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i now see that the igbos ar just too perfect . the perfect people ride on, it happened in my house and i must kick against it

vayne:
Are you alright,is it anyone's fault that you couldn't control your d**k?

If you are not ready to marry a women,then use a protection for Christ sake..

It is your type that will encourage a lady to go do abortion,without thinking of the consequences..

Hygist:
i now see that the igbos ar just too perfect . the perfect people ride on, it happened in my house and i must kick against it

You don't still get it,you need to perform the traditional rights before you can lay claim over any kids in igboland,get that into your head!!

Respect our tradition or leave our women alone.

Igboland is not where everywhere pikin pikin pikin pikin,no father.....stop staining our bloodline please,thank you!

Decker:
Because your uncle's Igbo girlfriend acted in a particular manner, doesn't mean that all Igbo girls act in that manner.
The behavior of a person or few set of persons from a particular tribe should never be used to define that tribe.

What your uncle's wife did can and has also been done by other ladies from other tribes.

It all boils down to the girl's personality and character, and not her tribe or ethnicity.

my brother, wat d poster said is true jor...igbo gals (majority), imediately u have access to their body, it becomes as if dey own u, let alone having a child for u owta wedluck...need i tell u bout my uncle's marrital excapade wit one ngozi from ngwa...i'm frm akwa ibom...it's worse wen ur frm anoda tribe...majority of dem are sausy...i mean owta every 100, 80% no dey respect their men...go and mk ur findings...esp, imo, abia and anambra...i have lots of them aruond....so, i'm speaking frm experience...there's every jot of truth in wat d poster said....they always feel dey are doing u a favour for agreeing to marry u...nonsense

Decker:
Because your uncle's Igbo girlfriend acted in a particular manner, doesn't mean that all Igbo girls act in that manner.
The behavior of a person or few set of persons from a particular tribe should never be used to define that tribe.

What your uncle's wife did can and has also been done by other ladies from other tribes.

It all boils down to the girl's personality and character, and not her tribe or ethnicity.

my brother, wat d poster said is true jor...igbo gals (majority), imediately u have access to their body, it becomes as if dey own u, let alone having a child for u owta wedluck...need i tell u bout my uncle's marrital excapade wit one ngozi from ngwa...i'm frm akwa ibom...it's worse wen ur frm anoda tribe...majority of dem are sausy...i mean owta every 100, 80% no dey respect their men...go and mk ur findings...esp, imo, abia and anambra...i have lots of them aruond....so, i'm speaking frm experience...there's every jot of truth in wat d poster said....they always feel dey are doing u a favour for agreeing to marry u...nonsense

calddon:
Tribalism is cancerous. say no to racism.

how is it racism when they are of the same race?

Bubewilson:
From what you two wrote, its obvious that the our non-Igbo inlaws never paid the bride price to the families of their Igbo fiance's and in Igbo culture they are seen as credit/back door inlaws and don't have a right of ownernish over any child thier lustful cohabitation produced.


Even in court, it's the mother of the child that has custody of the child up to a legal age where he or she is to decide who to live with. While the father is duty bound to provide all financial support needed.


Over the years we have seen our distant cousins in mainly yoruba land being ridiculed for having come from an Igbo mother. We can't let such happen again.


Make una uncle them ready to pay bride price for Igbo girls they want to marry and stop thinking they can use pregnancy and child birth to keep our daughters hostage while they jump again to marry a girl from their own tribe.

wats wit u igbos and tradition sef huh...i used to say i'd marry igbo, bt i'm having a re-adjustment of my brains nw cosof stuffs like dis...unless d luky gal wud nt be so igbotic

think twice bro, once they bear a child for you, they will run and expect u to come for them. what if at the said time there is no finance? the worst part they dont know how to wait, they will still foolishly sleep with another man during this period. mumu grade 1

firstking01:
wats wit u igbos and tradition sef huh...i used to say i'd marry igbo, bt i'm having a re-adjustment of my brains nw cosof stuffs like dis...unless d luky gal wud nt be so igbotic

Vikky014:
Did i hear u say igbo girls pls jst say some girls and dnt attach any tribe to it
thanks

you head dey there!! one gallon of zobo for you!!!!

nigport:
Ohhhh my God please 10000000000 lik 4 dix man. Same wit me I have a cousin of same age I don't no de guy up till date wen I lost my uncle my uncle babe took de boy and run away up till date no trace of the boy I jus 2 hate igbo ppl abeg mak buhari allow dem carry deir trouble go Bleep biafra

You sound stupid

Hygist:
op uncle's dnt deserve that bro, do u mean igbo guys dnt have kids out of wedlock? bias

U're d third person asking dis dumb question, some Igbo guys do hv child/children out of wedluck too, but it if d tradition of d lady involve allows him to keep d check d child fine! But in our own case, it doesnt, so its nobody's fault its a tradition.

Qualer:
you head dey there!! one gallon of zobo for you!!!!

JEEZ one gallon of zobo. guy u r partially wicked ooo. instead of u to give me a wine.( pure heaven to precise)

firstking01:
wats wit u igbos and tradition sef huh...i used to say i'd marry igbo, bt i'm having a re-adjustment of my brains nw cosof stuffs like dis...unless d luky gal wud nt be so igbotic

stuffs like what? Abi in ur culture dey dash women out for free? Its ur likes that after marrying an unlucky Igbo girl, will turn around in few yrs time to marry another girl from ur tribe, thereby propagating polygamy. Bros you dnt worth marrying an Igbo damsel. Pls stick to ur own tribe. GM.

Mcowubaba:
Even in this lovely season..u must still create all this mumu topic- why are igbos like this, why are igbo like that..una no dey taya haba,...

The funny thing is that I don't think nd worry myself about all the other tribes in Nigeria, like most of them worry about my own tribe...

Live nd let live..m tired of all this tribal ish in Nigeria....

why we go tired?? you people are just too weird, cunning and strange.
you can take the child but it should be mutual agreement, not that u will just disappear and leave no room for trace. that's heartless n una be barawo. yeebos stealing our blood since 1914
good morning jor.

Vikky014:
JEEZ one gallon of zobo. guy u r partially wicked ooo. instead of u to give me a wine.( pure heaven to precise)

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come to me if need wine....I have enough pure wines that would make your stomach swell

mekonglobal:
U're d third person asking dis dumb question, some Igbo guys do hv child/children out of wedluck too, but it if d tradition of d lady involve allows him to keep d check d child fine! But in our own case, it doesnt, so its nobody's fault its a tradition.

you still don't get it ...
ohh, your tradition asked you to steal children
kontinue...
you guys obviously still need common sense. so to you now, its right to disappear with someone's child and leave no address behind?? stealing is definitely in your tradition.

I have witness a situation where an Igbo guy who has been cohabiting with an Igbo lady for almost 10 years without any bride price and they had 3 children. when de lady fell I'll and died, all de children where taken from de man because de children belong to de gal and her family. In order to claim de children, de man had to marry de lady's corpse b4 she was buried.
My dear op, I think b4 u complain, u shld try to find out de ways and culture of de Igbo pple. if u like have 20 children with an Igbo gal without paying her bride price, just bear in mind dat in de eyes of de Igbo man, those children are not urs.
It has absolutely ntng to do with de fact dat Ur uncle is not an Igbo man cos trust me even if Ur uncle is an Igbo man, same will be done to him. #saynototribalism#

sexaddict08:
you still don't get it ...
ohh, your tradition asked you to steal children
kontinue...
you guys obviously still need common sense. so to you now, its right to disappear with someone's child and leave no address behind?? stealing is definitely in your tradition.

Its not stealing, its u dat doesnt want to reason rightly, that every tribe hv a right to its tradition/custom. Look here mister, even amongs us d Igbos a guy who gets involve with a lady and a child is conceived out d affair without d said guy, paying d brideprice of d lady kns dat d child belongs to d girl's family, Except in d case that d children grow up demanding for a reunion wt d father in dat case, nobody will stop him or her. U got it? So respect our tradition so dat we can respect urs.....its called cultural tolerance. Bye

nigport:
Ohhhh my God please 10000000000 lik 4 dix man. Same wit me I have a cousin of same age I don't no de guy up till date wen I lost my uncle my uncle babe took de boy and run away up till date no trace of the boy I jus 2 hate igbo ppl abeg mak buhari allow dem carry deir trouble go Bleep biafra

it was because of u that an English man in 1703 invented the phrase "thunder fire you" but I won't ask thunder to fire cos its waste of resources... na bed bug wey full your house go bite u till it reset your destiny to no-destiny. keep hating Igbos while your uncles keep investing their Furtune in between Igbo girls legs. Oni ranu! oloriburukwu! omo ale!!!

Jimdonnet:
Make your uncle pay dowry simple

Why didn't she wait for her bride price to be paid before she started having s**x with the man without protection

abbeyty:
Why didn't she wait for her bride price to be paid before she started having s**x with the man without protection

Why didn't he pay her bride price before engaging her sexually,he is the man!!

Besides,who knows she might have been subjected to sexual abuse/rape(as that is what yoruba men are known for) for her to have left him after a misunderstanding..

If he is so pained,he should go and marry from his yoruba tribe!

[am an Ijaw man from Rivers[/quote]I Know Say Ijaw People No Follow For Promo In Anything Going On In Nigeria Except Say They Sabi Do Juju, And Swim Like Fishes, That's All So Shut Up When Commenting About The Igbos, Cos We Are Better And Will Always Be Better Than Any Tribe In Nigeria, Na GOD Give Us Our Everything. I No Even Get Time For This Yoruba Man Wey Leave Their Dirty Girls Wan Come Do Osho Free With My Classic Igbo Girls !!! mtchewww.

vayne:
Why didn't he pay her bride price before engaging her sexually,he is the man!!

Besides,who knows she might have been subjected to sexual abuse/rape(as that is what men from my area are known for) for her to have left him after a misunderstanding..

Didnt the woman know he hadnt paid her bride price before sleeping with him and without protection too.

tpiar:
Didnt the woman know he hadnt paid her bride price before sleeping with him and without protection too.

What if she was sexually abused/raped?

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I think that was in the olden days.

There have been at least two threads on nairaland within the past two years where non-Igbo girls were able to locate their babies who were taken to Igboland by their boyfriends' mothers.

vayne:
What if the sex was consensual?

Children born out of wedlock are considered as belonging to the mother, in Igboland.

Its the culture, or used to be the culture.

As per your question, I don't see how a woman will jump on a man and still be claiming rape, as is common these days.

Why would you assume it was rape, perhaps you are referring to a different context such as the civil war.

Donald7610:
Omo Ijebu ni mi o
Hoping to marry Igbo girl
With their beauty, intelligence & always go straight to the point
Unlike (many not all) naughty pretender Yooba girl dat u must UnCloth all the time,
Even when she's enjoying it, she hide it as if Na virgin Maria
So strict on bed in order to claim rape
Go to court & see them starving their husband yet still cheating on him

I am very sure you haven't dated any igbo girl b4 i mean they re pretty, good cook and very good in bed but my brother to any igbo girl if you are nt an igbo man u can never be an igbo man....my 10k advice

tpiar:
Children born out of wedlock are considered as belonging to the mother, in Igboland.

Its the culture, or used to be the culture.

As per your question, I don't see how a woman will jump on a man and still be claiming rape, as is common these days.

Very good,if he still needs his children,he should go to her parents and perform the proper marriage rights,he should even be thinking of re-uniting with his kids mother..

Who knows,maybe he already took a second wife when he has not paid the dowry of the first.

It's simple traditional right,some towns even return the bride price,what's so hard in paying her dowry,which is her pride?

Then she can ask him to pay her dowry before she sleeps with him ( or at least before having unprotected sex).

My point is, it takes two to tango.

tpiar:
Then she can ask him to pay her dowry before she sleeps with him ( or at least before having unprotected sex).

My point is, it takes two to tango.

brother i wonder o, d worst part of it, is that dey wont even give u a clue about this tinz o. she will jst run away

vayne:
Why didn't he pay her bride price before engaging her sexually,he is the man!!

Besides,who knows she might have been subjected to sexual abuse/rape(as that is what yoruba men are known for) for her to have left him after a misunderstanding..

If he is so pained,he should go and marry from his yoruba tribe!

So, is she that dumb to say No to unprotected sex before bride price, women should have the final say when it comes to s*xual activities not men, have you been raped by yoruba man before?

sexaddict08:
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hmmm. thanks i dnt need urs judging from ur moniker.