A man will always be happy with a woman as far as he's not in love with her

why not?i have been befriending rokiatu,vickyrotex,msglobalwonder,prettythicksme and freeglobe since 100AD without touching them even though they always waka round my room half nakeed

Absolute bullshit.

BABANGBALI:
why not?i have been befriending rokiatu,vickyrotex,msglobalwonder,prettythicksme and freeglobe since 100AD without touching them even though they always waka round my room half nakeed

U don forget say u b impotent?

Op is just myopic. What happens to business partners,reading groups etc.
So two guys that are close for a long must be gay,abi .
Only kids think this way.

It's very possible, i maintain platonic relationship with some cool guy's, and I maintain lovely sexual consensual relationship with my man.

prettythicksme:
U don forget say u b impotent?

you wan take style taste me

I have a male friend I know since I was 12, we hardly spent time these days due to busy schedules, but when we meet, we smoke, drink, merry and plan for the future.

rugged7:
Toks2008

WAITAMMINIT!!!

You can actually have a girl as your very good female friend.

However, both of u have to get the sex out of the way.

I had a very attractive friend who's assets were almost falling out of her clothes

Walahi talahi, there was too much sexual tension.

We sat down and talked about it and agreed to sleep together once and get the sex out of the way.

Gabadaya, who am i to refuse.

Unfortunately or fortunately, once only was not enough; we had to do it a couple more time to really get the tension out.

She even gave me her naked pix as momentos

Me and her are the best of friends now.

She is married now and has 2 kids.

I drink beer with her husband regularly as well.

No kasala

*And Yes, the husband doesn't know...
*And yes, i still have her naked pix
***Hmmm....Those kids look suspiciously familiar...

Hahahahaha

BABANGBALI:
you wan take style taste me

na chop i go chop u

BIG LIE!!!
That a lady has more male friend than the female gender makes her a prostitute?!...You gat to be kidding me!...That those(ladies) around you are prostitute does make every lady one!...Pls stop generalizing your MYOPIC opinion.

osazeeblue01:
No. Any girl that told u she keep male friends than female just know that she is a prostitute. If u think am lying go for research yourself.

A man keeping a girl as a friend is like a man keeping a chicken in his house. It is a matters of time a "mistake" must happen

dukeolumde:

Love u more dear...Sent u a voice massage

Mehn,this is great. I pray I find love someday! So happy for u guys

amazingspiderma:
Op is just myopic. What happens to business partners,reading groups etc.
So two guys that are close for a long must be gay,abi .
Only kids think this way.

Some people are so inteligent that they always fail to read and comprehend before writing comments.

Oga puma please go back and read..co-worker can be likened to business partner

Elosky20:
yes that is if the both of them are gays

My best friend is a female and we no gay, never had sex, wont have sex, i dont see her in that light and vice versa so yeah..lol

Toks2008:
A MAN OR WOMAN CAN NOT BE JUST FRIENDS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX

It’s no secret: guys and girls being "just friends" is a concept held by only the dreamers. Any lady who believes that she can be just a friend with a guy other than co-worker, co-student, or just on a platonic hi-hi level is in-fact the most myopic lady to walk on this planet

A guy’s friends consist of, well, only guys. The only reason a guy would go close to a girl would be to date or bed her. No guy is going to waste his time just being a friend with a girl because it’s not like she is a sports freak or a trans-gendered.

Guys have enough guy friends and won’t waste their time listening to ladies talk from a girl just to be their friend. Plain and simple he wants to bed you except of course you don't mind or he has not made it obvious yet.

Guys being friends with girls is a farce: either he wants to sleep with her, or she still believes in unicorns, because a guy cannot genuinely be friends with a girl and its either the lady secretly desires him or vis avis even while one of the two are ignorant of this.

In-fact i always tell a guy or lady to be more at alert when your bae says this about another opposite sex.."we are just friends,we enjoy each other's company,we are just fond of each other" because once you start hearing this from your bae,you should run because fondness is stronger than the feeling of love and what your bae will not dicsuss with you will be discussed freely with that person so of what use is the affair you are having?

I know some people will say not in all cases and i quite agree but there is a simple test to know if there is no hidden notion or surpressed desire so please as a lady just prove me wrong? give that just friend of yours a kiss and watch him stop you. After-all you guys ought to be just friends.

And for the married man, snap out of your delusion and tell yourself hard fact...YOU ARE OLOJU KOKORO...Let your wife be your only friend,best friend and close friend and same for the lady.

Keeping "friends" of the opposite sex while married or committed to someone is an emotional affair and its even worse than actual physical affair.

Just trying to make common sense.

Its is extremely possible. I av a male friend since yr 2000, we can even sleep on d same bed. He knows my secrets and I know his. He's married now with two kids. Since we've been together till now, he has never seen my pant nor have we had SEX. Its very very verrrrrrry possible for two opposite sex to be together as very good friends. It takes maturity and understanding. At first he made some advances for sex, but along d line, when he realized, I wouldnt give in, he replaxed. But they are very rate.

SO ITS VERRRRRRY POSSIBLE!!!!!

Tried That Shit Several times and I end up sleeping with them.... For me oo, I cant

aminoacid01:
If you can be friends with your mother, sister, aunty, daughter etc, then surely you can be friends with a lady with no strings attached. It is part of the quality of a matured man. Its only boys that jump at anything under skirt.

So true,I have good female friends!

kandiikane:
I have a male friend I know since I was 12, we hardly spent time these days due to busy schedules, but when we meet, we smoke, drink, merry and plan for the future.

Aren't you a Lez?

yaskarahyelhope:


Its is extremely possible. I av a male friend since yr 2000, we can even sleep on d same bed. He knows my secrets and I know his. He's married now with two kids. Since we've been together till now, he has never seen my pant nor have we had SEX. Its very very verrrrrrry possible for two opposite sex to be together as very good friends. It takes maturity and understanding. At first he made some advances for sex, but along d line, when he realized, I wouldnt give in, he replaxed. But they are very rate.

SO ITS VERRRRRRY POSSIBLE!!!!!

Ahaa

olaniyanibukun0:
A man will always be happy with a woman as far as he's not in love with her

Do you mean a man or a woman cos i don't know when love became top priority for men.

yaskarahyelhope:


Its is extremely possible. I av a male friend since yr 2000, we can even sleep on d same bed. He knows my secrets and I know his. He's married now with two kids. Since we've been together till now, he has never seen my pant nor have we had SEX. Its very very verrrrrrry possible for two opposite sex to be together as very good friends. It takes maturity and understanding. At first he made some advances for sex, but along d line, when he realized, I wouldnt give in, he replaxed. But they are very rate.

SO ITS VERRRRRRY POSSIBLE!!!!!

Chai..you just contradicted yourself.

1metre:
Op , u really need to develop your mind in a way that you could see a lady the same way you see a guy. it is only myopic minds that will support the above assertion. i personally have female friends whom i hang out on several occasions without thinking your direction. if you are underdeveloped internally, u can view the ladies as object of self satisfaction. get a life Op

Matured response!

Luckygurl:
Nah!!

I don't believe this...
That the male friends I've got are all hanging around me cos of some future banging they hope to get.
Plus the ones I personally initiated the friendship...

If I hear

In as much as majority of the so called friendship between the opposite sex are mere facades to what actually is going on, you can't totally rule out the fact that there exist the platonic kinda friendship between a few that actually know what they want.

u re ryt a bit....but not all-right....u open ur legs 4 all male friends, they might get down wif u without thinking twice abt d friendship they had...they could b nice but can take any chance.....b careful......#am a guy#

Lol I disagree with you a little based on the fact that, you generalized the whole thing. There is and of course a plain and healthy friendship between a male and a female without any intention of bedding each other. I won't deny that most of my male friends asked me out before we became just plain friends but then I have met few guys who just wanted to be friends with me, and nothing more! They just prefer the opposite sex to the same sex with theirs. I for instance, I prefer the company of my male friends to that of my female friends, reason based on:
* I get along easily with the make folks
* The male folks are extremely funny human beings, there is never a duling time or a boring time with the male folks
* They hardly keep malice
* They are very caring
* No beefing, no jealousy, no forming etc
* They make you feel really important
* My male friends are never bothered if I don't say "Hi" to them first.
* They take things simple and easy unlike my female folks...
The list is really endless on why I'd chose the male friendship over the female's.
.....so I really don't think everyone is out there to get you laid or something! Some might come with such intentions but things could later turn around.

Why should I be just friends with a babe that I don't fvck and still wants me to take financial responsibility of her boyfriend?

No way!!!

awesome11:
I don't understand you. You mean because you and your friends can't keep such relationship with a lady, everyone can't. Don't generalize too hastily!

I have about four female friends I keep such platonic relationship with. So?

You are funny. The reason it is not possible is because of what is always on a man's mind. SEX. Sigmund Freud has already proved that. Aso, Waving hi to a female or briefly talking about the weather does not mean you are friends. Being friends with a female takes a lot of bravado from the female. We are talking about FRIENDSHIP here. Not casual aquaintance. I think people are confused as to what friendship means. Can you just walk up to your female "friend" and say "damn. I really need to scratch my balls". And do so right in front of her. These are the kind of things you do with your bro.

prettythicksme:
na chop i go chop u

because you know say i dey looooooooooooooooong,big and sweet

A guy and girl can be just friends with no strings attached. ..anybody who tells you otherwise has a myopic view.

MissGdope:

smfh so because my friends are NOT perverts and are not just thinking of banging me everytime they see me, then that makes me ugly?? you can't be serious. Call me whatever you like but I have plutonic friendships with guys and they're very close to me.
Merry Christmas

u r welcome. thats true about men generally. dont trust us. verify 1stm thank u

yeah....a guy could be a good friend doesnt mean all guys....if u want to be recent on d happenings lately, father rape their daughters.,...d chances of a guy bcoming a close friend is like 1 guy in every 30 guys....be discerning and careful...guys nwadays takes chances...

Joavid:
From the posts I see here, men who can't have platonic friendships with the opposite sex are sexists.

They see women as tools and sex objects.
They see women as people who have nothing to offer in a friendship.

So many people with fvcked up minds.

You said it all
I ain't dating any lady who has only sex to offer in a relationship,sex....we know were to get that,but a relationship/marital union is more than sex!