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| Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by omophuneh9(op): 11:49am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Am in a twist right now. Am in love with this girl who hasn't reciprocated either in action or words for the past one year. My problem is, her friend has made it clear verbally and in action that she's in love with me. I don't know what to do....any attempt to reciprocate her feelings towards me might jopatize my chances with the lady I love. Pls I need help... |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 11:50am On Jan 05, 2016 |
When the desirable becomes unavailable the available becomes desirable. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Nobody: 11:52am On Jan 05, 2016 |
BRO go for the one who loves you becaus the one who loves you will never do anything to hurt you, im posting from life experience. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Uchemus(m): 11:54am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Bro, go for the girl that loves you, no time to fetch water with basket. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by obiorathesubtle: 11:54am On Jan 05, 2016 |
 Bro.. This is even better..Look, you keep r/ship with the friend.. You can be straffing her while chasing the main chick... Until she makes up her mind(which I'm very sure she will).. You just keep _fucking the desperate friend.. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by StefanSalvatore: 11:55am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Go for d one dat has told u,d other gal would bcum jealous then u put her in her place |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 11:55am On Jan 05, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle:you bad ooooooo. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by obiorathesubtle: 11:58am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Godswillnwaoma: |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by LouisBERG: 12:16pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Hmmmm this is a state of a real dilemma. Bro no matter what you do to that gal you love. She won't love you since all your advances towards her never made her to blink an eyelid. Give her supposed girlfriend a chance LOVE they say takes time to grow. It might interest you to know that when you have a good time with the other gal frequently u MIGHT fall in love with her. Come to think of it you are on an advantage here she loves you. But pls dnt even think of taking advantage of her. Respect her verbal confidence. And respect her as a person. You and i know some of our gals won't even have the courage to be open like this. But be sensitive to decipher her real aim if is is love or monetary benefits that prompted her when you finally decide to accept her. #caLLmeBERG 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by omophuneh9(op): 12:35pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Thanks guys u just saved a guy of his confusion...I had such thoughts bt they weren't as plain as u have made them@ Godswillnwaoma, Uchemus, Stefansalvatore, Obiorathesubtle, Whitewitch, louiseBerG...especially Louise...ur advice ehe...no worry, we go nominate u as special advicer to d president, since he's as confused as I was b4 u helped me (speaking with respect to the economy). 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by omophuneh9(op): 12:37pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
I for like know watin d girls think abt this one...na dem dey form hard to get. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by MRBrownJ: 1:11pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
omophuneh9:how can her "friends" make it clear in their action that some gal loves you (while the gal herself ignores you)?! if a gal doesnt SHOW YOU (by her actions) that she cares for you then she doesnt, and you might as well move on with your life and stop wasting time. trying to be with someone who doesnt give a shit about you, while her friends are telling you that she does, is the craziest thing i have heard this hour. life is about loving someone who loves you EQUALLY back.... no compromise here! 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Odunharry(m): 1:27pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:I only pity the girl.. let her keep playing hard to get.. once I see signs of unseriousness, I simply ignore. Bro, believe me, that's what many Nigeria girls do.. they Lik a guy and still be forming boss. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by MRBrownJ: 1:34pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Odunharry:thats madness, so the guy runs after the gal aimlessly?! for how long? she should be dismissed the minute she plays uninterested, then she asks why you tell her because you'd rather focus on someone that is interested in you. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
We need more raw facts about what the relationship among u trio really look like niqq. Do'u guys work in the same place or something? |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
That's the irony of life. The one you love doesn't love you, the one who loves you you don't love Well, it's better to go for the one who loves you. It's safer and better |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by flokii: 2:29pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
omophuneh9:what if d one you love is immature or somtin and decides to friedzone you? what if... just saying m also curious for answers like you |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by braivheart: 3:03pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle:Don't tag her desperate now just cos she knows what she wants and was bold enough to go for it. What would you call the guy chasing a girl that clearly has no interest in him for a whole year?  HuaOP abeg if you want to swim and the the frozen lake refuses to melt (come summer, come spring), Move ahead. |
| Re: Should A Guy Go For A Girl He Loves Or One Who Loves Him?? by Odunharry(m): 3:32pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:believe me this set of girls will be the first to scream evil when they see the guy with another girl. Some will even tell you it's good for them to do shakara. I don't take what many of them say here too serious |
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