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some girls be tarnishing dere image all in d name of lying and forming smart mtcheeeeew

rapmike:
So if a girl was actually raped and she managed to tell you the truth (which is not easy), you will see it as an excuse for sexual activity?! Is that what you are trying to say?

You are the one comparing r*pe with sexual activity. If anything, that's insensitive of you. You know how hard it is for a girl who got raped, yet you utter such statement? I don't know what else to say to you.

Anyway @ OP, there a high chance that the girl is lying to you.

You have to do a statistical analysis on this... I don't say things becoz I want to or feel like... Go to your Area, meet guys, take a book and a biro... Ask them logical questions on their feelings towards girls who tell them about how they got raped.

Secondly... You have to bear in mind that, out of 100% of raped victims... Barely 5% will say they're victims. My point is. Girls who have been raped before will never say it. Under no condition will a girl tell a man she was raped. For instance.

A guy was strolling with his fiancee in the evening when some cultist came and dragged them to an uncompleted building..hit the guy with a bottle and he fainted instantly, then took the girl and they all raped her... She came out acting innocent..she called ppl to the scene and the guy was rushed to his apartment and when he got revived. He leta asked the girl that evening what happened and she denied it. The guy took her pant that evening, went and did a test on it, particles of sperms was discovered and testing his own blood... It didn't march. Girls don't say it... The few ones will say, they confided on you, but tells you in a manner that doesn't correlate...

I broke my vow to respond to you... But I beseech you to use your senses as a man..... Just do the little exercise I've asked you to and you'll not be ignorant again!

yanabasee:
You have to do a statistical analysis on this... I don't say things becoz I want to or feel like... Go to your Area, meet guys, take a book and a biro... Ask them logical questions on their feelings towards girls who tell them about how they got raped.

Secondly... You have to bear in mind that, out of 100% of raped victims... Barely 5% will say they're victims. My point is. Girls who have been raped before will never say it. Under no condition will a girl tell a man she was raped. For instance.

A guy was strolling with his fiancee in the evening when some cultist came and dragged them to an uncompleted building..hit the guy with a bottle and he fainted instantly, then took the girl and they all raped her... She came out acting innocent..she called ppl to the scene and the guy was rushed to his apartment and when he got revived. He leta asked the girl that evening what happened and she denied it. The guy took her pant that evening, went and did a test on it, particles of sperms was discovered and testing his own blood... It didn't march. Girls don't say it... The few ones will say, they confided on you, but tells you in a manner that doesn't correlate...

I broke my vow to respond to you... But I beseech you to use your senses as a man..... Just do the little exercise I've asked you to and you'll not be ignorant again!

Don't get me wrong! You made a general statement and that's what am against. I do know that the latest fraud girls do in order to get men's sympathy is to say they are raped. I am not and I will not defend such nonsense. Its those that are actually raped (which as you said, mostly don't talk about it), that am defending here.

Well, I guess I got heated up and put in one or two insults. I am sincerely sorry about it.

Let's leave that one.

rapmike:
Don't get me wrong! You made a general statement and that's what am against. I do know that the latest fraud girls do in order to get men's sympathy is to say they are raped. I am not and I will not defend such nonsense. Its those that are actually raped (which as you said, mostly don't talk about it), that am defending here.

Well, I guess I got heated up and put in one or two insults. I am sincerely sorry about it.

Let's leave that one.

When votes are counted and the majority wins... It becomes a general acceptable view.

If you say men are wick... You've committed a fallacy. But don't forget that, the votes on whether your statement is correct or not will determine...

The ones you're defending will often say that... "A friend of mine was raped" or "My cousin says she was raped" or they'll say.. "Somebody told me about how his girl friend was raped"... They will narrate it for you... And they'll never say they were actually rape by themselves... You'll only get to defend the liars...

Samfigo1:
Hi Nlanderz, I am in a serious dilemma now, I wouldn't know the next step to take.
If you remember I created a topic towards the tail of last year, if you missed the topic this is the link below:

https://www.nairaland.com/2825210/see-question-asked-made-angry#41372122

I shouldn't have brought this up but I am painstakingly seeking the idea to use in coming out of this dilemma of mine.
To be frank, she came back on the 8th day of this month which happened to be Friday, before this time we had some discussions which led to her leaving my place angrily and since then no "intimacy" what do I mean? no calls, no text not even flashing!
I was on Friday sitting at the veranda of my house, fumbling with my phone, when I looked from afar off and saw a lady coming towards the direction of house. When she drew close, lo and behold she was my girl, we exchanged pleasantries before I took her to my room and then she started her story thus:

I am sorry to have left your room angrily the other day( I just nodded my head), the question was shocking I was not expecting it. Truly I had been pregnant which led to the only abortion I had in the past(she busted into tears, I tried to pet her before she continued).I was 17 when armed robbers came to our house on a fateful day and I was raped, I never knew it would lead to pregnancy until after a month plus that I started noticing some changes which led to me seeing a doctor and it was confirmed that I was pregnant. I had no choice that to abort it(sobbing).

I was dumbfounded, I was looking like someone who just missed a flight. The point is this, I have no problem accepting her back but why did she wait for two weeks before narrating this? Was she taught of what to say? Could this be a cooked up story? Can I ask any of her family members about the incident?
These and many more questions left me dumbfounded. Should I go on with the questions or bury the hatchet? I need mature pieces of advice!

ok... watching from season 2, now let me go back to season1... lol... I'm sure season 3 will take one year to b out n in season 4 we shall see how she robbers who rapped paloma well come to make claim of diego's biological son...lol...interesting script.

yanabasee:
When votes are counted and the majority wins... It becomes a general acceptable view.

If you say men are wick... You've committed a fallacy. But don't forget that, the votes on whether your statement is correct or not will determine...

The ones you're defending will often say that... "A friend of mine was raped" or "My cousin says she was raped" or they'll say.. "Somebody told me about how his girl friend was raped"... They will narrate it for you... And they'll never say they were actually rape by themselves... You'll only get to defend the liars...

Well, no problem. Sorry for the misunderstanding and insults

obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]cool story!
When the part 2 go comout?[/color]

lol..bros na part 2 b dis na ...lol... as for me I'm watching from season 2, now let me go back to season1... lol... I'm sure season 3 will take one year to b out n in season 4 we shall see how she robbers who rapped paloma well come to make claim of diego's biological son...lol...interesting script.

Samfigo1:
Hi Nlanderz, I am in a serious dilemma now, I wouldn't know the next step to take.
If you remember I created a topic towards the tail of last year, if you missed the topic this is the link below:

https://www.nairaland.com/2825210/see-question-asked-made-angry#41372122

I shouldn't have brought this up but I am painstakingly seeking the idea to use in coming out of this dilemma of mine.
To be frank, she came back on the 8th day of this month which happened to be Friday, before this time we had some discussions which led to her leaving my place angrily and since then no "intimacy" what do I mean? no calls, no text not even flashing!
I was on Friday sitting at the veranda of my house, fumbling with my phone, when I looked from afar off and saw a lady coming towards the direction of house. When she drew close, lo and behold she was my girl, we exchanged pleasantries before I took her to my room and then she started her story thus:

I am sorry to have left your room angrily the other day( I just nodded my head), the question was shocking I was not expecting it. Truly I had been pregnant which led to the only abortion I had in the past(she busted into tears, I tried to pet her before she continued).I was 17 when armed robbers came to our house on a fateful day and I was raped, I never knew it would lead to pregnancy until after a month plus that I started noticing some changes which led to me seeing a doctor and it was confirmed that I was pregnant. I had no choice that to abort it(sobbing).

I was dumbfounded, I was looking like someone who just missed a flight. The point is this, I have no problem accepting her back but why did she wait for two weeks before narrating this? Was she taught of what to say? Could this be a cooked up story? Can I ask any of her family members about the incident?
These and many more questions left me dumbfounded. Should I go on with the questions or bury the hatchet? I need mature pieces of advice!

hahahahahaha.... ok...coming back proper to comment after watching season1...lol... but op u funny o...Ur script actually shows that u r under 25 or 27... op let me ask u one question and if u can answer me then I'll have you my $100m dasuki's share of arm. can u ask ur mother who gave birth to n ur sibblings if she had made love b4 even when the answer is obvious? so bro u need to grow up to know that once a lady is exposed to sex life for a minimum of 1yr n above there is every 90% likelihood she has once or twice been pregnant n has gone for an abortion b4 either by taking piles or by seeing a Dr. so ur question is not needed. unless u wanted sth to cause a fuss n a break up... funny guy..lol...

redcliff:
I remember specifically, I scolded you for this comment.. una don see am?








the rest of yall can eat your words now... thanks

gerraraherre dude.