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Juliearth:
this s 2016,stop being judgemental and generic! the fact that gals lie abt being raped dosnt mean that rape dosnt truly exist. google s ur frnd,feel free to look up some statisitics on rape. so shd victims of rape acquire a rape certificate or carry a sign on their foreheads so that criticlanders here can affirm belv their stories?

I am not saying that girls don't get raped. What i am saying is that of the cases of rape, only about 60% are true! The rest are usually to get attention, fame, and even monetary gains. Have you forgotten about the Timaya Saga from that girl? Bill Cosby is another person who is facing numerous rape and sexual abuse allegations about drugging women. Over 50 women have reportedly claimed that Bill Cosby assaulted them. Why would Bill Cosby who was a well known Actor and millionaire want to drug someone before sleeping with them? A man who had money and attracted hot women. Think about it! Most of these women claiming rape are just SHAM!

she might be telling the truth, if u truly care for her then support her. it's not easy for a girl admitting that she was a rape victim

obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]cool story!
When the part 2 go comout?[/color]

Na the part 2 you dey see so. but its still season 1

Best advice
Tell her to inform her dad dat dey shud Improve on d security of their house in order to avoid anoda case of Robbery
Shikenah!!!

I think I have watched this nollywood film before, just that I can't recall the name. emeka ike acted in the film too.

Before I answer, you must answer some questions?

Does she watch Clinic matters on TV?

what day did she tell you this story?

If she watches Clinic matters and she told you the story about 3 weeks ago then it could be that she is lying because her story was the theme of an episode of clinic matters some weeks ago. They fit don do repeat broadcast sef. Ask her if she watches Clinic matters and watch her reaction closely; If she shows any of the following signs then she is lying;

1. Changes head position quickly
2. Begins to breathe heavily
3. Stands very still
4. Stammers or repeats words/phrases
5. Begins to talk too much
6. touches nose or mouth
7. shuffles feet
8. stares without blinking
9. starts pointing anyhow
10. If left handed, the eyes will move up and to the left. if right handed, the eyes will move up and to the right

As you can see, you must be very close to her, to be able to observe all these things. i recommend you stand nose to nose so you dont miss any of the signs.



anyway, you should trust your babe. If there is no trust, then the relationship is fake. So ignore me.

Samfigo1:
Hi Nlanderz, I am in a serious dilemma now, I wouldn't know the next step to take.
If you remember I created a topic towards the tail of last year, if you missed the topic this is the link below:

https://www.nairaland.com/2825210/see-question-asked-made-angry#41372122

I shouldn't have brought this up but I am painstakingly seeking the idea to use in coming out of this dilemma of mine.
To be frank, she came back on the 8th day of this month which happened to be Friday, before this time we had some discussions which led to her leaving my place angrily and since then no "intimacy" what do I mean? no calls, no text not even flashing!
I was on Friday sitting at the veranda of my house, fumbling with my phone, when I looked from afar off and saw a lady coming towards the direction of house. When she drew close, lo and behold she was my girl, we exchanged pleasantries before I took her to my room and then she started her story thus:

I am sorry to have left your room angrily the other day( I just nodded my head), the question was shocking I was not expecting it. Truly I had been pregnant which led to the only abortion I had in the past(she busted into tears, I tried to pet her before she continued).I was 17 when armed robbers came to our house on a fateful day and I was raped, I never knew it would lead to pregnancy until after a month plus that I started noticing some changes which led to me seeing a doctor and it was confirmed that I was pregnant. I had no choice that to abort it(sobbing).

I was dumbfounded, I was looking like someone who just missed a flight. The point is this, I have no problem accepting her back but why did she wait for two weeks before narrating this? Was she taught of what to say? Could this be a cooked up story? Can I ask any of her family members about the incident?
These and many more questions left me dumbfounded. Should I go on with the questions or bury the hatchet? I need mature pieces of advice!

bros she is deceiving you....... i have heard that same story of "i was raped " from diff girls and it all turned out not to be true....


see bro i believe in new beginnings and that "all have sinned and fall short of the glory of god" and all sorts (no 1 is above mistake)


but dishonesty in relationships is like a crack in the wall that will eventually lead to the "collapse" of the "wall" which in this case is the relationship


bros use ur head and not ur dick..... you deserve to be treated beta bro

you are so funny

IamLEGEND1:
i dey sense Wale Adenuga handwork for her story.

aalabi:
you are so funny

bt we still trust our 9ja babes nonetheless

Gurls know they cannot physically manipulat guys. So they use "drama" to their advantage. As a guy, you'v to be very skeptical to any gurl who uses emotion(tears, or drama) to ovrturn a situation. They are so skilled @ it, and we guys are so susceptible to it. #OP , scrutinize that situation, dont fall for that tears, it could be a ploy to make you feel pity!

ilawanson44:
I am not saying that girls don't get raped. What i am saying is that of the cases of rape, only about 60% are true! The rest are usually to get attention, fame, and even monetary gains. Have you forgotten about the Timaya Saga from that girl? Bill Cosby is another person who is facing numerous rape and sexual abuse allegations about drugging women. Over 50 women have reportedly claimed that Bill Cosby assaulted them. Why would Bill Cosby who was a well known Actor and millionaire want to drug someone before sleeping with them? A man who had money and attracted hot women. Think about it! Most of these women claiming rape are just SHAM!

yes, 60 per cent and not 100 so stop being judgemental.

ladenz:
Before I answer, you must answer some questions?

Does she watch Clinic matters on TV?

what day did she tell you this story?

If she watches Clinic matters and she told you the story about 3 weeks ago then it could be that she is lying because her story was the theme of an episode of clinic matters some weeks ago. They fit don do repeat broadcast sef. Ask her if she watches Clinic matters and watch her reaction closely; If she shows any of the following signs then she is lying;

1. Changes head position quickly
2. Begins to breathe heavily
3. Stands very still
4. Stammers or repeats words/phrases
5. Begins to talk too much
6. touches nose or mouth
7. shuffles feet
8. stares without blinking
9. starts pointing anyhow
10. If left handed, the eyes will move up and to the left. if right handed, the eyes will move up and to the right

As you can see, you must be very close to her, to be able to observe all these things. i recommend you stand nose to nose so you dont miss any of the signs.



anyway, you should trust your babe. If there is no trust, then the relationship is fake. So ignore me.

these should not be the yardsticks to judge her. one could have a natural inclination of doing any of these. for instance, if a stammarer stammers wen talking,does that mean that she he/she is lying?

i can't help but laugh at this trend ;Di can't help but laugh at this trend

It's obvious the girl is lying.
in rape cases, the victims are taken to the hospital immediately for medical treatment.. believe her at your own peril...

Really? rape? armed robbers. This ur babe sef na learner. She no sabi lie....

Op i am very sure that you are not asking for an answer here cos you have just provided two yourself:
(1) You said she came up with a story
(2) You wondered if that was what she was taught to say.
Those lines simply shows you are aware of her games. So the court is in your balls mmmtttccheew sorry your balls are in the court ; oooooohhh woooo warefa jare Op choose one

she should have ended it with ....from the producers who brought you Binta and Friends

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Guy, rape victims hardly get belle. Not in ds modern age or 21st century. If she wasn't treated in d hospital after d incident and got pregnant. then, she likely must hv contacted HIV... go check yasef guy.
She no sabi lie.

yanabasee:
Telling you got raped is like telling him you're sexually active... Men don't regard rape victims no matter how much they pretend to be nice...

This above is a very,very stupid statement.

Yes, its wrong to lie that you are been raped or that you were raped but coming here to say that a girl telling a guy that she was raped sounds like telling him that she was sexually active is trash, pure trash!

Even though most girls use it to elicit sympathy, I do feel for those that were actually raped. Its not right.

If you think talking about rape is like been sexually active, allow a man to rape your as5. Then your head will be clear.

MODIFIED!

Bevy12:
Oga, are you writing story? Its obvious that you are forming story for us. Chai all this people sef that want to do notice me.

LOL

rapmike:
This above is a very,very stupid statement.

Yes, its wrong to lie that you are been raped or that you were raped but coming here to say that a girl telling a guy that she was raped sounds like telling him that she was sexually active is trash, pure trash!

Its only senseless and irresponsible folks like you that see it that way. Even though most girls use it to elicit sympathy, I do feel for those that were actually raped. Its not right.

If you think talking about rape is like been sexually active, allow a man to rape your as5. Then your head will be clear.

Oh well...

Mynd44, I've typed my punch lines countless times and delete them... I'm working on my anger and my temper... And I want to involve maturity in all my comments and post... If you don't ban this guy for a year...I'll be very angry as I posted a comment which I'm entitled to my opinion and he abused and insulted me at his will... Thank you.

She's just trying to rake ur heart a little bit to find out if u have some molecules of love for her inside but if not... take d advice of Coolsix

yanabasee:
Oh well...

Mynd44, I've typed my punch lines countless times and delete them... I'm working on my anger and my temper... And I want to involve maturity in all my comments and post... If you don't ban this guy for a year...I'll be very angry as I posted a comment which I'm entitled to my opinion and he abused and insulted me at his will... Thank you.

So because I said your statement is stupid that's why you are saying that you are insulted.

Sorry o. By their fruits you shall know them.

P.S. If Mynd44 bans me then you too should be banned for insulting all the girls who have been raped and tacitly supporting a crime.

OP, she has given u bobo juice

Best line of action in knowing the real truth.

MrDoGood:
How come she got angry in the first place when you asked her the question? And now,she came willingly to confess.

I believe she's still a kid and don't know how to lie. (don't treat her in a bad way though)

OP when next you see her, just tell her that you knew she lied about the rape stuff but you just have to believe her so she can feel Okay.

Trust me, she will be shocked and would truly open up to you.

Una two self?

Funny set of peeps

How come we didn't hear any news of rape or robbery emanating from her domicile? Abi even if d rape was secretly done, d robbery nko?

BTW, what else did d robbers stole? Only her pussy?

True lies......!

What if in another two weeks, she came back to say "Dear, I was actually joking"


Perhaps, she had actually finished watching d concluding part of the movie..... Lol!

Another "I was raped" story. When will ladies tell us, the joy of their first time of sex. I remember when a girl I met said the same, I said to her "no problem, I just wish you can praise the guy that gave you a good round of sex that you now turn to a rape story". Bro be careful your bea has cooked that up.


Not a Virgin lover, love it dis-virgined cos ain't one.

rapmike:
So because I said your statement is stupid that's why you are saying that you are insulted.

Sorry o. By their fruits you shall know them.

P.S. If Mynd44 bans me then you too should be banned for insulting all the girls who have been raped and tacitly supporting a crime.

Oga.... You insulted me by saying I'm senseless and my ilks think in such a manner...

If you've ever been where girls narrate their ordeal about how they got raped, you'll know the impression and conceit they liv behind.

Infact, lots of victims don't express it... They barely air it... They don't let people to know it... Nobody sees a rape victim as a decent girl... This isn't a gesture, this is psychology.

The moment a girl narrates her ordeal...To a man for sympathy... Such a man will never see her as a decent girl or one with a traumatical issue... Such ordeal will make a man to stick around for basically sexual reasons... Note that, most men will either try to warn them against making this public.

Have u seen how many homes that's been torn apart coz criminals broke into the house and rape the wife? You don't sound experience to me. I've said all I needed to say to you.. And I'll not respond to whatver you'd quote me to say. As you don't portray maturity.

yanabasee:
Oga.... You insulted me by saying I'm senseless and my ilks think in such a manner...

If you've ever been where girls narrate their ordeal about how they got raped, you'll know the impression and conceit they liv behind.

Infact, lots of victims don't express it... They barely air it... They don't let people to know it... Nobody sees a rape victim as a decent girl... This isn't a gesture, this is psychology.

The moment a girl narrates her ordeal...To a man for sympathy... Such a man will never see her as a decent girl or one with a traumatical issue... Such ordeal will make a man to stick around for basically sexual reasons... Note that, most men will either try to warn them against making this public.

Have u seen how many homes that's been torn apart coz criminals broke into the house and rape the wife? You don't sound experience to me. I've said all I needed to say to you.. And I'll not respond to whatver you'd quote me to say. As you don't portray maturity.

So if a girl was actually raped and she managed to tell you the truth (which is not easy), you will see it as an excuse for sexual activity?! Is that what you are trying to say?

You are the one comparing r*pe with sexual activity. If anything, that's insensitive of you. You know how hard it is for a girl who got raped, yet you utter such statement? I don't know what else to say to you.

Anyway @ OP, there a high chance that the girl is lying to you.