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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by jerryunit48: 7:20pm On Jan 17, 2016

ATMC:
Go back to Ghana, make money. Invite her, she will come. #she likes money#

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by oglalasioux(m): 7:49pm On Jan 17, 2016

90% of women will gladly divorce their husbands a day after marriage. The only thing they want is for other girls to come for their ashebi and pictures to post on social media. It's worse when they make the man pay for it.

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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jan 17, 2016

whirlwind7:
Women are awesome. In the game of life and marriage, they usually out-think and outfox men---docile men like you, that is.

So, you didn't know that all her initial conflicting opinion with yours about having a marriage ceremony beyond your budget was actually to test your mettle, to see how far she can push you around, and have her way?

This was the test of superiority which you failed woefully. The excuse about being in love and letting her wear the trousers instead, in my opinion, is "mumu-ish". You just showed her you were not man enough to take charge, so she occupied the driver's seat. You either remain content as a passenger and accept the situation, or you can grow some balls and take charge of your marriage.

Perhaps no one told you yet: Women love men who take charge and who are firm, yet gentle. You are none of these things. You aren't matured to get married yet. What you need is a pet dog.

The truth is always bitter. Peace!

What you have written is not just it. This woman have issue that I dint think can be resolved.. Any one can take charge but the one in charge must be considerate.

This woman is purely wicked, selfish, foolish and inconsiderate.

@Op, if I were you, I suggest you do a paternity test once the child is born.

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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jan 17, 2016

I feel for you op embarassed

I can imagine what you are going through,,,,

You guys didn't know each other well enough, maybe you should threaten her with ending the union, I don't know,,,,

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by helovesme(f): 8:41pm On Jan 17, 2016

mployer:
All she wants is a cute baby and a big traditional marriage to validate it. She doesn't need the OP

Exactly. Lol. She's only after having a child. She wanted one "legally", hence the extravagant traditional wedding. Now that she's pregnant, the OP can go to hell.

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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by ATMC(f): 11:07pm On Jan 17, 2016

lahit14:
Oh pls, the coment on his grammr was just a jest but again I didn't expect u to read inbetween the lines as being who u are(ATMB). U don't want me to quote u again then appologiz not to me actually to the OP for being an insensitiv little twart and stop insulting me.

Gerrout!

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by vicstar(m): 4:28am On Jan 18, 2016

op your english is an eyesore den your pidgin is worst, wich one u dey na
Anyway,long term courtship is essential my dear

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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by lahit14(m): 5:12am On Jan 18, 2016

ATMC:
Gerrout!

ATMC good morning. I surpose u had a wondrful night? It a new day.

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Bitterleafsoup: 5:23am On Jan 18, 2016

whirlwind7:
Women are awesome. In the game of life and marriage, they usually out-think and outfox men---docile men like you, that is.

So, you didn't know that all her initial conflicting opinion with yours about having a marriage ceremony beyond your budget was actually to test your mettle, to see how far she can push you around, and have her way?

This was the test of superiority which you failed woefully. The excuse about being in love and letting her wear the trousers instead, in my opinion, is "mumu-ish". You just showed her you were not man enough to take charge, so she occupied the driver's seat. You either remain content as a passenger and accept the situation, or you can grow some balls and take charge of your marriage.

Perhaps no one told you yet: Women love men who take charge and who are firm, yet gentle. You are none of these things. You aren't matured to get married yet. What you need is a pet dog.

The truth is always bitter. Peace!

Fine guy are you married?

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by ATMC(f): 10:05am On Jan 18, 2016

lahit14:
ATMC good morning. I surpose u had a wondrful night? It a new day.

Yeah, I slept well.

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Nobody: 11:01am On Jan 18, 2016

Who knows what is going on with your wife I don't think anyone can understand why she wants to live away from you, you just have to ask her why she has rented her own apartment and what being married means to her.

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by lahit14(m): 12:17pm On Jan 18, 2016

ATMC:
Yeah, I slept well.

Delighted!! Do hav a wondrful day. *kisses*. For wht its worth, I do actually like u.

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by ATMC(f): 12:18pm On Jan 18, 2016

lahit14:
Delighted!! Do hav a wondrful day. *kisses*. For wht its worth, I do actually like u.

I hate you.

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by lahit14(m): 2:00pm On Jan 18, 2016

ATMC:
I hate you.

Ow!! I like u regardless

Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by musa12345(op): 5:41pm On Jan 18, 2016

agarawu23:
in addition, he should be sure the pregnancy belongs to him.

Thanks for your advice, not that i can't drop her and remarry but am waiting to see if she can change. I don't have money but will make a lot of money from my investment in few months coming, which she's not aware i have such investment.

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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by musa12345(op): 5:43pm On Jan 18, 2016

jerryunit48:

Am still in Ghana and working, i can't drop her and remarry but am waiting to see if she can change. I don't have money but will make a lot of money from my investment in few months coming, which she's not aware i have such investment.

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