jayhumble:
Good evening fellas...

I love my Girlfriend so much. She happened to be my sisters friend back in the University. Well they were staying in same hostel back then. I didn't meet her thru my sister, we met during an occasional event way back 2014. My sister has been silent about everything right from the on set she saw her pic on my phone, little did I know my lil sister was waiting for the right time to strike. Well, I finally built the courage to introduce my GF to my mom since I have decided to step our relationship up. The moment I gisted my sister about my plans... She went on whatsapp and warned my GF to leave me and go back to her ex. I still didn't know any of this was going on until my GF sent a text to my sister saying "If you don't want me to marry you brother, I will leave your brother for you and marry someone else".
The moment my sister got that message, she started telling me her story back in school and how she cheated on her 'then bf' when they had a little misunderstanding and she dated someone else pending the time she settled with her BF. She keeps telling me she is not a type of girl to be trusted and all these blah blah blah girls talk. She even had to call a guy who has dated her before and put it on speaker but I didn't mind cuz I felt it's just a girl to girl things...
My GF broke into tears while telling me all these on phone and actually confessed to every allegations laid on her. Went to check my sister's phone to re-read all their chats and I didn't like what I saw actually but I'm still playing matured.
Now this whole issue has blown up to their alumni whatsapp group where all her mates were accusing her of leaving her ex BF just because she found a greener grass.. All those type of talk.

My question now is that... Should I overlook her past and all these drama and proceed with my plans? Can I trust her with her

Please I need advise from matured minds only .

Cc lalasticl.ala
Prettythicksme

jayhumble:


I'm not in anyway hunting her for her past. I'm not a saint either. I'm just a bit confused about the whole situation.

lawrenzojacuzzi:
My dear every one has one,two or many ugly experiences in life. Your sister also hers own past which she might not share with you, assuming she is the one that introduce her guy to you, and you have known that guy from adam and you decide to run her down how will she feel. Broda if you truely love your girl, talk to her and forge ahead with her. Marriage is totally different from dating or relationship, please don't break someones heart. Good luck

sonofananimal:
look at them


coming here to preach!

@op! if you listen to any woman telling you forgiveness! past is past, and the likes of this ^.


you are the biggest FOOL.

missKiffy:
If your girlfriend is truly sorry I see no reason for you not to go ahead with her, besides all dos things happened in her past

cococandy:
Your sis needs to go get her own life.

I don't even see anything the so called girlfriend did terribly wrong. She broke up with one ex and started dating another?

Your sister is and has probably been always jealous of her. Those jealousy ridden ones are the ones that behave like your sister the most.

Nienie:

Hate doesn't last forever..they can't hate each other for Long if he eventually marries her.

jayhumble:
Good evening fellas...

I love my Girlfriend so much. She happened to be my sisters friend back in the University. Well they were staying in same hostel back then. I didn't meet her thru my sister, we met during an occasional event way back 2014. My sister has been silent about everything right from the on set she saw her pic on my phone, little did I know my lil sister was waiting for the right time to strike. Well, I finally built the courage to introduce my GF to my mom since I have decided to step our relationship up. The moment I gisted my sister about my plans... She went on whatsapp and warned my GF to leave me and go back to her ex. I still didn't know any of this was going on until my GF sent a text to my sister saying "If you don't want me to marry you brother, I will leave your brother for you and marry someone else".
The moment my sister got that message, she started telling me her story back in school and how she cheated on her 'then bf' when they had a little misunderstanding and she dated someone else pending the time she settled with her BF. She keeps telling me she is not a type of girl to be trusted and all these blah blah blah girls talk. She even had to call a guy who has dated her before and put it on speaker but I didn't mind cuz I felt it's just a girl to girl things...
My GF broke into tears while telling me all these on phone and actually confessed to every allegations laid on her. Went to check my sister's phone to re-read all their chats and I didn't like what I saw actually but I'm still playing matured.
Now this whole issue has blown up to their alumni whatsapp group where all her mates were accusing her of leaving her ex BF just because she found a greener grass.. All those type of talk.

My question now is that... Should I overlook her past and all these drama and proceed with my plans? Can I trust her with her

Please I need advise from matured minds only .

Cc lalasticl.ala
Prettythicksme

AreaFada2:


Lol. Cheeky curious girl.
Well, years back during Xmas I met this nice young lady. First impressions: She was decent, Christian family.
The dad really came across as very decent, amiable & humble man. The mum somewhat pushy, like some Afro mums.
My only worry was age gap & distance: She over 5 years younger & I in diaspora.

Then she claimed she was a virgin. Hmmmmm ok. I was not looking for a virgin, but if she is, fine.
I didn't really wanna waste time but decided to observe a bit. Visited her a few times. I was now set to perfect things.

When we couldn't wait to "chop apple", she said being virgin, unless I will marry her, no apple. I said, even if she wasn't virgin, I'd marry her.
Though what I found was the regular Badagry Express sha o, but I know female anatomy enough to know reasons why she might not appear virgin. Even if actually a virgin. I didn't care anyway, I liked her very much.

Suddenly a female relative got wind that the young lady had ruined her womb a few years earlier. In a botched abortion! The relative has many contacts in the healthcare sector.

Holy cow! How did that happen? Spiritual pregnancy? But she said she was a virgin.

Then came the pushy mum proper. She said no problem at all, all in order. Shebi na you first chop the apple. Just take abroad and all will be splendid.

I insisted on doing test first in 9ja. The mum tried to stop it. The dad was ok with it. You know dads never really know these abortion things daughters do. After much foot dragging & trying to influence the a doc to give it all clear, it finally came to light that her womb was severely damaged.
Despite clear medical evidence, the mother kept saying it's a minor thing, that it can be rectified abroad. That woman doesn't even know MMA. Still she never admitted any abortion took place.

Our informant witnessed the abortion first hand.

Mistakes can happen. But denying and trying to dupe others is unacceptable. If they had admitted right away and come clean, then fine.
What hope has a marriage built on such a fundamental lie.

Any how, I wasted over 2 years of life in courtship with that lady.

karbridals:
For real?

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What is your bra size?? feel like resting my head on your boobsss ..

Yes o

hollywater:
Do you know that anything can happen?What if the Sister chooses to go extra mile because of this? Don't joke with Nigerians women. Mehn i have seen a situation, whereby a lady went to a native doctor, to block her brother wife from having a child. Knowing fully well without a child, his brother will marry another woman and that will be the end of her so called wife.

Nienie:

Nollywood..
the fact is..he can't reconcile the ladies if they don't want to be reconciled.

AreaFada2:


OP said "many allegations", to the point he admits been unhappy about the whole information.
Who said it's just dumping one guy?

In a short period of quarrel, she slept with another guy already. Still with the OP o.

So any time she has quarrel with hubby (normal thing in most unions) na to go bleep another man?

Seeeeeeee:
The past in any relationship is important., listen to ur sister and from ur galfriends word ''if u dont want me to marry ur brother let me know so that i marry someone else'' is a clear sign ur galfriend is a wayward and confused b*tch.

Oyind17:

Why are you still awake by this time? Past has nothing to do with the present and the future. I was never a saint, I made some mistakes in the past like every other person.

jayhumble:
Good evening fellas...

I love my Girlfriend so much. She happened to be my sisters friend back in the University. Well they were staying in same hostel back then. I didn't meet her thru my sister, we met during an occasional event way back 2014. My sister has been silent about everything right from the on set she saw her pic on my phone, little did I know my lil sister was waiting for the right time to strike. Well, I finally built the courage to introduce my GF to my mom since I have decided to step our relationship up. The moment I gisted my sister about my plans... She went on whatsapp and warned my GF to leave me and go back to her ex. I still didn't know any of this was going on until my GF sent a text to my sister saying "If you don't want me to marry you brother, I will leave your brother for you and marry someone else".
The moment my sister got that message, she started telling me her story back in school and how she cheated on her 'then bf' when they had a little misunderstanding and she dated someone else pending the time she settled with her BF. She keeps telling me she is not a type of girl to be trusted and all these blah blah blah girls talk. She even had to call a guy who has dated her before and put it on speaker but I didn't mind cuz I felt it's just a girl to girl things...
My GF broke into tears while telling me all these on phone and actually confessed to every allegations laid on her. Went to check my sister's phone to re-read all their chats and I didn't like what I saw actually but I'm still playing matured.
Now this whole issue has blown up to their alumni whatsapp group where all her mates were accusing her of leaving her ex BF just because she found a greener grass.. All those type of talk.

My question now is that... Should I overlook her past and all these drama and proceed with my plans? Can I trust her with her

Please I need advise from matured minds only .

Cc lalasticl.ala
Prettythicksme

ehix89:
past r sometimes a reflection of wat d future holds,,,wont marry a lady with an awful past

jayhumble:
Good evening fellas...

I love my Girlfriend so much. She happened to be my sisters friend back in the University. Well they were staying in same hostel back then. I didn't meet her thru my sister, we met during an occasional event way back 2014. My sister has been silent about everything right from the on set she saw her pic on my phone, little did I know my lil sister was waiting for the right time to strike. Well, I finally built the courage to introduce my GF to my mom since I have decided to step our relationship up. The moment I gisted my sister about my plans... She went on whatsapp and warned my GF to leave me and go back to her ex. I still didn't know any of this was going on until my GF sent a text to my sister saying "If you don't want me to marry you brother, I will leave your brother for you and marry someone else".
The moment my sister got that message, she started telling me her story back in school and how she cheated on her 'then bf' when they had a little misunderstanding and she dated someone else pending the time she settled with her BF. She keeps telling me she is not a type of girl to be trusted and all these blah blah blah girls talk. She even had to call a guy who has dated her before and put it on speaker but I didn't mind cuz I felt it's just a girl to girl things...
My GF broke into tears while telling me all these on phone and actually confessed to every allegations laid on her. Went to check my sister's phone to re-read all their chats and I didn't like what I saw actually but I'm still playing matured.
Now this whole issue has blown up to their alumni whatsapp group where all her mates were accusing her of leaving her ex BF just because she found a greener grass.. All those type of talk.

My question now is that... Should I overlook her past and all these drama and proceed with my plans? Can I trust her with her

Please I need advise from matured minds only .

Cc lalasticl.ala
Prettythicksme

brownlolly:
All ladies supporting this hopeless man's girlfriend r HOES... yes i said it.