In that case, in addition to the letter of consent, go with a copy of his visa page, I'd have said go with his passport but in case the VO already has bad plans...

All the best and come to gist us after.

shabbey09:


He already has a valid US visa
Thanks LI

olokings:
That's very wrong of u to say. ..
You think you have gotten all u need?
Snatch yourself get shunned from now on!

I haven't gotten .all I need oo... I didn't want to start exchange irrelevant words since I am just here to learn. I was only thinking if it was cool being sarcastic over an innocent question.. , saying having a baby in America isn't by force, while another made fun of me not knowing how to navigate and all that, what harm could it had caused them just saying type so so and so at d search bar and search. Meanwhile this is my first time ever on Nairaland so they don't even know how it is for d person. Before i asked that question I searched Chicago hospitals, Chicago doctors, Illinois births and so many others but results i saw were long articles that had nothing relating to d question.
Well I am writing all these for d pple who get sarcastic at a question to know that it could be d reason other person is asking. I thought dis forum was to help one another, Well thanks to Nf who came to my rescuer, at least I could now search the dr's names and got reasonable and other info relating to d question. So pls if there are specific ways to narrow down a search then it's ok to say. Dalu Kwan!

LI:
In that case, in addition to the letter of consent, go with a copy of his visa page, I'd have said go with his passport but in case the VO already has bad plans...

All the best and come to gist us after.

I only photocopied his data page and data page.

Should I go take the passport instead or bad plans how?

shabbey09:


I only photocopied his data page and data page.

Should I go take the passport instead or bad plans how?

In case you provoke them, make dem no take it out on hubby cancel visa! Lol

It's better to go with copies, The VO can verify your hubby's visa.

There are stories here about people who went to the embassy with valid visas only to have them voided by the VO because of perceived discrepancies. Please go with copies just like you planned to avoid stories that touch

shabbey09:


I only photocopied his data page and data page.

Should I go take the passport instead or bad plans how?

nefertitiram:


In case you provoke them, make dem no take it out on hubby cancel visa! Lol

Tofiakwa, the photocopy don do abeg.

Thanks guys

Hi everyone. I'm new here and just trying to learn how to use this forum. I however av been reading silently for a while and I've gained a lot from this thread.
Any Houston bound mamas in the house travelling in April? It will be nice to have someone to share gists with.

@twingirls, pwee you are a very very strong lady. I wanted to say take heart but changed my mind. You are going to dance joyfully hard soonest, the replacement of your loss will be so splendid that u will notbe able to explain it. Your strength came from God, keep holding him tight. It's well you and your family.

Candid review/ update on the shipper I used, for the benefit of those that asked and TO BE victims. Avoid or better still flee from Mr CJ ,he/ his wife owns an African shop on highway 6 Houston. He is a big fraudulent old man!! Shipped my stuff through him since September and never receive it until two days ago. I found out that he is not a shipper and he did not pay one dollar to the shipper instead he lied to him that we will pay her in Nigeria when we want to pick up our stuff. I had no option than to pay for shipping charges again. I can't wait for my vengeance and it's going to be very chilled.

nefertitiram:


In case you provoke them, make dem no take it out on hubby cancel visa! Lol

kikikikikikikikiki

LI:
There are a lot families and babies who would benefit from that gesture but aside that, it's not everyday baff up for your baby, I presume sometimes you'll want to tone down on the baffs; these type of clothes come in handy.

For clothes they bought his size for age... Dude is wearing way bigger clothes.
And then some clothes can't even b managed (I'm sorry)...

aye88:


Lol, I've been in ur shoes. I gave most of them out. And this were even cloths given to us in the US ooo. My sister in law went to load some chinco cloths from ROSS. Infact when I wore one for my baby one day, hubby looked at itandsaid " who gave her this cloth? I said " your sister". I gave some out and wore some for heron those days when it's just. Me and her at home. Trust me ds cloths can also serve their own purpose. And because it's new, it looks good on the first day it's worn.

I'm just waiting for my mum to finish omugwo... D way I will dash these things out en... The diapers are just takin space... And they buy in large quantities.. I'm grateful... God knows I am..mayb dey were Given to me to help others

MiddyO:


My dear re gift sharply! Follow ur spirit. There are some gifts I got here in twos, or some I just don't like. I have plans to distribute them. I think it's wasteful to keep what you won't use!

key word wasteful

ozycy:
Firsttymum, give to to the motherless babies home. You mustn't use all. You go receive your blessings

abi o....

aye88:





Lol, I've been in ur shoes. I gave most of them out. And this were even cloths given to us in the US ooo. My sister in law went to load some chinco cloths from ROSS. Infact when I wore one for my baby one day, hubby looked at itandsaid " who gave her this cloth? I said " your sister". I gave some out and wore some for heron those days when it's just. Me and her at home. Trust me ds cloths can also serve their own purpose. And because it's new, it looks good on the first day it's worn.

Please mums and dads, can you donate such things to our organization. We are kick starting an online programme by the end of this month. Donations like this will help those who are in dire need. Abeg ejo. It's our little way of giving back to the society and thanking God who made it possible for us to become mums.

I'm actually starting it with Nerfertirim. If you have old or new baby things you want to dispose of, kindly inbox me or Nerfertirim. Thanks a lot. Cc: firstymum and Co.

ayanuke:


Orphanage is okay, mine said the same , I gave them out to the orphanage too

kikikikikikikikiki. Thanks

LadyGuinivere:

Whoeve u give it to will benefit immensely and be glad. I totally get u. There are some clothes that. U just wouldn't want your kids to be seen in (hope I'm not sounding too Bourgeois) as a matter of personal taste.
IMO its better to give it out than Allow it to waste abeg

Thanks jare.... U totally get me

Nasadiva:
Candid review/ update on the shipper I used, for the benefit of those that asked and TO BE victims. Avoid or better still flee from Mr CJ ,he/ his wife owns an African shop on highway 6 Houston. He is a big fraudulent old man!! Shipped my stuff through him since September and never receive it until two days ago. I found out that he is not a shipper and he did not pay one dollar to the shipper instead he lied to him that we will pay her in Nigeria when we want to pick up our stuff. I had no option than to pay for shipping charges again. I can't wait for my vengeance and it's going to be very chilled.

OMG!!!! You used him too? I had to pay another money to receive my babies diapers and cribs i sent since 22nd of August. The Cain that will flog him is still doing press up in the goldsmiths. That man is a big FRAUD. Here's his number: +1 832-371-9129. Run far away from him. Wicked man.

olokings:
That's very wrong of u to say. ..
You think you have gotten all u need?
Snatch yourself get shunned from now on!

funny how some months ago ... U were still a new bee too . This was ur question on page 17 thread 2.
"Greetings house.
Please I need urgent advice on birthing (hospitals) options and accomodation in Dallas.
My wife is due Sept 2015 and flight already booked for august 1st arrival in Dallas... wanna ve dem enjoy dinner summer time chill out b4 delivery.
Thanks n very much appreciated"

And you know the funniest thing I have been following this thread since 2013 and Dallas had been treated over and over in thread 1 , yet no one shut you down . Do unto others what you will want them to do to you . Just a piece # no hard feelings .

shabbey09:
Hello house, I have my interview this week and I'm going for visa with my two kids. Do I need letter of consent from their father, despite the fact that we're using his statement of account?

U don't need any letter of consent. Good thing he already has a valid US visa. Just make sure u have a photocopy of the visa page and be quick to tell the VO that he already has a visa.

I had very same experience as hubby already had a visa before my kids and I went for our interview. The vo only asked if I was married and why he wasn't going with us. I quickly told him the he already has a visa and would be travelling with us. He then asked for a copy of the visa and that was the end of my interview. We got ours. Most importantly don't forget to pray!!!

Hahahhahahaaa.... Omo i salute you die!!! Hahahahaa...

Apeke1991:
funny how some months ago ... U were still a new bee too . This was ur question on page 17 thread 2.
"Greetings house.
Please I need urgent advice on birthing (hospitals) options and accomodation in Dallas.
My wife is due Sept 2015 and flight already booked for august 1st arrival in Dallas... wanna ve dem enjoy dinner summer time chill out b4 delivery.
Thanks n very much appreciated"

And you know the funniest thing I have been following this thread since 2013 and Dallas had been treated over and over in thread 1 , yet no one shut you down . Do unto others what you will want them to do to you . Just a piece # no hard feelings .

ozycy:

Since she v had her baby, feel free to input every date.
You still have to book appointment with the US notary public. You can as well choose the same date ur interview is scheduled for if it's available. If you get your visa and will be traveling soon, there may not be any need for the form, unless you want her to get every doc ready before you arrive.

@vikto1u actually don't need an appointment for the embassy notary, u just walk in seat and wait your turn
But u need to be there between 7:30am- 11am Mon -Thurs
U need to have filled d form too, take a copy of your passport data page, but remember not to sign, u need to sign in front of d notary public

Now people are opening your old files and doing background checks on here too? No one is safe anymore.
#wakapassmodeactivated

I'm a newbie too but honestly ucystan, this attitude or behaviour isn't really necessary. Sometimes, it's better to let some things slide. No need to spite or respond...

ucystan:
Hahahahahaaa... I salute u die. Hahahhaaa...
quote author=Apeke1991 post=41853724]funny how some months ago ... U were still a new bee too . This was ur question on page 17 thread 2.
"Greetings house.
Please I need urgent advice on birthing (hospitals) options and accomodation in Dallas.
My wife is due Sept 2015 and flight already booked for august 1st arrival in Dallas... wanna ve dem enjoy dinner summer time chill out b4 delivery.
Thanks n very much appreciated"

And you know the funniest thing I have been following this thread since 2013 and Dallas had been treated over and over in thread 1 , yet no one shut you down . Do unto others what you will want them to do to you . Just a piece # no hard feelings .

HD16:
I'm a newbie too but honestly ucystan, this attitude or behaviour isn't really necessary. Sometimes, it's better to let some things slide. No need to spite or respond...

.... and who responded? Meee? Ah Abeg check well o, I never responded to anybody pls.

vcole:
In my opinion, if you want to go for birth purposes simply apply for a US medical tourist visa. Seeing as it is not illegal to give birth in the states, adequate planning and preparation would most likely result in a visa grant.
Also, I think it is best to just go with the document from the doctor/hospital that you are actually going to use instead of one you just contacted for POE purposes.
Honesty is usually the best and safest policy really.
What about us when don use our visas tire, renew tire. Come carry belle? Hian. Mae this door never close o! But serzly sha @FTM has a point. Use the visa. Pick a low peak period. Choose a cheap destination. Then truly change the intent.
Again we need to come up with other locations for birthing. Nobody has explored the Reno option somebody mentioned. Houston don tire for us o!
Btw a friend just birthed[b] triplets in houston. Paid all her bills but used medicaid for NICU. 70k usd for 2 weeks. I tried explaining why she shudnt take it, she no hear.

@FTM share the transcript mbok!

I guess the abuse of the system is in full swing the Naija way. People will claim to have enough funds during interview to embark on this journey only to end up saddling the American tax payers with their unpaid bills. Why do we now wonder when our people are quizzed for several hours and even deported? It's annoying and ridiculous. Must we leave up to our stereotype in the international community?

Zumabeezle:
Hi everyone. I'm new here and just trying to learn how to use this forum. I however av been reading silently for a while and I've gained a lot from this thread.
Any Houston bound mamas in the house travelling in April? It will be nice to have someone to share gists with.

Houston bound in April.