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teach by dante300(m): 11:37am On Dec 20, 2015 |
Probs |
Re: teach by braine(m): 11:47am On Dec 20, 2015 |
Its quite a problem. But love conquers all. Besides, you can't just decide to leave after 8 long years. Just marry her and let everyone find out later. Please don't break that girls heart. 2 Likes |
Re: teach by Melahou(m): 11:49am On Dec 20, 2015 |
If you truly love her then go ahead and marry her. God will make a way. |
Re: teach by sben2308(m): 11:50am On Dec 20, 2015 |
Bro I love ur courage I must tell u and also wanna open ur eyez to this that nowadays there r ways to detect an SS genotype baby early and u can easily flush from her womb without damage and effects. Also a medical way of knowing which baby will not be SS. Just my opinion 1 Like |
Re: teach by Nobody: 11:50am On Dec 20, 2015 |
LOVE conquers nothing bro, ure are not meant 4 each other period, pls bros as hard it may seems, i urge u to forgo d relationship for the benfit of ur health and that of ur unborn children. |
Re: teach by braine(m): 11:51am On Dec 20, 2015 |
softappless:Their kids would be AS and I think that's fairly okay. There are SS people who live well. I suggest you don't discriminate against them as they need love too. sben2308: AA and SS can't produce an SS child. This is what happens when you refuse to pay attention in Biology class. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: teach by dante300(m): 11:53am On Dec 20, 2015 |
Than u s much for understandinng. Exactly my plan. I want them to find out later.she may be ss but am suffering from a worse condition than ss and its love |
Re: teach by dante300(m): 11:54am On Dec 20, 2015 |
Thank u brotherly |
Re: teach by Nobody: 11:54am On Dec 20, 2015 |
i read a story of an 89 year old ss. She is Nigerian too. If you love her, then marry her. We all die some day. I hope she manages her condition well enough because that is more important and that would be the only condition i would advice you don't go further with her. But if she does, then by all means go ahead with you plans. 1 Like |
Re: teach by Nobody: 11:54am On Dec 20, 2015 |
Well the decision is made already. You love her and she is someone you can marry. If she loves you back then that is settled too. As long as she is willing to be your wife. The next phase will be your families supporting you and standing by you. As for her friends or others who may think you are marrying her out of pity. I do not see how this should concern you. They are entitled to their opinions. I do not see how what people think or what you feel that people think should bother you. You marriage is you and her and to some extent your families. Forget all this bullishit about ''dont bother about your family, she is the one you are getting married to bla bla bla''. You will need their and the support of your family. She will also need her family's support. Try as much as possible to make sure both families are in agreement and acceptance of your decisions. Your kids will all be AS. So, they will have to marry AAs. If they marry an AS they have one in four chances of getting an SS. You must know that pregnancy is a challenge for SS women. The stress of pregnancy at times becomes too strong. She will need to be properly cared for and observed. With proper care she will put to bed safely. 1 Like |
Re: teach by Nobody: 11:58am On Dec 20, 2015 |
braine:MR lecturer thank u but when it comes to the life and health of my kids, i dont do fairly ok, i want perfectly ok as in top notch, i know iv not given birth to kids, but trust me when i do, then they are my joy and life. |
Re: teach by Cpumping(m): 11:58am On Dec 20, 2015 |
chairman, I dnt exactly see wat the problem is? u love her too much? she is too emotional? she doesn't reciprocate ur love? she is ss? u dnt want pple to say u married her out of pity cuz of her ss condition? wch one of these is ur problem. u sd u love her so much, then marry am na, as the ss issue no be issue. |
Re: teach by braine(m): 12:01pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
softappless: And they're more important than their mother?? AS people are just as normal as AA and AC. The only issue is that they carry the recessive sickle cell gene. Stop discriminating. 1 Like |
Re: teach by dante300(m): 12:02pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Cpumping:the problem is maybe as a result of the societal descrimination,she is predisposed by the fact that I may at some point regret the marriage so therefore she is rather scared than myself. Pls understand |
Re: teach by Nobody: 12:07pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
braine:offcourse not, if i dont love my wife then i wud nt get married to her in d first place, "its the profound and divine LOVE that i will have 4 her that is what will make me propose to her, dats why im taking my time and life before going into any relationship becaus my next girlfriend will be my life partner, thats my goal. |
Re: teach by Nobody: 12:08pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
braine:i am nt discriminating |
Re: teach by braine(m): 12:09pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
softappless: So?,Did op tell you he doesn't love the girl? I guess you've answered all my questions. |
Re: teach by torqque7(m): 12:10pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
My brother Ss is not a death sentence, a lot of people die everyday who are AA and are supposedly 'healthy"..besides in case u don't know,there is a cure for the disease now,its different from the previous bone marrow thing, even tho its kinda similar..as long as u guys love each other genuinely then I'll advice u to go ahead and wife her asap before someone beats u to it,this life is just crazy,u could end up with a wife who is not Ss and she will make ur life hell,happiness is all that matters in life,I'll rather be very happy with someone even if its just for a few secs than to be miserable with another for a lifetime.. choose wisely 1 Like |
Re: teach by dante300(m): 12:10pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
softappless:this is not a prayer but have u considered the fact that even when two people are healthy before marriage things could go wrong along the way?I am not praying for any ills towards u but that's reality. If God forbids the man or the woman looses an arm or leg or even fazed with stroke. Wat will u say? 1 Like |
Re: teach by dante300(m): 12:13pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
torqque7:wherever u are or what u do may God visit u with blessings...u are a reasonable human beign. Thank u to a fault 1 Like |
Re: teach by agarawu23(m): 12:14pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
dante300:Mr man, our life is in God's hand and I blv anybody can 'peme' at any fvcking time. You don't need our advice before u marry that lady cos u already knew her condition from day 1 (8yrs). It will be hard for that Lady to start all over again and I want u to understand that there is no saint out there nowadays cos all ladies gat their 'tag' which we guys must adapt to whether we like it or not. I wish both of u success 1 Like |
Re: teach by Nobody: 12:18pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
dante300:GOD 4bid, but if it happens to someone else, like i said a wife loosen her hands will not affect the health of the kids, what im concern abt is the health of the kids, as for the wife take her to USA in newyork and with few surgical operations her hand will be recovered. |
Re: teach by OKONJIBEN: 12:24pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
hmmmmm |
Re: teach by torqque7(m): 12:26pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
dante300:Amen..thanks 1 Like |
Re: teach by Nobody: 12:26pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
dante300:oga ss or sp or sd or s wateva no b crime.marry am joor 1 Like |
Re: teach by dante300(m): 12:28pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
softappless:from ur last post sir, it is clear that your opinion on this issue is handicapped. Sorry for using that word. I am not pleading for your advice. If u had read from the begining their is a difference between advice and opinion. Yours has no objection at all. Just outright descrimination and misunderstanding f the entire topic as a whole |
Re: teach by Nobody: 12:33pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
dante300:yeah i totally agree with u, pardon me bcaus i did not read the story. 1 Like |
Re: teach by Disneylady(f): 12:41pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
braine: *ROTFL* |
Re: teach by eyinjuege: 12:42pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
dante300: Love nwantintin o... There's no problem marrying someone with SS provided you are AA. Your kids will be fine. However, SS patients need to pay constant attention to their health. She needs to be going regularly for her sickle cell clinic. Pregnancies should be booked as early as possible and extra care taken during pregnancies. Pregnancies must be well spaced, like 4 to 5 years in between pregnancies. This is to allow their bodies to try and recover. They must be regular on their medications. Any form of illness eve if its common cold shouldn't be joked with. Goodluck sha, since you say she hardly has crises |
Re: teach by Cybertext(m): 12:43pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
I'm not a scientist but I know for a fact that AA marrying SS isn't in anyway harmful to the kids |
Re: teach by dante300(m): 12:45pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
eyinjuege:peopel wh reason like u are scrace....I am sure u are a very educated person. Thatnx for ur opinion |
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