CertifiedFreak:
what's ur problem, you probably wanna eat ur cake and have it. she has new priorities, deal with it.

i doubtt you read the post.

whats all this bestie bullshit?
can't you make ur fiance ur bestie.

if we say a guy and a gal can't be just friends not even talking bestie sef without emotions and feelings setting in, people will say we Have started.

What are you doing or discussing with the bestie that you can't do with ur lover Biko

refiner:
she might av developed feelings for u....I wish u can develop a feeling for her too,so u guys can date.....

Why will he date her when he already has a fiancee naa?

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.
Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...
Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.
I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

Dude, its normal na, she likes u, really really likes u, but u like her as a frnd. N now she has someone, my best guess is, she trying to avoid contacts wif u, for awhile so that she doesn't mess up her new relationship.

Life's complicated sometimes bruv.

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I just don't get it when a full blooded male says a female is just a friend and vice versa.

She has a better besty now, so back the Bleep off.

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

Cheerful givers never lacks!

My bestie z my current gf nw la we used to be besties

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

She's in love with you!!! Dumb head!!

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

Oh boi, u slow ooo! U still need us to explain wetin dey apun?

In this kind of situation...Just think family above all. Ur family is bonded to you forever and friends come and go.

naijaboiy:
Just one question please!

How do you people comfortably become "besties" with the opposite sex and not attach some sort of feelings to it.

When I mean bestie I don't mean work acquaintance or classmate. I mean a fuckíng bestie.

The one that you can play with,argue with,show your naughtiest sides and you don't attach emotions?

Sounds clearly weird to me.

Its possible !

give me her phone number

CaroLyner:
i doubtt you read the post.

I actually did ma'am. He's wondering why she's aloof and incommunicado. He misses the attention given him by her, dare I say he probably feeds on it. There's nothing a guy enjoys more than the thrill of knowing a chiq other than his gets jealous over his actions. Now she's gotten a mate, he misses the adulation, op's gonna deny it tho.

Having a babe as your best friend is the height of self deception. Somebody will catch feelings. Stop stressing yourselves. Hook up or slip into basic friendship.

Lesbianas

naijaboiy:
Just one question please!

How do you people comfortably become "besties" with the opposite sex and not attach some sort of feelings to it.

When I mean bestie I don't mean work acquaintance or classmate. I mean a fuckíng bestie.

The one that you can play with,argue with,show your naughtiest sides and you don't attach emotions?

Sounds clearly weird to me.

Lol.
I don't know if every other person experiences it, but personally, there are some chicks I meet and just like...like really like, not for sex,not for a love relationship, but simply cos we agree on a whole lot of things. Usually, in such cases, we just relate on a whole lot of things without any sexual feelings or love attachments and become great friends.

JeffreyJamez:


Its possible !

bros, e no possible! Human emotions na bastard! The feelings will creep in somehow. Yes! U can suppress it afterwards but d point is it will creep in at some time. Well, except this your bestie ugly pass hunch back of Notre dame

Very unstable Besty..give am superman PUNCH!

I tried this bestie nonsense once and it landed me into tick okro soup....




Ever since then.....i now believe


Keeping a girl as a best friend is like keeping chicken in the house as a pet.


One day u go just chop am!!!

Prico32, the thing is, your bestie has always liked you, and was hoping you both would upgrade the friendship. It hurts her anytime she sees your picture with your fiancée, and her hopes on you go dim. She would wish to be in the place of your fiancée.

Perhaps, she had to start dating someone to push your thoughts out of her. Given, she would prefer you to the guy she's dating...if that were possible. Perhaps she doesn't even love the guy.

Her annoyance was the way you reacted to her dating someone else. She wanted you to feel jealous, perhaps it would bring you guys closer.

On the contrary, you sounded so excited that she had finally given someone a chance (not quite her expectation, frustrating even, ). She would give anything to have you be her lover.

My advice: If you're not ready for messy relationship matters, you have to put her off. But then, do it gently, cos feelings are involved. Calmly and gently relate to her feelings and emotions, but firmly explain that you can't do otherwise. Allow some distance between you two (of course, you can't be besties anymore...unless she comes through and gets over the feelings).

She may hurt for a while, but when she realises it's never gonna be, then she would put herself together.

Don't, I repeat, don't give her any form of green light she could hold on to. Make her healing faster.

You started out as besties, but she catches the feelings. I've been there, I know how it feels. You could still turn out great friends, if you handle it well (great family friends, yours and hers).

Phew! Long epistle!
Forgive me, but then, I just had to talk.

All the best!

They started as three later become two and now one.......
Twenty friends cannot play together for twenty years.....

Move on and don't let that bother you except you too have something hidden in your mind

vayne:
Bestie with your opposite sex!!
You were raising her hopes high all this while in the guise of "bestie" ...wtf
You were busy bestieing with someone that was expecting more than bestie from you!!

How old are you!

I feel like flogging the op. He must have seen the signs of interest from the bestie. Are some guys this blind?!!!

naijaboiy:
Just one question please!

How do you people comfortably become "besties" with the opposite sex and not attach some sort of feelings to it.

When I mean bestie I don't mean work acquaintance or classmate. I mean a fuckíng bestie.

The one that you can play with,argue with,show your naughtiest sides and you don't attach emotions?

Sounds clearly weird to me.

Me too

Obinovictor:
Ignore her. You can't keep a friend forever. Except you want her to come and scatter your relationship.

Stingy somebori! he will not listen

otswag:
bros, e no possible! Human emotions na bastard! The feelings will creep in somehow. Yes! U can suppress it afterwards but d point is it will creep in at some time. Well, except this your bestie ugly pass hunch back of Notre dame

No it won't.... there are some really close female friends I have that I can't even consider dating... and they're cute.... it all boils down to emotional maturity...No be every babe you go get emotional attachment for na.... except you're mentally and emotionally bleeped up.

Obinovictor:
Ignore her. You can't keep a friend forever. Except you want her to come and scatter your relationship.

QED

The point is that there will always be a problem when you make a person of opposite sex your best friend. Its not advisable.

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

So e dy pain to friend zone? lol...u yaff friend zoned her to the level of no return..e sweet me sha!..dem (f) tink say na only dem sabi #FR

refiner:
she might av developed feelings for u....I wish u can develop a feeling for her too,so u guys can date.....

Did o.p tell you he's a developer?

CertifiedFreak:


I actually did ma'am. He's wondering why she's aloof and incommunicado. He misses the attention given him by her, dare I say he probably feeds on it. There's nothing a guy enjoys more than the thrill if knowing a chiq other than his gets jealous over his actions. Now she's gotten a mate, he misses the adulation, op's gonna deny it tho.

This guy did summary in secondary school

in my humble opinion I believe it's always best for bestfriends 2 date each other cos they know everything about each other not some random stranger somewhere.
Your bestie doesn't love the current guy lemme just tell you. She's just using that guy to supress the feelings she has for you but eventually the naked truth will still come before her very eyes & she and the guy would be history. By the way OP if u truly have eyes and u still can't see the picture hanging on your wall then truly you are blind.