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is a matter of time the man serves you papers. If you don't mind considering the fact there is no feeling for him then you can learn a lesson or two from it but if you feel like salvaging the marriage then make every effort to tell the man you are sorry cos right now the trust and love he has for you is gone.

Why won't you marry after u don see Canadian visa.

I really don't think you can find love ever again, since you claimed you've done several bad and terrible things in the past (e.g. destroying a fruitful family with your seductive dress? deceiving married men with fake pregnancies in exchange for money? depriving married women their husband's undivided attention/love?).

Go and ask ex oloshos, the only love they get is "God's love" because our God love unconditionally. It is either you 'hate' a good man that loves you unconditionally; or you fall flawlessly in love with a charlatan or a rogue that batters at will. The equation is hardly balanced.

Just move closer to God and allow him straighten your path. About your marriage? Well your husband is in the best position to decide on what to do. However, if I were your husband, I'll go to your family to get back my bride price; and wish you good luck.

Your husband is right, you are a selfish and wicked woman and he deserves better than you.

Where are the super women here? Love to see your comments before I modify

Mmmmm...this one hard o.

Sweetie, u don't love him but you wanna stay. You love the security...u wanna stay. Then stay without being selfish...give him children abeg. You would love them, children have a weird way of stealing hearts. You could love him too or at least be fonder. A good man is hard to find...so is a good woman. Though you are trying to mend your history, ur heart is still a tad wicked...yeah, Rome wasn't built in a day! So, get on with your family with some efforts. The worst that could happen is he would eventually throw you out but with some tidings, after all, its all about the security with u. Kids are the best! They will love u like kilode and Oga will continue to pay upkeep.

You should have put no kids as a condition for the marriage. We have to learn to put our cards on the table when getting married. It helps. Just say you got into it for the money.

Aunty Genevieve Nnaji or what is her name again needs husband, could you please pass this gentleman to her? We all shall be very grateful to you. You are good only for someone like Senator Dino Melaye the notorious wife beater. Imagine if you are married to him and this episode happened between you too. It would have been one of the stories that touch the heart.

He's right, you are selfish.

This na real super story.

He has been investing with hope of huge returns,
Not knowing the investment company has been playing with his funds...

D person wey get head no get cap , d person wey get cap no get head

Trendition:
Got married two years ago to a now 34year old man, and I am 26. Met him through my mum when he came into the country 3years ago, so we dated for about 9months. We got married but he had to remain in canada while I stayed back.


Truth be told, I never loved him. He's rich, okay-looking, charming and all but I just do not love him. I married him cos I kinda saw him as a clean slate, a chance to start anew cos I have lived life, done things that I am not proud of, gotten heart broken. And I just don't want kids with a man I do not love. They say u can fall in love after marriage but not here, I just admire my husband.

Hubby comes home in December and stays through to february. I kept d pills in an empty bottle of multivitamins but never thought he'ld look closely at d inscriptions on the tablets cos I had gotten away with it the past years. No one has been on my neck about getting pregnant though.


He was so angry I thought he'ld throw me out that night. He's been sleeping in d guests', doesn't eat my food, he says I am a selfish and wicked woman. I'm sooooo scared he'll call my parents, I'll just die.


Do I just walk out now and risk my parents knowing what really happend? Will I find such a gentle man again? Do I get pregnant? will I love my kids? He's such a wonderful man but I don't love him!!!



PS: I never cheated on him

I wish I know who this innocent n gullible young man is. I would just tell him how deceitful, wicked,selfish, Greed n above all, a heartless bad ass b!tch u are. N I pray n hope that he ll see through ur deceptive eyes n Accord u a well deserved disgrace n humiliation of ur life.

For God's, u r such a disgrace to marriage n womanhood!!
I pity many married men cos de got stucked to semi devils n scammers in wife clothing.
Smh!

YourMain:
To be honest, what you did wasn't good at all...

na ur people be dis...just imagine.!!! so confused.. y will she marry someone she is not in love with...sometimes I wonder if some people are human beings

Why did she in the first place go ahead in marrying the man. I can't understand how some women think some times.

Why then did you marry him? Oh, because he is rich..... May God help us find good wives. Wealth attracts all sorts of women...even karishikas.

The man must have been one of those men that screams ashawo, hoes, sluts etc. He must have called second generation Nigerian women names and made them promises he knew he wouldn't keep. He could have knocked up quite a few and just couldn't be bothered because he is such a smartass.

Serves girls like you that always run after money and made guys.

in three words

End Time Wife

Na Wa O! Women sha. Very Wicked Being. SmH *walks outta thread*

You are EVIL.

One of the reasons we get married is for continuation of our generation by bringing kids into this world and you want to deny this innocent man this right and end his generation.

Tufiakwa.

If u are a Christian, pls go and see ur pastor so that he will help u by praying for u so that u will be free from whatsoever spirit that don't want u to enjoy ur marriage. What u need is prayers from a born again man of God.

Why are women this selfish and wicked...you know you don't love the man, then why waste his precious time still with him? Eating his money and wasting his fuzcking time? If you don't love him, fuzck out of his life...there are other women out there that will love him. To hell with this love nonsense...I don't love him but eating his money? Thunder strike you there.! Fool.. go and be with the broke nigger that you are fuczking and you are in love with. The fact you are using contraceptive tells him that you are fuzcking someone else raw...routinely. Slut! This is the reason why some men hurt their women...justified. You can't eat your cake and have it too. You are a monster! Men be careful with today's women...have no heart.

U shd not have married him in the first instance

daretodiffer:
The man must have been one of those men that scremas ashawo, hoes, sluts etc. He must have called second generation Nigerian women names and made them promises he knew he wouldn't keep. He could have knocked up quite a few and just couldn't be bothered because he is a smartass.

You don't make any sense

Ioannes:
well I hope he throws you out before you ruin his life. you don't deserve him obviously.

Thank you, my brother. She don't deserve him at all.

I wish he knows this.

Babe.........Good men are scarce, Men willing to get married are scarcer.

Be Wise.......void yourself of the resentment. Write down the good things about him and the bad also.

Compare the list.......remember, God already gave you a "clean slate"......don't get too cocky.....or ungrateful.

when ever i Côme across story like this i always scared of marriage....heart of women are so deep no one can understand them

Do you allow him to service your kpekus? Bad babe

You need to be tied to a stake and flogged cause everything you just said Is Rubbish and Yes you are very selfish!!!

You don't Love Him then why did you Marry Him? or were you High on cheap 'shoemaker' Gum and you didn't know what you were doing? You need to be electrocuted with Nokia Battery maybe that will bring back some sense to you

This is why I advise these my Canadian friends from going home to marry
These useless Nigerian ladies
Infact my friends must hear this
I'm using this thread as an example to them
Forwarding it to them right away

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