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QueenValerie:
. What is he trying to say,do you know?He won't tell me.

QueenValerie:
Wait,but you forgot to add:discuss having kids

donTbone:
Am I'm afraid!

Asapcymg:
I once saw a beutiful lady living off campus,she is still studying Law 200L althought am I'm a graduate waiting to be mobilised A16, her charming smile made me to fall in love with her, I met her on her way from school so I drove her home by the way am able to got her contact and she showed me her place, she happy felt when ever she saw me we gist a lot, but as soon as I left when I call on phone she will not pick untill I went back to her room to remained her she will keep on saying her phone is charging. I'm the shy type I cant tell that I love her directly also time is not by my side, she is perfect curve,moderately tall,white. Please help me because I want to marry her very soon.

Agubushmenyo:
Am a Relationship person. Though not married, but I try to learn a lot.
Apart from choosing the wedding date, venue and caterer for your day, there are other deeper issues you both need to discuss with each other. Issues where you need to open up to your partner completely and let him/her in.

Without discussing these crucial issues before marriage might be unwise and may have repercussions later on in the marriage.
Here are the issues below:

1.Your past: Have you told him/her about any negative or positive experience from your past that has a significant effect on your life? Your history can impact your marriage’s future. Allow him/her to be part of it and move forward as a couple. Do not let your past haunt your future.

2.Family obligations: How will you celebrate the holidays? Do you plan to spend Christmas at your folks’house, and New Year’s Day with his family? Things as simple as these can spike arguments in the future. Lay all the cards down in terms of your financial obligations on each side. Are you okay with allotting a certain percentage of his salary to his parents?

3.Division of house labor: When it’s just the two of you at home, hiring a helper may mean an unnecessary expense, so it’s only practical that you two discuss the division of house chores. If you really loathe washing the dishes, compromise that you’ll be in charge of cooking and table cleanup. If your man hates doing the laundry, volunteer to wash the clothes and ask him to be in charge of the clothesline. This way, you won’t hate each other, while maintaining the upkeep of your love nest.

4.Sex: Newlywed sex is fun and exciting, but as you count the wedding anniversaries, one of you can sometimes overlook its value. Explain to him your expectations and limits, or how you two can maintain the spice in the bedroom.

5.Secrets: Whether it’s something you did that you regret, a health issue, or a family secret, he/she deserves to know it. Also, since he’s basically going to be part of the family, divulging these details matter. It’s better that he/she hears it from you than from someone else.

6.Faith: If you have different religions, say, he’s a Renewed Christian and you’re a Catholic, confer with one another which church you’ll be spending Sundays at. Also, if you do plan to have kids, finalize what religion they’ll be following.

amunkita:
Nah only the sex part make sense..

Cous I like different sytles;
* snake style
*Dragon style
* Lepricon style
Finally Uwa Mmebi Style...

TruthHurts1:
Dat your name "amu nkita" fit you well

QueenValerie:
Dang the weather can do that,I'ma have to bundle up well then No seriously I meant discuss if they both want kids.

QueenValerie:
No not Nigeria,America,I'm African American.I don't want kids,blame it on babysitting if you wanna

aalangel:
Leave all those discussions. People discuss more than this and still have failed marriages. Let God's word be your bedrock and take it along in every little step.

Bodd0806:
Most especially your genotype.

donTbone:
You are a fresh SSCE grad ryt!



Thanks though!

Asapcymg:
I once saw a beutiful lady living off campus,she is still studying Law 200L althought am graduate waiting to be mobilised A16, her charming smile made me to fall in love with her, I met her on her way from school so I drove her home by the way am able to got her contact and she showed me her place, she happy felt when ever she saw me we gist a lot, but as soon as I left when I call on phone she will not pick untill I went back to her room to remained her she will keep on saying her phone is charging. I'm the shy type I cant tell that I love her directly also time is not by my side, she is perfect curve,moderately tall,white. Please help me because I want to marry her very soon.

aalangel:
Leave all those discussions. People discuss more than this and still have failed marriages. Let God's word be your bedrock and take it along in every little step.

oluwafreshkid:
It's just appalling how social media users mistake these words (I'm and am).
Watch out! It just might find its way into your CV...

Michizzy:
I know its hard to keep but you should discuss it. A friend said he would love to have 12 kids . What if fiancee wants 2 or 3 kids?

Asapcymg:
I once saw a beutiful lady living off campus,she is still studying Law 200L althought am graduate waiting to be mobilised A16, her charming smile made me to fall in love with her, I met her on her way from school so I drove her home by the way am able to got her contact and she showed me her place, she happy felt when ever she saw me we gist a lot, but as soon as I left when I call on phone she will not pick untill I went back to her room to remained her she will keep on saying her phone is charging. I'm the shy type I cant tell that I love her directly also time is not by my side, she is perfect curve,moderately tall,white. Please help me because I want to marry her very soon.

donTbone:
My CV isnt social media bro!


We dont cross check spellings after typing!
Besides, i hardly make such mistake...even though
am not a lang genius like u!

HeavenShield:
You funny eh! But you said you love her ehh. Then why are you asking us..well go and pray if it makes sense to you. But I will advise Not all that glitters are gold. But if you said you love her, go ahead..what are you waiting for.

oluwafreshkid:
I'm not a language genius. Wen I no be Patrick obahiagbon...lol

But, this doesn't have to do with cross checking... the last tume I checked; on a qwerty keypad, 'I' is far from 'A'.
#justsaying