vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

OP, u are really silly and just looking for excuses here and there. How is 6am late? If u had said she wakes up by 9am or 10am, i might agree but even at that, so far she does all shes suppose to do on time, why is it ur business what time she wakes up or is ur house a boarding house and are u the house master now? Also how is it ur business if she prays or not? Should u force her to pray? U are acting like an over grown child sir. Abeg focus on more pressing issues in life and give ur wife freedom, afterall shes not a prisoner.

This is what you get when u turn ur wife to fulltime housewife.

U only fvck and feed her and don't want her to work because of jealousy that she may see another guy.

Smh. This is 7:45 and I'm still in bed as I type.

Do not kill your wife, allow her sleep and wake at a convenient time. Is there any particular work a wife must do at 6am that can't be done at 8am or 7am? Would she die if she cleans the kitchen at 9am?

Unless she's a subject to a boss at a workplace, I see no reason why she must obey the 'common law.'

In so far as she's not lazy, you do not have any problem. Sleeping at 12 am and waking at 2am is not a sign of hardwork.

Sparklequeen:
Signs of a trouble maker. 6am is early enough

Sparklequeen, sparkle Red is saying hi

Depends on what she does for a living

This is serious..do you expect her to be perfect in every ways? Pls just tell us you are tried of her already

JeffreyJamez:
You call 6am late? ....abi you're looking for excuse to send her packing

If you leave and work in Lagos then 6am is damn too late save you don't have a family to care for and office is only walk distance.

netizenbuzz:
and this your question annoyed me sha. what is your business with when your wife wakes up? let me guess......so that she can attend to every of your needs early abi? And you think a virtuous woman should be up before 6:00am? If that is your definition of a virtuous woman then I think you are the problem not her. When the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is imminent. Is there a logical reason for her to be up before 6:00am? Like work? Or kids going to school? No? Then you have no point dear. That you can do it, or that other women can do it doesn't mean she should do it. She is not you and she is not them. And it does not mean she is not well-brought up. Leave her alone and stop trying to shape her into what you think is a virtuous woman. Is she hardworking, soft-spoken, God-fearing, decent, humble, etc...? Now that is what makes a virtuous woman. I always wondered why they sweep every morning in Nigerian homes when the house is clearly not dirty, I mean, you swept yesterday and even when something spilled, you swept it immediately. Why sweep a house that is not dirty just to create more chores for yourself? I was get a reply of it is how it is done or something along that line.....mtchew. I even thought you wanted to say she wakes up by 10:00am. mtchew!

Lol @ the sweeping part.

@op If you reside in Ikorodu she works on the island then I can see that as a justification for waking up @4am
Meanwhile probably you are not aware, Christians can pray anytime unlike Muslims. If she does everything expected of her once she is up at 6am, then you've got no problem.

By the way, what does she do for living?

As a man you should lead the spiritual front.

I sleep early and wake up early, my wife sleeps late and wakes up late. so I wake her up for prayers.

no go kill your wife where u wan copy your colleagues wey dey carry food go work. taata

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

So when you wake up at 4-5am, what do u to before 6am? Catch up on Nairaland?

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

a good woman, I mean a good wife and a good mother should wake up early.



Does she have kids? What if one of your kids needs her attention in the middle of the night and she has slept off like a dead goat?

I believe she has a bit of irresponsibility in her life.


A man should wake up early too. No need to sleep like you're dead

This kind of men makes marriage scary

imagine my mum controlled almost all my life as a young adult,get married again,your husband take up the control wheel.....


danbrowndmf am considering that my no marriage option again you people wicked

vybzkartel:



she could be awake...but once it is not 6am, she has sworn never to get up from bed

Am sure she used to wake up before 6am b4 now. Something must have led to her decision on not waking up @ that time again... there's something your not telling us. Besides, 6am is early now!check yourself

theoptimist298:



Boy, are u normal?

You can ask that question to your father

I want to believe d kids hasn't come yet, cos they decide how d woman spends her time, including d kind of job she does! so pls allow her rest now dat she has all d time.

its only d grace of God that keep women. imagine combing work/biz, house chores, kids etc.

and if she's not working yet, why can't she sleep till 9am? I suspect u want to turn her to ur slave!

#teamnoslaveryinmarriage#

Try hot sex or romance. Whn u re fully awake, initiate dat to wake her.

My brother ur wife attends her meetings btw d hrs of 12-3am, she only has 3hrs to sleep in a day, she has bin possessed wit oda powers dat is why she can't wake up for ur own devotion "Do u want her gods to b angry wit u"?? Abeg just leave her o.

GGGB07:
My wife wakes up past 8am or almost 9am everyday. À

Am tired also, she get lazy and not do anything. As much as she takes care of the baby who is almost 2yrs she doesn't do anything productive that would add value to herself daily she sickens me a lot.

For me I don't mind if you wake up 1pm but menh do something productive and add value to yourself she's making me re think.....

Guess she's a housewife. .how have you tried to help her? Have you discussed starting a business for her or furthering her education?

Also to you, taking care of a 2yr old and doing all house chores don't equate being productive abi?

Having a rethink? I hope you don't realise yourself when it's too late. ..

Seems men nag more than women these days...

it is late bro.....................5am for prayers

how is that our business

STFUareyouGod:
Give her flying kicks immediately yur awake



Thank me later

Lol, you are not serious

To be honest with u bro, when u wake by 4:30am, wake her too with some screwing - screw her twice which will last like 45mins - den she will get use to waking up with u n on time.

Thank me later

JeffreyJamez:
You call 6am late? ....abi you're looking for excuse to send her packing

Omo no responsible and hard working married lady wake up by 6am. Don't she have kids to get ready for school. I can't tolarete that in my home.

So that is our business now na by wa for you o

U think say body na firewood pls jst let her be.

sheilak:


He doesn't need to charge

What he can't do is force his wife to wake up when he wants

That's the change I mean naa

Let him change from having so much expectations, she is already doing well by waking up by 6am.

Let him change b4 he develops hbp for nothing

Lekwanu 'm eshishi, mtcheeeew op I feel sorry for your wife, you are one hell of a troublesome, nitpicky, nagging man with a very stinky holier than thou attitude! That poor woman.

If she has organised herself to an extent that when she wakes at 6am, she still gets things done, what is your business?? Personally, I do all my chores the night before so that when I wake in the morning, all I have to do is bathe and go to work, why then should I still wake at 4am just to answer 'virtuos woman'? Mtcheew

You are worried about her prayers, is she praying to you? Are you God? Has God complained to you that he is not satisfied with the one she does? Oga if you don't have work to do, take up golfing and expend that excess negative energy you are carrying around

Shioor

mrtantalizers:
babe, u ar sensible. Most pple ignore ds fact in d name of love. Hw wil u marry someone u ar no okay wit d spiritual life and u intent to change them abah, its impossible except God intervenes. I av met quite a no of babes dat i cant marry not because they are not educated but i know being a wife is more than just being educated.

True talk but the op and his wife started out as unbelievers

and I was actually expecting to c my wife wakes up by 10:Am,so 6:am is now late? abi u gat eyes for anoda woman and looking for excuse to send ur.wife packing? tell us we will understand

tpiar:



The person you are referring to, who you saw or was told was doing this, is there any legally acceptable document proving you are married to this individual?


Because some people are married to or dating an individual in their head, and they come on the internet to insist they are in a relationship with someone who is physically unaware of their existence.

Lol, Tpia no go kill me with laugh

Sprinkle water on her face when you wake up. Trust me, it works.

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

You must be a very callous human being. You wake by 3am so everyone should do the same.