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naijaboiy:

Say something, this one pass u

Op, if you truly love your gal, I'll advice you ignore your sister and do what's in your mind. Some of us have terrible past.

Bros, women need an enemy to vent all their emotional jagbajantis ontop...if your sister and your gf are friends, guess who becomes the enemy...thank ya stars and enjoy yaself

Seeeeeeee:
The past in any relationship is important., listen to ur sister and from ur galfriends word ''if u dont want me to marry ur brother let me know so that i marry someone else'' is a clear sign ur galfriend is a wayward and confused b*tch.

#gbam

Oyind17:
Say something, this one pass u

Op, if you truly love your gal, I'll advice you ignore your sister and do what's in your mind. Some of us have terrible past.

OMG, the bolded part scares me. I realize how much I don't know about your past

The only thing I'll tell you is



YOUR SISTER KNOWS BETTER



If you decide to continue with her then fine.

Your sister nah your sister..and she KNOWS better.

Women can pretend for the world..

TheCongo2:
OMG, the bolded part scares me. I realize how much I don't know about your past

Why are you still awake by this time? Past has nothing to do with the present and the future. I was never a saint, I made some mistakes in the past like every other person.

Abeg leave your sis for now but help ask your girl one question.

Will she leave you when life throws her something better?

Just call ur sister she ur is blood just accuse her of living a wayward life if the girl is bad so she also cause birds of the same feathers flocks together difinitely she will tell u the real truth

Oyind17:
Why are you still awake by this time? Past has nothing to do with the present and the future. I was never a saint, I made some mistakes in the past like every other person.

It is only 7.36 pm my time. And why are you still awake? Can't wait to hear those mistakes you have made in the past

Sum past will always hurt u in future so bcareful

@OP the fly that does not let the dead body rest will flow the dead body to the grave. you are the only one that can make the final decision and advise yourself, take it to God in prayer and also make your investigation to see if truly she has changed or she is still the same, remember a leopard can not shad it's spots.

TheCongo2:
It is only 7.36 pm my time. And why are you still awake? Can't wait to hear those mistakes you have made in the past

Okay, not sleepy yet. I will tell you someday not today

Oyind17:
Okay, not sleepy yet. I will tell you someday not today

Cool, can't wait to read your story

Nienie:
Brother eh..it's between you and your lady..your sister should go and marry abeg.
Help me ask her this question first.."Sis what if you were in her shoes?"
She has to respect you and tolerate her..You can try to reconcile them..if she no gree..leave trash for lawma.

. The way u end your write up makes me giggle

TheCongo2:
Cool, can't wait to read your story

There's nothing special about my story

Oyind17:
There's nothing special about my story

I am sure I would be able to learn one thing or two. Have you ever had your heart broken? Or have you ever broke someone heart?

If u don't love your gf enough quit !!!! What I hate most is "Had I know "bitting my fingers

TheCongo2:
I am sure I would be able to learn one thing or two. Have you ever had your heart broken? Or have you ever broke someone heart?

Yes and yes. I will mention you with my other moniker so we can talk more on this.

Dear OP, kindly leave your girlfriend. From another female to you, I think she's worth more than what is waiting for her, if your sister keeps acting like a thot. Your sister is being a hoe, and a joy killer. I hate when females go through shiit just because of some ungrateful hoeish-inlaws. Your question is si annoying, I could slap you through naira land. If you don't have the balls to make an honest woman out of her regardless of what her history is, My man, please cut off your balls, deep fry it, and make it into a burger and have your spiteful sister eat it. I pray that sister of yours gets a thousand folds of what she's doing to another woman. You asked for it, now you have my opinion. I hope this helps. You're welcome!

vicchi12:
Dear OP, kindly leave your girlfriend. From another female to you, I think she's worth more than what is waiting for her, if your sister keeps acting like a thot. Your sister is being a hoe, and a joy killer. I hate when females go through shiit just because of some ungrateful hoeish-inlaws. Your question is si annoying, I could slap you through naira land. If you don't have the balls to make an honest woman out of her regardless of what her history is, My man, please cut off your balls, deep fry it, and make it into a burger and have your spiteful sister eat it. I pray that sister of yours gets a thousand folds of what she's doing to another woman. You asked for it, now you have my opinion. I hope this helps. You're welcome!

bae u badt oo

wizkidblogger:
#gbam

rather, She A Very Realistic being, Who Deserves The Best In Life And Knows It. And yup, she's a bitch. Baby in total control of herself. If OP can't do right by her, she deserves the right to have someone else do it and better!

LOVEGINO:
bae u badt oo

My man, I WILL FIGHT FOR YOU IF THE NEED BE! This is me. No time to waste.bif you're going through a hard Time in life and have to make tough decisions, I'm the one! Call on me, and I'll be very brutally honest with you.

Listen to your sister it happened to me the way you just explain, I listen to my sister today I thank God because the said girl can do anything for money now. Women pretend a lot before you take them to alter. Any bad thing you know now please don't ignore, after marriage you will know love is not blind.

vicchi12:
My man, I WILL FIGHT FOR YOU IF THE NEED BE! This is me. No time to waste.bif you're going through a hard Time in life and have to make tough decisions, I'm the one! Call on me, and I'll be very brutally honest with you.

tanx bae u re d bomb.

Girls will always tell u to forget the past...But my brother this is marriage and not courtship or date...Thread with curtion,if you cant make peace between them just walk away else you will be having a generation born on hatred

*MATURE* Not *MATURED*

jayhumble:
Good evening fellas...

I love my Girlfriend so much. She happened to be my sisters friend back in the University. Well they were staying in same hostel back then. I didn't meet her thru my sister, we met during an occasional event way back 2014. My sister has been silent about everything right from the on set she saw her pic on my phone, little did I know my lil sister was waiting for the right time to strike. Well, I finally built the courage to introduce my GF to my mom since I have decided to step our relationship up. The moment I gisted my sister about my plans... She went on whatsapp and warned my GF to leave me and go back to her ex. I still didn't know any of this was going on until my GF sent a text to my sister saying "If you don't want me to marry you brother, I will leave your brother for you and marry someone else".
The moment my sister got that message, she started telling me her story back in school and how she cheated on her 'then bf' when they had a little misunderstanding and she dated someone else pending the time she settled with her BF. She keeps telling me she is not a type of girl to be trusted and all these blah blah blah girls talk. She even had to call a guy who has dated her before and put it on speaker but I didn't mind cuz I felt it's just a girl to girl things...
My GF broke into tears while telling me all these on phone and actually confessed to every allegations laid on her. Went to check my sister's phone to re-read all their chats and I didn't like what I saw actually but I'm still playing matured.
Now this whole issue has blown up to their alumni whatsapp group where all her mates were accusing her of leaving her ex BF just because she found a greener grass.. All those type of talk.

My question now is that... Should I overlook her past and all these drama and proceed with my plans? Can I trust her with her

Please I need advise from matured minds only .

Cc lalasticl.ala
Prettythicksme

karbridals:
Ur sister's past might be worst.everyone has a past,u do and even ur sister that is judging.I have she doesn't cry to u when someone else judges her same way.

There are some things u must have done in the past that u will not want her to know,so abeg tell ur sis to chill and stop being envious of her friend.

Call ur sister alone and tell her this is the woman u want to marry and that u wld want them to make peace so they wldnt have to live like enemies forever..

In addition to this, do not ignore your sister's opinion as it is very important, tell her that this is the person you want to marry and that you love her but you are going to respect her opinion, because she is your sister.

Also talk to your gf, and tell her the same thing; that you love her, but she should understand that peace must reign, then ask both of them to discuss it among themselves and settle the issue. Do not put pressure on your sister, explain to her that, you understand that every one have a past even herself and you are aware of your gf past now, but you will want them to resolve the issue, and that she should put emotions apart and look at the issue objectively.

If it it me, if my sister comes back and tell me that, in all good conscience, she will not agree to the marry and objectively state her reasons and her reasons are very valid, I will not go ahead with the marriage.

. She agreed to cheating on her ex

. She wants you even when she knew your sister is privy of her unfaithful past.

. All her friends are accusing her of dumping her ex for you because of financial difference.

. Your sister alerted you and warned you on time.

My ruling...?

If you are so attached to her bc she's readily available for sex, look elsewhere. You will not have a good married family with what the three of you know. If she was able to convince your sister, it could have been different. Believe me, everything is not love and how u feel about your woman...my everything (in that singer's voice).
AVOID BAD MARRIED LIFE, LET HER GO.

chigoizie7:
In as much as u are old enuf to make your own decissions. I beleive that women know themselves better ( some mothers will just tell u a sharp diff btwn two ladies by mere looking @ them) come to think of when two girls have quarelled(they knew themselves,they knew how they operated back then even other people confirmed it). Your sister knew better.

In my own opinion, ur gf is only playing nice because she wants to gain something otherwise u would have seen dat ur sis is not a saint. She cannot start a fight with a future sister in law.

Believe you me, your sis knows better.














N.B, no one can change. If u change from who you are used to be, den ur new you is not actually d real u. We are all human, we must do that one thing we are known for one day ,if not now, later.

on point...women know themselves, there's something your sister know about your girlfriend that she is worried about

Please, leave this lady. She ain't welcomed in your family already. It's gonna be a battle-ground if she remains with you.