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| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Dimmy20(m): 11:43am On Dec 16, 2015 |
U av a serious problem sir....u need d wisdom of God. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Ewizard(m): 11:44am On Dec 16, 2015 |
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| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by henrysam(m): 11:44am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Tell her you know all about her sexcapedes and that you have forgiven her but if she continues you might not be able to bear it again. Life is give and take unless you have not sinned against her before. Even if u need to give her a second chance though very difficult but life must go on If you decide to throw her out. The next one that will come how do you figure how she will be in terms of behaviour and infidelity. 15 years is not a play man. Move along with your life |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by 1miccza: 11:47am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian:Thumbs up. People no longer see cheating as a problem or sin . It's a sign of the end of days.. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Bdemmy(m): 11:47am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian:But is it round? |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by 1miccza: 11:47am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian:Thumbs up. People no longer see cheating as a problem or sin . It's a sign of the end of days.. Op dump her and remarry ASAP.. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Gerrard59(m): 11:48am On Dec 16, 2015 |
He should pray for her to change - The typical response given by majority of Nairaland males when a man cheats on his lady /wife. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by mart2k(m): 11:49am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Realwvn:Now, if men were asked to com out, I bliv u wil show face. Shame on u, uar not a man at all if not, u wil not b here asking us wat to do next. If I were u, d story wud v been 'how I divorce my miserable wife'. I op uar wise enof to understand d msg m trying to pass to u. Just go ahead n make us proud by doing d needful. Dnt forget to update us. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by cupidhero(m): 11:49am On Dec 16, 2015 |
This story no happen for west Africa. Na nairaland be this. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by teemy(m): 11:50am On Dec 16, 2015 |
@Realwvn King James Bible Matthew 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so So if you feel yourself as hardhearted do not bother reading through to the end if you know you would never let this go but from the tone of the write up of the man of this story I believe this is not so. Also I have to add that it is you and not anyone else who would have to live with the outcome of your conclusion so decide well. What has been done has been done and now the cleanup. For your union to succeed do try and see if there remains hope. Get your wife admit to her error without the evidence and see if she owns up and if not show her the evidence and if she still denies it then you have in your hands a chronic liar. Owning up would allow you ask her what was the difference she sought in the other guy. From your write up I feel the tuneup for her was the dirty talk instead of the kinkiness of sex. I believe you ought to have known this if words affect her a lot somewhere along the line in your relationship. Ask her if she wants to break it up and what steps she would take to ensure it does not happen again. Never raise your voice to her at this point if you truly want to know her heart. You really wanted to bond more with wifey hence your trying to spice up things on the marriage bed but you married someone who believed in getting out of situations with lies. Henceforth outlaw all forms of lying in your home either from you or her and dissuade her from friends that do. I do hope you find it in your heart to forgive her else that could live with you even if you decide to go your different ways. She is your wife, play her buttons once again to own her soul. Wishing you well - Teemy |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:50am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Ewizard:LoL ![]() Thankyou... ![]() Uh...Still learning actually...Still in Process! ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by alobright17(m): 11:50am On Dec 16, 2015 |
I have no reason to blame you but all I have to say is for you to let her off your life she don't deserve you let her be with the new guy and receive her karma check. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:51am On Dec 16, 2015 |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by youngibeh(m): 11:51am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Realwvn:Bros am sorry to say this but you have to end it now! or else that's what you will get. Even the bible made it very clear in that aspect The Bible gives two clear grounds for divorce: (1) sexual immorality (Matthew 5:32; 19:9) and (2) abandonment by an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:15). Even in these two instances, though, divorce is not required or even encouraged. The most that can be said is that sexual immorality and abandonment are grounds (an allowance) for divorce. Good luck!! |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by danton(m): 11:52am On Dec 16, 2015 |
To me is over between us... I CAN NEVER NEVER SHARE A ROOM WITH HER AGAIN |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by miqos02(m): 11:52am On Dec 16, 2015 |
divorce her |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Qualer: ![]() ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by darlenese(f): 11:52am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Bro u don't need any advice , u only want a listening ear to lighten ur heavy heart! How did I know this? Because ............ 1. You said u love her very much = u cannot leave her 2. You don't want to start all over again = u cannot leave her 3. You have forgiven her = u can never leave her no matter the gravity of sin she commits against you. Its unfortunate. Confront her and continue to spy on her |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by mart2k(m): 11:54am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Confessng:THRASH |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Qualer: 11:54am On Dec 16, 2015 |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by badonkadonk: 11:56am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Realwvn:I blame the Willy Wonka.. The troubles willy causes these days it would soon overtake boko haram in the devastation it causes.. Wat to do..? Nna! U spose know say it's not bout the size or the thickness buh bout the skills and techniques u can perform... You no perform the kamasutra well, so kamasutra expert was called upon... Just be patient... Wait for the day your wife do mistake gree u knack am.. Make sure u are well fortified and supplemented.. Arrange this gin called AGBARA.. Then unleash the dragon... Thank me later |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by mart2k(m): 11:59am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Michellla:What!!!! Those who bliv dis sh.it aint get any sense. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by chccho(m): 12:01pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Op I feel very bad for u, for your own good I will advice u separate from her for a while like 3-6months.This is a very delicate issue and u might think that u have forgiven her but I tell u that feeling and thought of all she has done will continue to taunt u..so u need some time alone,u need some deep thinkn, don't rush into just salvaging the marriage that's a very wrong move. Free yourself from her, rediscover and then u will decide whether u can cope or not...meanwhile just calm the tension n depression u are going thru u need to start F*ckn someone else for now..trust me it will help u. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Qualer:No fücking way! ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by chekasforchekas: 12:03pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Poison her and marry another woman. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Larryfest(m): 12:03pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
U shud pet her and buy her a car probably pay for a romantic get away for her n d oda man cos u luv her rite?tel her 2keep up d gud work ok u just startd digin ur grave....Nonsense! |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by shakurkings(m): 12:04pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Your wife cheated on you and you asked what you should do. Hello sir, there's love in sharing. ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Boyooosa(m): 12:05pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
rickyalphonsus:I did not read where u advised him to first compel her to do std test, then elasticity test ss well, cos even she never contact std, there is tendency dat the guy for don scatter d kings palace which might make bleeping together unenjoyable for the rest of their lives. This situation is more dangerous Dan divorce. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Qualer: 12:06pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian:mmmhhhh! i see what you did there it's all good babeneed to meet then.... got RBA on me mind and you caused it!! ![]() |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by gabicon: 12:07pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Realwvn:I think the problem is your conception on forgiveness. Forgiveness means you stop talking and thinking of the wrong done you. Secondly forgiveness is of the heart same way love is, your head will try to picture the episode over and over but you heart has to tell your head that you have forgiven your wife. Your wife is venerable after you caught her and a vacuum of guilt is needing filling, the question is are you going to fill it or are you going to allow her lover fill it? If possible take sometime off work check you and your wife in a hotel outside town and talk about how you feel to her and ask questions about her affair, and her sexual disposition and most importantly forgive yourselves. You may be surprised that the whole affair was your fault, yes she had no moral right to cheat but you also had no moral right to starve her of attention and sex. |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by stephnie44(f): 12:08pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Realwvn: |
| Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by cee001(m): 12:08pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Dotwillis1:2 wrongs |
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