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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by francizy(m): 8:14pm On Jan 20, 2016

heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.

The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.

After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.

We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?

Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

But you be ode oh, no offense...

You came here to broadcast how you cheated on your man, yet you have your pic on your status. Why won't he find out when you have your pic on your DP?

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Gelengelen: 8:14pm On Jan 20, 2016

I bind you in Jesus mighty name.

teebee22:
as much as ur reply is irrelevant

I bind you in Jesus mighty name.

teebee22:
as much as ur reply is irrelevant

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jan 20, 2016

cutetopsey:
Now that your conscience is pricking you

Something else was definitely pricking her and I can bet it wasn't her conscience.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by teebee22(f): 8:16pm On Jan 20, 2016

Gelengelen:
I bind you in Jesus mighty name. I bind you in Jesus mighty name.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 20, 2016

csamii:

Really! Let's say you're dating a guy and you guys broke up and it only lasted a week. In between that time, you slept with your best friend. Would you tell your boyfriend when you guys get back together that while on the short break up you slept with your best friend?

It's even worse if you put like that. If am the boyfriend, I would think you broke up with me to go sleep with your best friend.

that is you, its not like i have ever cheated on you, we broke up dude, we broke up. Try telling the truth once and you'll see what been free means.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by OutOnBail(m): 8:19pm On Jan 20, 2016

and the id.iot still put up her pix hanging as dp. No shame, no chills. The reason i tell dudes; Don't claim no B, just bang them.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Gelengelen: 8:19pm On Jan 20, 2016

Gerrout mehn.....allow me to concentrate na. I go organize all nite for u ooo.
Let me view ur profile .
Hahhaha

teebee22:

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by doubled123(m): 8:20pm On Jan 20, 2016

The funny thing is now that your friend has had sex with you once, it will be easy for him to do it again.. and again. and again.
It is your boyfriend's decision to forgive you or not. Don't hold back something as grave as this.
Tell him... apologize and promise to never do such again. and Mean it!
Communication is key to a successful relationship.

P.S Watch yourself around your friend. It will be difficult to resist having sex with him again! (especially the sex was good). He is not your friend. Stay off!

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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Josnac(m): 8:20pm On Jan 20, 2016

Short. break, Short sex, Short brain... Moments of frustration can make one do silly things.

make I just read comments waka commot here, my soup dey fire..

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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by openmine(m): 8:21pm On Jan 20, 2016

This is the result of having besties and close friends wen u r in a relationship.... sad

Please tell ur bf b4 ur male bestie tells ur bf... sad

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Vinsaint(m): 8:21pm On Jan 20, 2016

In fact...I wu torki!

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by ikp120(m): 8:21pm On Jan 20, 2016

leke12:
Girls are such confuse beings! Emotions over intelligence

Guy, you need Doctorate Degree for this talk! You couldn't have said it better. No wonder they are the weaker vessels.

I REST MY CASE!
THANK YOU!

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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 8:22pm On Jan 20, 2016

2kaybiel:
If he wants you back tell him how it happened so that in the latter part of your relationship your friend will not just come here(nairaland) or Linda ikeji to post how cheap you are. Tell him if he still wants you genuinely.

Relationship of these days sef

This is one of the reasons no one should take all those hoes too serious.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by csamii: 8:22pm On Jan 20, 2016

VenusBetty:
that is you, its not like i have ever cheated on you, we broke up dude, we broke up. Try telling the truth once and you'll see what been free means.

Is like I'm not getting through so I'll rephrase the question. Assuming you broke up with your boyfriend for a week and when you got back together he tells you, he slept with his best friend. How will you take it?

Be very honest.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by teebee22(f): 8:24pm On Jan 20, 2016

Gelengelen:
Gerrout mehn.....allow me to concentrate na. I go organize all nite for u ooo.

Let me view ur profile .

Hahhaha

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by tete7000(m): 8:24pm On Jan 20, 2016

heryourdayji:
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You slept with your boyfriend, you slept with your friend. What difference does it make? None is your husband and the fact that you slept with one mean you can sleep with another. You owe neither explanation, only God. All of you are deep into sin of FORNICATION. Repent now that you can be saved. God loves you.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Gelengelen: 8:25pm On Jan 20, 2016

teebee22:

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Mouth123(m): 8:26pm On Jan 20, 2016

You slept with ur friend... this sounds familiar to wat my friend told me... how he banged his old time friend after consoling her from her initial break up with her bf... now they seem to be back and he still wants to feel the fresh kitty again and again....
......
This is how he explained it... she is fresh, shobby, clean and a no nonsense type of girl... but she is a good bedmatrix lady...
......
i am on holiday for now... but
Girl dont stop sharing this kitty until it gets to me...
Thank you..
......
As for my advice... just dont be a demon the second time..tell him... what will u say if he gets to hear months before ur wedding..or ur fvckmate friend comes visiting after wedding...
Don't just kill ursef oo

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jan 20, 2016

PunterTim:
You Know It's Not Really Easy For Ladies After A Breakup.She Feels Her World Is Over And Then She Sees A Handsome Tease Making Her Feel Good About Herself.Almost Impossible To Resist In That Moment Of Weakness And Vulnerability.
...Coming From A Serial Culprit!

Uh..I guess?? Girls could be really super emotional after breakups...They lose their Brains and good judgement in the process... undecided

Really..Are You mad at me? cry

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by deavicky(m): 8:26pm On Jan 20, 2016

I'm sure you like that ur NEPA(On and Off) relationship. Ordinary dating site broke the relationship let alone what u did

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by dammieight(m): 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2016

Well..if u must know..ur boyfriend is a nairalander and has probably read this... U bursted bitc********h!!!! cheesy

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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Sonsquest: 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2016

cruzita:
just tell him before he hear of it from another person.it might bring a negative or positive outcome but just free your concience

Hmmmm.. Very nice and smart idea. Also tell him that you have been a slut all your life and that your have never been faithful. The least he can do is love you for who you are. He may even allow you to bring your male friend home the next time.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by seaga: 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2016

Diddyydiva:
women are the most confused being I have ever met.

The way they gets emotional and makes worst decisions freaks me out

Op you fvcked up

Let's be truthful you lack self control and you are kind of dumb too.

And I think the dating site was an excuse to break up with your boyfriend just to have your way with your friend you are crushing on.

You think your friend will be all you wanted but compared to your boyfriend he is way below , that was while you felt bad.

You are the reason some nonentities here call us names

Tell your boyfriend what you did? how bitchy you acted. Its his decision to either forgive you or not.

And hey !! take down your picture for now

As in this coming from a lady, am impressed. You were not biased at all, unlike some ladies who would turn it to battles of the sexes.Had to comment. We need more ladies like you, in this morally deprived society we live in.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Goldenboy007(m): 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2016

It is so disappointing, with this your innocent look, good men are in trouble., surely pictures can be deceiving ! Friend indeed! Sex is now 10 for $0.99. I reserve the rest of my comments. If I were you, take down your dp cos karma's has got ways to catch up with our deeds!

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by free2ryhme: 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2016

heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.

The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.

After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.

We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?

Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

Sin has cure and Jesus christ is the cure.

Fornication and immorality is sin

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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by enoch273: 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2016

heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.

The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.

After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.

We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?

Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

First of all you are a LovePeddler, secondly that guy will spread the gospel to any of his friend who is ready to listen, in fact you are a disgrace, your bf joined a dating site and you enter bed with yur friend and you call it even? That's witchcraft my dear, better tell him before he hears it outside.

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jan 20, 2016

seaga:

As in this coming from a lady, am impressed. You were not biased at all, unlike some ladies who would turn it to battles of the sexes.Had to comment. We need more ladies like you, in this morally deprived society we live in.

Please!

People have that kind of sex every time shocked

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by JohnsonEmma(m): 8:31pm On Jan 20, 2016

Girls and their dog spirits. Isshhh

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by teebee22(f): 8:32pm On Jan 20, 2016

Gelengelen:

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by francizy(m): 8:32pm On Jan 20, 2016

Diddyydiva:
Shut up jare

let's hear word

The guy that joined dating site only joined to check out beautiful faces abi

of course it can lead to break up, why join the dating site in the first place.

The lady lacks self control tho but that doesn't gives you the right to condemn her

LoL! You're one funny human being you know. Just go back to this your post and look directly above it and see how you did the bolded on the OP... cheesy

In essence, after condemning the mumu OP, you started criticizing someone else for doing the same to OP... cheesy

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by niggi4life(m): 8:34pm On Jan 20, 2016

AbuadStudent:
HERYOURDEYJI please..is that really you @profile picture?

Obviously she's not the one....Most likely a Male troll...

Naija girls no get liver reach that one, na only Oloshos and Badoo girls fit boldy put their pix come dey yarn this nonsense

Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by mickky88: 8:34pm On Jan 20, 2016

AccaPack:
The best thing for u is to end your relationship with your bf.
Reasons:
If u choose not to tell him, he will find out someday if he "truly" loves you. You can't lie to a faithful partner and get away with it. That's nature.
If you choose to tell him now, two things will happen;
1. He will never accept you back if he truly loves u because u betrayed his trust. All he would think is that, u guys had little misunderstanding, and u had sex with another guy, that means u will do more when married.
2.He might pretend not to feel hurt and turn u to sex partner, then discard u when he gets tired of u using the reason above as an excuse.

correct and mature true talk 100 likes for you

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