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The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 2:21pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
I actually intended to post this in my diary but then, I want to sample a lotta opinions. What brought about this thought is the near- obsession with macho sex in this age. Turn on just about any radio station and you will hear them: explicit songs about how today's men and woman supposedly want sex: Quick and dirty. Fast and hot. No strings attached. Hit-and-run. I do not even want to ask what is behind this trend. Some of the people who approve of this say relationships are not that important. (I'm independent and secure) They also try not to admit how lonely they are. Sex is often a by-product of some other need e.g a desire for intimacy and macho sex can never fulfil that need. Why? Experts say because its primary - usually only- goal is self-satisfaction. I personally feel macho sex is so demeaning and unfulfilling. It leaves one emotionally empty. I've asked a couple of people offline and a lot of them seem to be in favour of true intimacy (I.e before they want to see or be seen by anyone 'in the raw", they prefer to be both friends and lovers). So to you guys now: True intimacy or macho sex, which is more fulfilling?? Oya, naijaboiy, Joecutie, princeparix, Oga KingTom, iAmCharis show here. |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by shegxi(m): 2:41pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
either of them can be fulfilling depending on wat u want at dat point of ur life. |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by vicraven(m): 2:49pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
gee! lets take a break frm this sex thingy abeg sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex 2 Likes |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by misspicy(f): 2:52pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Macho sex is the best |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 2:57pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
misspicy: First time I'm hearing that from a female |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by misspicy(f): 3:00pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
BreezyRita:True Talk my dear why mess up my heart and emotions for a guy? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by chibwike(m): 3:12pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
True intimacy all the way 1 Like |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by chibwike(m): 3:17pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
misspicy:some guys are worth it. 1 Like |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by naijaboiy: 3:17pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
It just depends. Sometimes you just feel like getting things done quickly without attaching emotions and some other times you just feel like taking it slow. Even with his girlfriend a man can still be macho. But when it comes to the one preferred the most I'll say majority of guys if not all will prefer the rough macho sex while girls usually like it slow. 2 Likes |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by misspicy(f): 3:24pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Booking space |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by KingTom(m): 3:48pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
I'll have to go with naijaboiy . Sometimes we feel the urge to go rush rush like indomie especially when it's something stolen, but in this day and age where New stds are springing up by the day, true intimacy is my best bet. 4 Likes |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by naijaboiy: 3:54pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
KingTom:That's why I got myself a wife. 1 Like |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by KingTom(m): 3:57pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy:one man one vote..... Sorry one woman 1 Like |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 4:23pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy: E don reach like that? So if Oga Kingtom say new STDs are springing up daily (Him dey dodge ), I wonder why many are still plunging into it. Misspicy, yes. Some guys are actually worth all of that. |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by KingTom(m): 4:26pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
BreezyRita:We have to oh.Zika is real |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by misspicy(f): 4:26pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
BreezyRita:Example of such guys or idonbilivit |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by naijaboiy: 4:30pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
BreezyRita:They probably are still ignorant of the fact that keeping countless partners is very risky and dangerous. |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by jonaifame22(m): 4:38pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Pls don't mind me jus pass okay, I 'm for here for the comments!
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Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Cutehector(m): 4:53pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Erm I think I like it passionate |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Cutehector(m): 5:50pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Lalasticlala |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by chibwike(m): 7:00pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
misspicy:Lol, yeah |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by chibwike(m): 7:01pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
misspicy:Lol, yeah |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
I go with true intimacy. Yea, there could be times when one just wants it sharp sharp but that's quite risky as highlighted by KingTom. I think the quality of your persona has a lot to say here. An emotionally stable guy won't just dig any vj that comes his way. Basically, it's relative but I go with true intimacy. |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by KingTom(m): 9:45pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
iAmCharis:you could've wrapped this up in one or two lines, you just wan blow big grammar. 3 Likes |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
KingTom: |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
She's called out those she'd wanta hear from, so What am I doing here? .. Strolls off... |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 1:00pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
pinceprinz: #Drags him back I called them cos I've known them here. You expect me to tag all of NL? Na u go still vex say I tag you for wetin no concern you. Now you're here, what's your take?? Happy Sunday BTW. |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Medunah: 1:42pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
True intimacy ofcourse. why would I have sex with someone I don't wanna get emotional with in the first place? |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by adeagbo101(m): 2:30pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
I just don't like the idea of not being sincere to ourselves. Now, this is not about you. I'm not trying to call you out but: haven't you experince a kind of sex (dont want want to use the word 'macho') resulting from just 'ordinary' likeness for some or a particular trait possessed by the other gender? Hmm? Humour being one. I'm not gunning for mahco sex, infact i wouldn't have comment had i not seen your reply to OP. But, i tell you most or even all girl at some point in their lives have had 'whatever sex' with a guy with not even a single emotion attached! You dont plan it, it just happens. Now, tell me that's not true. Medunah: |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
BreezyRita: LoL. I didn't HV anything to say really, but cos the topic has potentials of hitting the big bang, wanta follow ,see things in the eyes of others and learn a thing or two. Im just a boy that knows little or nothing - naive . Merry Sunday! |
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
KingTom: I'm getting scared to the bones for all these unheard diseases taking dominion day in day out, Sometimes I fear drinking ordinary table water out of fear of contamination with some unknown syndrome/culture. |
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