Capnd143:
ur signature funny die

vybzkartel:
thanks all for your replies

we used to pray together

she doesnt like it that way

now i pray alone

and she wouldnt pray

By 8pm...she is done with chores

she would watch telenovela till about 10

and wake up late

she is working

we have a child

i am very responsible and caring











anyman that cares about real prayer is a good man












i am surprised at comments by women on here saying waking at 6 is not late


hmmmm

misspicy:

lolz

I like your view,but no man is gonna give me time table to live my life by like this OP....wha dah F

danbrowndmf:
come lemme marry you i'll not give you stress.


bawo ni?
Ibo lo wa lati aro?

Candyrain:

Hi

Flashh:

You go fear comment na.

misspicy:

lol....kikikikikiki



emi busy baje and you?

Koolking:
The rate of laziness by Nigerians is alarming. Most Nigerian girls are sheer lazy. It's only on social media people claimed what they aren't. Nigerians are despicable set of people. Always claim living the life of prince and princesses who live in castles with all the privileges of life in their becks and calls.

How could Africans (Nigerians) lashed mercilessly at the op for expressing his discomfort at his wife's tradition of waking up by 6am? Nigeria is not Telemundo

Even if the Op wife is a full time housewife (she does not work or own her business), a sensible and responsible wife who knows the husband wakes up by 4-5am to leave for work, should also wake up with the husband to assist him leave early. When the hubby leaves, she can go back to her sleep and wakes up as it pleases her.

She can assist in warming up his bath water, make tea/prepare breakfast if the hubby is the type who eats early. How about the kids? Preparing them for school?

If you can't make simple sacrifices to keep your home, then you are not married. You should stay single and do as it pleases you.

Majority opinions of NLers on this thread reek of juvenility, irresponsibility and fecklessness. Opinions like these here makes me believe marriage is a scam.

Op, your wife is just IRRESPONSIBLE.

vybzkartel:
thanks all for your replies

we used to pray together

she doesnt like it that way

now i pray alone

and she wouldnt pray

By 8pm...she is done with chores

she would watch telenovela till about 10

and wake up late

she is working

we have a child

i am very responsible and caring











anyman that cares about real prayer is a good man












i am surprised at comments by women on here saying waking at 6 is not late


hmmmm

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

JVgal:


Maybe cos of dat mrn sickness wt men (u knw wht I mean) it's like d wife doesn't give in all d time

LieDetector:
you must be a uniuyo student.

faruz:
diz ur English no be here ooooooo.......

Oyind17:

I never sleep well for 2 days now, I no dey bed. I do support women if need be, don't expect me to support a write up blindly. if I should say what's in my mind concerning this issue you'll say I don't support women.

When will you prepare breakfast for the kids if they are going to school if you wake up by 6:am? just asking

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Hahahahaha, I think u are right. The man just doesn't know how to tell us that he needs his wife to wake up and 'do him the do' instead his using morning prayer to cover up

sparkleRed:

Sparklequeen, sparkle Red is saying hi

Bigii:

Lol. Crushy, dat morning pill eh

GGGB07:
My wife wakes up past 8am or almost 9am everyday. À

Am tired also, she get lazy and not do anything. As much as she takes care of the baby who is almost 2yrs she doesn't do anything productive that would add value to herself daily she sickens me a lot.

For me I don't mind if you wake up 1pm but menh do something productive and add value to yourself she's making me re think.....

JeffreyJamez:


How the hell is 6am considered late?!

Koolking:
The rate of laziness by Nigerians is alarming. Most Nigerian girls are sheer lazy. It's only on social media people claimed what they aren't. Nigerians are despicable set of people. Always claim living the life of prince and princesses who live in castles with all the privileges of life in their becks and calls.

How could Africans (Nigerians) lashed mercilessly at the op for expressing his discomfort at his wife's tradition of waking up by 6am? Nigeria is not Telemundo

Even if the Op wife is a full time housewife (she does not work or own her business), a sensible and responsible wife who knows the husband wakes up by 4-5am to leave for work, should also wake up with the husband to assist him leave early. When the hubby leaves, she can go back to her sleep and wakes up as it pleases her.

She can assist in warming up his bath water, make tea/prepare breakfast if the hubby is the type who eats early. How about the kids? Preparing them for school?

If you can't make simple sacrifices to keep your home, then you are not married. You should stay single and do as it pleases you.

Majority opinions of NLers on this thread reek of juvenility, irresponsibility and fecklessness. Opinions like these here makes me believe marriage is a scam.

Op, your wife is just IRRESPONSIBLE.

blisscentre:

so because we don't think like you we are juvenile, irresponsible and feckless. and because she doesn't wake b4 6pm she is iresponsible not minding she can keep her job and take care of her child. she even does house chores till 8pm as op mentioned in one of his comments. I guess you are perfect and d only non-despicable Nigerian. people even gave examples with themselves and u don't think it counts. i pity whoever u are married to.

charijee:
Good question from a reasonable fellow

Koolking:
The rate of laziness by Nigerians is alarming. Most Nigerian girls are sheer lazy. It's only on social media people claimed what they aren't. Nigerians are despicable set of people. Always claim living the life of prince and princesses who live in castles with all the privileges of life in their becks and calls.

How could Africans (Nigerians) lashed mercilessly at the op for expressing his discomfort at his wife's tradition of waking up by 6am? Nigeria is not Telemundo

Even if the Op wife is a full time housewife (she does not work or own her business), a sensible and responsible wife who knows the husband wakes up by 4-5am to leave for work, should also wake up with the husband to assist him leave early. When the hubby leaves, she can go back to her sleep and wakes up as it pleases her.

She can assist in warming up his bath water, make tea/prepare breakfast if the hubby is the type who eats early. How about the kids? Preparing them for school?

If you can't make simple sacrifices to keep your home, then you are not married. You should stay single and do as it pleases you.

Majority opinions of NLers on this thread reek of juvenility, irresponsibility and fecklessness. Opinions like these here makes me believe marriage is a scam.

Op, your wife is just IRRESPONSIBLE.

JeffreyJamez:



She's irresponsible because she wakes up by 6am?.......brain dey your head so?

Koolking:


No sir. I need to order one from Jumia. The same spec you use

aribisala0:
Won't help

Sparklequeen:


HI, how are u doing?

Acidosis:
Smh. This is 7:45 and I'm still in bed as I type.

Do not kill your wife, allow her sleep and wake at a convenient time. Is there any particular work a wife must do at 6am that can't be done at 8am or 7am? Would she die if she cleans the kitchen at 9am?

Unless she's a subject to a boss at a workplace, I see no reason why she must obey the 'common law.'

In so far as she's not lazy, you do not have any problem. Sleeping at 12 am and waking at 2am is not a sign of hardwork.

sparkleRed:

Fyne thank u