Naughtysite:
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Fine.
Hope yur story wasnt about me ?

lol so u do such? *straightface*

So a guy asked you to cum to his house and you are complaining. Na so una take dey pursue husband go. And you wonder why some women don't make heaven. tufiaaa!!!

It's becos d guy doesn't rate d girl,meaning she is cheap(indomie 60naira n one boiled egg 30naira wld do). For a guy to take u out(tantalizer,chinese restaurant,etc) n spend so much moni shows d respect n 5star rating he has for u . .

There are things you don't say out because some girls that is exactly what they want to hear . House is always adventurous and there is always privacy. It even good that a guy tell a lady that let go to my house. U don't even knw maybe he want to take you to mama. Let me remind you may b u don't like the guy. If it's a guy you like, d guy don't even need to ask. U will be the one to ask.

wat I mostly reply is "are they sharing money in ur house",and den d dude will b like u very funny,it's just annoying

shantelrandy:
..No b small thing ooo,u ain't d only one in dis,I once met this guy who gave me a lift to my destination infact that day I was so happy after standing under the sun for Hours waiting for bus or taxi,..I thanked him very much after he dropped me off,He asked for my number which I gave him..My sister d next day d dude called me and ask me to come to his house, I was so pissed and I asked him what is happening in his house and told him we can chil anywhere else. He said ok but that will b tomorrow, d next day he din't call, the following day he said dsame thing that I should come and spend the night in his house, I should come and cook for him.Which I refused, till date we have never gone to anywhere to chill, if he calls me today, the next thing is I should come and spend the weekend with him.He stopped calling me for sometime

why is it so difficult for some girls to understand not all guys what a serious relationship. From what u just narrated, it is obvious he does want any serious relationship with u. But mind u sometimes the visit to his home could mark the beginning of something real

d most annoying part is this u'll meet a guy today d next day wat u will hear is
guy:wen are u coming to my house?
me:wat am i coming der to do?
guy:nothing i just want you to be comfortable with me
story for d gods
some will even say"am not really d outgoing type,dat d reason i choose my house atleast we'll be more comfortable der

cekhoe:
wat I mostly reply is "are they sharing money in ur house",and den d dude will b like u very funny,it's just annoying

In my opinion I feel a responsible guy won't ask u to come to his house at first. He should ask u out on a date first in a very nice place not his house. It only shows u don't respect the girl if u invite her to your house at first.

naughtynaughty:
lol so u do such? *straightface*

I do.

You know ?

It's just a crazy world we living in now. Everything that made life fun and interesting is now seen as boring and we just want to hit it right away... Fu*ckin jet age for the kids. Not grown up like me Sha.

Bgorgeous:
Guy talk true, bottom line is sex

no...I disagree......
if I ever invite u to my house is for u to meet my sisters.....
anything other than that......
HOTEL OR RESTPOINTS

When u met a lady and u exchange number, the next thing is "pls I need money, can you send/give me money" like seriously, you know... So nasty

some times I do invite some responsible girls over to my place........but it's not for any ulterior motive..

U get bad mind, that's y u dey think like that.

Na your house I wan come before?

We want you to get acquainted with the place, na una last bus stop be that? Abi ma guys no be so

Ok. Let me come to your house then, Abi na under mango tree you prefer?

I don't know for dz ladies o...when I have loads of foods in my kitchen dats looking for who go cook am or drinks in ma fridge...oya tell me are I invite u go hotel or bar abi....later na d same woman go talk say baby u need to save money for our future if u really want to be wid me....

naughtynaughty:
I mean you meet a guy newly, maybe exchange numbers because you think he is smart, he calls and the next thing is 'can you come to my house'?? Like seriously? Honestly its becoming so boring and annoying nowadays.

What's it with guys nah? Cant you guys patiently woo a lady without adding the 'come to my house' talk? Its a big turn off for me, whats there to be done in your house that we cant do elsewhere?

Is there some solution to global hunger in your house? Orishirishi. It's so common nawadays that you wonder if guys have lost their minds on dating etiquettes. My new friend has turned this come to my house talk into a daily anthem ooo..no be small thing.

The thing is..80prcnt of the men who invite ladies to come to their house at first meeting have no good intentions at heart..and y'all need a slap to reset your brain on how to properly woo a lady. Lord save guys of dis generation

Am I d only one in dis?

Funny enough op, guys don't even do the much talk in wooing again, jst normal get to no each others and boom..itz done

ronald4lif:
Hmmm, if them no come my caba where them wan go nau? Abeg them must show make we 'relate'.

But on a serious note, the 'come to my house' has become a cliche and boring. The thing about ladies and life in general is about standing out from the crowd, and they'd do your bidding guaranteed. For the fact that at least 7 out of 10 guys she meet for the first time would make entries for her to come over to their place means she won't consider anyone who does same serious. So how about being sui generis and be outstanding from her numerous admirers, this would pique her mind and motivate her to know you better.

Imagine a scenario, where you meet a new girl, become friends and explore out on different dates without requesting her to come know your place or even mention it. She'd be the one to initiate moves of coming over albeit indirectly so she doesn't appear wayward. It's reverse psychology and works perfect.

Some guys are just impatient and lack of steadfastness often leads to undesirable outcome. The moment you start being too bumptious towards a lady the more they become distant. A sharp shooter should never mind about how long it takes him to release the bullets but the precision of the bullet to his intending target.

I don't blame the guys for their ' come-to-my-house' syndrome;it is the ladies that reduced themselves to ' ground zero' level. Nigerian ladies have lost dignity, totally

Cutehector:
so where will this better understandin be established?

Ofcuz a place where they'll finish ur pocket couple with their escort friends

Chukzy44:
ur type is d chepest of all,stop waggin ur mouth,like aconfused puppy its easier said than done....mtcheew...

lol@d chepest ure so much in a hurry to type dat u won't check ur tenses meanwhile I see ure one of dos brain damaged guys dat once u meet a girl nxt is come2my house. Kobo kobo broke ass ashawo boy

Sharoniah:

HELP,he is giving me bb pin,,should i accept or not,,or maybe i should go to his house,,but i'm under-age

It's a harmless gesture.@ sharoniah

pirazo:

It's a harmless gesture.@ sharoniah

i've sent you a pm

JudgementHammer:
Lolz. That's for guys who ask for it. Me..ask a girl to visit my house. Over my dead skelenton. When girls are begging to come see me at home and I keep them on good suspense. Them know me for my street. Na from work to house except church. My friends that I visit don't stay in my community. How many of all the jekojeko girls are of good moral standard for my liking. Its d guys who can't control their sex appetite that makes them think they're worth something. Ordinary safety pin worth more than them to me.

Did you just say safety pin? Bros fear God na.. Why do you derive joy in condemning people? And na that safety pin you go marry.

jerryfunky:


no...I disagree......
if I ever invite u to my house is for u to meet my sisters.....
anything other than that......
HOTEL OR RESTPOINTS

we're talking about guys who stay alone

sisipelebe:
Did you just say safety pin? Bros fear God na.. Why do you derive joy in condemning people? And na that safety pin you go marry.

Tufia. Jump and pass. I reject am and send back o. Shuu

Your name, post and picture weird. End time.

oya since u dont want the house meeting.......maybe we could get to meet at the bush @jxt sayin

JudgementHammer:
Lolz. That's for guys who ask for it. Me..ask a girl to visit my house. Over my dead skelenton. When girls are begging to come see me at home and I keep them on good suspense. Them know me for my street. Na from work to house except church. My friends that I visit don't stay in my community. How many of all the jekojeko girls are of good moral standard for my liking. Its d guys who can't control their sex appetite that makes them think they're worth something. Ordinary safety pin worth more than them to me.

Gbam!!

Who get that kind time?.... even babes wey I Don know for years I dey give excuse... I'm not just comfortable with peeps coming to my house be it boy or girl...if I tell you to come to my house, know say I trust you with my life.

In Ibibio, what we say is "kanna di". I'm a guy but the truth be told, those stringed words annoy me to my marrow. if only ladies will be contented with what they have and stop depending on guys to pick up pins for them, then such catch phrases will be stale. if you go to their chalets, your lives will not remain the same, trust me. They will slice you like sliced bread as guys as of late do not have regard for ladies.

JudgementHammer:

Tufia. Jump and pass. I reject am and send back o. Shuu

Y are u rejecting it na? Is safety pin not better than a woman? Nonsense!!

Having read extensively some comments on this, I humbly submit that
1: it depends on who you dealing with male or female.
2: age is also another determinant.
3: purpose, vision and character is another. You know who you are and what you want, private or public.
4: be security conscious male or female. Take note of the address, have a close confidant send it to the person. Don't make it a private issue. That's for ladies. With the accusations and counter accusations of rape, guys make sure a responsible adult, know she's coming. Be detailed. Private information comes latter when you both can trust each other.
5: ladies also try and invite him over if you are of age. I prefer to be invited over. If she has responsible people or family, they will be the first to assess me and tell her.

There is nothing private about visiting or outing. We all should not abuse motive. Happy Sunday