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Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 11:17pm On Dec 09, 2015
Keep on, maybe she might give u a listening ear
pelij18:
You might want to get angry but not really with folks you love like the one i do. We are humans and not withstanding any of her actions are purely human. I solely wish i could get tuned with this hot spirit. But i love her.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by SmartMugu: 11:32pm On Dec 09, 2015
1money:
Just give her time, stop pestering her for now.

Meanwhile, buy slap watches now at wholesale prices. Sell at baby shops, supermarket and other stores.
See my signature for details.
How much time does she need? He just said this happened in April. OP, are you still bleeding from an injury that happened in April? It's December now. If you spent 8 months trying to get a girl back, how much more time do you have for other things within a year?
I'd bounce if I was in your shoes. Other girls are praying for a man like you.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by SmartMugu: 11:37pm On Dec 09, 2015
pelij18:
Not in my case. An intimate friend caused it all for an april prank. I believe i ran beyond my majors but really really, i'm madly sorry with her and yet nothing is turning out. Anyway most comments here are calming me down. I would tryout most advice by morrow and see how things could get twisted.
It's December, just move on. Another April is just a few months away. Don't waste away making someone feel you're desperate.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by dkronicle(m): 7:00am On Dec 10, 2015
halfrica:
Na wa o

Human feelins u no get

I pity ur gf

Chai
I f*cked up on sat, I begged my g.f on monday.. Everytin is settled... So I should be begging for 2weeks and be depressed when some other girls are looking for loyal and honest guys.. Mtchew beta grow up if u still think like his G.F
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 7:05am On Dec 10, 2015
I can say anything here until i know what happened, @op u broke her hearth right?
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 7:07am On Dec 10, 2015
dkronicle:
I f*cked up on sat, I begged my g.f on monday.. Everytin is settled... So I should be begging for 2weeks and be depressed when some other girls are looking for loyal and honest guys.. Mtchew beta grow up if u still think like his G.F
Grow up for wat??

U av no human feelins dats it
Niggas like u are d ones with a cheatin gf

A true nd sincere girl wud tink like op's gf

Lemme tink like dat happinesss above any other thing abeg

There is nuffin honest nd loyal wit wat op wrote there nuffin!!!!!!!!!! If m d gf i will do more i only felt sorry for op wen he said its takin away his happiness after dat i see nuffin else to support op wit
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by dkronicle(m): 7:17am On Dec 10, 2015
halfrica:
Grow up for wat??

U av no human feelins dats it
Niggas like u are d ones with a cheatin gf

A true nd sincere girl wud tink like op's gf

Lemme tink like dat happinesss above any other thing abeg

There is nuffin honest nd loyal wit wat op wrote there nuffin!!!!!!!!!! If m d gf i will do more i only felt sorry for op wen he said its takin away his happiness after dat i see nuffin else to support op wit
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.Just chill, if u lov ur bf, u will know how sincere he is begging, how can u tell me d girl loves him and she can't just forgive.. Is she dumb to understand dat her guy felt jealous when he heard she was cheating.. If am dat guy, I will even date her close friend.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 7:25am On Dec 10, 2015
dkronicle:
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.Just chill, if u lov ur bf, u will know how sincere he is begging, how can u tell me d girl loves him and she can't just forgive.. Is she dumb to understand dat her guy felt jealous when he heard she was cheating.. If am dat guy, I will even date her close friend.
huh huh

I kno i cant nd wont cheat on my bf huh huh so to me its nt a point honestly!!!!!!!


Well as for op gf did he catch her red handed cheating huh huh

U guys wud just b doing fala folo most times


Now dis whole shitt reminds me of my bf

If u reading this dear bf av forgiven u bt u on suspension for a month meaning no even cum my side atall huh huh Bt i forgive u sincerly

Cos i dont av prove of all wat i said was tinkin like d genius m nt crycrycrycry
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 9:06am On Dec 10, 2015
pelij18:
I have pleaded, pranked her to be crying, and even cried real in her presence and yet she doesn't want to forgive me. The last time we spoke on phone she asked me never to call her line again, and that she cares less about me and hates me like ebola.

I know most folks do come in and throw lies here but wish you guys would realize how real i am asking for your advice on how to gain the heart of the only lady i love and really want to love for eternity.

Just a little mistake is costing me my entire joy and happiness per day, God why. I need you guys help please.

Thanks.
op you have done the best you can do which is realizing your mistake and apologizing but since she s still adamant then just let her be...my days of begging any girl in this life are over..when s not a mouth watery contract am begging for...the more you beg the more thwir head sweel n will end up in d arms of another guy...Mumu don get sense
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 9:12am On Dec 10, 2015
misspicy:
If your bae is someone like me....oga forget about her....because once i close my heart from a person,am so done with them gringrin
well that's for guys that have low self esteem, cus som1 like me If I apologize after I realize am wrong n Ur still acting otherwise ill just let u b n u il b d 1 to com n beg especially when u see me again happy.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by misspicy(f): 9:23am On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
well that's for guys that have low self esteem, cus som1 like me If I apologize after I realize am wrong n Ur still acting otherwise ill just let u b n u il b d 1 to com n beg especially when u see me again happy.
you did not get my point did u?
lemme explain
see am the forgiving type just a sorry is enough no need whining and begging but if it gets to a point that i eventually lockup(stop caring or giving a Fck) then no turning back and yes i have met people like you,we just go our seperate ways life continues,funny thing is they always come.back even if its 5 years later tonguetongue by then i must af moved very far on gringringrin and no i dont roll with wussy's


no one hurts a forgiving woman crush,she lets go
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by pelij18(op): 9:31am On Dec 10, 2015
SmartMugu:
How much time does she need? He just said this happened in April. OP, are you still bleeding from an injury that happened in April? It's December now. If you spent 8 months trying to get a girl back, how much more time do you have for other things within a year?
I'd bounce if I was in your shoes. Other girls are praying for a man like you.
I understand you, but i've spent better on her. Not only for that, but i just love her. I've tried moving on for the past month but got stuck again.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by pelij18(op): 9:34am On Dec 10, 2015
silvermania:
I can say anything here until i know what happened, @op u broke her hearth right?
Yah i did... I i ran out of common sense and was so gullible.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by pelij18(op): 9:39am On Dec 10, 2015
halfrica:
Grow up for wat??

U av no human feelins dats it
Niggas like u are d ones with a cheatin gf

A true nd sincere girl wud tink like op's gf

Lemme tink like dat happinesss above any other thing abeg

There is nuffin honest nd loyal wit wat op wrote there nuffin!!!!!!!!!! If m d gf i will do more i only felt sorry for op wen he said its takin away his happiness after dat i see nuffin else to support op wit
How foolish i was... Doing that was never me. If only she could understand that my happiness is depreciating on beep; she might not want to be a bit heartless..

I've always been loyal and honest to her all the long while we dated. Unfortunately i turned gullible and was crushed. Nothing pains more than this, even injury.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 9:43am On Dec 10, 2015
pelij18:
How foolish i was... Doing that was never me. If only she could understand that my happiness is depreciating on beep; she might not want to be a bit heartless..

I've always been loyal and honest to her all the long while we dated. Unfortunately i turned gullible and was crushed. Nothing pains more than this, even injury.
talk to her


Pray she aint like me or misspicy if not

cheesycheesycheesycheesy

oga u are on ur own
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by pelij18(op): 9:45am On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
well that's for guys that have low self esteem, cus som1 like me If I apologize after I realize am wrong n Ur still acting otherwise ill just let u b n u il b d 1 to com n beg especially when u see me again happy.
Hint me on this please.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 10, 2015
pelij18:
Yah i did... I i ran out of common sense and was so gullible.
i won't support u on dx uncle, on a serious note, I don't see any genuine reason for a partner to cheat in any relationship. If it were me no matter what i won't take u back sorry, but i pray she does give her time. Best of luck
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by pelij18(op): 9:50am On Dec 10, 2015
silvermania:
i won't support u on dx uncle, on a serious note, I don't see any genuine reason for a partner to cheat in any relationship. If it were me no matter what i won't take u back sorry, but i pray she does give her time. Best of luck
I don't think you are in line with this thread. I didn't cheat and not her either. Please read through the thread.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 9:58am On Dec 10, 2015
pelij18:
I don't think you are in line with this thread. I didn't cheat and not her either. Please read through the thread.
oh sorry, just give her time.
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by firstking01(m): 10:11am On Dec 10, 2015
mehnn....i'd realised oflate dat guys these days love more than gals...wats happeninghuh
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by firstking01(m): 10:13am On Dec 10, 2015
EverLily:
Tell us what you did to her. If you don't take time, she'll capitalize on your mistakes and turn you to mumu.
She hates you like Ebola? That's a deadly comparison. The girl hates you bad. Please try and move on, I think she has gotten over you.
Maybe we'll have a better advice if you tell us what you did.
wow @ur siggy...sealed wit a kiss...do ya knw dat songsmileyhuh?....nt a song of dis century o...if u sabi dat song, i doff my hat for....
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 10:29am On Dec 10, 2015
firstking01:
wow @ur siggy...sealed wit a kiss...do ya knw dat songsmileyhuh?....nt a song of dis century o...if u sabi dat song, i doff my hat for....
I no sabi the song o embarassed you still doff your hat for me?
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by xtervaganza(m): 10:29am On Dec 10, 2015
Oponu ayirada
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by firstking01(m): 11:12am On Dec 10, 2015
EverLily:
I no sabi the song o embarassed you still doff your hat for me?
hahahaha...c'mon, i knw u knw d songcheesy...cos its a rare song
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 11:21am On Dec 10, 2015
misspicy:
you did not get my point did u?
lemme explain
see am the forgiving type just a sorry is enough no need whining and begging but if it gets to a point that i eventually lockup(stop caring or giving a Fck) then no turning back and yes i have met people like you,we just go our seperate ways life continues,funny thing is they always come.back even if its 5 years later tonguetongue by then i must af moved very far on gringringrin and no i dont roll with wussy's


no one hurts a forgiving woman crush,she lets go
funny how they keep coming back as if their money lost there undecided mean while il just durst my legs n move on after wishing you best of luck cus am so sure you won't find some like me n il come back begging tongue
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 11:29am On Dec 10, 2015
pelij18:
Hint me on this please.
there is a thread i wrote on some of the things i learnt from my last relationship and one of them is this.

"NO woman wants to date a man that NO OTHER woman wants, finds attractive or places some sort of value on"..so since you have pleaded with her and if u continue, you il seem like a pest in her life, you il make her feel your life s not better of without her and most of all you il push her to the arms of another...i know is hard cus have been there b4 but just act normal, greet her when you see her and move on..stop the calling and texting you il only make her head swell..she will end up calling and accusing u of seeing some els...thats when you let her know you wanted to give her the space she needed, works for me though
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by misspicy(f): 11:29am On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
funny how they keep coming back as if their money lost there undecided mean while il just durst my legs n move on after wishing you best of luck cus am so sure you won't find some like me n il come back begging tongue
and you are so surehuh

dude you are hilarious...kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa....gringringringringrin

okay lemme tell you a little about myself,i believe in upgrading,i mean after a phase of life i believe i should do better than the previous ones,eg i do a business makes some money,close the business,i will surely do anoda business but a better and more profitable one.....tonguetonguetongue

thats me
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 11:33am On Dec 10, 2015
halfrica:
Grow up for wat??

U av no human feelins dats it
Niggas like u are d ones with a cheatin gf

A true nd sincere girl wud tink like op's gf

Lemme tink like dat happinesss above any other thing abeg

There is nuffin honest nd loyal wit wat op wrote there nuffin!!!!!!!!!! If m d gf i will do more i only felt sorry for op wen he said its takin away his happiness after dat i see nuffin else to support op wit
was this one saying self undecided undecided...so a guy should keep begging you till thy kingdom come or what?
ladies like you are the type i like to date cus if i do you wrong and apologize and your still make a drama out of it, will just let you be till you have calm down and if you don't want to calm down will still let you be..wont let any lady kill my self esteem when am sure they are no saint as well..
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by Nobody: 11:41am On Dec 10, 2015
firstking01:
hahahaha...c'mon, i knw u knw d songcheesy...cos its a rare song
smiley
The song is rare? The more reason I wouldn't know it grin
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by firstking01(m): 11:46am On Dec 10, 2015
EverLily:
smiley
The song is rare? The more reason I wouldn't know it grin
btw, wats ur gendersad?
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by schumastic(m): 11:47am On Dec 10, 2015
misspicy:
and you are so surehuh

dude you are hilarious...kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa....gringringringringrin

okay lemme tell you a little about myself,i believe in upgrading,i mean after a phase of life i believe i should do better than the previous ones,eg i do a business makes some money,close the business,i will surely do anoda business but a better and more profitable one.....tonguetonguetongue

thats me
bruhahehheh i laugh in hebrew grin grin i swear u never jam or v u not heard of the saying? when two iron jam one must bend...
well n u expect me to downgrade as well huh obviously i would stand in a better position cus am a guy tongue also i can get a gf n won't settle for less but you being the lady grin not praying o cus i would wish u well after moving on but u might end up his side chick cus am sure u il wait well b4 u see a better guy than i am cool
Re: Please Help Me... My Girlfriend Is Costing Me My Entire Happiness. by misspicy(f): 11:52am On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
bruhahehheh i laugh in hebrew grin grin i swear u never jam or v u not heard of the saying? when two iron jam one must bend...
well n u expect me to downgrade as well huh obviously i would stand in a better position cus am a guy tongue also i can get a gf n won't settle for less but you being the lady grin not praying o cus i would wish u well after moving on but u might end up his side chick cus am sure u il wait well b4 u see a better guy than i am cool
kikikiki lmao @ wait well...i like that you are so sure of yourself but sorry to burst your bubble,af you heard of friendzone,side nigga etc before,guy if am really in the mood to get engaged again,its so easy as swallowing eba.......besides its not pride some of us got them flocking around you know tongue....no reason to wait at all.
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