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akike:
I can deduce from your post that every woman that left you, must have done so because they found someone better

PresVA:
I can perceive you're hurt; just trying to pretend... Please leave them alone and move on! Before you go on to break their marriage. .

I just pity the innocent lady in the middle of this!!

Really wonder why people are cheering you on... you haven't done your own wedding, have you? Who knows your future husband's ex would do worse than you did..

You already kinda gave your approval before the wedding. .not like he hid everything from you. . Why then spoil the innocent lady's day?

akike:
Ode!

Are you telling us that your mama did not sell herself cheaply before she finally met your dad?

nlfan:
over hill wetin? i had loved him for 4 years but it stopped the moment he did intro with that babe, it doesnt mean i dont have suitors, it is even because of him im not married yet and yes, very soon im gonna be very happy with my own husband too, very soon and i will announce on NLer

ewizard1:

HIV1:
Thunder fire you na your mama you dey refer to.Anyway , I don't blame you truth is bitter.

Nikita1:
Guys are not predictable!!! Chai
I love this. Very mature
May ur husby locate you

nlfan:
Like i have been busy commenting on his wedding pictures uploaded by his wifey

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

akatekpe:
Exactly, imagine what the bride' maid and other relative of the bride would have done to that smallie all in d name of trying to spoil her ex' wedding day.

akike:
Nah, you look like a retard

akike:
Nah, you look like a retard

BiggyB242:
Girls will be hurt but they will act like nothing happened #pride. Anyways if I was the guy I wouldn't have looked at your face because seeing you sends the message "you want me to regret living you" trust I go follow my wife dance wella smile like I have never smiled before. Unfortunately I'm not him we sabi this pyschology game wella

Bigcake:
sounds more like a true description of my mother.... sounds more like a true description of my mother....

born2groove:
Must u announce everything about u on Nairaland? Funny u, very soon i will announce on Nland. The sweetest love stories are not announced with a trumpet.

JeffreyJamez:
anybody that believes this story has akamu brain


person choose to go stay Mowe over Lagos Island?!!, leave him babe of 4yrs that is financially stable and beautiful (as the op talk am ) come go marry village girl because aunty island no gree follow am stay MOwe?!!



abeg i no get power to laugh this afternoon

nlfan:
over hill wetin? i had loved him for 4 years but it stopped the moment he did intro with that babe, it doesnt mean i dont have suitors, it is even because of him im not married yet and yes, very soon im gonna be very happy with my own husband too, very soon and i will announce on NLer

Malakh:
i'm not into all this women stuff but look at it, she was very immature, spiteful and vindictive, why go the extra mile for all that vendetta, it shows she was hurt by his actions and she wanted to rub it in his face, she didnt wanna make any sacrifice,she wanted to live in her own comfort,well let everybody go their separate ways, but I blame guy,he shouldn't have updated her on his marriage plans and venue, she is very spiteful, if you think what she did was cool then birds of a feather you are

creamylicious:
The man is just scared that the lady has got excellent career goals,, she therefore may not 'submit' to him... He has found the one to show his macho manliness to.

Scared? I don't think so, perhaps because of the small change she is earning on the Island, she thinks she can toss the guy around with commands of where and where not to stay, if the guy was successful like she said, how was he not able to know what is best for both of them?
If the guy really cried, he was acting so that the nuisance will leave with her wahala, after calling the other girl "bushmo", who wore the ring?
"Bushmo" wins!!
All these girls with micro finance showing themselves anyhow, Imagine taking her nuisance to the guy's wedding like she paid for it, oh! she told us she drove off in her car and looked prettier than....

Not to worry, the guy may not have had time to choose the best from the lot but she and her arrogance are no best choices either.
Did it even occur to the girl that a man who is getting married has tripled his recurrent expenditure by default not factoring in the instantaneous liabilities of walking down the Isle? what if the Mowe apartment is what he can afford then what? I get it, you want him to be at your mercy annually for another round of ego polishing for rent right?
She shouldn't worry about him, with time he will get used to his bushmo, while she is back in the game for several rounds of heartbreak!!

nlfan:
Like i have been busy commenting on his wedding pictures uploaded by his wifey

Cholls:
my sister look I don't know you from anywhere not until you came here with this story of your love life. so just accept my advice which ever way you like to see it good or bad............ back to the topic........one of the things I deduced from what you wrote is how proud and arrogant of a person you could be........thinking you're better than the lady cuz she couldn't speak English fluently.....and the one that annoyed me most was when the brother told you to move to Mowe with him you refused.......Damn! You are too proud for any man to marry
i totally disagree with you. Are you married? If yes then you should know that it's about what's best for your family. You can't move your family to a place to make life harder for them. She's works in lagos and you want her to move and then communion everyday to Lagos? Every marriage needs both partners, and what ever income they can bring for the sake of their kids. Noooo oooo just as someone said, he had plans long time ago to ditch her, and I know his type often regret their decision. I have an uncle who did same thing now his life is hell according to him. He felt the home grown ones are better over a city lady he has known for years.

Cholls:
my sister look I don't know you from anywhere not until you came here with this story of your love life. so just accept my advice which ever way you like to see it good or bad............ back to the topic........one of the things I deduced from what you wrote is how proud and arrogant of a person you could be........thinking you're better than the lady cuz she couldn't speak English fluently.....and the one that annoyed me most was when the brother told you to move to Mowe with him you refused.......Damn! You are too proud for any man to marry.

drnoel:
obviously they both still are but it take an adult to admit and accept it and a child to utilize that Little Advantage to hurt a crying or hurting Partner. The two of them acted like children cos they forgot the first and golden rule of marriage which is ; Compromise, edurance and more compromise....

nlfan:
Like i have been busy commenting on his wedding pictures uploaded by his wifey

akike:
Your mother first

jpphilips:
Scared? I don't think so, perhaps because of the small change she is earning on the Island, she thinks she can toss the guy around with commands of where and where not to stay, if the guy was successful like she said, how was he not able to know what is best for both of them?
If the guy really cried, he was acting so that the nuisance will leave with her wahala, after calling the other girl "bushmo", who wore the ring?
"Bushmo" wins!!
All these girls with micro finance showing themselves anyhow, Imagine taking her nuisance to the guy's wedding like she paid for it, oh! she told us she drove off in her car and looked prettier than....

Not to worry, the guy may not have had time to choose the best from the lot but she and her arrogance are no best choices either.
Did it even occur to the girl that a man who is getting married has tripled his recurrent expenditure by default not factoring in the instantaneous liabilities of walking down the Isle? what if the Mowe apartment is what he can afford then what? I get it, you want him to be at your mercy annually for another round of ego polishing for rent right?
She shouldn't worry about him, with time he will get used to his bushmo, while she is back in the game for several rounds of heartbreak!!

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, [b]THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

Analysiscorner:
Please don't judge her. What happened to her is what some go and commit suicide for or remain in depression for a very long time.