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ronald4lif:
Please don't think about it o. Let's conserve the status quo biko. Make una no spoil show for mens.

Do the needful too

Nice one OP


Let's be realistic here, we ladies know we can be a pain in the boot sometimes and our demands are extremely high.

I don geerit..

Some men are scared of Marriage tax penalty babe.

Make we free dem small pls.

Boo long time

MzLaurel:
Some men are scared of Marriage tax penalty babe.

Make we free dem small pls.

peeparty:
Boo long time

No see

How you dey?

am doing just fine.

MzLaurel:
No see

How you dey?

guess you did not miss me abi?

it all depends op

Hmmmm..see how dem gals full this thread!

Nairaland Association of Single Ladies (NASL) don para


if a responsible broke guy come meet una, na complain.. rich yahoo guy sef na complain.

ours are better than the olosho

Add to the list,,some are ugly like an hippopotamus,,,but still chasing Fair babes,Leavin the black ass girls who wanna marry them...

This OP isn't ready to settle down as someone's wife anytime soon.

Forget all that...

The only obstacle is Lack of Money.

There is one guy I thought how to make money online. Now he's making like $200 every day from his blog and he has already married 6 wives.

So, lack of money has stopped a lot of young Nigerians to marry.

So, if you need money, you better learn how to make it fast...

More grace.

lanicky:
Wow lovely!

Spicy isn't smiling ooo...hehe

Hey

Its easier to trek from Lagos to Abuja than trying to date a pretty girl in Nigeria . You are after her, 20 other guys want her, 10 Sugar Daddies want her and the most annoying part is that 15 lesbians also want her . Grab an ugly girl and be happy......op dat my write up is d perfect reason why some of we guys are still bachelors throughout 2015......but don't worry by 2016, we will start dating ugly girls and be happy.

lanicky:
It's not all about money bro :-/

There is nothing money cannot buy including life and love

I'm tired of marriage talks on this forum

lanicky:
Okay this is a counter thread... Ion like it when Niggas try to make we single ladies feel bad.

Cc: emusmith. I doff my Okrika hat.


So..below are the obstacles that kept some men in the bachelors class throughout 2015.


Unrealistic Dreams:
His monthly allowance is 30k, he works as a Clark at Dangote cement store BT he doesn't want to marry anyhow girl, He prefer the likes of...Zara Buhari, Obama's daughter or Nelson Mandela's grand daughter..etc
Dude forgot there's a wide gap between unrealistic dream nd reality.

2• He thinks he can have it all:
He's that play boy who is always looking for something better. He wants to enjoy his life to the fullest when his still young before people start to tag him as *CREEPY OLD MAN*

3• He doesn't want to compromise his spiritual beliefs:
He knows women can be over spiritual therefore: he won't want to compromise his proffesed faith to placate hers. So maybe, he would consider marriage next year. *shrugs*
JollyJoy and misspicy pray for him abeg

4• He has confused and unrealistic expectations:

He's highly confused about the kind of girl he wants. He would love to marry a Beautiful, tall, light skinned, sexy, lively BUT not a talkative, have big nd sexy curves in the right places, hardworking, humble, God fearing, YORUBA girl
shoo na only you waka come?

5•He's selfish and immature:

He cares about himself only. His girlfriend cones second or third in every option. He can't give but he likes to take from his girlfriend instead. *dudes favorite song is: She no want designer by Davido
He forget or totally ignore things that matters most to his girlfriend but, you dare not forget his birthday.

Biko, how do you expect him to marry? :-/

6• Spiritual attack or cause:

He really wants to get married but, the Pharaoh nd Satanic agents from his father's house has been preventing him.

OR

Bros don rape a 6yr old Binta when he went for National youth service in ABAKALIKI and Mama Binta don swear for am with her left bwest. Abeg, how hr won take marry with that kain curse na?


Ooops! My battery. This BEDC guy no go bring light?

Don't mind my typographical error abeg, would modify later.

ok

LOL.... I honestly didn't read this.. Cus I sensed U an Heart Broken Lady....

U even Mentioned BEDC... Dats where I work... So am sure Benin boys done show U pepper.. Its well.




















Pls don't lash @ Me... But u need to pray about Ur 2016 and forget d wrongs and Hurts of 2015...

misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are so materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

had it been you said "some guys" ..... Would have been accepted....not "guys"!!

misspicy:



hugs received well packaged.

Make sense

lanicky:
Okay this is a counter thread... Ion like it when Niggas try to make we single ladies feel bad.

Cc: emusmith. I doff my Okrika hat.


So..below are the obstacles that kept some men in the bachelors class throughout 2015.


Unrealistic Dreams:
His monthly allowance is 30k, he works as a Clark at Dangote cement store BT he doesn't want to marry anyhow girl, He prefer the likes of...Zara Buhari, Obama's daughter or Nelson Mandela's grand daughter..etc
Dude forgot there's a wide gap between unrealistic dream nd reality.

2• He thinks he can have it all:
He's that play boy who is always looking for something better. He wants to enjoy his life to the fullest when his still young before people start to tag him as *CREEPY OLD MAN*

3• He doesn't want to compromise his spiritual beliefs:
He knows women can be over spiritual therefore: he won't want to compromise his proffesed faith to placate hers. So maybe, he would consider marriage next year. *shrugs*
JollyJoy and misspicy pray for him abeg

4• He has confused and unrealistic expectations:

He's highly confused about the kind of girl he wants. He would love to marry a Beautiful, tall, light skinned, sexy, lively BUT not a talkative, have big nd sexy curves in the right places, hardworking, humble, God fearing, YORUBA girl
shoo na only you waka come?

5•He's selfish and immature:

He cares about himself only. His girlfriend cones second or third in every option. He can't give but he likes to take from his girlfriend instead. *dudes favorite song is: She no want designer by Davido
He forget or totally ignore things that matters most to his girlfriend but, you dare not forget his birthday.

Biko, how do you expect him to marry? :-/

6• Spiritual attack or cause:

He really wants to get married but, the Pharaoh nd Satanic agents from his father's house has been preventing him.

OR

Bros don rape a 6yr old Binta when he went for National youth service in ABAKALIKI and Mama Binta don swear for am with her left bwest. Abeg, how hr won take marry with that kain curse na?


Ooops! My battery. This BEDC guy no go bring light?

Don't mind my typographical error abeg, would modify later.

I can't find the reason why I am still single here.

Thank you girl. I was on my way to do that. You are so on point

If you know how unhappy people are deep down in their matrimonial homes, you would chill with this marriage this! Marriage that.

misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are so materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

I agree babe. They are just confused set of species

Noted and action taken! You just fu3k some guys up sha

ronald4lif:
Well, it's a good counter thread.

Fear of taking responsibility and losing grip of his freedom is another one. Since many women have made themselves available a man doesn't actually need to get married to benefits from it reward.

Traditionally, there are some female roles in a man's life which are meant to be conjugal but not anymore. I mean if I can have sex with a girlfriend, she fixes my meals and perform most of the house chores, cohabs together and even bear me kids then what's the essence to marry her?

We men knows this and also aware that once we legalise the relationship it mounts more pressure to be responsible, restricts our freedom from gambolling from one female to another, increases our monthly finances as the obligation of wifey welfare isn't in effect. Girlfriends financial responsibility can be burked but same can't be said about wife.

Perhaps, ladies should cease from making themselves available and providing all these conjugal services and some more men would think about settling down quickly.

I hope they don't stop sha.

The main reason for we being single isMost 9ja babes like OP, their wife material can't sow my Bow Tie.. #TeamSingle

misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are so materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

. U try missp ..just like my friend dat always searching for sugarmummy....laziness na bastard

johnnycrew:
I'm tired of marriage talks on this forum

ok
Wait 4 Buhari's story bro