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davidmark4naija:
Her case is even worse. Her parents want her to marry from dia tribe. Day want her to bring a man home but he must be from dia tribe.

When she told me dat I just gave up on the whole issue. But I have not told her all dis becos she go just begin cry and me cannot fit to watch her cry oh.

Some parents tho..I'm sure its cos they don't want issues for her bt if they shld consider her own happiness,they will let her make her own choice..she's an adult too,she shld make them understand. Sometimes,we jst need to make them see reason. If they don't want her divorced @ d end of d day,they shld let her choose her man..If she does it to satisfy them,if she's nt happy,will they expect her to forbear it nd start making all those annoying consolations? Guy,this is d 21st century,I know what I want nd I'll strive to have it.

MzLarem:
Some parents tho..I'm sure its cos they don't want issues for her bt if they shld consider her own happiness,they will let her make her own choice..she's an adult too,she shld make them understand. Sometimes,we jst need to make them see reason. If they don't want her divorced @ d end of d day,they shld let her choose her man..If she does it to satisfy them,if she's nt happy,will they expect her to forbear it nd start making all those annoying consolations? Guy,this is d 21st century,I know what I want nd I'll strive to have it.

Yeah! Ur right! But this gal in question is strongly influenced by her parents and family. She is a good girl to the core and doesnt have any iota of rebellion in her. I think if day put enof pressure on her, she will eventually give in to dia demands cos she does almost anytin mummy/daddy says.

Dats why I have alredi given up in my mind cos I know it will neva work out. Besides I am not interested in convincing anybody to let me marry dia child. And I suspect her parents are alredi shopping for a husband for her becos day always do/fix tins for her.

davidmark4naija:
Yeah! Ur right! But this gal in question is strongly influenced by her parents and family. She is a good girl to the core and doesnt have any iota of rebellion in her. I think if day put enof pressure on her, she will eventually give in to dia demands cos she does almost anytin mummy/daddy says.

Dats why I have alredi given up in my mind cos I know it will neva work out. Besides I am not interested in convincing anybody to let me marry dia child. And I suspect her parents are alredi shopping for a husband for her becos day always do/fix tins for her.

It is finished then..this might nt be a very good decision from her parent @ the end..I think d only role left for u to play is to chill nd let her come nd do d break up.

MzLarem:
It is finished then..this might nt be a very good decision from her parent @ the end..I think d only role left for u to play is to chill nd let her come nd do d break up.

Yes ma'm. Dats exactly wot am doing rite now. Am actually waiting for her to do the break up.

But the wahala be say while I am waiting, am beginning to love her more instead of loving her less. The break up fit come pain me pass as e go pain her oh.

Maybe its becos we are still having lots of sex.

davidmark4naija:
Yes ma'm. Dats exactly wot am doing rite now. Am actually waiting for her to do the break up.

But the wahala be say while I am waiting, am beginning to love her more instead of loving her less. The break up fit come pain me pass as e go pain her oh.

Maybe its becos we are still having lots of sex.

Lolz..she's giving u ur parting gift..if u can still find a way to make it work sha,it'll be nice.

MzLarem:
Lolz..she's giving u ur parting gift..if u can still find a way to make it work sha,it'll be nice.

Chai! Dat parting gift tin way u just talk now pain me oh;(. Make we day enjoy am while it lasts na, who knows wot might happen.

davidmark4naija:
Chai! Dat parting gift tin way u just talk now pain me oh;(. Make we day enjoy am while it lasts na, who knows wot might happen.

Lolz..Abi na..Live d moment nd let tomorrow sort itself..e go clear 4 ur eye sha wen she come give u her wedding invitation..No deal with d thing now nd leave puna 4 now.

MzLarem:
Lolz..Abi na..Live d moment nd let tomorrow sort itself..e go clear 4 ur eye sha wen she come give u her wedding invitation..No deal with d thing now nd leave puna 4 now.

Well, I have a bad feeling abt dis sha. Cos am not ready for marriage rite now and der is pressure on her to bring a man home. So when u add one plus one, it looks very much like a lost case to me.

davidmark4naija:
Wots wrong with dating someone you cant marry?

Wots wrong with dating someone you know you won't marry?

Wots wrong with dating someone with no future plans in mind?

Wots wrong with continuing to date someone after you realise you guys just cant have a future togeda?

Anytin wrong with any of the above?

Whats wrong in going tru 100level to 400level when you know you wont graduate?

davidmark4naija:
Well, I have a bad feeling abt dis sha. Cos am not ready for marriage rite now and der is pressure on her to bring a man home. So when u add one plus one, it looks very much like a lost case to me.

Alright then.

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