Cat dey sleep, rat go touch em tail...wetin e dey find?? Palava... In Fella's voice.

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

I advice that you make the phone disappear mysteriously for a week.... here body go calm down

macfish101:
The street is military, u 've got to be a soldier.....advicing her will neva help you in this case, instead she will now do more daring stuffs....maybe take her phone flirting to a whole new level.....O.P, arrange for her phone to be stolen, or u steal it urself witout violence.....then watch how she reacts to the situation. Then u will knw wat to do next....Desperate things calls for desperate measures.....else u will lose ur bae to phone boyfriend.

i concur

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

This ruined my relationship of 4yrs+. When a woman pays more time chatting like it's the most important thing in life, avoid such a woman. How can she be using 2go, bbm, badoo, Instagram, telegram, Skype, eskimi, twitter, WhatsApp, and lots more, and then to give u 1hr of her time, she complains. I love goal oriented girls, My ideal social medium is Nairaland. U spend hours learning and reading people's experience, not wasting time on people and fingering an electronic device. Men set ur standards, if your dispositions don't match hers, quit. 2hrs in a couple of days does not ruin anybody. We can live without chatting, there's phone call.
Yes, people are making breakthroughs through that medium, but there's a stringent standard of behavior all must follow, a social control system. The problem is we term all things normal until they are no more normal. Errors are not meant to be lived with, they are to be removed and corrected.

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

How old is your girl ?

If you are dating any lady 25 years and below, that is how they behave. I used this kind worry scare on away before.

Just act like YOU DONT CARE.

She will outgrow it when you knack her give am belle.. Note, she loves you very well. Sometimes they want to see how you handle jealousy.

Next !!!

Lexusgs430:


Is fowl another variant of G0ldcircle?

Nope! It could rep u.

Na u cause am, so na you go settle am.. collect d phone back, wahala dey there ni?

STFUareyouGod:
You have to make her understand how the phone has stolen her away from you now before she gets completely addicted to it. Phone addiction is something very serious to cure. Pour out your mind and displeasure

It's far from phone addiction. Another guy is taking her attention. My advice to op. Leave her, let her be and sometimes ignore her too, forming busy. She will come around. Its called reverse psychology

Lordprez:
Well op you can do any/all of the following

1. distract her with fun activities, like going out or talking about something that would interest her

2. Communicate with her and state your displeasure in her recent attitude

3. F*ckin' sabotage the goddamn phone, trust me it might be temporary buh it will do the job.... Half bread is better


If it will work out, it will... Juz chill, have patience and try not do anything you'd regret or call stup!!d later

worse advice

We are in jet age! Who got time to do all this stuff just for a commoner


OP think with ya head and not ya dicck! You better dispose that GIRL in time.

Funkybabee:
oloun men are the same just because he bought her a phone mean he can seize it haaa oga fun awon okunrin o


anyway my advice to the @op call her and tell her what u don't like about it if she is Truly ur woman and she afraid to loose u she will change her attitude
best of luck pls don't listen to then ooo

if Op can "give" then Op can equally "take" after-all life is all about "give and take"

bet9jaguru:


if Op can "give" then Op can equally "take" after-all life is all about "give and take"

hmmmm give and take

summerflame:
my town girl, what's up? reply your PM

Re send. Ur PM,mistakenly deleted it

Op Donicobone your girlfriend is not ready for marriage.

She's like a teenager who hasn't gotten over the acquisition of a new phone. The whole chatting/social media experience is new to her.

She probably posted a pic on IG and her admirers are patronising her, and it seems she's smitten.

Its like when a poor person hits a jackpot, they just spend and spend the money, they so excited.

Talk to her, if she doesn't change. Collect the phone and smash it in her presence, her actions after that will determine if you still want to marry her.

Teensway:
How i wish nairaland get dislike button, i wonder how many dislikes some people for get because of their useless comments...

its not a useless comment .... maybe op is boring in bed and his babe is kinda looking for excitement outside...... op should step up his bedmaticz

Functionoftime:

It's far from phone addiction. Another guy is taking her attention. My advice to op. Leave her, let her be and sometimes ignore her too, forming busy. She will come around. Its called reverse psychology

it might not be. It might be just addiction. Sometimes the way people get addicted to their phones, you'd be force to think there's benefit attached to the number of hours spent with phone

frugal:


What's wrong in buying your girlfriend a phone if she genuinely needs one? Unless you're broke.

your girlfriend is not your wife and there is no law saying you must buy anything or something for your girlfriend you are not yet married.

If she genuinely need one, she can HUSTLE to get it or ask her parent for a phone since she is still in her parent's house and you are not legally bounded to her.

Broke you said! let me ask you a simple question!

Is broke a permanent stage?

If you are mistaking broke with poverty, you really need to go back to SCH.

try and send me a pm, I just resend , it wasn't going through, once u send, I will reply instantly

abumeinben:
Well..this is not so easy. Donicobone

If she didn't have a chattable fone before, then it will seem as if u brought a girl from the village to see cartoon network on dstv.

Believe me, if subscribe after 2months offline, you know how it is...loads of messages to respond to. Lots of things you've missed. Trying to re-tune up. It's another world of its own.

However, nothing should be able to truncate her love and "TIME" for you. In as much as I don't like going try my girl's fone, this is exceptional. Kindly and respectfully ask her....may I see your fone? You may see lots of stuff that'll break ya heart o, but be strong.


Nothing lasts forever. Life is short. Life is temporary. Your happiness matters.

Take her for a date, have a nice time....like while you're there at the date, chat with her on WhatsApp, yeah, more chatting, less talking...see her response time. Her facial expression and body language.

Then back to the house for heart to heart talk.

Nice piece. Donicobone here is what u need

my boda she don dump u be Dat oo

bro, everybody is entitled to his or her personal opinion. why bashing Chocolateme?

use her to the fullest and dump her or use her to satisfy ur needs............

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

she will not listen...call her and talk to her..or find a way of going through her chat someday to be sure of who you are dealing with.. my advice...i know what am saying...i had similar experience...i met her when her phone was bad....but most times her call is on waiting when you call...always on long call everytime and smilling sheepishly to every caller....99% guyz...90% married men..when she got a better phone she stays online til 2 to 3am and will hardly chat me...but shes a perfect liar and will always give an excuse...i later got to know shes been seeing different guys...in short i moved on..shes trying to keep me...but i moved on....think twice bro...if you cant tolerate her now...

sonofananimal:
worse advice

We are in jet age! Who got time to do all this stuff just for a commoner


OP think with ya head and not ya dicck! You better dispose that GIRL in time.

dude... if you keep disposing every gal you meet juz cus of some shitty setback, then you're juz gonna live ur life miserable

sometimes you gotta grow some balls and fight for someone you love... Go the extreme mile, do the biggest sh!!t

need I mention, the op has marriage intentions.... thus she's no longer some commoner he gets to wake up one morning and make the "break up" call with

buh then, its left to the OP... Cus he'd be the one regretting later

OP.. If you care to hear the truth, that change in behavior does not only has to do with the new phone, the truth is some BOYS don they deceive her be that and she is falling for the bait. The truth is be very sensitive and pray so God of your forefather can show you the underG event taking place.. Talking from experience bro..

2cent

F*ck her harder!!!

Ginaz:
Who's the her she's addicted to? Is she a lesbian? . Lol sorry joor but what can we say now

I read that post again to be sure... Now I'm not doubtful are high on weed... Sophia incarnate:/

Funkybabee:


hmmmm give and take

hmmmm take and give

naijaboiy:

But who is she chatting with that she cannot pay attention to her boyfriend when he's around?

Even when kids come that kind of person can still be busy with her phone instead of breast feeding her child.

Some girls these days are married to their phones than to their husbands. Instead of them to be cooking they are busy updating pictures on Instagram and instead of them to be breastfeeding their kids they rather engage in Twitter fights or searching lindaikeji for Amebor gists that is not their business.


Doesn't seem normal to me.

wat ll u say abt boyfrnds n married men dat r glued to dere fones?

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

perfect description of an end time girl

yoksy:
wat ll u say abt boyfrnds n married men dat r glued to dere fones?

its either business related or work related..... op didnt say his babe works

whitebone:
OP.. If you care to hear the truth, that change in behavior does not only has to do with the new phone, the truth is some BOYS don they deceive her be that and she is falling for the bait. The truth is be very sensitive and pray so God of your forefather can show you the underG event taking place.. Talking from experience bro..

2cent

prayer cannot solve this equation....... all op needs to do is to subtract the phone from the equation since adding the fone was the cuase of the problem in the first place......

To my mind, I will advice you to call her, seat her down and you guys should talk about it.