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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by AreaFada2: 10:29am On Jan 07, 2016

2dice:
are you for Real?
They are not yet married Op is suffering like diss
U are wicked
Which kid? ...who is the father?
Op if you can't resolve your issue before you marry her don't expect CHANGE after marriage ooo
Na one chance you enter so

You nor tire.

Some women like to downplay serious issues when a fellow woman is the one doing it.

What future has such a marriage? Now without kids the man hardly see her eye to eye. Even when together, no communication.

Na so dem dey.

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by banio: 10:30am On Jan 07, 2016

You can sharply suck the phone in water. That will solve the problem

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Nobody: 10:31am On Jan 07, 2016

frugal:
What's wrong in buying your girlfriend a phone if she genuinely needs one? Unless you're broke.

if there is notyn wrong in buying a phone ur babe the there should notyn wrong in seizing the phone if it stands as a barrier to the growth of the relationship..... am sure op will be having doubts abt finalizing their marriage rytez

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by 100freekiss: 10:33am On Jan 07, 2016

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

Abeg give am RED CARD

And collect your phone too , before the red card. Nonsense! !

Some women are silly , most don't know what they really want.

I'm sure , na one or two guys she met online dey scatter her head.

Abeg leave am , and move on to the next.

NB: Don't forget to take your phone.No give am second chance.

Leave that b1tch and pursue ur dreams, no dulling.

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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Functionoftime(m): 10:34am On Jan 07, 2016

STFUareyouGod:
it might not be. It might be just addiction. Sometimes the way people get addicted to their phones, you'd be force to think there's benefit attached to the number of hours spent with phone

I'm not here to argue. This is my opinion and it's from experience

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Oche211(m): 10:34am On Jan 07, 2016

2dice:
according to ya writeup some Goon somewhere in Afrikka is scattering her Dada
Right now You are more of a side-chic
#Op_Bewise

He is nw the side dude

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by ajijolatemidayo: 10:37am On Jan 07, 2016

well, i need to know the kind of phone she use to use before you got her this one.

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Nobody: 10:37am On Jan 07, 2016

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

https://www.nairaland.com/2847604/how-some-ladies-destroying-marriage

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Oche211(m): 10:38am On Jan 07, 2016

Take a pix of the phone, upload it on OLX nd sell it. What will happen if u buy her a car? She go club all nite be dat.

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Nobody: 10:39am On Jan 07, 2016

Take d phone without her knowing and keep it somewhere,

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by tiwiex(m): 10:40am On Jan 07, 2016

AceRoyal:
Bro lemme be blunt with u since others are too timid to say it.SHE MIGHT BE CHEATING ON YOU!
Who is she chatting with that she can give u much attention.She doesn't value you.
She ain't gonna change if u marry her,she's gonna get worse!

Gbam. Once you start treating a woman nicely, they seem to loose interest. They love it when they are guessing. I think you lost her the day u bought that phone. I suspect it was a huge investment from ur financial status. So now, you are a mugu to her. If u ask me, let her be. If u buy her car nko? I have seen this before but the babe was bold enought to tell me she had lost interest. I noticed d interest waning once I started trying to so stuffs like this. We will never understand women. I am not saying all women respond like this but most times. U notice ladies are glued to guys who don't care that much but talk their way through a lot.

It's a losing battle the more u complain.

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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Jagabanthelion: 10:42am On Jan 07, 2016

chocolateme:
Its all one of those domestic issues, give her a space because as kids start rolling in, more responsibilities go change am for her. I don't think that its the phone alone that changed her because even with her former phone, she still has her contacts and has been like that. You should talk sense into her but don't seize the fone as it will hype matters. She will come around.

FTC
CHOCOLATE CREAM

All in a bid to protect your fellow woman,see the kind of advice u are giving to a man who honestly is trying to draw his straying girl back home. He shd give her space so she can finally start cheating right? There is a line btw being excited by a new phone n plannin cheating. I've gone thru d chats of my last 2 gfs n I tell u,d contents are the same. U can guess y I ended both relationships. Ladies these days can be disgusting. Imagine a lady in your house,ontop your own bed. telling about 3 guys she loves them too ryt in ur presence,just because u can't see her phone.let's not even talk about d dirty chats n nude pictures they exchange.
OP,u MUST see what she is chatting on dat phone b4 harbouring any thoughts of continuing wit the relationship. Beta act fast b4 she starts deleting them. Believe me,what u may find may save u frm marrying a woman who may kill u with hypertension b4 u get to 50yrs.

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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by 2dice(m): 10:43am On Jan 07, 2016

AreaFada2:
You nor tire.

Some women like to downplay serious issues when a fellow woman is the one doing it.

What future has such a marriage? Now without kids the man hardly see her eye to eye. Even when together, no communication.

Na so dem dey.

lol don't mind her
If it was the lady that was complaining now
She won't have type such
Seems she is now a fiancee
She believes the dude can't do without her

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by 2dice(m): 10:45am On Jan 07, 2016

Oche211:
He is nw the side dude

Yea man..side chic ...side dude

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by ODUBEZE: 10:47am On Jan 07, 2016

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

Give her space! Get yourself busy! Don't call her like for a week!
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If you are meant to be, she will be worried and call! Don't pick!
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she will come and look for you then you can both sit down and have a matured discussion!
Don't be confrontational if not she will throw it to your face by telling you that what have you done that others cannot do!
Be cool! play it maturely.
It is well!

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Nobody: 10:51am On Jan 07, 2016

Functionoftime:
I'm not here to argue. This is my opinion and it's from experience

ok sir

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by breakeven: 10:51am On Jan 07, 2016

Advise her to change, may be still give her sometime. If she refused to change, then change her,because marriage is a serious business.

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Karleb(m): 10:51am On Jan 07, 2016

That's what happens when you use an android phone with data subscription for the first time.

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Mrevildoer(m): 10:51am On Jan 07, 2016

Fvck her nd mke sure she get pregnant forget dah ish of getting pregnant b4 marriage

U are gradually loosing her bro

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by akpur1(m): 10:56am On Jan 07, 2016

smash it when she dey use. am sure she is cheating on you

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Charly68: 10:59am On Jan 07, 2016

Your marriage with her can not work ...God is giving you early warning now,despise this & ruin your marital life..Don't marry a baby as wife..if she can't maintain relationship now she won't be able to make you happy in marriage either..More so ,marriage will open your eyes further to her weaknesses but then it might be too late to let go..if it is only engagement that you have done,better disengage fast to avoid future catastrophe . Once you are married to an incompatible woman,slot of things will go wrong in your life..besides this life must be enjoyed & not endured that is how to stay young & long till you see God face to face.. Run for your life..no pity party on this matter.

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by nanalady(f): 11:02am On Jan 07, 2016

Lexusgs430:
You dey take style style sell market?

yes o..i dey take style sell market.. undecided

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by chccho(m): 11:07am On Jan 07, 2016

OP u are not being realistic here!!!

It all sounds like your GF is having an affair with someone else..

I think u should try and go thru her phone or u could just relate with her the same way she relates with u and observe what will happen

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by iceberylin(m): 11:10am On Jan 07, 2016

flawlessT:
...U try,shey dis will settle is problem. abi?

Yes na.. .once she GEt kids she'll have other responsibilities than being a phone addict.

Also incase she chats out a more suitable suitor,dude must have fuc ked enough. wink

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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by shingu(m): 11:11am On Jan 07, 2016

fbtowner:
Thunder wey go fire the girl wey I go use my money buy phone for wey go com dey ignore me still dey for army training ground

Besides I don't think I can even buy phone for my girlfriend. Lol. She must have over do some impressing stuff.

I think with my head not my dick

Op try to b like me

God will bless yhu o jare....aw i go fone for a girl u go con divorce me marry d fone God forbid i will find way of spoilin d fone i swear hmm i be correct street boy o #LeaveThrashForLawma

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Sammyblaq(m): 11:11am On Jan 07, 2016

Steal back the phone and watch her actions... then you can draw a conclusion.

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by iceberylin(m): 11:12am On Jan 07, 2016

Teensway:
How i wish nairaland get dislike button, i wonder how many dislikes some people for get because of their useless comments...

Now let me break my comment down to ya level of IQ..

Sex will get her pregnant..once she make kids she'll have other responsibilities than being a phone addict.

Still wana dislike undecided

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Missonas(f): 11:13am On Jan 07, 2016

Reminds me of DMXs' old song

Give the dog a bone
Leave the dog alone
Let the dog roam and
he will find its way home
Lol but in dis case she may not o. Op talk to her about it if she no change u knw wat to do

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Histrings08(m): 11:17am On Jan 07, 2016

AceRoyal:
Bro lemme be blunt with u since others are too timid to say it.SHE MIGHT BE CHEATING ON YOU!
Who is she chatting with that she can give u much attention.She doesn't value you.
She ain't gonna change if u marry her,she's gonna get worse!

.... Na xo omo iya MI... @op, You've lost her ND I don't think tz worth it fighting a lost cause... Tz until u walk away from her she'll realize what she's done to u nd herself... Talking to her bout it might present u as an insecure being....

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by efemena22(m): 11:24am On Jan 07, 2016

drdrei09:
Pray dat the phone spoils

or maybe get stolen... hehehe

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Teeklef(m): 11:28am On Jan 07, 2016

Yahoo Girl No Laptop

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by frugal(m): 11:31am On Jan 07, 2016

Skmoda360:
Some girls don't worth it.

Why would you remain in a relationship with such girls in the first place?

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