I have been sleeping with a work colleague for just less than a year. Officially, we are in a “casual relationship”, but I would like more. I defined the relationship as casual because I felt that if pressurised to be in a “real” relationship, he would run a million miles. He has had his heart broken in the past, suffers from anxiety and sometimes depression, and if I push too much, I can feel him pulling away. I have tried multiple times to break away from him – I never message him first, I don’t go out of my way to see him, I don’t ask him to come over – but he always ends up contacting me and re-sparking everything. I have never told him how I feel so I don’t think he knows the emotional turmoil I have been going through – I think he sees me as quite happy-go-lucky about things. The truth is that the relationship makes me feel empty, lonely and confused. I don’t feel as if I can tell him how I feel, and I don’t know if I should break it off or carry on. One part of me wants to be strong and leave him, but the other feels as if I haven’t given it enough of a chance (and I don’t want to scare him away). I have tried seeing other men, but they’re just not the same.

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He wined you
he dined you
you were shining teeth like mumu.
he fuckēd ur brains out,you enjoyed it.
now you want him to become ur full time maga.
#UngratefulBitches

toxic relationship.all those casual relationship ass guys r selfish fake people.everyone has had their heart broken one way or another.i dont blame them,they know either ways theyd get free punny
id tell u to flee but i cn guess how difficult it is leaving sm1 u love who wont meet u halfway.disengage ur heart from him as slowly as u want.u have all d time in d world
u wont get what u r looking for ma.run
but wetin pikin like me know

IamLEGEND1:
He wined you
he dined you
you were shining teeth like mumu.
he fuckēd ur brains out,you enjoyed it.
now you want him to become ur full time maga.
#UngratefulBitches

what is wrong with u!!!

Mzdivacious:
what is wrong with u!!!

u talking to me,ma'am?

I think you are a bit confused. May don't know what you want. Until you are sure of what you want, nothing's gonna change.

You said you tried pulling out yet you afraid letting go of him.

If yur sure you want something serious, then you have to let him know how you feel. Afterall you've got nothing to lose either way. But if you don't, you have a lot to lose. He's only gonna keep taking you as fwb and will definitely dump you when he's done eating while you never get to date other guy while in this fwb relationship

The ball's in your court

Eleyi gidigan o!
No advice 4 nw until 2moro

to be sincere with u, u don't need jesus or sense in dis mata as d guys above me claim. all u need, is who will love, appreciate and take u serious. dat guy, to me o, nor luv u, he just need u for service anytime he konji need somewhere to enter. mayb i go i advise u to use ur sense and put am 4 god hand

This thread mumu ehh!! leave trash for lawma

This thread mumu ehh!! #leavetrashforlawma

Mzdivacious:
what is wrong with u!!!

My dear, I can't ff back ooooo... Ooops !!!

Get yourself tested for HIV.

tosyne2much:
My dear, I can't ff back ooooo... Ooops !!!

i was shocked when i noticed we never ffd each other...so why cant u ffw.them don too plenty for ur list abi?
#issorai

IamLEGEND1:
u talking to me,ma'am?

lmao ehn ehn.iss me
u got no chill tonight.who chop ur chinchin

tosyne2much:
My dear, I can't ff back ooooo... Ooops !!!

CHISOS!250!!!!must u ffw evr1 back

Mzdivacious:
i was shocked when i noticed we never ffd each other...so why cant u ffw.them don too plenty for ur list abi?
#issorai

Who be the people wey plenty for my list ? Babes?

Mzdivacious:
CHISOS!250!!!!must u ffw evr1 back

When I have over 800 people ff me

Mzdivacious:
lmao ehn ehn.iss me
u got no chill tonight.who chop ur chinchin

How did u know I saw a rat eating my chinchin?

Beta tell am ur mind....