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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Acidosis(m): 10:25pm On Nov 25, 2015

Odunharry:
funny but true

Yes oo..

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by luvguy(m): 11:50pm On Nov 25, 2015

MrsPhyno:
Yah. Cause men are getting suckier and suckisher and suckiest. At least in their forefathers day, dem sabi farm. Now, they're just too useless

lyk ur childish nick ryt?

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by richie9093(m): 12:58am On Nov 26, 2015

No, they aren't scarce. they are in the friend zone where you left them.

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by mikolo80: 3:20am On Nov 26, 2015

Adaure4ever:
but true love is not all about money.

yes it is

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by mikolo80: 3:22am On Nov 26, 2015

MrsPhyno:
Yah. Cause men are getting suckier and suckisher and suckiest. At least in their forefathers day, dem sabi farm. Now, they're just too useless

this is the very example of a woman yin Will soon open a thread wondering while husbands are scarce.

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by mikolo80: 3:23am On Nov 26, 2015

Adaure4ever:
then why is the rate of unmarried ladies rising?

na dem no wan marry

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Fidecoo(m): 4:16am On Nov 26, 2015

Adaure4ever:
Ladies and Gentlemen, come in, let us discuss.
I was watching a tele relationship show and one of the participants in the show said that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is that the "HUSBAND MATERIAL". young men are Scarce.
Just drop your opinions, do you agree to that?

hmmmmm, i would say, not too scarce, but atyms ladies preferances and a fear of been tied down 4ever are causes affecting d HUSBAND MATERIAL, young men. My opinion though. I b member too

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by usermane(m): 4:27am On Nov 26, 2015

Adaure4ever:
then why is the rate of unmarried ladies rising?

Because women have accepted sex before marriage. A lot of men are so addicted to this sex that they find marriage to be limiting on their sex option. If more and more women refuse sex before marriage, trust me, a lot of men will set their eyes on marriage and strive to become husband materials.

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by mradjoy(m): 4:39am On Nov 26, 2015

JimiCoker:
This girl you need a good spanking, and I have a feeling I'll have to be the one to administer it

Madam sorry for quoting you, but I hope to marry a woman as wise as you. You are the epitome of what I need in a wife and if care is not taken, I may have to rally my people round to come pay your people a vist

Aha see thief here o grin

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 5:05am On Nov 26, 2015

Estharfabian:
I couldn't Agree more...

With the Increasing Rate of Unrepentant thugs, Weed smokers, Narcissist, Players, Sex-Addicts,Misogynists, Rapists, E-megalomaniacs, Heart-breakers...OfCourse they'd be Scarce....

I'm Afraid the Good guys Are diminishing by the day.. Where the good guys At!?

I thought ladies have always loved bad boys since time immemorial

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 7:46am On Nov 26, 2015

mradjoy:
Aha see thief here o

Hehehehe. I go just thief you nau. See your coconut head cheesy

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by italo: 12:34pm On Nov 26, 2015

yinkeys:
1. That's not true, the kind of attitude some women display to hustling dudes could make a man not think of marriage when he's made. If i'm to be left alone to make the decision; trust me i wont get marrried but I definitely want my soul to be in heaven when I'm old & my time on earth ends so I have to go by the scriptures & get married. It is compulsory
2. Economic meltdown like someone said

It is not compulsory to marry.

Do you know scripture better than St. Paul that wrote scripture...yet never got married?

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by karkinase(m): 12:57pm On Nov 26, 2015

yinkeys:
1. That's not true, the kind of attitude some women display to hustling dudes could make a man not think of marriage when he's made. If i'm to be left alone to make the decision; trust me i wont get marrried but I definitely want my soul to be in heaven when I'm old & my time on earth ends so I have to go by the scriptures & get married. It is compulsory
2. Economic meltdown like someone said

I concur with you bro. the attitude of some ladies towards hustling dude is appalling because when this men are made they tend to see all ladies as gold diggers who only want to tap from their wealth (thou not true) which sometimes, make many potential husband material delay marriage and also no thanks the economy.

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by yinkeys(m): 1:39pm On Nov 26, 2015

italo:
It is not compulsory to marry.

Do you know scripture better than St. Paul that wrote scripture...yet never got married?

Dude it's either you become a reverend father or you get married, either way one is compulsory. It is rather than staying single & fornicating. People on here understood what I meant, I don't know why you had to bring up this issue

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tommychow(m): 5:18pm On Nov 26, 2015

tpiadotcom:
this is one of the wisest statements to come out of Nairaland.

Thanks man.

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by rapmike(m): 5:39pm On Nov 26, 2015

Adaure4ever:
Ladies and Gentlemen, come in, let us discuss.
I was watching a tele relationship show and one of the participants in the show said that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is that the "HUSBAND MATERIAL" young men are Scarce.
Just drop your opinions, do you agree to that?

I agree and disagree. While its true that most men may not look like the 'husband material', the fact is that ladies are usually looking at the wrong places for the wrong reasons. Many Ladies who are looking for husband material are not even wife material to begin with- they are usually after ready-made men and can't take young,hustling men seriously and wait for them. Just check NL and you will see at least a post wailing about the troubles of women. When such a man is made, he won't want to leave all he 'struggled' for because of one woman and would rather prefer to enjoy his wealth anyhow he likes.

Secondly, a lot of 'husband material' already found their 'wife material' who have stayed with them since their hustling days. You expect them to drop such ladies for a new 'wife material' just because husband material' is scarce? Definitely No.

Add to this the careful spice of tribal traditions and family history ( or ties), plus both the man and woman peculiarities, then Husband material becomes very scarce.

Lastly, the economy is f*cking everyone up!

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by rapmike(m): 5:43pm On Nov 26, 2015

yinkeys:
Dude it's either you become a reverend father or you get married, either way one is compulsory. It is rather than staying single & fornicating. People on here understood what I meant, I don't know why you had to bring up this issue

You are partially wrong there. Its not necessary to be a Rev Father for you to be celibate. For heavens sake, you can decide not to marry and not to have any sexual stuff. Am not saying its easy, but its possible and certainly does not need the 'Rev Father' thing.

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by OAFMods: 11:29pm On Dec 03, 2015

Adaure4ever:
then why is the rate of unmarried ladies rising?

Are you married ?

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Dec 03, 2015

Adaure4ever:
Ladies and Gentlemen, come in, let us discuss.
I was watching a tele relationship show and one of the participants in the show said that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is that the "HUSBAND MATERIAL" young men are Scarce.
Just drop your opinions, do you agree to that?

do u mean husband materials like abeti aja
Sokoto
Geans
Polo
Sweat shirt
My girlfriends jacket
Palm
Snap back
Chinos

Oga dem still dey market especially yaba side e plenty well well

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by finebouy1(m): 5:35am On Dec 08, 2015

Adaure4ever:
Ladies and Gentlemen, come in, let us discuss.
I was watching a tele relationship show and one of the participants in the show said that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is that the "HUSBAND MATERIAL" young men are Scarce.
Just drop your opinions, do you agree to that?

Yes or right..d economic situatn in naija is solely responsible..
Op me I dey readily available if u don't mind

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by hereiam: 6:28am On Dec 08, 2015

at the end.of the day, this kind of topic is decleared inconclusive.
signed INEC

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by biotechshola(m): 7:01am On Dec 08, 2015

Estharfabian:
I couldn't Agree more...

With the Increasing Rate of Unrepentant thugs, Weed smokers, Narcissist, Players, Sex-Addicts,Misogynists, Rapists, E-megalomaniacs, Heart-breakers...OfCourse they'd be Scarce....

I'm Afraid the Good guys Are diminishing by the day.. Where the good guys At!?

this one don suffer hrt breaks....sorry sister!

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by yompy(m): 7:35am On Dec 08, 2015

We are not scarce. The Issue Is Most Of Us Are Yet-To-Be-Finished Products. It Takes Patience & Wisdom To Spot Us Out

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by seaga: 9:27pm On Dec 22, 2015

Onyiridike:
It depends on what you mean by the phrase "Husband Material".

I am a woman but 90% of Nigerian young ladies are not marriagable.

I have many of them in my neighbourhood who have been brainwashed by the scenes they watch in Nigerian and foreign movies and yet their brains are not clean enough to understand that movies are mere fiction.

What do you have to say about a girl who is yet to pass SSCE (even in a miracle center), doesn't know how to cook, can't handle any domestic chores and also very rude. And yet she will tell you that a promising young man is NOT her type? I simply told her that God will give her her type and she was very angry because she is actually a very bad type.

A lady who sleeps around with different men just to make ends meet will look down on a struggling young man (a fresh unemployed graduate) and tell you that he is not her class.

Now answer the following questions:

1. How many single ladies can marry a graduate who is underemployed and jointly propel him to that man of her dream?

2. How many ladies can date a struggling man and still love and respect him?

3. How often have you heared ladies enumerating ridiculous criteria for a husband material which can only be met by God Almighty?

Most ladies I have come across are mere liabilities and not wife materials either.

When a wife material meets a husband material (all things being equal), marriage will take place.

I M O!

..are you really a woman, am impressed. I really would like to know you.

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tpiar: 9:51pm On Dec 22, 2015

Yes.

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 9:51pm On Dec 22, 2015

Husband m

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tpiar: 9:52pm On Dec 22, 2015

Adaure4ever:
then why is the rate of unmarried ladies rising?

because husband material is scarce and they are scared.

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Dec 22, 2015

Husband material are scares this day because they don't want to be committed and faithful. They always want to play around, then when their 40, they start thinking of having a family undecided

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Dec 22, 2015

Eliba:
Husband material are scarce this day because they don't want to be committed and faithful. They always want to play around, then when their 40, they start thinking of having a family

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Yksoul(m): 11:38pm On Dec 22, 2015

HUSBAND AND WIFE MATERIALS ARE SCARCE.LADIES ARE NOT READY TO BE SUBMISSIVE AND WORK ON THEIR CHARACTERS.GUYS KNOW THAT LADIES WITH GOOD CHARACTER AND HUMILITY DONT STAY SINGLE FOR LONG,BECAUSE GOOD GUYS WANT PEACE IN THEIR MARRIAGE

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Raalsalghul: 9:43am On Dec 23, 2015

Love Machine:
They all want already made men as husband.While the hustling guyz are not ready to spend their little cash on dem material girls.We go to brothel to unwind.

Your comment is a very "down to earth" answer to the Op's question, even though some might think that the "going to brothel" part is morally wrong.

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Raalsalghul: 9:56am On Dec 23, 2015

Onyiridike:
It depends on what you mean by the phrase "Husband Material".

I am a woman but 90% of Nigerian young ladies are not marriagable.

I have many of them in my neighbourhood who have been brainwashed by the scenes they watch in Nigerian and foreign movies and yet their brains are not clean enough to understand that movies are mere fiction.

What do you have to say about a girl who is yet to pass SSCE (even in a miracle center), doesn't know how to cook, can't handle any domestic chores and also very rude. And yet she will tell you that a promising young man is NOT her type? I simply told her that God will give her her type and she was very angry because she is actually a very bad type.

A lady who sleeps around with different men just to make ends meet will look down on a struggling young man (a fresh unemployed graduate) and tell you that he is not her class.

Now answer the following questions:

1. How many single ladies can marry a graduate who is underemployed and jointly propel him to that man of her dream?

2. How many ladies can date a struggling man and still love and respect him?

3. How often have you heared ladies enumerating ridiculous criteria for a husband material which can only be met by God Almighty?

Most ladies I have come across are mere liabilities and not wife materials either.

When a wife material meets a husband material (all things being equal), marriage will take place.

I M O!

Hmmm, interesting, more so because it's coming from a woman. Well, I'll answer your questions.
1. Few, very few!
2. Like seriously, they are scarce, but we still have them.
3. Aplenty!

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