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| How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
There's this cousin of mine, he's 32, a medical doctor and makes over $300,000 a year so hes a big baller. I had always wondered why hes still single and 3 years ago, he told me it was because he had a strong hatred for Nigerian ladies(he was raised in the states like me). Recently around november 2014 he called me telling me that his family were pressurizing him to marry a nigerian. Last year christmas when the whole family met to throw bombass parties, he introduced me to his fiancee, my body "Just weak". This The problem is i am just like my cousin and would rather not have any Nigerian lady in my life due to past experiences. I have a strong fear and dislike of them. Can you guys give me tips on how to conquer this irrational fear as i foresee it might cause trouble in the far future. I still have time on my side as i will be turning 21 this year...All suggestions are welcome. Lalasticlala,Mynd44 help a brother out...MrCork? 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Your mother is a Nigerian lady. Use her as a baseline of what you think of Nigerian women. If you've had a bad experience with 200 Nigerian women blame those 200 Nigerian women. Not over 80 million of them. Don't discriminate against your own race. Like it or not you are Nigerian. Your mum is a Nigerian, your sister is a Nigerian woman, your aunts, nieces are Nigerian women. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Vjcray: 9:04pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
[size=14pt] Nigerian ladies don't need a Your mentality got me thinking about the future of our our Nigerian youths who are abroad and suddenly think that Nigerian ladies are not good for them anymore.. .. .. If your dad where to marry a foreigner will you be spewing this nonsense? Well, your life, your mentality, your fvvking business.. . [/size] 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by MrCork: 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: ..GET A JOB GADEMMMMMIT!!!!  11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by lasisi69(f): 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Go bleep yourself if u hate them... 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
YourMain: I date black women but the "things Naija girls have shown me no be small"...Also, i am less than impressed with their way of thinking, we have soo little in common and its frustrating...The culture is just foreign to me. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: But you're here on NL for over 5 months and you're not complaining about culture. |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Ray360: 9:22pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
YourMain:I admire the echelon of intelligence that garnished this post. It is highly ridiculous and gobsmacking to lampoon or write-off a race as a result of the inefficiencies of a few. It's a fallacy. Op, Nigerian women are lovely and adorable, They lead the league of cultured women in Africa. they are hardworking and loving. Get a good Nigerian woman and thank me later. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
YourMain: I joined Nairaland as a 1yr project to get more familiar besides all i do is TROLL its not like i frequent culture section or anything and yes i do complain over Culture but im not a biitch that whines about it, stroll through my old post or threads if you ever get bored  |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by kaziblake(f): 9:22pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Try to date one over there. |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: Right. You came to learn about Nigerian culture and the way to do that is troll ? Maybe that's why you attract the kind of women you do because you're the same . |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Ray360: Thank you! I agree. |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by RoastedCorn(m): 9:30pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
No advice today, come tommorow |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
You have no sense |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Lol. You two-faced NLers, you! Y'all bash Naija chicks mercilessly, then suddenly rally round when disdain for them equals a National insult. Talk about patriotism  Well as I've always said, some Naija babes have major issues, but I'd still recommend them any day anytime. That's because of the strict (and often religious) upbringing they usually have. Some Nigerian girls may cheat, but they'll be discreet about it. You won't see her French-kissing your best pal at a raver. Most of them have sense enough to use condoms when playing away matches, so there's a reduced chance of getting a nasty STD or becoming preggo. And on and on it goes. As I already said, its their repressive upbringing that sorta tames them. So while some Naija chicks may not be angels, they're certainly known devils, which proverbs often let us know are preferable to unknown angels. Disclaimer: Everything I wrote up there is on the assumption that you're not dating a total slυt  NB: I use the quantifier some, because we can't judge all Nigerian ladies based on the actions of a fragment. We still have some awesome ladies, but finding them often makes Hercules' tasks seem like taking out the trash  1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by grad2012(f): 9:38pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
You sound like we are monsters.don't ever use one persons attitude towards you to judge the rest.There are so many wonderful Nigerian women out there you haven't even met yet. So why not give one a try you have your whole life ahead of you and you have nothing to lose. Besides your mum is a Nigerian, isn't she a wonderful woman? So if you want to date a Nigerian woman all you need is just plenty luv I your heart to show her. |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
YourMain: Nairaland is really boring and drab only my perseverance is the reason my account isnt deactivated. I know the kinds of ladies i want now...Dumb Blondes with phat asses and nice titts, beautiful black women whom just want child support checks but I am much more worried when i become mature and realize that i have no love lost for Nigerian Women. I know a few Nigerians that are decent and have been through hell because of the women from the confluence of River Niger and RIver Benue*YAWNS* Your poiuint isnt valid |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Keep bashing us naw |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
grad2012: You are not all monsters but there seems to be a higher concentration of the monsters where i live. I have dated 1 and attempted 2, that was all i needed to steer clear. My mum is a Woman...Wonderful  *YAWNS* "Na Buhari go decide that one" |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by MrCork: 9:46pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: ....then get a pat time job as a toilet or black board cleaner there in college & stop moanin like a pregnant donkeys!! (No ofeense) 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
To be honest eh, 98% of women are the same thing So it's cool, Nigerian or Algerian or Bulgarian. They have almost the same wahala and in the end it doesn't make much of a difference Key thing is to get someone who's at least mildly hot and intelligent: Easy on the eyes and ears |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: Ok. |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by RexKexMilann: 10:06pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
grad2012:I Like the way you type your comments Miss. You hardly Ever insert Abusive words Even when this OP deserved truck Loads of it. Kudos! 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by MrCork: 10:12pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: ^^^bro fon't u hav school homework?...u Tonkin nigerian women will date guys wit out qualifications?  |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrCork: I actually just came back from practice and currently chilling, dont you have a life other than replying "school boys"...I am rich and in 6yrs time they will be diieing to get a cut of my $300,000 income,. keep driving your battered range rover and dont go and get a sensible degree |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by zicoraads: 10:22pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrCork:  3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by MrCork: 10:28pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: ....u on $300.000 a year but then u spend 23 outer 24 hour on nairaland....my brother. .yor head is clearly not correct..goat!! (No ofeence) 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrCork: You are more active than me, keep deceiving yourself old man. You need to CUM join us small boys to get a degree cus i said in 6 yrs time ama be making that kinda cash...Ogbeni go sleep Ordinary McDoinalds worker with a 1977 Range rover 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by poshestmina(f): 10:36pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
We don't want to date you as well |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by MrCork: 10:37pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Vanquay: [size=16pt] STOP DERAILIN THE THREADS WIT YOR DUMB VIEWS!![/size] 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Leriebloom(f): 10:38pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
You are still young OP so u still have enough time to grow some sense. Keep waiting for dat manual to date a Nigerian lady ...... |
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