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Odunharry:
which one be no hug?? are you deeper life member ?

iAmCharis:
Your head dey there jare. I'm always bemused when I come across or hear that assertion. I just don't get it.

I think any guy that's of the opinion he can't be just friends with a lady has some work to do on self.

STENON:
Nope, bt jst to avoid the message that it'l pass across to their brain ...

Luckygurl:
Nah!!

I don't believe this...
That the male friends I've got are all hanging around me cos of some future banging they hope to get.
Plus the ones I personally initiated the friendship...

If I hear

In as much as majority of the so called friendship between the opposite sex are mere facades to what actually is going on, you can't totally rule out the fact that there exist the platonic kinda friendship between a few that actually know what they want.

Cutehector:
Frndships dnt last forever

Odunharry:
which one be no hug?? are you deeper life member ?

Kachisbarbie:
Same way they say all men are cheats. There would always be humans that defy stereotypes... respect such people.

STENON:
Nope, bt jst to avoid the message that it'l pass across to their brain after the hug ...

osazeeblue01:
No. Any girl that told u she keep male friends than female just know that she is a prostitute. If u think am lying go for research yourself.

I should walk up to a male friend of mine and give him a kiss on the lips..
Lmao!!
I sure would get the 'looks like you've been neck deep into your usual romance novels' or 'when did you start drinking' reply...
On a more serious note, why should I?

Duru009:
Its possible to be friends......

But they will always end up banging eachoda. Its very difficult to be friends with a lady without banging.
All my female friends from high skul to university till i got a job. I will always bang them.

If you dont bang her she will always see you as a weak man.

Banging her will even mak her respact you more and always listen to your advise.

This is the true. Take it or leave it.

Toks2008:
A MAN OR WOMAN CAN NOT BE JUST FRIENDS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX

It’s no secret: guys and girls being "just friends" is a concept held by only the dreamers. Any lady who believes that she can be just a friend with a guy other than co-worker, co-student, or just on a platonic hi-hi level is in-fact the most myopic lady to walk on this planet

A guy’s friends consist of, well, only guys. The only reason a guy would go close to a girl would be to date or bed her. No guy is going to waste his time just being a friend with a girl because it’s not like she is a sports freak or a trans-gendered.

Guys have enough guy friends and won’t waste their time listening to ladies talk from a girl just to be their friend. Plain and simple he wants to bed you except of course you don't mind or he has not made it obvious yet.

Guys being friends with girls is a farce: either he wants to sleep with her, or she still believes in unicorns, because a guy cannot genuinely be friends with a girl and its either the lady secretly desires him or vis avis even while one of the two are ignorant of this.

In-fact i always tell a guy or lady to be more at alert when your bae says this about another opposite sex.."we are just friends,we enjoy each other's company,we are just fond of each other" because once you start hearing this from your bae,you should run because fondness is stronger than the feeling of love and what your bae will not dicsuss with you will be discussed freely with that person so of what use is the affair you are having?

I know some people will say not in all cases and i quite agree but there is a simple test to know if there is no hidden notion or surpressed desire so please as a lady just prove me wrong? give that just friend of yours a kiss and watch him stop you. After-all you guys ought to be just friends.

And for the married man, snap out of your delusion and tell yourself hard fact...YOU ARE OLOJU KOKORO...Let your wife be your only friend,best friend and close friend and same for the lady.

Keeping "friends" of the opposite sex while married or committed to someone is an emotional affair and its even worse than actual physical affair.

Just trying to make common sense.

Duru009:
Its possible to be friends......

But thy will always end up banging eachoda. Its very difficult to be friends with a lady without banging.
All my female friends from high skul to university till i got a job. I will always bang them.

If you dont bang her she will always see you as a weak man.

Baging her will even mak her respact you more and always listen to your advise.

This is the true. Take it or leave it.

Vikky014:
HMMMMMMMMMMM..I HAV MANY MALE FRIENDS OOO SO U MEAN THEY ALL WANT TO BED VIKKY014..MY FORMER COURSE MATES

rugged7:
Toks2008

WAITAMMINIT!!!

You can actually have a girl as your very good female friend.

However, both of u have to get the sex out of the way.

I had a very attractive friend who's assets were almost falling out of her clothes

Walahi talahi, there was too much sexual tension.

We sat down and talked about it and agreed to sleep together once and get the sex out of the way.

Gabadaya, who am i to refuse.

Unfortunately or fortunately, once only was not enough; we had to do it a couple more time to really get the tension out.

She even gave me her naked pix as momentos

Me and her are the best of friends now.

She is married now and has 2 kids.

I drink beer with her husband regularly as well.

No kasala

*And Yes, the husband doesn't know...
*And yes, i still have her naked pix
***Hmmm....Those kids look suspiciously familiar...

SirWere:
Why not

My closest female friend is a fellow Arsenal fan. We're quite close, platonically........








Her brother is a soldier tho......

burmmersam:
In the actual sense, this article holds a fact that most people will dispute. Initially, I was like, "ki leleyi nso bayi". But when I got to where the article reads, "
I know some people will say not in all cases and i quite
agree but there is a simple test to know if there is no hidden
notion or surpressed desire so please as a lady just prove
me wrong? give that just friend of yours a kiss and watch
him stop you. After-all you guys ought to be just friends." Shouldn't we all just go for the test and come back here for the comments...