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Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by omron(op): 12:34am On Feb 11, 2016
Bhella5:
40! I doubt that. Your game is not top notch enough otherwise a petrol attendant from one obsure village would not be bursting ur balls.
am I God dat all lady I went to propose should accept my proposal or u think say I dey use charm? See if you woo a lady and she accept not cos u fine at times or have money but becos sometin lead to one thing an it depends on individual differences to decide what is best for her okay? I can't change that... Get yourself wisdom
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by bfatoba(m): 12:34am On Feb 11, 2016
2BB4CB3E:
dude you are acting desperate,

1: the day she saw you and gave you her number maybe she was feeling you!
2:you should observe how often she returns your calls, a girl that likes you no matter how busy she is will call back when she is chanced (you messed up shld have laid back and observed)
3:her meeting up with you after you after your pesting her was her giving you a chance to impress her, then you bringing up her job and pay lol (only desperate guys behave like that)
4:now after messing up you want to act silly lol
well see what you will do, if you like fool yourself
2moro around 2pm go to a fast food resturant get her lunch and drop it off for her at where she works
when you get home dont call her wait just be patient
if she eventually calls dont pick then after some hours call her back once
she will pick (talk casually like what she did in the past didnt happen)
you shld know the rest
Sometimes when I read stuff Like this, I want to open a Game school
where we can impact "Guile" into less privileged individuals.

Your advice shouldn't be free to OP, he will probably mess up again.
OP has successfully painted himself as an Arrogant/Drunk.....
a combination of which, majority of the time leads to "wifebeater"
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by funmercy1(f): 12:35am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
well said brother
sister grin
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by omron(op): 12:37am On Feb 11, 2016
funmercy1:
sister grin
oh don't mind me... grin
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by sinequanon: 12:39am On Feb 11, 2016
funmercy1:
omron post=42812164:
well said brother
sister grin
Maybe he called the girl bro by mistake, and that is why she won't pick up. grin
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by omron(op): 12:41am On Feb 11, 2016
sinequanon:
Maybe he called the girl bro by mistake, and that is why she won't pick up. grin
u dis guy u again... U follow me come here.... U no dey sleep angry grin grin shocked
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by JuicyGee(f): 12:44am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
me ke? I have dated more than 40 women in my life I will now be taking drink to boost my confidence.... When am not a learner
40 ke? That's definitely not true.. But lets pretend its true.
So if you said you've dated 40 women, is either you're a womanizer or you're just a wack fellow who doesn't know how to make his women stay tongue
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by sinequanon: 12:46am On Feb 11, 2016
JuicyGee:
40 ke? That's definitely not true.. But lets pretend its true.
So if you said you've dated 40 women, is either you're a womanizer or you're just a wack fellow who doesn't know how to make his women stay tongue
40 at the same time, mind you.

no be easy.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by UIA04(f): 12:50am On Feb 11, 2016
Cutehector:
Hahhahahahaha even fuel attendant dey do shakara for u.

Bros, u need to see an ifa priest!
What is wrong with that isn't she human
We know you date the likes of agbani darego abi?
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Sunnypa11(m): 1:00am On Feb 11, 2016
U sure say u no dey smoke weed join ?
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by terrymason(m): 1:00am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
fuel attendant no be human being no be within she get for yansh dey for Banker yansh? U need to ee her she fine pass some ajebo...or make I post the picture here..... I wonder what she is doing in the fuel station see.... U need to see her.. Very pretty and spotless fair lady
this is a heart to heart advice bro! Send me her number so I make her see reasons to fall in love with you... grin
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by omron(op): 1:01am On Feb 11, 2016
JuicyGee:
40 ke? That's definitely not true.. But lets pretend its true.
So if you said you've dated 40 women, is either you're a womanizer or you're just a wack fellow who doesn't know how to make his women stay tongue
It's a lie...... Women are not satisfied they are never never satisfied they like dating men around too dnt tell me nonsense.... How many guys av u Fvck in your life don't tell me they are not up to 20 at least... As I dey look u sef I wan do
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Bhella5(m): 1:02am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
am I God dat all lady I went to propose should accept my proposal or u think say I dey use charm? See if you woo a lady and she accept not cos u fine at times or have money but becos sometin lead to one thing an it depends on individual differences to decide what is best for her okay? I can't change that... Get yourself wisdom
Grow a pair.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by omron(op): 1:03am On Feb 11, 2016
Wow bro tanx for that but can u pls send your email address to me and ur number
terrymason:
this is a heart to heart advice bro! Send me her number so I make her see reasons to fall in love with you... grin
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by sugarcoatedben(m): 1:06am On Feb 11, 2016
Cutehector:
Hahhahahahaha even fuel attendant dey do shakara for u.

Bros, u need to see an ifa priest!
see ifa priest for wetin,fuel attendant no be human being besides what's so bad or degrading in such jobs?
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by sniper77(m): 1:09am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
I greet Fellow nairalanders happy Sunday.

Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice
You are simply infatuated. Just relax cos we are not in the raining season yet. The harmattan fit dey make you cold in the morning and the dry air by noon worsens the situation. When rain fall the weather go dey OK and you go dey breathe fresh air and you no go remember the babe again.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by sniper77(m): 1:16am On Feb 11, 2016
JuicyGee:
40 ke? That's definitely not true.. But lets pretend its true.
So if you said you've dated 40 women, is either you're a womanizer or you're just a wack fellow who doesn't know how to make his women stay tongue
He is a player that knows how to control his game. He has a specific number in mind. When he achieves his target he will settle down.

I believe he must have dated above the numbers he specified. A friend once hit the mark of 80 babes and the 81st is his wife. Do not ask me how I know. The truth is guys have a data base.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by terrymason(m): 1:17am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
Wow bro tanx for that but can u pls send your email address to me and ur number
I won help b4 oh! Nor worry again undecided
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by MrDoGood(m): 1:25am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
I greet Fellow nairalanders happy Sunday.

Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice
Bros she's a pump attendant.

It will be very risky for she to pick your calls during working hours.
And secondly, most ceo's don't welcome phone answering in place of work.

Try and see her during closing hours not working hours so as to avoid the boss embarrasment.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Lexusgs430: 1:33am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
I greet Fellow nairalanders happy Sunday.

Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice
Send me her telephone number and her picture, let me judge if she is worth all this hassle!!!
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by DedeNkem: 2:02am On Feb 11, 2016
You can't love anyone at first sight! Just to correct that.

She may have had a terrible experience with people who drink alcohol. Maybe a drunk ex or parents who maltreated her.

Go ask her face-to-face why she suddenly changed after the alcohol issue. Do so at her free time to avoid getting her sacked.

Another thing is, why tell her "if you know her better" you will help negotiate better salary? Are you waiting to f*uck her first before doing so? Why not do it now with her permission? Be careful not get her sacked, unless there's a better job somewhere for her.

Good luck!
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Nobody: 2:04am On Feb 11, 2016
she doesn't want you. You are way too forward for any sane woman to desire. Let me tell you your mistakes:

1. You inquire about her salary. HER Salary isn't any of YOUR business. You aren't her man. You aren't in a serious relationship. You shouldn't be asking about her salary.

2. SOmeone people do not like drinkers. I happen to be one of them.

3. You seem desperate.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by knxpin(m): 2:14am On Feb 11, 2016
This is a typical experience that I had some years ago. mine was that the young girl just came out of high school and her uncle employed her to work in the filling station .I was just in my second year in the university so to cut the long story short, she was an angel. I was driving my fathers car so I now made it a point of duty to buy fuel 3 times daily in that gas station and in her pump. we eventually become ordinary friends. she can never do anything with you because she had it in mind that you want to take advantage of her situation fuel attendant.
so bros take a chill pill and just be friends with her for now, mine took me two years when she was gained admission in the university and feel she is my mate before we get it kicking.we almost get married before I left for abroad to further my studies, and she was married when I was back and we still keep in touch.













Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice[/quote]
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by therapistmrs: 2:22am On Feb 11, 2016
Relax mr man.give her some time,if she is yours she will come around.

All the best.

therapistmrs. . com
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by dapsonlou(m): 2:35am On Feb 11, 2016
Cutehector:
Hahhahahahaha even fuel attendant dey do shakara for u.

Bros, u need to see an ifa priest!
Everybody get their level
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Scimo007: 2:43am On Feb 11, 2016
I beg u, leave that poor girl alone. Maybe u have bad mouth odour. Pls work on that. She only called it beer becos she respect u and dont want to embarrase u. The cause is bad breath, mouth odour, work on that.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by johnsonjosbles(m): 3:12am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
I greet Fellow nairalanders happy Sunday.

Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice
op which language u be, if na Yoruba, leave Benue girl alone, if u put head, don't say I no warn you oooooooh, because u will either cry or laugh last.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Nobody: 3:19am On Feb 11, 2016
prettysolid:
She feels your childish. Kindly also enroll for english lessons it might help
*you're *English'


Looks like you ma'am need the lessons more than OP does. You really need to learn how to punctuate perfectly too.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Nobody: 3:25am On Feb 11, 2016
You'll probably come to ask us how to make love to your future wife some day!
omron:
I greet Fellow nairalanders happy Sunday.

Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Ganjafama(m): 3:25am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
I know she will still enter my trap
I have this love jazz called "Touch and follow". Immiedately you look her in the eye and touch her, she's urs forever. I can give it to u free if u want it.
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Orikinla(m): 4:21am On Feb 11, 2016
omron:
I greet Fellow nairalanders happy Sunday.

Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice
. OP, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. What you have is lust. You don't love her. You want to fu-ck her. And men who drink like you are lousy lovers in bed and also often beat women. See Valentine's Day Is Not For Those Who Abuse True Love - Romance - Nigeria, https://www.nairaland.com/2925766/valentines-day-not-those-abuse
Re: What Should I Do? Forget About Her Or Continue The Struggle by Nobody: 4:28am On Feb 11, 2016
You will give up drinking beer just for pus5y, even worse for LOVE? Learn to be who you are and give up drinking beer because you want to, not so someone can accept you! You cannot force yourself on people, keep it moving.....If she feels the same way you feel about her, she will meet you half way! Not one quarter way.....HALF WAY!!!!!
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