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Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by KingTom(m): 3:50pm On Jan 31, 2016
pinceprinz:


I'm getting scared to the bones for all these unheard diseases taking dominion day in day out, Sometimes I fear drinking ordinary table water out of fear of contamination with some unknown syndrome/culture.
you're not alone mehn and now these guys who keep travelling around the world and "sampling" different women will come and infect us embarassed

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Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 31, 2016
KingTom:
you're not alone mehn and now these guys who keep travelling around the world and "sampling" different women will come and infect us embarassed

Moral laxity is the real disease IMO, Only if today were like yesterday when men and women had this 'prestine' element of shame flowing through their system, things wouldn't be this bad as customs like no intimacy before/outside marriage would gain grounds and sex would truly assume its forbidden fruit posture and Stds wouldn't have been able to break through our defense and paint us red just anyhow. More subtly, God is putting us in check by himself allowing diseases to gain grounds angry... Speaks volume of how disappointed He would be in us now despite all the brains and complexities He'd allowed us to assume so we could know what's right and follow it and see what's bad and forfeit it. Sad story! embarassed
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by KingTom(m): 4:44pm On Jan 31, 2016
pinceprinz:


Moral laxity is the real disease IMO, Only if today were like yesterday when men and women had this 'prestine' element of shame flowing through their system, things wouldn't be this bad as customs like no intimacy before/outside marriage would gain grounds and sex would truly assume its forbidden fruit posture and Stds wouldn't have been able to break through our defense and paint us red just anyhow. More subtly, God is putting us in check by himself allowing diseases to gain grounds angry... Speaks volume of how disappointed He would be in us now despite all the brains and complexities He'd allowed us to assume so we could know what's right and follow it and see what's bad and forfeit it. Sad story! embarassed
Very sad. Well said grin

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Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jan 31, 2016
BreezyRita:
I actually intended to post this in my diary but then, I want to sample a lotta opinions.

What brought about this thought is the near- obsession with macho sex in this age.
Turn on just about any radio station and you will hear them: explicit songs about how today's men and woman supposedly want sex: Quick and dirty. Fast and hot. No strings attached. Hit-and-run.

I do not even want to ask what is behind this trend.

Some of the people who approve of this say relationships are not that important. (I'm independent and secure) They also try not to admit how lonely they are. Sex is often a by-product of some other need e.g a desire for intimacy and macho sex can never fulfil that need. Why? Experts say because its primary - usually only- goal is self-satisfaction.

I personally feel macho sex is so demeaning and unfulfilling. It leaves one emotionally empty.
I've asked a couple of people offline and a lot of them seem to be in favour of true intimacy (I.e before they want to see or be seen by anyone 'in the raw", they prefer to be both friends and lovers).

So to you guys now: True intimacy or macho sex, which is more fulfilling??

Oya, naijaboiy, Joecutie, princeparix, Oga KingTom, iAmCharis show here.

Both are very fulfilling, depending on your mood
Intimacy can be boring sometimes



"I don't make love, i fvck " - Grey.
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 31, 2016
KingTom:
Very sad. Well said grin
Thank U!
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jan 31, 2016
Dudeweedlmao:

Both are very fulfilling, depending on your mood Intimacy can be boring sometimes


"I don't make love, i fvck " - Grey.
PS
And when U fvck, FuVk like u hate her! That's special.
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 31, 2016
pinceprinz:


PS

And when U fvck, FuVk like u hate her! That's special.

Yeah,thats it mang
I'm usually in beast mode when am not in intimacy mode
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jan 31, 2016
Dudeweedlmao:


Yeah,thats it mang
I'm usually in beast mode when am not in intimacy mode

Way to go gee. You're Good!


End result is always Rumpled bed sheet and sweaty armpits under AC then deep sound sleep after the warm shower cheesy... Nothing feels better!!
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 6:41pm On Feb 01, 2016
pinceprinz:


Moral laxity is the real disease IMO, Only if today were like yesterday when men and women had this 'prestine' element of shame flowing through their system, things wouldn't be this bad as customs like no intimacy before/outside marriage would gain grounds and sex would truly assume its forbidden fruit posture and Stds wouldn't have been able to break through our defense and paint us red just anyhow. More subtly, God is putting us in check by himself allowing diseases to gain grounds angry... Speaks volume of how disappointed He would be in us now despite all the brains and complexities He'd allowed us to assume so we could know what's right and follow it and see what's bad and forfeit it. Sad story! embarassed

And he said he's naive. smiley
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Feb 01, 2016
Hmmmmmmm. Interesting thread.
Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 6:47am On Feb 02, 2016
adeaks:
Hmmmmmmm. Interesting thread.
Lol. Don't mind em derailers. Welcome

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