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Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Atlantian: 1:34pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal:Please check her HIV status, she might be protecting the husband from a bigger problem. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by 3rdlegxxx(m): 2:46pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
menabae: menababe ur making sense but ur also saying stay using a cd for life; think about about it, that is so unfair to the husband, even tho from your story it sounds really bad and rather unfortunate for the lady in question but condoms for life, i love condoms but every time becomes very uncomfortable tho the good side is if he does it for a year non stop, he would get uised to the condom feeling and relax. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by 3rdlegxxx(m): 2:48pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Strahovski1: bad guy but if this happen to you, i am very sure you would hate anyone that gives you that advice if you were in the guys shoes.. be honest |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by 3rdlegxxx(m): 2:53pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja: Thanks for educating us on this, i just learnt something new today, i am kind of disappointed by the few females who spoke and put the woman down, i thought as females they would tell us reasons why she might be doing what she is doing, instead they did what we guys would do and bash the wife. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 3:35pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja: While I understand your points, is this enough justification for a woman to sentence her husband to a lifetime of condoms? |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 3:36pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: So then a man cannot have sex with his own wife again without a condom? Wonders shall never end. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:37pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: That's not the point, read the story well, they both agreed no more kids but she doesn't trust the family planning methos, it isn't sounding good to the guy and his suppose friend and someone here just made a case study of similar cases and what usually happens, i really don't know the best way out tho.... 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by executioner27: 3:38pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Cutehector: Condom is not even 100% sure...she is just paranoid. Dont know what to tell the guy. Just endure. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by eyinjuege: 3:42pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: The man should get a vasectomy. Faster, easier to perform and more effective. 12 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:49pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege: and bro vasectomy is one scary procedure, it's cool but what if something happens, divorce cases, wife passes on, dude decides to remarry or something, remember it's permanent which means he can no longer pregnant any other lady, it sounds cool and scary, cool for a man who maybe has had all the kids he wants and wants to go on having fun without the fear of every getting anyone else pregnant, at least that reduces the worries to only STD's |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Medunah: 3:50pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Cutehector:Family planning is not 100% so it makes sense for her to tell her husband to use condom. No one knows wat she went through b4 aving those 3. The husband should get a vasectomy if he can't use a condom. After all, it isn't one sided 9 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 3:57pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Medunah: But how does it sound to you, that your own husband cannot have access to you unless he has a condom on, just think about it. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 4:17pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: I doubt if you understood my points...if you would have understood you would never give this comment. So it gives the husband enough justification to follow his selfish desires and sentence the woman to a chance of another pregnancy? She is only asking him to use a condom, not even to deprive of it at all, not even demanding of him a sterilisation. What a big deal! Man can use condom when they go and sleep around but not when it is for a good purpose? #totallybiased Do you know that with every pregnancy a woman put her body and life at risk? I would welcome you to spend some serious period in the labour room, you would never open your mouth like this anymore. Period. This lady might have much more serious arguments why the risk to have another child would not be a good idea. Why the heck are you guys even thinking about dropping a stone in her direction without knowing all the inside outs in the first place? Besides...some fundamental reasoning problems here: - Intercourse is no a right but a privilege. Nobody else has any say about your body but you and cant claim any right on it. Never. If the man doesnt want to use a condom, okay perfect, the woman has as much right to refuse intercourse without condom. To be honest, this should not even become an issue. One should seriously wonder what the lovebasis of your relationship is when you cant even find loving solutions on such minor issues. - A woman who is in fear can never give her body and mind fully and in a loving way to a man. How do you think it feels when you sleeping with your man out of duty and only thinking while he is doing his thing "I hope I don't get pregnant"? Do you have even the smallest clue about how the female brain works and how we can stress and think about so many other things on such a moment while you are only thinking about satisfying yourself? And then those men come her on NL with a big mouth complaining the intercourse with their wife is not good and that she is holding back and they even give themselves reasons to cheat? WTF# What is the fun of the intercourse when you cant be both fully engaged in it and make it an instrument to communicate your love instead of making an instrument showing the lack of love? - Where is the man taking responsibility? Where is he showing care for the fertility that is inherent part of his woman's life? He is not giving her the comfort that she needs to flourish and flow with him when he is not part of the solution. - Sex and love are again totally mixed up here 28 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 4:22pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: Exactly! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 4:25pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja: If you think that it is not a big deal for a man to use condom for the rest of his life it is a VERY big deal for us. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 4:26pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja: Are you saying that it is okay for a woman to bar her husband from having sex with her unless he has rubber covering |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 4:26pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Lalasticlala. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 4:29pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: Take a reading and comprehension course and get back to me afterwards. Thank you. 21 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by pentag0nal: 4:50pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Tufanja: As far as am I concerned, you have not addressed the question which is why should a married man be sentenced to a lifetime of condoms with his own wife. All the epistle you wrote up there does not address this, thx. 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by daben1(m): 5:10pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Oga! if you concur, then you're not a man |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Toronto123: 5:12pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
He should get a a vasectomy. Why must we women be the ones to endanger our lives with birth control pills proven to cause cancer. Nonsense. Selfish men 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by EbolaParasite: 5:14pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
menabae: Na lie. Either she suspects the guy is "playing away games" or she is "playing away games" |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by EbolaParasite: 5:15pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: One of them is cheating!! |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by tpiar: 5:16pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: and they answered you? |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by herboshedhe(f): 5:16pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: I feel for her Can't they try withdrawal method too? |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 5:17pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
The man should try vasectomy, birth control mustn't be the woman's job na. Family planning methods haven't proven to be 100% trustworthy so far, she is only trying to take double-precaution. I understand her fears. Lets not be quick to judge, she might have had a scary pregnancy experience and doesn't wanna go down that lane again. We don't know the whole story... 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by tpiar: 5:17pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: will answering your question get me a house on Banana Island or some other plush property? let me know so I can decide if I should comment or not. |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by macino1(m): 5:17pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
more Enlightenment needed. . . |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by victme1(m): 5:20pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
menabae: She is about letting hell lose in her home. maka continue... eheheheheeh so Ladies!!!! where are those players.... Bervely shebi u bi nos 9 ... i beg come see one available MAN here!!! he is about to leave the nest.... |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by haibe(m): 5:20pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Davidovinci:or she has an STD but doesn't want to transfer to her hubby 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by maestroz: 5:22pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: wetin concern you na, why you dey use panadol for them matter. oga shola, e shogbayin... 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists That Husband Must Use Condom Before They Have Sex by Nobody: 5:24pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
pentag0nal: Her epistle addressed it, if only you read with understanding. The lady educated you on something you obviously don't know, and you still refused to see the sense in it. Why? If he doesn't want a life with condoms, he should try a VASECTOMY!!!. That way she would be sure he is shooting blank shots. Family planning mustn't be a woman's job, haba. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
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