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firstking01:
shey u no go mind if i come peep

DeeTus:
Hehe. You have a girlfriend other people enjoy on the bed. She's dating somebody else.

armylord:
sir she rarely goes out..nd she's way decent... I've studied her .. even before I asked her out...

armylord:
lolz.. no p BRo.. she just texted me though...

firstking01:
shey u no go mind if i come peep

firstking01:
cooL...da means she's very much into it, tho iono d content of d message, bt play along wit her.

DeeTus:
Why is she playing with your heart then?

anangboy:
She is trying to be inaccessible to you. Inaccessibility is one of the subtle weapons women utilise in trying to secure a man's emotional commitment. Your jealousy & her cantankerousness are great instruments for this task.

The more jealous she makes you, the more strongly the heat of your jealousy bonds your heart to her, as you are clearly exhibiting now.

In inciting your jealousy to incandescence, a woman's ways can be quite bizarre. She might deliberately encourage the attentions of rivals, she might keep playing hard to get, she might require you to flatter her to the point of irrationality and other guiles she might not be even aware she is projecting.

The aim of all these, is to establish and test her power over you, to reduce you to unquestioning obedience.

So, you need to realise the situation for what it is. And if there is anything you do, do not act too desperate for her attention. You will only make yourself a willing victim to her dark art.

armylord:
easy with d swear bro, I'm not clingy ... nd I know she's not going thru any personal ish.. I love normally... but she doesn't reciprocate.. she.. doesn't show she loves me... but she uses d three words often

F22RAPTOR:
my sincere apologies. @the bolded, u need to tell her. she prolly doesn't know. goodluck bro

zealot4me:
Op come and complete the story

mavany:
Anangboy, Dark art indeed!

armylord:
I told her to send a VN...but she didn't. well she came back online nd said.. she's so sorry, that she slept off nd she asked how my night was.. I haven't replied... she's on fb as we speak..

Afrok:
haha... bro u wan peep into their convo? Eavesdrop would be better coz trust me, Op is not ready to SWIM yet.

armylord:
Good morning romancelanders, well some of u might know me, some might not. well let me get straight to d point. My girlfriend whom I love so much.. she does too, suddenly started ignoring me u know less communication. She picks my call quite alright but on WhatsApp she reads my messages nd replies very late unlike before then she apologizes for d late reply. I wanted to see her yesterday she said no that'd she'll be busy in the evening? by 7pm.. well in her words *I'm sorry dear I'll be busy let's make it tmao,I love you* I said its OK.. Then I texted her later on that I wanna sleep on WhatsApp she read my text nd didn't reply.. but there's one thing I observed ....she's always on Facebook.. why is she ignoring me, I didn't do anything wrong. Is it because I showed her that I cared nd loved her,is that y she's tramping on my feelings. We've not had sex yet our relationship is quite new. a month nd half.. I even asked her nd told her to be honest with me , if she's tired of d relationship, she said No that she's not nd that she Loves me..Then y is she ignoring me, I do d calling nd I text first before she replies, but she says the word *I love you* first sometimes.. I'm kinda confused..

Ifakiland:
u say d relationship is young...u got to understand one tin bro, a gal as a frnd is diffrent d moment she becomes ur gal. she not ignoring u, she trying to gain early control of d relationship by making feel unloved, be d man, call her to order to stop d games or move on.

firstking01:
owk, lika said, play cool with her, dun be hard on her, pretend asif wat she did didn't hurt u...reply her message asap.

armylord:
yeah bro I took to ur advice nd errithing ended up great... we even did some bf gf thingy...

firstking01:
hehehe..i told u...i knw dem gals...wen dem dey act those their film, just ignore dem, wen dem cum bk to their senses, na u go enjoy am...so, wey my bottle of origin...i serious

armylord:
lol ok bro i go pm u 2 crates

Elosky20:
why nt ignore her back. remember no body is worth being unhappy for, live life to the fullest