cousins pics and replaced it with her own pics.. She started calling me everyday wit a smooth watsap chart. I remained silent and kept on observing her. Just two days of using her pics, she changed it to my pics, my birthday pics, as bright as anything even an old man of 100yrs can see it clearly. I was like GOD,,, "is this how love of a thing really is" ... Just a twinkle of an eye relationship have already changed.. I have never even started work. She now goes to work from my house, spends her money to cook for me, clean houses like professional maid.
I took time to analyze this my luv story hoping to get good advise from my fellow nairelanders.. Am currently dating a new girl in my place of work and I love her so much but this my x. still calling and disturbing me. I still have feeling for my x girlfriend but what she did to me still hurts. The truth Is dat, if she hadn't called me to give me the info I wudnt have applied. Again, It was her Beauty that attracts the director and subsequently made him to give our CV a preferential treatment,or else I wudnt have been shortlisted and she is currently using these evidences to pin me down.. Am in a middle of dilemma right now... Mature advise plssssssss

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

firstEVA:
All of you saying fuk her fuk her, I smh for you, not all guys are dogs

VenusBetty:
bad advice, just tell her she's not your type

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.

festusperry:
badt guy I site u...exatly wat he should do ohh...

firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.