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aetel1:
Please note there is a high chance a Virgin will cheat on u after marriage. There is something called mid life crisis when women feel alone. At this point such a lady will feel she had only one man and feel curious to want another. They may be more vulnerable. An example is Tyler Perry's confessions diary of a marriage counselor. Please be careful what you wish for. An experienced lady has been there and done that. God bless u, you are the best she has ever had. She will stick to u sexually.

Trash! There is no high chance anything... That I wana marry any gal that comes my way doesn't mean other guys shouldn't have the choice of gals they want.

What I like is that there are virgins and men that likes em will marry them, but if you're not a virgin don't kill yourself because you will still be married by your sort of guy. ladies get pissed when they love a guy and this guy is always talking about love for virgin girls. I know what you are passing through but just relax it's always birds of same feather that will flock together. relax

To guys that are yet to marry, thank your star for reading this. Things to make U a happy married man.
1) 100% sexual satisfaction.
2) At least 60% good behaviour
3) At least 60% good cook.
Virgin girl alone is not the solution for a happy married life

oshdam2015:
Wow, this write-up is on point. But sure, those guyz that were killed by virgin in their first being will come castigate you now.

This statement is so true "that she can sing down the heavens doesn’t mean she will make you a good wife". U may like ladies that sing, but that should not be the main reason for marrying her. The fact that she can sing doesn't even mean she's spirit filled.

Also, I've said this before now, what will last till wedding night should not be a determinant in going into marriage. That is juvenile. Virginity will expire on the wedding's night but her character and personality in general will last a lifetime.

Good for you if you found a lady, possessing all the qualities you want in a lady, at the same time a virgin. In fact cherish her. But don't let go, a lady possessing those qualities, all because she's not a virgin. The fact that u married her a virgin does not guaranty that she won't have extra marital affairs. Guyz wise up and see the big picture.

Virginity is so difficult to define anyway... it's not physical, because you can break your hymen in other ways apart from sex. And it's not emotional, because you can be sexually innocent even if you've had full sex (like sexual abuse survivors) or very experienced if you've only had non-penetrative sex.

Personally, i'll want a virgin because they're more emotionally healthy and i'd want someone with sexual restraints.

Virgin.

An individual being a Virgin represent a pure state of mind that ponders Spiritual things and believe in revelations and messages from God.
An extremely dry barren phase of thought in man higher consciousness should be alive but it so permeated with Negative ideas so filled with sense of shame and so lacking an element of true positive understanding doing nothing to put out of consciousness that which the iniquity of the senses signify. It is therefore destroy by good all about the purity of the original soul quality that has place in the higher real of thought in man consciousness

donbabajay:
Virginity is so difficult to define anyway... it's not physical, because you can break your hymen in other ways apart from sex. And it's not emotional, because you can be sexually innocent even if you've had full sex (like sexual abuse survivors) or very experienced if you've only had non-penetrative sex.

Personally, i'll want a virgin because they're more emotionally healthy and i'd want someone with sexual restraints.

Nice bro. But if I may ask you, is virginity the only thing you want in a lady?. You can marry lady not emotionally stable if she's a virgin. You can marry a lady that is diabolical because she's a virgin. You can marry a lady that is rude and saucy because she's a virgin.

If she combines good qualities with her virginity, that is the best.

Virginity is not the passport to marriage. There is more to marriage than being a virgin.

Don't lose your angel because she's not a virgin. Also, don't let a lady lied to you that she's a virgin because that is all you wanted. After all, you can only confirm on the night of wedding.

God forbid it happen to you. But if it was you, what would you do then.

It got me wondering sha, do guyz still ask about virginity status when learning about a lady?.

I dated a virgin lady for more than 3yrs. Although we tried but she couldn't stand the pains. She has so many attitudes I don't like but, I was in the relationship hoping she would change. When I concluded I can't marry her with the attitudes, I stopped even engaging in romance with her so she can preserve herself for her guy if that is all the new guy will want. But for me, I will marry any ladies that has all the qualities I want in a lady. Mind you, virginity is not part of my requirements. It can only be a plus.

After scattering your kittykat to get iphones and takeaway lunch, after turning it to a wide,dry tasteless well you want to use this yeye write-up to hood-wink me to marry expired olosho? Noway! Geerrout a here!

torqque7:
Yes o..its bin a while I visited 30plus singles thread,I have lots to catch up on and read lol..I av been good thank you.. I trust you are great too?happy new year

Great..wish you same,lots and lots oo..lol

The fact that she's a virgin at marriage doesn't mean she can't be a potential bitch or karashika

The fact that she's a virgin at marriage doesn't mean she can't be a potential bi**h or karashika

Bigmarx have you seen this thread?

Favolly:
Bigmarx have you seen this thread?

Hello.

Tot they said virgin girls are old fashion, is good to be a virgin o but how about the non-virgin ones who will marry them?. Like Poles attract so if you know you not a virgin stop craving for a virgin girl because u won't get them.

jmoore:
Tear rubber. She must be a virgin, no negotiation.

A man with a brand new dick deserves a woman with a tear-rubber honeypot for marriage.

Naso my brother.

Carnations:
Lol.. Goan finish it, joor.

First off, let me quote something I saw recently said to have been uttered by Donald Trump and directed at the male-folks in the light of your topic!
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He said, and I quote: "Nigggaa, The Pvvssy Is Not Yours! It Is Just Your Turn." #LOLZ
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Men attach importance to a lady or woman's virginity due to the hole-like attribute of a woman's pvssy! The man would want to savour any penetration! I expected you to already know this!
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Ok! "virgin-bad-wife" versus "borehole-good-wife."
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For asking if he himself is a virgin looking for a virgin too, luckily, a man's virginity cannot be practically determined! However, a few number of non-virgin females are naturally created tight!
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On the whole, science has remedies for enlargement (for male) and tightening (for female) for each other's enjoyment!
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The higher libido thing with men comes with an unbridled love for sex!

oshdam2015:
Nice bro. But if I may ask you, is virginity the only thing you want in a lady?. You can marry lady not emotionally stable if she's a virgin. You can marry a lady that is diabolical because she's a virgin. You can marry a lady that is rude and saucy because she's a virgin.

If she combines good qualities with her virginity, that is the best.

Virginity is not the passport to marriage. There is more to marriage than being a virgin.

Don't lose your angel because she's not a virgin. Also, don't let a lady lied to you that she's a virgin because that is all you wanted. After all, you can only confirm on the night of wedding.

God forbid it happen to you. But if it was you, what would you do then.

It got me wondering sha, do guyz still ask about virginity status when learning about a lady?.

I dated a virgin lady for more than 3yrs. Although we tried but she couldn't stand the pains. She has so many attitudes I don't like but, I was in the relationship hoping she would change. When I concluded I can't marry her with the attitudes, I stopped even engaging in romance with her so she can preserve herself for her guy if that is all the new guy will want. But for me, I will marry any ladies that has all the qualities I want in a lady. Mind you, virginity is not part of my requirements. It can only be a plus.

I'm not saying I want a virgin because it's a sin or what not. Whether we like it or not, virginity is self restraint for not giving into temptation and that says a million things about the person (male or female) and that's the sort of person I would want.

its really not easy tmo resist the urge buh thank God am still a virgin................eeeeem op,am sorry you lost your virginity to an ex,hmm thats too bad,but please this your evangelism should stop cus its more demonic than blue film,it corrupts the mind of a virgin.......you don't really need to start sucking blood or flying at night to know that you are a witch,a witch is someone who oppress those with good intentions to backoff because they av lost their chances of taking such steps........nobody is condemning you for not being a virgin,but pls keep it to yourself,you dnt have to belittle others because you went the wrong way...........

I want to marry a virgin and i beg God to help me with that
#teamvirgins#tear-rubber

joseph1832:
Hello.

Hi Joseph

joseph1832:
Hello.

Hi Joseph

oshdam2015:
Nice bro. But if I may ask you, is virginity the only thing you want in a lady?. You can marry lady not emotionally stable if she's a virgin. You can marry a lady that is diabolical because she's a virgin. You can marry a lady that is rude and saucy because she's a virgin.

If she combines good qualities with her virginity, that is the best.

Virginity is not the passport to marriage. There is more to marriage than being a virgin.

Don't lose your angel because she's not a virgin. Also, don't let a lady lied to you that she's a virgin because that is all you wanted. After all, you can only confirm on the night of wedding.

God forbid it happen to you. But if it was you, what would you do then.

It got me wondering sha, do guyz still ask about virginity status when learning about a lady?.

I dated a virgin lady for more than 3yrs. Although we tried but she couldn't stand the pains. She has so many attitudes I don't like but, I was in the relationship hoping she would change. When I concluded I can't marry her with the attitudes, I stopped even engaging in romance with her so she can preserve herself for her guy if that is all the new guy will want. But for me, I will marry any ladies that has all the qualities I want in a lady. Mind you, virginity is not part of my requirements. It can only be a plus.

I'm not saying I want a virgin because it's a sin or what not. Whether we like it or not, virginity is self restraint for not giving into temptation and that says a million things about the person (male or female) and that's the sort of person I would want.

samchide:
Virgin.

An individual being a Virgin represent a pure state of mind that ponders Spiritual things and believe in revelations and messages from God.
An extremely dry barren phase of thought in man higher consciousness should be alive but it so permeated with Negative ideas so filled with sense of shame and so lacking an element of true positive understanding doing nothing to put out of consciousness that which the iniquity of the senses signify. It is therefore destroy by good all about the purity of the original soul quality that has place in the higher real of thought in man consciousness

hmm,bros this one you just kept mute,say something naa

Decker:
Virginity is one of the most overrated concepts of this modern day contemporary west african society.

It's so annoying when I hear guys say that they only want to marry a virgin, as if marrying a virgin guarantees having a happy marriage. Or as if marrying a virgin means you have married the best kind of woman.

Honestly, looking at it closely, what does one stand to again by marrying a virgin?
That you are the first to have sex with her? What else? Nothing, and in the long run the disadvantages that comes with marrying a virgin outweighs the only advantage which is being the first to have sex with her.

And what's more annoying is that most of the men who claim to want to marry virgins aren't virgins themselves, and have actually disvirgened ladies in the past.

So if I meet a woman who has all the qualities I need in a woman, but isn't a virgin, then I shouldn't marry her? Isn't that stupidity? Then if I see a girl who is a virgin then I should marry her?

And people have the mindset of associating decency and having a good character with virginity. According to them, any girl who is a virgin is decent and has self control and would be faithful in the marriage, but these people are wrong and the reverse of what they believe is what we see today in our society.

As for me, I would like to marry a lady who has some sexual experience. Not some sexual novice. Besides, I can't even marry someone I haven't had sex with.

this ur trash need to be left for lawma.

In as much as get frustrated about the issue of virgins, dnt neglect the spiritual side of it. That's if u blive in the spiritual things sef... Bye

A virgin can be like you today is she so chooses, however, you can't be like her anymore. I sympathise with those that were raped and abused, Buh if you lost yours outta peer pressure or whatever and come here to belittle chastity, may your daughter lose it at 14.
Most times the stats are taken, more V girls prefer the active/versed guys to V guys.
If that be the case, no one has a right to say because I took a girls virginity, I don't deserve to get married to one. That's absolute thrash. You were not rqped, you gave it out for the pleasure of it.
As much as that doesn't outrightly make you a terrible being not worthy of a good marriage, you likewise have no right to downplay self denial and deecipline.
We all gonna be parents, while some of us will teach our children by our examples of mistakes, some should by good examples
I am not stifffnecked on marrying a V, however if my luck plays out that way, why shouldnt I be forever grateful. Even if its for my daughters sake.

Who ever wrote this article is not objective, his/her biasness is spelt all over it in Capital letters. The author is writing from a pained heart pouring out emotions without any sense of balance. Get some experience and skill in putting downs thoughts on sensitive and controversial topics.

jmoore:
Tear rubber. She must be a virgin, no negotiation.

A man with a brand new dick deserves a woman with a tear-rubber honeypot for marriage.

I love you for this comment.

It is a choice if you want to remain a Virgin or not until you are married , so stop creating threads to mock those who choose to keep theirs, they have reasons best known to them for keeping it.

steph2sweet:
I love you for this comment.

Thanks

Yosifperfect:
I dn't know what OP is saying, but I must marry a virgin or no one!

Hahahaha, guys are not smiling for this thread oo

MISSCONGENIALITY:
95% of those who seem to be vrigins are just liars. There are actually very raz girls out there who are vrigins but their behaviour doesn't show it.
Well, my advise to the virgins on nairalan is that they should remain like that till they married,cos some men might end up single for life if they don't find virgins to marry. But as I've always said, many will be disappointed on their wedding night.

Sorry to say this, but your advice reeks of jealousy. It is better not adhered to.

steph2sweet:
Sorry to say this, but your advice reeks of jealousy. It is better not adhered to.

well, u never can know. Not all virgins go round begging people to bellief that they are virgins u know. Why on earth wud I be jealous of one who is strong if enough to remain a virgin in this present generation? But whether u like it or not, there are many fake virgins out there.

A woman has a choice to sleep with a man before marriage so let's not blame the man. Don't sleep with a man before marriage.

As I've said before Virgin women are for Virgin men only.

MsGlobalwonder:
lmaooo. You are trying .. .le hustle and struggle le real. [s]You don't need to spew jargons and balderdash to "hit the spot"[/s]

you need to learn to keep up when conversating with the Black Shakespeare... I forgot you had to drop out of high school after you got impregnated by Gbolahan, the skin-headed janitor... no wonder basic words like bipolarity & oestrogen sound like balderdash to you...

stop shaming yourself in public..semi-illiterate degenerate..