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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by mykohayz(m): 1:41am On Dec 06, 2015
simdam500:
after seein d above on front page, i was like "which silly mod modify the topic to this" but i guess i hate to say this, the mod did d right thing... How can a lady open a thread to spit this crap and guys are commending her to say more... Its soo gross...

I hate to talk sex online but maybe i'll break my rule for the op. Men use female for sex, infact women are seen as sex machine. Take a look at music videos, look at manniquine (before u see a male, u will see 10 female). Between both sexes, who sees oneselves as an entertainment tool for d other...


Dont get me started with pørñ, who is been dominated Who is to be used(submissive). When 3some is mentioned, what comes to mind first? (MMF)... Why so?

To some point, i think the guys that are hailing u have no idea what you are talking about, but it good. Not all guys on nairaland are dumb that is why the mod that modify ur topic for front page is smart enough to know what is right.

Who is expecting to be rewarded after sex? Who believe after sex, i should give her cash?
Which of the sexes believe after fvcking, u shouldn't be with any other person or he/she get jealous?

Op. If i(or any guy) take u in now, UnCloth u and make out. Do u think after the whole pleasure, i will dress u up? think my sister, u are already used. If i dress u up? It because i want u again tomorrow...



Off Topic: am sorry for any vulga word in my reply... I take it all back... Women are really the salt of the world... Bless

1m likes for you bro, you spoke my mind exactly.

The only sensible response to counter the Op assertion, I couldn't have agreed less,
Well thought out and articulated. Thumbs man

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(f): 1:44am On Dec 06, 2015
Flashh:
A whòre is talking. Girls like these whose body has been overused don't deserve bride's price at all.

This is what I hate about most Nairaland guys, whenever a girl encourages sex, they will start asslicker her all over, but they won't open their eyes to see the disadvantages of it.

I'm highly disappointed in most of you.

Must be really shocking that a girl likes and talks about sex.
What is the world turning to?

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 1:46am On Dec 06, 2015
e nor safe again for this end time o... women dey carry dong gun inside trouser purse nowadays o and if them catch you no mercy o grin so make you do your eye like this shocked shocked shocked

cyprus000:


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Omo na him safe passgringrin
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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(f): 1:47am On Dec 06, 2015
iykedare:


You feel like you are using your boyfriend. No you are not.He is the one using you. His dick gets bigger with more s3x while your punny get wider with more sex.
He is depriving your future husband of fresh punn.y.

In Nigeria,even bus conductors can get some girls. Lets not forget that most Nigerian girls are so cheap.

Lol

If a woman can give birth and her vagina goes back to its original state after ward... Sex with a six inch dickk will not widen the pussy.

You need to learn biology.

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by kinglekan: 1:48am On Dec 06, 2015
Classicman47:


B?tch U need to calm the fvck down!!!

U must think u are some kind of Superstar cuz u typed this crap.

Have u ever heard the word "fornication" and do u know it's a sin?

I bet u haven't.


I bet you learnt _Bitch and _fuck from your bible?

_fucking douche tryna sound like a smartass. undecided

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(f): 1:49am On Dec 06, 2015
Malakh:
the attributes you gave for an average woman is a ho which you are

Lol!
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by kinglekan: 1:50am On Dec 06, 2015
dejavu231:
a woman wrapper spotted shocked grin



undecided undecided

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(f): 1:51am On Dec 06, 2015
Malakh:
she is no woman of substance she's a ho, didnt you read her article

Because I have sex and enjoy it with my partner.

I guess most men and women are hos then

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by ireneidiva(f): 1:51am On Dec 06, 2015
Classicman47:


B?tch U need to calm the fvck down!!!

U must think u are some kind of Superstar cuz u typed this crap.

Have u ever heard the word "fornication" and do u know it's a sin?

I bet u haven't.
Using profane words is also a sin. The person committing fornication and the person using profane words will end up in the same place btw.

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(f): 1:52am On Dec 06, 2015
biookuta:
forgetting that some women bring in bastard child in d family.

Forgetting all the men that sow all these bastard seeds.

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 1:53am On Dec 06, 2015
there is nothing shocking about it the point we are making if you don't know is that girls that talk sex openly are perceived as hoes... it's called common place


raayah:


Must be really shocking that a girl likes and talks about sex.
What is the world turning to?

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(f): 1:57am On Dec 06, 2015
dejavu231:
there is nothing shocking about it the point we are making if you don't know is that girls that talk sex openly are perceived as hoes... it's called common place



Why is it limited to girls alone. How about men that talk about sex?
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by cyprus000: 1:59am On Dec 06, 2015
isalie:
e nor safe again for this end time o... women dey carry dong gun inside trouser purse nowadays o and if them catch you no mercy o grin so make you do your eye like this shocked shocked shocked

grin
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 2:04am On Dec 06, 2015
ok look at it this way during the period when she is carrying the baby inside of her she is vulnerable but the man is still free to do anything he wants... that's makes him have the upper hand over the woman unless a woman doesn't want to have children

i don't have to type much to drive in the point. the is a huge gap but then each has a role in the natural scheme of things


raayah:


If a woman can give birth and her vagina goes back to its original state after ward... Sex with a six inch dickk will not widen the pussy.

You need to learn biology.

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 2:08am On Dec 06, 2015
how many men have you seen talking about sex? if you are referring to polygamy i would know ho to respond


raayah:


Why is it limited to girls alone. How about men that talk about sex?

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 2:14am On Dec 06, 2015
ok


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but you still be woman wrapper cry

kinglekan:



undecided undecided

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by raayah(f): 2:16am On Dec 06, 2015
dejavu231:
how many men have you seen talking about sex? if you are referring to polygamy i would know ho to respond




Lol.. If you are going to deny that men talk about sex then there's no way to have a reasonable conversation with you.
Bye!

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by repogirl(f): 2:18am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:
Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.

The world has changed, previously females were afraid to explore their sexuality believing they would be termed as whores and even when they did, it was to please the males. The females were eager to please males who were unworthy of them and took pleasure in using and dumping the females and that was where the idea that men use females just for sex.

Now, most females are into sexual relationships for their personal enjoyment although there are still a few who believe sex is the only way to hold a man down in the relationship. If any female is of that mindset, she is setting herself up for being used.

You and I share the same opinion though OP, you can't be used unless you place yourself as a rag to be used anyhow. If you are in a relationship with a guy who's not worth you then you will end up being used and abused but if its with someone who has mutual feelings of love and respect for you, there is no way you can be used in that kind of relationship. You two can only grow.

In summary, ladies stop dating boys, douchebags and begin dating real men. angry

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by kinglekan: 2:19am On Dec 06, 2015
dejavu231:
ok

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but you still be woman wrapper cry



And i still don't give a _fuck what an irrelevant piece of crap like you thinks. undecided


How about you _fuck off now kiddo. grin grin smiley

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 2:27am On Dec 06, 2015
i bet

raayah:



Lol.. If you are going to deny that men talk about sex then there's no way to have a reasonable conversation with you.
Bye!

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 2:32am On Dec 06, 2015
saying it twice doesn't make you tough nor using the f word make you fly biatch
woman wrapper grin


kinglekan:



And i still don't give a _fuck what an irrelevant piece of crap like you thinks. undecided


How about you _fuck off now kiddo. grin grin smiley

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Classicman47(m): 2:42am On Dec 06, 2015
kinglekan:

I bet you learnt _Bitch and _fuck from your bible?
_fucking douche tryna sound like a smartass. undecided
Well done!!!
Woman wrappa!

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by kinglekan: 2:45am On Dec 06, 2015
dejavu231:
saying it twice doesn't make you tough nor using the f word make you fly biatch
woman wrapper grin




Neither does repeating the words "woman wrapper" make you any more than a piece of gabbage with a dilapidated vocabulary stock.

So how about you keep _fucking off _pussy. grin

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by kinglekan: 2:46am On Dec 06, 2015
Classicman47:


Well done!!!

Woman wrappa!


Thank you Sir. grin grin grin

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 2:51am On Dec 06, 2015
lol this must be a girl in need of 5ex or not? just so you know i'm not into guys grin


kinglekan:



Neither does repeating the words "woman wrapper" make you any more than a piece of crap with a dilapidated vocabulary.

So how about you keep _fucking off _pussy. grin

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by kinglekan: 2:53am On Dec 06, 2015
isalie:
lol this must be a girl in need of 5ex or not? just so you know i'm not into guys grin


undecided undecided


Ki tun le leyi nitori olorun?

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by warrior101: 2:55am On Dec 06, 2015
lol i have been observing the guy as a guest too the buy needs help

isalie:
lol this must be a girl in need of 5ex or not? just so you know i'm not into guys grin


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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by warrior101: 2:59am On Dec 06, 2015
you said you didn't give a 4ck but you are giving him a Bleep every now and then a typical example of an olosho. why him nor go confuse?


kinglekan:

undecided undecided


Ki tun le leyi nitori olorun?

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Nobody: 3:20am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:


Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.


Girl! your mentality, response and presumed maturity is off the hook. How about a glass of wine together someday?
Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by smileysmiley(f): 3:56am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:


Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.


thanks sister, I tell my boyfriend times without number that I've sucked him dry... if someone uses the other for sex, its the woman cause the guy loses protein which nourishes the woman sef so I wonder who is being used... its very common to see a fat glowing wife and a skinny husband and they say we are the ones being used allow them bash in their fame, we know better

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by ccollins(m): 4:28am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:


Thanks for your input. You are what I call a BETA Male.

Let me give you an example - Take a look at Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. She is the richest African woman in the world. She is happily married to Modupe Alakija for 37 years.
Mrs Alakija is a business woman, she goes to work, meets important and successful men everyday. Most of these men are handsome,intelligent and even richer than her husband. Yet she comes home to her husband every night.

Do you know who an ALPHA MALE is? Mr. Modupe Alakija is. He has a wife that is at the very top of her game in the world, yet he is strong enough to lock that pussyy down for 37 years. He is not bothered that his wife meets with men who are better than him. He knows that he is worth more than that to Mrs. Alakija.

A BETA Male like you would prefer his wife to be locked up in the kitchen because you know that are not worth It. You are scared that if she goes out there, she will meet men that are better than you. Which is correct, you are not worth shiit and you know that.


while a woman should be loved, she should be treated lower in status.. it is this rubbish perception of modernism and exposure that brings lots of problems and complications from women folks,women being relegated to kitchen was part of reasons our fore fathers lived longer.. these days all in name of reformist agendas of 21st century ,you see rubbish like unmerited feminism, equality which is unrealistic and stupid comparisms of beta and alpha males to satistfy their jealous ego on men and justify there wanton stupidity and complicated characters by having a mirage and deluded thinking of having equal status to men, all this are nonsense from female folks, even though I do not like islam due to it's faith. it seems that the women section of being submissive is quite a forward one

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Re: He's Only Using You For Sex - Debunked by Malakh: 4:30am On Dec 06, 2015
raayah:


Because I have sex and enjoy it with my partner.

I guess most men and women are hos then
yes they are, if you are not married and you aren't a virgin or married and you indulge in sex, you's a hoe/dog

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