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Happy Sunday peeps, I met her couples of month ago, she is pretty, caring and educated. I ask her out and she gave me a trial, although I was in Lagos then and she was @ Kwara hoping to join her in 3 weeks time coz am going their for other things which will cost some month, within that period of 3 weeks we were afar she saw a picture of an handsome guy and she flirted with the guy and the guy is like a nephew to my mum best friend. I caught her and she apologised and she has really changed to my taste, she's everything I want in a woman.,I continued with the relationship. Now my parent heard about everything from the guy she flirted with when the guy knew I want to marry her, my mum has totally disagree with the relationship and am in love with her Plz what should I do. Front page pls ur advice will be highly welcome. Thanks

I'll be back #In Arnold Schwarzenegger voice

Danfuster:
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As in.... "Full-stop"

The people below me would have something 2say...... Meanwhile, ope am not ftc??

BRO she is not right for you, dont marry her, listen to your parents becaus that girl will only break your heart in the future, what u feel for her is infatuation and not love, that your cousin could have slept with her behind your back if he was a sharp guy, "a responsible or a wife material wont flirt with a guy when she knows she has a boyfriend, that is so wrong.

U have the choice...if u really insist to be with her til death do u both apart then fight for ur love til u win her...

whoever you marry will live with you forever. she will not live with either of your parents. I hope you understand what I mean

you said she has changed so i'll say this.Contrary to what most people in my country believe, parents are not always right. I feel all parents who forbid their children from getting married to the person they love JUST because they belong to a different cast/ country/race need a serious reality check,stop being selfish, and respect their children's happiness and choices. You owe it to the woman you love, and most importantly yourself to stand up for what you want and believe in. Let your parents bother about the world and 'society. As far as you are concerned, you should marry this woman if you want to and if that upsets your parents,so be it.Why is it so important that they 'accept' your wife anyways? Does your wife accept in laws who judge her by her past? I think that is the bigger problem here. You owe your parents a lot of things, but betraying someone you love should not be one of them....ever.

benedictnsi:
As in.... "Full-stop"

Kikikiki guyyy!. I hope say you vex say I beat you to
FTC.

Love can be so so stupid atimes.

Danfuster:
Kikikiki guyyy!. I hope say you vex say I beat you to
FTC.

Lol...... Vex ke
which FTC you d talk about

They saw love is blind. Bros u need binoculars. The elders ve seen the future already.

Havent been in your shoe before but experience has taught me to place my family before any other thing..

Michellla:
you said she has changed so i'll say this.Contrary to what most people in my country believe, parents are not always right. I feel all parents who forbid their children from getting married to the person they love JUST because they belong to a different cast/ country/race need a serious reality check,stop being selfish, and respect their children's happiness and choices. You owe it to the woman you love, and most importantly yourself to stand up for what you want and believe in. Let your parents bother about the world and 'society. As far as you are concerned, you should marry this woman if you want to and if that upsets your parents,so be it.Why is it so important that they 'accept' your wife anyways? Does your wife accept in laws who judge her by her past? I think that is the bigger problem here. You owe your parents a lot of things, but betraying someone you love should not be one of them....ever.

i concur

My brother i don't understand why you are afraid of the future? You shouldn't!, life it self is a risk. Besides, you love this babe and she hasn't done anything that bad. I believe a man should go for what ever wants and damn any consequences. Afterall, no one know tomorrow.

another criminal abusing/disrespecting the world LOVE shamelessly!