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Re: I Need Help!!!! by Ballmer: 3:46am On Dec 15, 2015
You are heartless n wicked. I mean how can any human be mean to the extent of disrespecting a lady that is already pregnant for you n even contemplating abandoning her because of another girl.

Well I guess God understand how he does is own thing. Dude my advice is that you should understand there are going to be many more kittykats even after marriage. You need to learn to make your women feel loved. It's effect might not be immediate but trust me it's enduring.

Contemplating aborting a child because of another Kittykat does not make sense no matter what story you have to back it. What you have is what someone else might just be longing for all lifelong. Appreciate your woman n be proud of her not compare her with some whatever.
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Nobody: 6:21am On Dec 15, 2015
mummydirect:

Abegiiiiii go siddon, u r a wicked guy. I so much dislike olojukokoro men like u. Mind u if u leave your first girl, I will join her in cursing you which am sure, by Gods grace the curses will work on you. Foolish and greedy stroke selfish and wicked guy that is exactly what u are. Habaaaaa, fear God and do unto others as u would they do unto you
Don't mind d ungrateful being

He is trying to justify his silly actions wit a lame excuse
Re: I Need Help!!!! by samtol4(m): 7:43am On Dec 15, 2015
@Op -I think you need serious prayers and deliverance .You have been Bewitched !You saying u want both to be pregnant shows something/force is controlling you .Hope ladies can learn here and should not accept any long courtship .That is why am advocate of short courtship .When courtship is too long men especially players would find excuse and fault to dump a lady who has spent years toiling and building a relationship .Long courtship has done more harm than good .
Re: I Need Help!!!! by samtol4(m): 7:44am On Dec 15, 2015
Greekgoddess:
Don't mind d ungrateful being

He is trying to justify his silly actions wit a lame excuse
Indeed very silly excuse surely he will not be faithful in that marriage
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Nobody: 10:07am On Dec 15, 2015
samtol4:
Indeed very silly excuse surely he will not be faithful in that marriage
U r very correct


It is guys like him dat gives other guys bad names
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Denilaw(m): 10:51am On Dec 15, 2015
Ballmer:
You are heartless n wicked. I mean how can any human be mean to the extent of disrespecting a lady that is already pregnant for you n even contemplating abandoning her because of another girl.

Well I guess God understand how he does is own thing. Dude my advice is that you should understand there are going to be many more kittykats even after marriage. You need to learn to make your women feel loved. It's effect might not be immediate but trust me it's enduring.

Contemplating aborting a child because of another Kittykat does not make sense no matter what story you have to back it. What you have is what someone else might just be longing for all lifelong. Appreciate your woman n be proud of her not compare her with some whatever.

You can call me any name in the world and I will take it. I blame myself for all this.
But please don't don't refer to the second girl as a kittykat. Trust me, I tried my damnest best to see her that way so I could concentrate on the first girl but the more I try to see her as sex doll the more I see that she's much more than just a kittykat. Trust me I've had my share of kittykats so I know what I'm saying. She's a rare treasure!

I'm not comparing the first girl to any other girl but the truth is that I love the second girl and this happened before the first girl got pregnant. And no I don't want the first girl to have an abortion even if I don't marry her. I will take care of the baby and we will remain great friends.
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Nobody: 11:10am On Dec 15, 2015
Denilaw:


You can call me any name in the world and I will take it. I blame myself for all this.
But please don't don't refer to the second girl as a kittykat. Trust me, I tried my damnest best to see her that way so I could concentrate on the first girl but the more I try to see her as sex doll the more I see that she's much more than just a kittykat. Trust me I've had my share of kittykats so I know what I'm saying. She's a rare treasure!

I'm not comparing the first girl to any other girl but the truth is that I love the second girl and this happened before the first girl got pregnant. And no I don't want the first girl to have an abortion even if I don't marry her. I will take care of the baby and we will remain great friends.
I will remain great friends?

Guy u don't have a heart

Do you think it will be easy for her, how do you think she will feel

If it's me i will consider u my enemy NUMBER 1

I will tell my child dat his/her daddy is dead, cos u don't deserve to be anyone's father

Wat ever u sow u must surely reap

Remember karma is a bi*ch

Wat ever u do to her u must surely receive it ten times over

I will surely join her in placing a cos on u

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Re: I Need Help!!!! by Denilaw(m): 11:18am On Dec 15, 2015
Greekgoddess:
I will remain great friends?

Guy u don't have a heart

Do you think it will be easy for her, how do you think she will feel

If it's me i will consider u my enemy NUMBER 1

I will tell my child dat his/her daddy is dead, cos u don't deserve to be anyone's father

Wat ever u sow u must surely reap

Remember karma is a bi*ch

Wat ever u do to her u must surely receive it ten times over

I will surely join her in placing a cos on u

Sorry ma. But would it make me a better person if I married someone I don't love knowing very well that my heart belongs to another? Don't you feel it may be better not to put the first girl through the agony of being married to a man who loves another woman?
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Nobody: 11:25am On Dec 15, 2015
Denilaw:


Sorry ma. But would it make me a better person if I married someone I don't love knowing very well that my heart belongs to another? Don't you feel it may be better not to put the first girl through the agony of being married to a man who loves another woman?
Nd u just realized dis after 7yrs?


Y didn't u let her go earlier, she would have found someone better than u

Nd please don't MA me, am not in the mood for dat
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Denilaw(m): 11:28am On Dec 15, 2015
Greekgoddess:
Nd u just realized dis after 7yrs?


Y didn't u let her go earlier, she would have found someone better than u

Nd please don't MA me, am not in the mood for dat

Yes I blame myself and I'm so sorry. May God forgive me.
Re: I Need Help!!!! by cashcity: 11:28am On Dec 15, 2015
That is why I trust my Muslim brothers. they won't have problem with dis situation. they will marry two of them at d same time or even three if there is another....
back to ur questn :
pls marry the one that stole ur hrt the most, the one no other girl can be compared to.the second swt baby to avoid waking up one day regrating why u married the 1st or even start cheating on her with the 2nd one... it doesn't matter how many yrs u have stayed wit a particular person the most important thing is getting that heavenly feeling u can't just live without.
Re: I Need Help!!!! by fumstar(f): 11:50am On Dec 15, 2015
Greekgoddess:
It's cos of guys like u dat made me to believe that love don't exist

7yrs?

Guy u r wicked angry

I don't blame you

I blame ur first woman for staying with u all dese years

It is now u know dat both of you r having issues

Wen new pussy never come dere were no issues

Mind u, d devil u know is better than the angel u don't know




@ Greekgoddess, dont mind him. True love still exists, it might be rare but it surely does exist. It makes ur entirely life more beautiful. Wait 4 it.
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Nobody: 12:40pm On Dec 15, 2015
Denilaw:


Yes I blame myself and I'm so sorry. May God forgive me.
Oooh now u r wishing forgiveness frm God

Just cos he is a merciful God does not mean dat we should put him to the test

If ur woman cries in his presence nd God sees how hurt she is, how broken she is, i bet you ur punishment will come earlier dan u expected


If only.....
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Denilaw(m): 1:02pm On Dec 15, 2015
Greekgoddess:
Oooh now u r wishing forgiveness frm God

Just cos he is a merciful God does not mean dat we should put him to the test

If ur woman cries in his presence nd God sees how hurt she is, how broken she is, i bet you ur punishment will come earlier dan u expected


If only.....

I know you really want me to marry the first girl but I strongly believe I will be doing her more harm than good by marrying her while my heart is somewhere else.
I know I will somehow pay for this and I can only pray for God's mercy while giving justice because I am truly sorry.
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 15, 2015
Denilaw:


I know you really want me to marry the first girl but I strongly believe I will be doing her more harm than good by marrying her while my heart is somewhere else.
I know I will somehow pay for this and I can only pray for God's mercy while giving justice because I am truly sorry.
Wat ever floats ur boat
Re: I Need Help!!!! by just2okworld(f): 1:35pm On Dec 15, 2015
Denilaw:


I know you really want me to marry the first girl but I strongly believe I will be doing her more harm than good by marrying her while my heart is somewhere else.
I know I will somehow pay for this and I can only pray for God's mercy while giving justice because I am truly sorry.
What a selfish man you are!!!

After 7years,you are just realizing you don't love the 1st gal?
May you never be forgiven your sins o,cos this is gidi gan o!
Re: I Need Help!!!! by Nobody: 1:45pm On Dec 15, 2015
fumstar:





@ Greekgoddess, dont mind him. True love still exists, it might be rare but it surely does exist. It makes ur entirely life more beautiful. Wait 4 it.
Tanks alot dear

It's cos of guys like him dats y most girls are scared to fall in love

Cos we don't know who is a wolf in sheep clothing

I don't blame most girls dat don't put dere eggs in one basket

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