Your woman is not matured and can not prioritize her desires, getting married is easy, who u end up with is the issue, you need to collect the phone and break it to pieces and tell her u r leaving the relationship with all seriousness. Give her a nokia torchlight phone. And make sure u r d man. You don't treat ladies with kid gloves. They are all the same. If u love her as u claim. You will save her from "self destruct" cuz i bliv someone is already on that chat list trying to take chances with her. Act now bro.

G0ldcircle:
I actually felt this thread was created by my boyfriend.

Oya start confessing your new found addiction

The Best i can say to you bro,is to understand that women are kids (so to say), u need her attention isn't? Y not let things slide,allow how to enjoy her moment,give her time,don't nag,dont complain about the situation.. Just be a MAN. Soonest she would realise that saying that goes thus; "Silence is Golden". Remember ur complaining can't change anything,rather he would see you as one who complains of little things.. Ok

it seems someone is chatting with her and making her happy on line... Be careful and watch properly,they might be doing naughty stuffs oh. my. advice is that you should talk to her and if she doesn't listen,then smach the phone and throw it away

Thats ma issue wit some men..b.it.ching around n panicking..y is it dt wen eva guys re bout d get married,ani small glitch de c in d lady becomes a big problem?...if u cnt talk to her in a relationship n come on social media to announce it,i bet u wen u get married n she does somtin little,u wil do same...dis is same person u gonna get married to n u hv to stat actin it if nt u cnt handle a marriage

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

Bros talk to her that you don't like it... If she doesn't change use the phone to stone the wall
..you can get her a new one later and apologise... Trust me she would not dare do it again unless she doesn't love u or she already has someone else

So sad!!
I advise you don't call her for a while too (fashi her briefly). If she doesn't mind your leaving her say for 2wks, then bid the relationship farewell. Don't venture into marriage with someone who puts anything/person beside God before you. Wishing you all the best!!!

chocolateme:
Its all one of those domestic issues, give her a space because as kids start rolling in, more responsibilities go change am for her. Relax

Terrible advice

@ op, express your discomfort to her, detailing it with carrot / stick A.

I hate it wn guys come here and lament like sissies. Are u are woman. U bought her the phone, if its d problem den take it back. Its obvious u're too soft to be called a man. Call her to inform her u have sometn important to tell her. Be firm and tell her ur misgivings and u'll be forced to quit if tins don't improve. Oor won't u survive without her. Haven't u been surviving before u met her. Pls don't come here and embarrase we men jare

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

Take it from me,dere is someone tickling her fancy.. give her time and space,she may cme around and she may not.. its a two way thing.. Talking frm xperience

Call her and have a face to face discussion ,be very firm and serious about it,let her know she owns her fone nad can chat whoever she likes but you wnt tolerate when shes with you and spends her whole time chatting.. Be nice and strict wen telling her this

treasuress:
Bros talk to her that you don't like it... If she doesn't change use the phone to stone the wall
..you can get her a new one later and apologise... Trust me she would not dare do it again unless she doesn't love u or she already has someone else

abeg send the phone to me and I'll give you a 3310 to smash on the wall

Seize the phone...

You can scare her by telling her u want to call of the wedding,she will come back to her senses.

The solution is right below your nose. Just collect the phone from her and everything wil start being as it used to!

Guy I can understand your pains,let me be frank with you she no longer yours,she has be overtaken by event,surely she is going to regret it.I have such experience on hand now and I leave her,now she is begging and i told hersome else had took her position as she had gave mine to someone too.,Get another woman, don't give attention any more.by the time she would get Her burnt... Please leave before she gave you hypertension and orisirsi ooo.

if i were u i would ask her to tell me what shes doing up by 3am in the morning and who shes chatting with.. you need to know. finally, discuss it with her, let her know you are un happy with this APC change , she should be reasonable enough to understand you a bit ..

1] Sit her down, make her understand you are not comfortable with the new development,

2] Try to make the conversation as gentlemanly and direct as possible. Make sure your disappointment is well understood,

3] Give her time to allow the message sink,

If nothing changes,

<Repeat 1, 2, 3>

Probably she didn't get it initially,

Nothing still changes,

<Walk away, Unapologetically>

chocolateme:
Its all one of those domestic issues, give her a space because as kids start rolling in, more responsibilities go change am for her. Relax

Daft cu nt

Op you no get problem.

When time reach, her eyes go sharpen

You dated her for 2 years. You got engaged 4 months ago and planning to get married this year. May I ask you: How many times have you had s.ex with her? For your information, you ought to have married her long time ago but starting to have s.ex with her. Now, you chose se.x to marriage and as at it stands right now, she is not your wife and would never be. So, get your life together, give your life to JESUS and trust Him for your real partner in marriage. GOD bless you.

Let me tell you op if I were u..I would sieze that phone from her and threaten to leave that relationship..Women are not to be trusted at all..The truth is dat if you give a woman freedom she misuses it..give her one mile she would go 7 miles..One guy she met online that is driving her fish brain crazy is the only reason why she doesn't have time for u again and if care is not taken she would start cheating on you and befor u know it ur relationship is over..Ur d man here and I expect you to act as one..Some times women need to be treated like kids if not most don't know their left frm dier right.U are her guardian and its ur duty to protect her frm anythin that would destroy what u have suffered to build.Social media is d reason for so many failed marriages and relationships..Don't give her dat chance at all.She must choose between her phone and your relationship..Give her that threat afta siezing her phone..Then if she chooses her phone over u then dump d bitch she is not worth it at all..

lol. d fact z she may even b calling oga op a houseboy on doz chats eleyi gidi gaaaaan

[quote author=Donicobone post=41726835]Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice[/quot


As the husband to be seize the phone naa. Take charge

ElFenomeno1:


Daft cu nt

that's all you learnt in all your 22 years of trying to grow into a man and which is still eluding u. Stay well dear.

you are about getting married to omo oko/omo oju o rola ri,i dont know how to write dat in English,she doesnt have your time,she is the type dat gets carried away with little and flashy things. Fok the hell at of her and dump her.

drdrei09:
Pray dat the phone spoils

Lolz. Wickid

AceRoyal:
Bro lemme be blunt with u since others are too timid to say it.SHE MIGHT BE CHEATING ON YOU!
Who is she chatting with that she can give u much attention.She doesn't value you.
She ain't gonna change if u marry her,she's gonna get worse!

u make sense abeg nice one

Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

accidentally soak the phone in water for five to 30 minutes preferably with bleach. Promise to but her a new one but fulfil it after marriage. Get her Nokia torchlight in the mean time.

Tenk me later

chocolateme:
Its all one of those domestic issues, give her a space because as kids start rolling in, more responsibilities go change am for her. Relax

For d ist time, I just luv u. Nice advice, most times u don't Ñeed to talk, just let her be but don't flirt around o. Stay away, dnt call, dnt receive hers too for some time. If she values u, she must come arnd if not, men u have to let her go