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well, maybe i dont have anything occupying my time or just something i think i have to throw out to let some people perhaps guys know some things about having relationships with relatively young girls. i wont lie at a point i was in the-same shoes. well me bringing up was a a result of increasing complaint my lil brother (no blood strings ) tho,brings to me for for a little bit of advice. i dont know why but some how hes comfortable sharing them with me, starting from the problem of his last relationships ,the breakup saga and the behavior exhibited by the ex at the point which was pretty strange and rather childish. (but from my angle it felt like some of those nollywood films unfolding before my very eyes).
into the matter proper then, not delving further into unnecessary stories ,the complaints were, having to be the one to apologize most, even in scenarios where he aint even guilty, dealing with mood swings,withdrawals and as a result to this case he has to be careful in the way he handles issues,personally i know the girl,she quite cute tho, she aint built for any form of verbal bashing not to talk of physical. so he came to me and said the other day "would i be wrong to break up with her" sighting whats above and more, and im like yo. take it easy i understand and i truly i do. told him to take it slow at-least its been all rosy until this point i concluded and that breaking up was not yet an option. I'm sure most of yall would want to know the ages of these individuals.My bro is 22 and she sixteen.yea! it happens.
my point now though, minors are usually easy for much older guys to get, so some guys make out time to date them, but eventually they come with complains which in my opinion is theirs to solve. usually if in terms of age their most suitable for a long time relationship whereby the dude might need some time to hustle before settling down. such girls can wait unlike the relatively older ones. though their are advantages to this there's a whole lot more of disadvantage(s).
ending this now is a problem....well if youre dating a minor don't expect too much, they're young and sometimes dumb, but as a guy any reason whatsoever you've given yourself to date one stand up straight to address your problems and don't use your advantage of age and maturity to turn such a relationship into an abuse and exploitative one...........

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@op, i get ur point but your post lacks punctuation

Meanwhile, Let me stop-by & read comments...

This is a sensible thread... But the OP's presentation and punctuation leaves much to be desired. Nice points, though. If u have to date a minor, be prepared to deal with unnecessary drama, emotional instability and what have u... But, pls, do not be exploitative!

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is when you make a point with less words and lines

op try that next time

dating a minor has its advantages and disadvantages....she s emotionally unstable:u have to be understanding in dealing with her

breaking up with them can be difficult cos they think u have been exploiting them all along..

Thr r so many minors in my street, imagining myself trying to get close to just one is embarrasing...

Slimbeth:
dating a minor has its advantages and disadvantages....she s emotionally unstable:u have to be understanding in dealing with her

breaking up with them can be difficult cos they think u have been exploiting them all along..

its just bad... One could b charged for rape

Cutehector:
its just bad... One could b charged for rape

of course it is...
it's a matter of choice tho